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    The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

    Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children’s mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for parents of kids with vulnerable nervous systems. If you’re parenting a child who has experienced trauma or toxic stress or a child with a neuroimmune disorder, sensory processing, or other nervous system vulnerability, this show will let you know you are not alone. You can stop playing behavior whack-a-mole because Robyn offers you tools that actually work. 

    You can become your child’s expert, feel more confident as a parent, and bring more connection and clarity into your family.

    Educators, therapists, coaches and consultants- you too can learn all about what behavior really is and become more effective at helping the families you support. You can love your work again!

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    Copyright: © 2024 The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

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    REPLAY: Is Understanding Behavior Excusing It? Nov 14, 2023
    Show notes

    THIS EPISODE IS A REPLAY

    Understanding behavior helps us actually solve the problem, leads to compassion, and actually helps behavior to change, but first we must understand why we are so afraid that understanding behaviors means we are excusing "bad" behaviors.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • The difference between understanding behavior and excusing behavior
    • Why understanding behavior is important
    • What are our fears about understanding behavior
    • What leads to behavior change
    • The importance of compassionate boundaries

    Read a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/understandingbehavior

    Order a copy of the new Guided Journal wherever you love to buy books online or head to RobynGobbel.com/GuidedJournal

    Once you order, head to RobynGobbel.com/MAP and register for the FREE online workshop exclusively for everyone who orders the new Guided Journal. Map Your Child's Nervous System LIVE, online October 1- PLUS you'll get the recording

    We are waiting to read your application for the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals!

    RobynGobbel.com/immersion for every detail about the program you could be curious about!

    Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book

    Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub

    Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion

    Follow Me On:
    Facebook
    Instagram

    Over on my website you can find:
    Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
    eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
    LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
    Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
    Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)


    Ep. 160: When your Child won't Talk about their Watchdog and Possum Brain Nov 07, 2023
    Show notes

    Does your child yell, scream, or otherwise refuse to talk about their owl, watchdog, or possum brain?

    They tell you it’s stupid or tell you to stop talking or get extra silly or just don’t talk?

    I hear this from a LOT of parents (and I experienced it a lot in the play therapy room).

    This doesn’t mean it doesn’t work for your child. Promise.
    In this episode you’ll learn:

    • The developmental milestones needed before a child can identify or talk about their owl, watchdog, or possum brain
    • How we can use our kids’ behavior as cues/clues to let us know something about their brain development and what interventions are appropriate (clinical reasoning)
    • The role of distress tolerance
    • Steps to take to scaffold your child in developing self-reflection and mindsight, as well as decrease shame around their behavior

    Resources mentioned in this podcast:

    • Can I Teach My Child About Their Brain? {Ep 114}
    • Healing Blocked Care With Melissa Corkum and Lisa Qualls {Ep 123}

    Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/talkaboutwatchdog

    Order a copy of the new Guided Journal wherever you love to buy books online or head to RobynGobbel.com/GuidedJournal

    Once you order, head to RobynGobbel.com/MAP and register for the FREE online workshop exclusively for everyone who orders the new Guided Journal. Map Your Child's Nervous System LIVE, online October 1- PLUS you'll get the recording

    We are waiting to read your application for the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals!

    RobynGobbel.com/immersion for every detail about the program you could be curious about!

    Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book

    Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub

    Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion

    Follow Me On:
    Facebook
    Instagram

    Over on my website you can find:
    Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
    eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
    LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
    Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
    Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)


    Ep. 159: Titrating Connection- Oppositional Series Part 4 Oct 31, 2023
    Show notes

    In this episode, I unravel how to extend connection to our children while acknowledging that some might see this connection as a threat. I offer insights on toning down the demand for connection, enabling our children to relax in it, and thereby strengthen their stress response system. I also reference the previous episodes in this four-part series by talking about the science of opposition, some practical strategies, and tackling kids stuck in protection mode, all with the aim of providing a comprehensive understanding of making connection a safe experience.

    In this episode you’ll learn:

    • That providing too much connection can often be overwhelming and feel more like danger than connection
    • To titrate connection and supply only as much as the child needs or wants
    • Showing your child you think of them when are not together like buying their favorite snack, titrates connection by showing that you are thinking of them and you see them

    Resources mentioned in this podcast:

    • Exploring Low Demand Parenting: Shifting Power Dynamics And Nurturing Trust {EP 142}

    Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/oppositional4

    Follow Me On:
    Facebook
    Instagram

    Over on my website you can find:
    Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
    eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
    LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
    Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
    Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)


    Ep 158: When Connection isn't Safe- Oppositional Series Part 3 Oct 24, 2023
    Show notes

    If offering safety and connection is the antidote to oppositional behavior, what do you do if connection isn’t experienced as safe or regulating by your child?

    In this episode you’ll learn:

    • How connection and protection can get tied together
    • How to keep offering connection, even when it’s consistently rejected by your child
    • The science behind why YOU need to be receiving connection - and how you can do that even if you don’t have a lot of extra time or supportive people in your life

    Resources mentioned in this podcast:

    • Regulated Does Not Equal Calm {Ep 31}
    • Match The Energy, NOT The Dysregulation {Ep 155}
    • Free Resources - robyngobbel.com/freeresources

    Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/oppostitional3

    Follow Me On:
    Facebook
    Instagram

    Over on my website you can find:
    Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
    eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
    LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
    Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
    Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)


    Ep. 157: Strategies for Oppositional Behavior- Part 2 Oct 17, 2023
    Show notes

    Last week we talked about the science of oppositional behavior. This week, let’s look at strategies to help children rest into felt safety so their nervous system feels better and their oppositional protective strategies can decrease.

    In this episode you’ll learn:

    • An invitation to consider some of our cultural beliefs around opposition in the parent/child relationship
    • How to use our grown-up brains to invite connection and cooperation
    • Strategies for creating felt safety in the child's inner world
    • Strategies for creating felt safety in the child's environment
    • Strategies for creating felt safety in the relationship


    Resources mentioned in this podcast:

    • When Your Nervous System Is Fried {Ep 139}
    • Neuroimmune Disorders And Big, Baffling, Behaviors With Dr. Qazi Javed {Ep 97}
    • What To Do After We Mess Up {Ep 80}
    • Parenting Superpower! X-ray Vision {Ep 13}
    • Self-Compassion Will Change Your Brain {Ep 8}
    • Neuroimmune Podcast Series!~ robyngobbel.com/neuroimmuneseries


    Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/oppositional2

    Follow Me On:
    Facebook
    Instagram

    Over on my website you can find:
    Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
    eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
    LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
    Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
    Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)


    Ep. 156: Oppositional And Defiant Behavior- Part 1 Oct 10, 2023
    Show notes

    What if oppositional behavior is a normal response to feeling unsafe? In this episode, we unfold the layers of oppositional behavior and its roots in the nervous system. We look into the diagnostic complexities of Oppositional Defiant Disorder and dive into how our own state of the nervous system is important in helping our children navigate their Watchdog and Possum pathways.

    In this episode you’ll learn:

    • That even oppositional behaviors make total sense
    • Spending a lot of time in protection mode is hard on the body
    • Changing the behavior is not the goal- regulation, connection, and felt safety is
    • The diagnosis of Oppositional Defiance Disorder is just a label- we have to stay curious about the causes for treatment

    Resources mentioned in this podcast:

    • Start Here Podcasts - robyngobbel.com/starthere
    • When Your Nervous System Is Fried {Ep 139}
    • Focus On The Nervous System To Change Behavior {Ep 84}
    • Connection or Protection {Ep 7}

    Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/oppositional1

    Follow Me On:
    Facebook
    Instagram

    Over on my website you can find:
    Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
    eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
    LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
    Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
    Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)


    Ep. 155: Match the Energy, NOT the Dysregulation Oct 03, 2023
    Show notes

    This latest episode unpacks the advanced parenting strategy of 'Match the Energy, but not the Dysregulation', a technique rooted in insights from polyvagal theory and interpersonal neurobiology. It’s a nuanced approach that requires resilience and patience, but when applied consistently, it can offer a remarkably accurate emotional mirror for your children and pave the way for improved connection.

    In this episode you’ll learn:

    • The advanced parenting strategy of ‘Matching The Energy, But Not The Dysregulation’
    • To better identify how far down the Watchdog or Possum pathway your child is
    • Advanced techniques and strategies need practice, you won't be an expert at them immediately

    Resources mentioned in this podcast:

    • Lisa Dion Podcast - Regulated Does Not Equal Calm {Ep 31}
    • The Club - robyngobbel.com/theclub
    • Start Here Podcasts - robyngobbel.com/starthere

    Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/matchtheenergy

    Order a copy of the new Guided Journal wherever you love to buy books online or head to RobynGobbel.com/GuidedJournal

    Once you order, head to RobynGobbel.com/MAP and register for the FREE online workshop exclusively for everyone who orders the new Guided Journal. Map Your Child's Nervous System LIVE, online October 1- PLUS you'll get the recording

    We are waiting to read your application for the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals!

    RobynGobbel.com/immersion for every detail about the program you could be curious about!

    Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book

    Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub

    Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion

    Follow Me On:
    Facebook
    Instagram

    Over on my website you can find:
    Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
    eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
    LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
    Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
    Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)


    Ep. 154: (BONUS) Let me Tell You About The Club Sep 28, 2023
    Show notes

    If you're thinking about joining The Club (between now and October 3), let me fill you in on some of the details!
    In this bonus episode you'll learn:

    • The real reason The Club works
    • What you get when you join The Club
    • Club bonuses
    • How The Club could help your family
    • How easy it is to leave The Club when you're ready

    Check out all the details and register to join at https://RobynGobbel.com/TheClub

    Order a copy of the new Guided Journal wherever you love to buy books online or head to RobynGobbel.com/GuidedJournal

    Once you order, head to RobynGobbel.com/MAP and register for the FREE online workshop exclusively for everyone who orders the new Guided Journal. Map Your Child's Nervous System LIVE, online October 1- PLUS you'll get the recording

    We are waiting to read your application for the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals!

    RobynGobbel.com/immersion for every detail about the program you could be curious about!

    Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book

    Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub

    Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion

    Follow Me On:
    Facebook
    Instagram

    Over on my website you can find:
    Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
    eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
    LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
    Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
    Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)


    Ep. 153: Marshall Lyles & Robyn Gobbel Talk about Writing #RKB3 Sep 26, 2023
    Show notes

    Marshall Lyles is here with me today to help me reflect on the journey of bringing Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors into the world.
    I knew Marshall was just the person to ask to help me with this. He asked questions I was so grateful to reflect on.
    Thank you for witnessing this experience for me and allowing me to accompany your journey.
    Book!!!-
    Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors released September 21. CLICK HERE to order now!
    Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/talkaboutwriting

    Order a copy of the new Guided Journal wherever you love to buy books online or head to RobynGobbel.com/GuidedJournal

    Once you order, head to RobynGobbel.com/MAP and register for the FREE online workshop exclusively for everyone who orders the new Guided Journal. Map Your Child's Nervous System LIVE, online October 1- PLUS you'll get the recording

    We are waiting to read your application for the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals!

    RobynGobbel.com/immersion for every detail about the program you could be curious about!

    Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book

    Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub

    Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion

    Follow Me On:
    Facebook
    Instagram

    Over on my website you can find:
    Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
    eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
    LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
    Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
    Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)


    Ep. 152: BONUS - A little snippet from the Book #RKB3 (BOOK RELEASE Day) Sep 21, 2023
    Show notes

    Happy happy birthday to Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors.
    I wanted to celebrate with you! Y'all mean soooo much to me and resonating in the excitement of the book with you felt really important.
    This episode contains a short reading from the book that I hope you enjoy!
    If you've received the book already and have had a chance to read it, will you take a moment to leave a review on Amazon? Even if you didn't buy it there!
    It's the #1 way to help Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors reach the folks who really need it. A lost, struggling, hopeless parent. An educator who is open to new ways of being in the classroom. A play therapist looking for a new way to be with parents and kids.
    You can CLICK HERE if your podcast app lets you or just head to Amazon and search for Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors.

    Order a copy of the new Guided Journal wherever you love to buy books online or head to RobynGobbel.com/GuidedJournal

    Once you order, head to RobynGobbel.com/MAP and register for the FREE online workshop exclusively for everyone who orders the new Guided Journal. Map Your Child's Nervous System LIVE, online October 1- PLUS you'll get the recording

    Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book

    Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub

    Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion

    Follow Me On:
    Facebook
    Instagram

    Over on my website you can find:
    Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
    eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
    LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
    Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
    Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)


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