So What Now? with Carla and Dex

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EP 216: Loud Budgeting and Financial Freedom with Giovanna González Mar 26, 2024

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Unlock the secrets to financial freedom and take control of your money narrative with the wisdom of TikTok financial guru Giovanna, aka Gigi thefirstgenmentor. Our conversation illuminates the intriguing concept of "loud budgeting," a proactive, vocal approach to managing money that's shaking up the status quo. Delve into the heart of financial literacy with us as we discuss the profound influence of family on our money mindsets and the journey from paycheck-to-paycheck living to building lasting wealth. Gigi's insights into the financial realities of immigrant families and her tips for financial empowerment through social media offer a fresh perspective on shaping your own fiscal future.

Navigating the complex dance of money, relationships, and personal values is no easy feat, but it's a challenge we tackle head-on in this episode. We reflect on aligning your finance with your core beliefs and how certain life choices, such as opting to live child-free, can redefine financial planning. As we examine the nuances of financial expectations in dating and entrepreneurial pressures, this conversation offers a rich tapestry of experiences and strategies to help you balance the scales of love and money.

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EP 215: Life Update: Personal Struggles and Professional Triumphs Mar 15, 2024

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Navigating through a storm of personal challenges and triumphant professional wins, I, peel back the curtain on the silent battles that often go unnoticed. Struggling with ADHD and facing a shortage of my essential medication. I find myself grappling with the highs of creative breakthroughs and the lows of emotional blocks. The episode is a raw exploration of this dichotomy, providing an intimate glimpse into the resilience needed to stand firm amidst family betrayal and legal trials, all while celebrating those moments of professional acclaim that remind us of our potential.

Whether you're a parent, a professional, or someone who's ever fought to maintain your values in a challenging world, this episode resonates with the universal quest for emotional maturity and the strength found within.

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EP 214: Should I Get a Doula? Mar 04, 2024

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This week I am joined by the founder of Black Mom Blog and pioneer of black motherhood and self-care Shanica Boswell. You'll hear about the shaming of single mothers sending their child to stay with their fathers, the benefits of a doula, and trying to have a natural birth after having a C-section.

This episode isn't only for women with babies or who are currently pregnant, but it's an episode for everyone to get an inside look at the journey and obstacles or pregnancy and parenting.

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EP 213: Dinero, a Prenup, and How to be FNF! feat Jannese Torres Feb 26, 2024

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Today's guest is Jannese Torres , host of "Yo Quiero Dinero Podcast". Jannese discusses entrepreneurship and how she found success as a food blogger. Then, she tells a bizarre story about her husband's mistress confronting her mom about their affair and why she decided to get a divorce. Jannese also drops some major gems on how to start a business and the ladies connect over their love for Puerto Rico. This week's listener letter is a question about lending money to family and the scripture of the week is Ecclesiastics 5:10.

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EP 212: He Married/Divorced a Narcissist TWICE! Feb 19, 2024

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This week Carla is joined by Baron Young from Reach One Recovery which dedicated to providing the "spark" of enlightenment for survivors of narcissistic abuse.

We are shinning a light into men that have experienced abuse. As a society we dont allow men to share or express their pain, yet this kind of abuse will cause PTSD so many while the numbers of narcissistic abuse keep rising.

Some of the things you will hear:

Suicidal rates in men
Realizing that you are being abused and its not physical
How to leave a narcissistic relationship

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EP 211: Juggling the Highs and Lows of Love, Finances, and Self-Discovery Feb 16, 2024

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Ever found yourself laughing through a challenge over dinner? This week on Pivot with Purpose, I'm joined by Paola, as we discuss life's curveballs with a side of laughter. Get ready to explore personal evolution, relationship rollercoasters, and the blend of family dynamics we all navigate.

Money and love—two things that should work in harmony but often end up clashing like titans. Throughout this episode we tackle the issue of financial manipulation in relationships. From the audacious requests for money to shaming over financial incapabilities, we've seen it all and lived to tell the tale. Childhood tales, narcissistic exes, and the minefield of co-parenting all come into play as we share personal stories and strategies to keep your financial dignity intact. Take a listen!

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EP 210: Embracing Identity, Building Boundaries, and Paternity Tests feat Dexty Feb 08, 2024

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I've always believed that if opportunity doesn't knock, build a door. This episode with Dex swings that door wide open as we revel in the tales of our entrepreneurial spirit, which took root in childhood candy sales and blossomed into career advancements achieved through sheer tenacity. We share a laugh over our methods of carving out our own spaces and touch on the not-so-secret ingredients to success: emotional intelligence and networking.

A simple reminder that playing the cards we're dealt with strategic thinking and assertive action can lead to creating the opportunities we seek.

we also dive into the emotional complexities of family dynamics, from the discovery of surprising ancestry to the intricacies of navigating relationships with estranged family members.

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EP 209: How ADHD Became Our Superpower Jan 30, 2024

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Imagine untangling the complexities of love and digital entrepreneurship while also juggling the nuances of ADHD. That's exactly what we're doing as I sit down with Isis Brianna, the digital sales guru and business coach, to explore the magnetic digital marketplace and its impact on our personal lives. We pull back the curtain on the dance of relationships, the resilience needed in the face of health challenges like endometriosis, and the profound emotional journey toward motherhood—a path fraught with societal expectations and our own shifting identities.

Our conversation doesn't shy away from the spiritual and emotional pillars that support us through life's ebbs and flows. Reflect with me on the role of faith in personal growth,Join us for this journey of discovery and introspection, where we embrace change, cherish support systems, and strive for authenticity in every step.

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EP 208: High Maintenance Friendship as Adults ft Dani aka Splenda Jan 10, 2024

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On this episode with Carla Wilmaris and Dani:

Ever found yourself wondering why some friendships feel like a never-ending carousel of emotions? Join me, and my guest Dani as we unravel the complexities of friendship. From the comical trials of aging to the heartfelt moments of reconciliation after a friendship breakup.

This episode is your personal handbook to what exactly a high maintenance relationship is, and understanding the emotional investment necessary for nurturing friendships while keeping your boundaries intact.

Prepare to be inspired, laugh out loud, and maybe even shed a tear as we dissect the role of therapy in managing friendship woes and the profound impact these relationships have on our personal growth.

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EP 207: New Year, New Pivot - I GOT FIRED? AGAIN? Jan 02, 2024

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Ever feel like life's thrown you a curveball you just didn't see coming? Join us as we confess our own stories of transformation and tackle the balancing act between work and personal joy. We're peeling back the layers on the corporate world's sometimes harsh truths and revealing the silver linings that come with owning your content and career path.

So, whether you're looking for a heart-to-heart on life's pivotal moments or just a good laugh about the stress of parenting and dating ,Tune in and join the conversation—you're bound to walk away with a fresh perspective, and you might just find yourself ready to pivot

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