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#478 The Art of Giving and Receiving Great Head Mar 24, 2026

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Can You Give a Mind-Blowing Blowjob? Or can you receive one?

Let's get real, folks - blowjobs can be a total game-changer in the bedroom, but they can also be, well, a bit of a mystery. In this episode, we're diving headfirst (pun intended) into the world of sucking cock, sharing our own stories, and spilling the tea on what really makes a blowjob unforgettable.

Here's what you'll learn:

* The top tools and techniques for givers (yes, even if you're not a fan of giving blowjobs - we've got tips to help you drop in and enjoy)

* How to communicate with your partner to take your blowjobs to the next level

* The #1 way to get more of what you want as a receiver (hint: it involves talking about it)

* How to overcome common challenges and make receiving a blowjob a truly pleasurable experience

* Our own favorite techniques, from physical tricks to words of affirmation and setting the scene

* What we've learned from our own experiences and guests to bring you Blowjob 2.0 skills

We'll also be plugging some of our favorite resources for more education, including our website, Somatica online classes, our book, and ErikaLust.com. And, spoiler alert, one of us shares a sneak peek into a chapter from our book that'll give you even more blowjob inspiration.

Tune in for a fun, honest, and informative conversation that'll leave you feeling empowered and excited to try new things in the bedroom. And trust us, you won't want to miss our teaser for next week's episode... let's just say it's going to be a wild ride.

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#477 Wet and Wild: For All P*$$y Owners and Admirers Mar 17, 2026

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Ready to Get WET and Unlock a Life of Unbridled Pleasure?

We're revisiting one of our most popular episodes with Alexis Ware, L.Ac., a sex, desire, and intimacy coach who's on a mission to help you tap into your true sensual potential. In this juicy conversation, we dive into the world of genital "wetness" and explore what it means to be truly connected to your body.

Here's what you'll discover in this episode:

* The importance of reconnecting with your genitals and how it can transform your sex life and overall well-being

* How to heal from sexual trauma and its impact on your connection to your body and desires

* The real meaning behind "reclaiming" your wetness and turn-on, and how it's not just about physical sensations

* The ways in which societal programming and shame can be holding you back, and practical strategies for breaking free

* Techniques for tuning back into your body's sensations and using them to fuel hotter, more connected sex

* A sneak peek into Alexis' live online 6-week group course, WET, where you'll learn to tap into your true sensual potential alongside a community of like-minded women

As a licensed acupuncturist, Kundalini Yoga teacher, and ThetaHealing expert, Alexis brings a unique blend of energy healing and sex coaching to the conversation. By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of your own body and desires, and be empowered to live a more authentic, sensual life.

Tune in to this episode and get ready to unlock the secrets to feeling WET! And, as a special treat, Alexis is sharing an exclusive offer for listeners - stay tuned to the end of the episode to learn how you can join her WET course and start your journey to a more sensual, empowered you!

More about our repeat guest: Alexis Ware, L.Ac., is a sex, desire and intimacy coach, licensed acupuncturist, Kundalini Yoga teacher, Human Design enthusiast, ThetaHealing® expert, and founder of Sovereign University. To learn more go to ⁠ www.alexislaurenware.com

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#476 Dirty Talk Mastery with Celeste & Danielle of Somatica Mar 10, 2026

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Get Ready to Talk Dirty: Unleashing Your Authentic Voice in the Bedroom!

Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the sultry world of dirty talk with the dynamic duo, Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A., founders of the Somatica Institute and creators of the Somatica Method. As thought leaders in the field of sex and relationship coaching, they've trained over 1000 coaches and have even been featured on UK's award-winning TV show, Virgin Island.

In this episode, we'll be exploring the art of dirty talk and how to make it your own. Here's what you can expect to learn:

* The surprising reasons why dirty talk can be so challenging for people, and why so many are eager to improve their skills

* How to discover your unique and authentic voice when it comes to dirty talk

* Tips and tricks for those who thrive on structure and formula

* An insider's look at the Somatica Method and how it can help you tap into your confidence and empowerment in the bedroom

* What to expect from Danielle and Celeste's online classes and upcoming sex and relationship coaching training

By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of how to communicate your desires and boundaries with confidence and ease. You'll learn how to let go of inhibitions and tap into your authentic voice, making your intimate experiences more fulfilling and exciting.

Danielle and Celeste bring their expertise and passion to the conversation, sharing their journey into the field of sexuality and the principles behind the Somatica Method. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting to explore the world of dirty talk, this episode is sure to leave you feeling empowered and inspired.

About the guests: Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA are the co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching and co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. Their innovative, experiential approach helps individuals and couples transform the way they relate emotionally and sexually. They also train professional sex and relationship coaches through the Somatica Institute.

They are the co-authors of ⁠Making Love Real,⁠ ⁠Cockfidence⁠, and ⁠Coming Together: Embracing Your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility.⁠

Learn more:

Explore Somatica courses and trainings at ⁠http://somaticainstitute.com⁠ and try their free 2-minute quiz to see if the training is right for you
Join their free live Q&A on Thursday, March 12, 2026
Learn more about their Sex & Relationship Coaching Training starting in late April 2026
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Bonus: What You Really Want in Bed: Exploring Your Core Desires Mar 06, 2026

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This clip comes from one of our favorite past conversations: Episode #133 – How Core Desires Lead to Hot Sex with Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA.

What are your Core Desires, and how can understanding them lead to hotter, more fulfilling sex? In this episode, Danielle and Celeste—co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching—share how exploring your deepest erotic desires can transform your sex life and deepen intimacy in your relationships.

Using their experiential Somatica approach, they explain how shifting our internal patterns around sex and connection can open the door to greater pleasure, authenticity, and emotional intimacy.

We also answer a listener question: How can you rebuild broken trust in a relationship?

Listen to the full episode here: https://tinyurl.com/bdhs3vv3

They are the co-authors of Making Love Real, Cockfidence, and Coming Together: Embracing Your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility.

Learn more:

Explore Somatica courses and trainings at http://somaticainstitute.com and try their free 2-minute quiz to see if the training is right for you
Join their free live Q&A on Thursday, March 12, 2026
Learn more about their Sex & Relationship Coaching Training starting in late April 2026
Take their online course: How to Get Turned On: Unlock Your Core Desires, or explore other courses at https://learn.somatica.com

Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat⁠⁠⁠⁠

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#475 Girl Gone Wild: Sex, Travel, and Tales from Courtney Kocak Mar 03, 2026

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What's the Wildest Thing You've Done for Love (or Sex)?

Join us as we dive into the unapologetic world of Courtney Kocak, writer, podcaster, and comedian extraordinaire, who's just released her scorching hot memoir, Girl Gone Wild! In this episode, we get the tea on Courtney's journey from selling T-shirts on the infamous Girls Gone Wild tour (for the uninitiated, it was a series of spring break party videos that, ahem, "celebrated" youthful abandon) to becoming a respected voice in the world of sexuality and feminism.

Here's what you'll get out of this episode:

* The story behind Courtney's transition from party tour T-shirt vendor to writer and podcaster

* A sneak peek into her wildly popular podcast, Private Parts Unknown, and one of her most unforgettable "Girl Gone Wild" stories

* What it means to be an "unwitting feminist" and how Courtney's experiences have shaped her views on sex and identity

* The good, the bad, and the ugly of Courtney's formative years and how they influenced her adult life

* Advice for those who've been told they're "too much" or "not enough" when it comes to their sexuality

* A cheeky elevator pitch for Girl Gone Wild and how to get your hands on a copy (and maybe even work with Courtney)

Courtney's got a knack for storytelling, and her experiences are both relatable and, well, wild. With over two million podcast downloads under her belt and bylines in top-tier publications like The New York Times and Cosmopolitan, she's the perfect guest to dish out the real talk on sex, love, and being unapologetically yourself.

Tune in for a conversation that's equal parts laugh-out-loud funny and thought-provoking – and stay tuned until the end for a teaser that's sure to leave you wanting more. Trust us, you won't want to miss this episode! Mark your calendars for April 1, 2026, when Girl Gone Wild hits the shelves, and get ready to join the conversation.

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#474 From Shut Down to Turned On with Dr. Moali & Keeley Rankin, MA Feb 24, 2026

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Are You Letting Shame Quietly Run the Show in Your Intimate Life?

Join us as we dive back into the powerful conversation from the launch of Intimacy Rewired, Amy and co-facilitator Ian Stratton's six-week online program that helps you break free from disconnection and cultivate deeper, more playful intimacy. This episode feels as if you are a part of the workshop, so consider sitting down with a pen and paper to get the full classroom experience. Packed with expert insights from returning guests Dr. Nazanin Moali and Keeley Rankin, MA, as they share their wisdom on building connection, overcoming shame, and creating safety in your body and relationships.

Here's what you'll learn:

* How shame shows up in sex and relationships, and why it's often misunderstood

* Practical tools for working with shame as a teacher, rather than letting it limit your pleasure and connection

* Actionable practices to create safety in your body and partnerships, laying the foundation for deeper intimacy and hotter sex

*How to negotiate boundaries and speak you "no"

* The importance of embodied and sustainable connection in your intimate life

Dr. Nazanin Moali, a sex and relationship expert with extensive training in trauma and sexual wellness, brings her expertise to the conversation. With her postdoctoral training and experience hosting a top-rated Sexology podcast, Dr. Moali offers compassionate guidance on relating to shame and building deeper connections. Keeley Rankin, a sex therapist and relationship coach, shares her mindful, body-based approach to creating safety and intimacy. With her Master's in Counseling Psychology and experience helping individuals and couples overcome intimacy challenges, Keeley offers practical practices to help you feel more grounded and present.

Tune in to this episode and discover how to build more safety, ease, and intimacy in your relationships—starting from the inside out. And stay tuned for the next launch of Intimacy Rewired by signing up for the Shameless Sex newsletter. Trust us, you won't want to miss it!

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#473 Shameless Talk: Healing from Trauma with Jimanekia Eborn Feb 17, 2026

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What if we told you that healing from trauma is possible, and it starts with having shameless conversations about sex and vulnerability?

Join us on this week's episode of Shameless Sex, where we dive into the world of trauma, sex, and healing with the incredible Jimanekia Eborn, aka The Trauma Queen. With 16 years of experience in mental health, Jimanekia is a Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, Trauma Media Consultant, and Comprehensive Sex Educator who's on a mission to normalize conversations about life's most challenging experiences.

Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode:

• The importance of understanding trauma and its impact on our lives, relationships, and sex lives

• How trauma can show up differently in various cultural, socio-economic, and personal contexts

• Easy-to-apply tools and techniques to help you understand, uncover, and work with your trauma (yes, it's possible!)

• About Jimanekia's amazing work with her nonprofit, Tending The Garden, and her Intimacy Coordinator training program, Cintima

By tuning in to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complex relationships between trauma, sex, and healing. You'll also learn how to take the first steps towards healing and recovery, and how to find support and resources to help you along the way.

Jimanekia's story is a testament to the power of resilience, vulnerability, and shameless conversations. As she shares her journey, you'll be inspired to start your own path towards healing and self-discovery.

So, what are you waiting for? Dive into this powerful conversation and discover how you can start healing from trauma and living a more shameless, sex-positive life.

Tune in to this episode to find out how Jimanekia went from being a mental health professional to becoming The Trauma Queen, and how you can start your own journey towards healing and recovery. To learn more:

https://www.cintima.co/

http://traumaqueen.love

http://Tendingthegarden.love

https://lenoraclaire.com

IG:

@cintima

@jimanekia

@tendingthegarden.4.sas

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#472 Sex Toy Secrets Exposed - Part 2 Feb 10, 2026

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Join us for part 2 of this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive deeper into sex toys and sex stories with the fabulous Samia Mounts - podcaster extraordinaire and all-around sex-positive superstar. As the host of ClosetEd, Samia is no stranger to diving into the juicy details of human desire, and she's here to share her expertise and enthusiasm with us. Tune in next week as we dive in even deeper and juicier for part 2.

Here's what you'll get out of this episode:

* The unvarnished truth about how our hosts (and Samia) got into the field of sexuality - and what drove them to become advocates for sex positivity

* The shame-free lowdown on sex toys: why we've been made to feel guilty for using them, and why that's total BS

* A tour of our hosts' current favorite toys - from clit stimulators to bondage gear - and why they love them

* Hilarious and relatable "worst toy fails" stories that'll have you laughing and nodding in solidarity

* Epic erotic toy stories that'll leave you feeling inspired and maybe even a little turned on

* The benefits of sharing and listening to real human's sexy stories - and how it can bring us closer together

By tuning in, you'll get to:

* Join the conversation and ditch the shame around sex toys

* Discover new ways to explore your desires and pleasure

* Connect with a community that's all about embracing our true selves

Samia's background as an actor, singer, writer, and podcaster brings a unique perspective to the conversation, and her podcast, ClosetEd, has become a go-to destination for anyone looking to explore the complexities of human desire. With her quick wit and infectious enthusiasm, she's the perfect guest to guide us through this conversation.

Learn more about Samia here:

⁠http://linktr.ee/samia.mounts

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#471 Sex Toy Secrets Exposed - Part 1 Feb 03, 2026

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Ever Been Shamed for Your Toy Preferences? Let's Get Real About Sex Toys and the Stories We Tell About Them

Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we get up close and personal with the fabulous Samia Mounts, podcaster extraordinaire and all-around sex-positive superstar. As the host of ClosetEd, Samia is no stranger to diving into the juicy details of human desire, and she's here to share her expertise and enthusiasm with us. Tune in next week as we dive in even deeper and juicier for part 2.

Here's what you'll get out of this episode:

* The unvarnished truth about how our hosts (and Samia) got into the field of sexuality - and what drove them to become advocates for sex positivity

* The shame-free lowdown on sex toys: why we've been made to feel guilty for using them, and why that's total BS

* A tour of our hosts' current favorite toys - from clit stimulators to bondage gear - and why they love them

* Hilarious and relatable "worst toy fails" stories that'll have you laughing and nodding in solidarity

* Epic erotic toy stories that'll leave you feeling inspired and maybe even a little turned on

* The benefits of sharing and listening to real human's sexy stories - and how it can bring us closer together

By tuning in, you'll get to:

* Join the conversation and ditch the shame around sex toys

* Discover new ways to explore your desires and pleasure

* Connect with a community that's all about embracing our true selves

Stay tuned till the end as we wrap up with our hosts sharing their offerings, upcoming events, and how to find them online. And don't miss the tantalizing teaser at the end of this episode... let's just say we're not done getting real about sex just yet!

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#470 Sex, Power, and the Downfall of a Wellness Cult Jan 27, 2026

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What happens when a sexual wellness practice turns into a cult, and how can we spot the warning signs?

Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we explore the fascinating and disturbing world of OneTaste, a company that promised to unlock the secrets of orgasmic meditation but allegedly became a breeding ground for abuse and manipulation. Award-winning investigative journalist and author Ellen Huet takes us on a journey into the heart of OneTaste, sharing her insights from her book Empire of Orgasm: Sex, Power, and the Downfall of a Wellness Cult

Here's what you'll learn from this episode:

* The history of OneTaste and how it started as a seemingly innocuous wellness practice

* The benefits and risks of orgasmic meditation (OM) and how to approach it with a critical eye

* The warning signs of a cult and how to spot when a practice or community is becoming toxic

* The latest updates on the criminal case against OneTaste's leaders and what it means for the future of the wellness industry

* How to prioritize consent, safety, and critical thinking in your own sex life and wellness practices

As a journalist who's covered some of the most complex and intriguing stories of our time, Ellen Huet brings her expertise and sharp analysis to the conversation. Whether you're a seasoned sex educator or just curious about the world of wellness, this episode is for you.

Tune in to learn more about the intersection of sex, power, and exploitation, and how to create a safer, more consensual world for everyone. And stay until the end to find out how to get your hands on Ellen's book and support her work.

So, can a wellness practice be both empowering and toxic? Listen in to find out.

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