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Bonus Episode: From Filthy Milfs: Swing This! Dec 05, 2025

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Welcome back to your bonus segment featuring an episode from a new-ish podcast we absolutely love (and we are picky about our podcasts!): Filthy Milfs! You have to check them out!

This week, the Filthy Milfs welcome husband and wife Dave and Victoria Arena, the hosts of Comin' Out Swinging, to answer all the questions about swinging that you've been too afraid to ask! Join us as Dave and Victoria spill all the secrets from their 24 years of marriage, share tips for couples who are looking to experiment, and teach us about what really happens behind closed doors in sex clubs. Want to know what a Cookie Room is? Stay tuned :)

To learn more or listen to Filthy Milfs, find them + subscribe on your favorite podcast app. Also check out:

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IG @filthymilfspodcast

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#462 Getting Real About Sex Toys with Kathy Kay Dec 02, 2025

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Sex Stories Without Shame: The Power of Anonymity

Imagine a space where you can share your deepest desires and most intimate experiences without fear of judgment. Welcome to the world of anonymous sex stories, where Kathy Kay has been hosting the highly acclaimed Strictly Anonymous Confessions podcast for over eleven years.

Here's what you'll learn from this episode:

* How sharing sex stories can be a powerful tool for building connections and community

* The role of anonymity in creating a safe space for people to share their sex lives

* Kathy's favorite sex toys and how she uses them (yes, we get into the juicy details!)

* How to explore different types of play, from external and internal to anal and cock pleasure play

* The benefits of sharing your own sex stories and experiences with others

As someone who has maintained anonymity for over a decade, Kathy brings a unique perspective to the conversation. Her commitment to non-judgmental support has created a loyal following, and her book is a testament to the wild and wonderful stories she's collected over the years.

So, are you ready to dive into the world of anonymous sex stories and discover the power of sharing your own desires and experiences? Tune in to find out! And, as a special treat, we'll be playing a game of rapid-fire sex toy favorites – you won't want to miss it!

Kathy Kay is a content creator and host of the Strictly Anonymous Confessions podcast. With over 1,000 episodes, she has created a safe space for people to share their sex stories and experiences. Her book, available on Amazon, is a collection of some of the wildest stories she's heard over the years. To learn more about Kathy and her work, visit https://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com.

Get ready to dive into the world of anonymous sex stories and discover the power of sharing your own desires and experiences!

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#461 Cuckolding and Hot Wifing: The Taboo Relationship Trend Nov 25, 2025

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Beyond the Taboo: Uncovering the Secrets of Cuckolding and Hot Wifing

Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the fascinating world of cuckolding and hot wifing with the charismatic Orpheus Black. With his unique blend of wisdom, insight, and storytelling, Orpheus will guide us through the intricacies of these often-misunderstood practices and reveal the surprising benefits they can bring to your relationships.

Here's what you'll learn from this episode:

• The real deal on cuckolding and hot wifing: what they are, how they work, and why they're not just for the adventurous few

• How these practices can actually strengthen your relationship and bring you closer to your partner (yes, you read that right!)

• The female perspective: exploring the equivalent practices and how they can be just as empowering for women

• The secret to navigating cuckolding and hot wifing safely and lovingly, without sacrificing your emotional well-being

• How to tap into your own desires and ignite a deeper passion in your relationships

As a healer, scholar, and storyteller, Orpheus Black has spent years helping people break free from societal limitations and tap into their true power and freedom. With his passion, precision, and charisma, he'll inspire you to think differently about your desires and relationships. You can learn more about his work at https://orpheusblack.com

By tuning in to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complexities of human desire and the surprising ways that cuckolding and hot wifing can bring people closer together. So, are you ready to push beyond the taboo and explore the secrets of cuckolding and hot wifing?

Get ready to have your mind blown and your desires ignited. Orpheus Black is about to take you on a journey that will leave you breathless, curious, and ready for more...

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Bonus Episode: Why You Should Interview Your Parents Nov 24, 2025

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In this bonus episode Amy interviews dear friend, fellow podcaster, and talented author Kyle Thiermann all about his new book One Last Question Before You Go. Kyle shares everything from why we should all do this to strategies for interviewing and asking great questions that will not only change your connection to your parents, but also all of your relationships whether romantic, strictly platonic, or even in the professional world. This book will inspire you and change your life. Tune in to learn why.

More about Kyle: An award-winning journalist, pro big wave surfer, and podcast host with over 400 episodes, Kyle Thiermann is curiosity in motion. His podcast guests include longevity expert Dr. Peter Attia, 3x Surfing World Champion Mick Fanning, and his own dad—where the idea for his first book began.

Blending witty narrative with practical advice, One Last Question Before You Go explores the art of interviewing our parents. As Thiermann writes, “Questions are invitations to see our parents in the present tense, and a declaration that we care about the wisdom of elders in a culture obsessed with youth.”

Kyle has written for Outside, SURFER, and Discovery Channel, covering indigenous conflicts in Chile and exposing how Hawaii’s wild pigs are killing coral. A cultural provocateur at heart, Kyle has spearheaded national advertising campaigns for cult brands including MUD\WTR, Yeti, and Patagonia, crafting billboards above LAX and viral commercials seen by over 100 million people.

You can order the book on Amazon or by clicking this link: https://geni.us/onelastqbeforeyougo

Learn more about Kyle here: https://www.kylethiermann.com

Follow him on IG @kyle_tman

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#460 Better Orgasms and Deeper Love: Sex Magic with Dr. Berman Nov 18, 2025

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Can Sex Really Be Magic?

Join us on this week's episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of Sex Magic with the incredible Dr. Laura Berman. With over 30 years of experience as a sex, love, and relationship therapist, Dr. Berman is here to shake things up and challenge our conventional views on intimacy.

Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode:

* How Dr. Berman's journey led her to become a leading expert in the field of sexuality

* What inspired her to write Sex Magic, and how it's different from her previous work

* How to create a deeper spiritual connection in your relationships (no, you don't have to be "spiritual" to benefit from this!)

* Practical exercises to help you channel your sexual energy into a more meaningful connection AND lead to bigger, better orgasms

* Why intensity is more important than novelty when it comes to keeping things exciting in the bedroom

* Common blocks to intimacy that might be holding you back (and how to overcome them)

Dr. Berman's story is one of passion, resilience, and hope. Despite facing unimaginable loss, she continues to inspire and educate others on the importance of love, intimacy, and connection. As a world-renowned therapist, columnist, and bestselling author, Dr. Berman is the perfect guide to help us navigate the complexities of human relationships.

So, what is Sex Magic, exactly? According to Dr. Berman, it's about tapping into the transformative power of sex to deepen our connections, heal our wounds, and find greater meaning in our lives. And the best part? It's not just for couples – anyone can benefit from this approach.

Tune in to this episode to discover the antidote to bedroom boredom and learn how to infuse your relationships with a deeper sense of purpose and passion. And as Dr. Berman would say, "If I can heal and grow through terrible loss, we all can."

Follow Dr. Berman on social media @drlauraberman (except YouTube, where you can find her at Drlaurabermanofficial) and check out her website https://drlauraberman.com to learn more about her work and books.

Get ready to spark a deeper connection in your relationships and ignite the magic in your sex life!

Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: ⁠https://www.intimacyrewired.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And mention Shameless Sex to get $100 off!

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#459 Hot Sex on Your Hormones, No Apologies — with Dr. Sarah E. Hill Nov 11, 2025

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The Period Paradox: Why We're Still in the Dark About Sex and Menstruation

Let's face it: periods and sex are still major taboos in our society. But why? Join us as we dive into the fascinating world of menstrual cycles, hormones, and sex with the incredible Dr. Sarah E. Hill, author of the groundbreaking book "The Period Brain." We're about to shed some much-needed light on the secrets our bodies have been keeping from us.

Here's what you'll learn from this unapologetic conversation:

• The real reason we call it a "period" (and why it's not just about bleeding)

• The shocking truth about why the luteal phase has been ignored by science and medicine (and how it affects your sex life)

• How menstrual cycles impact your sexual desire (it's not just about being "hormonal")

• Tips for having mind-blowing sex during the luteal phase (yes, it's possible, even when you're feeling meh)

• How to navigate PMS like a pro (no more excuses for bad moods or bad sex)

• Advice for partners who want to be more supportive (we've got you, boo)

By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complex relationships between periods, hormones, and sex. You'll also learn how to break free from the shame and stigma surrounding menstrual cycles and tap into your full sexual potential.

So, what are you waiting for? Join the conversation and get ready to unleash your inner period power! As Dr. Hill says, "The problem isn't that women are hormonal; the problem is that we've been ignoring the second half of the menstrual cycle for far too long." It's time to change that.

Dr. Sarah E. Hill is an award-winning researcher, professor, speaker, and consultant who's on a mission to uncover the hidden truths about women's sex hormones. With two paradigm-shattering books under her belt, "This is Your Brain on Birth Control" and "The Period Brain," she's the perfect guide to help you navigate the wild world of periods and sex. To learn more, visit her website at http://sarahehill.com.

Tune in now and get ready to have your mind blown by the period paradox. And, as a special treat, stick around until the end for a sneak peek into Dr. Hill's latest book and find out how you can get your hands on a copy.

Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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#458 From Stuck to Sizzling: Intimacy Rewired Nov 04, 2025

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Can You Imagine Having the Tools to Easily Rewrite Your Relationship with Intimacy and Create a More Fulfilling (and Juicier) Life?

Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex, where we dive into the world of Intimacy Rewired. Not only will you learn about this online course that will transform your relationships and life, but you will also walk away with a few life changing tools to apply in your own life. Amy Baldwin and Ian Stratton are the masterminds behind this groundbreaking program, and they're here to share more about this program, alongside guests such as Dr. Nazanin Moali, Keeley Rankin, MA, Dr. Charlie Glickman, Sarah Tomchessen, and more.

Here's what you can expect from this episode:

• The whys and how-to's on easy tools for sexual and romantic healing that will last and actually change your life

• A personal and intimate conversation with Amy and Ian about their journey to creating Intimacy Rewired and why they think healing doesn't always have to be hard (or unpleasant)

• A deep dive into the course's unique approach to transforming intimacy, including how to break free from patterns that hold you back

• A live demo (on April!) of their approach, using a real-life communication snag as an example

• Insights into how the course can help you build a stronger, more resilient sense of self and create lasting change

Ian Stratton, a lifelong healing nerd, has spent thousands of hours leading deep work with individuals and groups, blending Internal Family Systems, somatic psychotherapy, breathwork, and ethical psychedelic practice. His goal? To make personal growth real, practical, and accessible.

Amy Baldwin brings her own brand of obsession to the table, and together, they've created a program that's simple, fun, and accessible. With a focus on active learning and integration, Intimacy Rewired is not just a course – it's a journey of transformation.

So, what sets Intimacy Rewired apart from other courses and workshops? According to Ian and Amy, it's the combination of simple practices, habits, and actionable steps that make it stick. They'll share their approach, and you'll get a taste of what it's like to work with them.

Ready to transform your intimacy and create a more fulfilling life? Shameless Sex listeners get $100 off the course – just head to https://intimacyrewired.com and mention the show. As Amy says, "Come play with us." Don't miss this opportunity to rewrite your relationship with intimacy and create a more fulfilling life.

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#457 The Intimacy Doctor: Secrets to a Spicy Marriage Oct 28, 2025

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Can You Have It All: Passion, Intimacy, and a Happy Marriage?

Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of intimate marriages with the incredible Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD, aka "The Intimacy Doctor." With her extensive experience in helping high-achieving couples ignite their passion, sensual connection, and erotic intimacy, you'll want to take notes.

Here's what you'll learn from this episode:

• The surprising reasons why intimacy often fades in long-term relationships (and it's not just about marriage)

• How to keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship whether married or not, with and without kids

• The importance of the initial courting phase and how long you should date before tying the knot

• Top tips for maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships, from a leading expert in the field

• How to prioritize your relationship and make time for each other, even when life gets busy

As a physician coach, Intimate Marriage Expert, and best-selling author, Dr. Alexandra has helped countless couples transform their relationships. With her expertise and warm demeanor, you'll feel inspired and empowered to take your relationship to the next level.

By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of what it means to be in an intimate marriage, and how to create a relationship that's juicy, erotically alive, and deeply nourishing. Plus, you'll learn how to avoid the common pitfalls that can lead to intimacy fade, and how to keep the spark alive even when life gets in the way.

And, as a special treat, Dr. Alexandra shares her top tips for keeping the spark alive, including one surprising activity that will make you laugh and maybe even blush... So, what are you waiting for? Tune in and get ready to ignite your passion and intimacy!

Dr. Alexandra has been featured in top publications such as the New York Times, Huffington Post, and Rolling Stone, and has been named one of the "Top 10 Relationship Experts to Watch in 2023" by LA Weekly Magazine. She's the host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and the creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. To learn more go to https://www.alexandrastockwell.com

IG: @intimacydoctor

FB:@intimacydoctor

Youtube: @intimacydoctor

Tiktok: @intimacydoctor

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/

Link to her Relationship Check-ins:

https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/checkins/

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#456 The Breakup and Single Life Survival Guide Oct 21, 2025

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Breakups: The Ultimate Opportunity for Growth, or Just a Hot Mess of Emotions?

Get ready for a real talk with Medinah, the multi-hyphenate creative who's not afraid to get honest about the messy world of relationships and breakups. As a Realtor, podcaster, voice actor, and co-host of Paradise & Vibe retreats, Medinah has a unique perspective on love, loss, and self-reclamation.

Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode:

• How to navigate the darkest depths of a breakup and come out stronger on the other side (yes, it's possible)

• The pros and cons of celibacy and taking a break from dating after a breakup (is it right for you?)

• How to deal with those pesky post-breakup feelings (heartbreak, horniness, and everything in between)

• Medinah's top tools for a successful and easeful breakup (because who doesn't want that?)

• How to fall in love with your single life and make the most of this time (self-care, self-love, and more)

• The lowdown on breakup revenge: is it worth it, or just a recipe for disaster?

Medinah's approach to relationships and breakups is all about keeping it real, and we're obsessed. With her help, you'll learn how to confront your emotions, find self-love, and maybe even discover a newfound appreciation for being single.

Tune in for a refreshing dose of honesty, humor, and heart. And if you're feeling extra curious, be sure to check out Medinah's work with Paradise & Vibe retreats, where she helps women connect with themselves and find healing in beautiful destinations around the world.

So, are you ready to turn your breakup into a breakthrough? Medinah's got the real talk and the tools to help you do just that.

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#455 Top Porn Scenes, Lube, and Sex and Aging - with Jessica Drake Oct 14, 2025

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**Award Winning Porn Star and Director Teaches Us About Sex and Pleasure at All Ages**

Join us for a candid conversation with the one and only Jessica Drake, a trailblazing sex educator, advocate, and former adult industry performer. With over two decades of experience, jessica has been redefining the way we think about sex, pleasure, and consent.

Here's what you'll learn from this episode:

• What porn looks like behind the scenes and what types of shoots changed Jessica's life for the better

• The concept of "porn literacy" and why it's essential for a healthier relationship with sex and media

• Jessica's thoughts on porn and sex addiction, and her tips for managing intake and consumption

• How Jessica's work with Wicked Sensual Care has helped her create a more inclusive and pleasure-positive sex culture

• What Jessica is learning about sex and aging and the importance of high quality lube

As a pioneer in the field of sex education, Jessica has used her expertise to create judgment-free, trauma-informed spaces that resonate with audiences from all walks of life. Her mission is to open minds, dismantle stereotypes, and redefine the way society views sex work and sexual pleasure.

Tune in for a conversation that will challenge your assumptions, spark new ideas, and leave you feeling empowered to take control of your own sex life.

**So, what's the most surprising thing Jessica learned from her 25 years in the industry?** "It's not about the sex; it's about the people." Find out what she means by that, and so much more, on this episode of Shameless Sex.

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