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#455 Top Porn Scenes, Lube, and Sex and Aging - with Jessica Drake Oct 14, 2025

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**Award Winning Porn Star and Director Teaches Us About Sex and Pleasure at All Ages**

Join us for a candid conversation with the one and only Jessica Drake, a trailblazing sex educator, advocate, and former adult industry performer. With over two decades of experience, jessica has been redefining the way we think about sex, pleasure, and consent.

Here's what you'll learn from this episode:

• What porn looks like behind the scenes and what types of shoots changed Jessica's life for the better

• The concept of "porn literacy" and why it's essential for a healthier relationship with sex and media

• Jessica's thoughts on porn and sex addiction, and her tips for managing intake and consumption

• How Jessica's work with Wicked Sensual Care has helped her create a more inclusive and pleasure-positive sex culture

• What Jessica is learning about sex and aging and the importance of high quality lube

As a pioneer in the field of sex education, Jessica has used her expertise to create judgment-free, trauma-informed spaces that resonate with audiences from all walks of life. Her mission is to open minds, dismantle stereotypes, and redefine the way society views sex work and sexual pleasure.

Tune in for a conversation that will challenge your assumptions, spark new ideas, and leave you feeling empowered to take control of your own sex life.

**So, what's the most surprising thing Jessica learned from her 25 years in the industry?** "It's not about the sex; it's about the people." Find out what she means by that, and so much more, on this episode of Shameless Sex.

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#454 Sex, Pleasure, and Porn - with Jessica Drake Oct 07, 2025

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**Porn Star Turned Sex Educator Helps Us Rethink Sex and Pleasure**

Join us for a candid two part (yes, there will be more in next week's episode) conversation with the one and only Jessica Drake, a trailblazing sex educator, advocate, and former adult industry performer. With over two decades of experience, Jessica has been redefining the way we think about sex, pleasure, and consent.

Here's what you'll learn from this episode:

• How Jessica's journey from porn performer to world-renowned sex educator has helped her dismantle stereotypes and open minds

• The common stigmas faced by sex workers and educators, and how we can work to overcome them

• The concept of "porn literacy" and why it's essential for a healthier relationship with sex and media

Tune in for a conversation that will challenge your assumptions, spark new ideas, and leave you feeling empowered to take control of your own sex life.

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#453 The Vagina Whisperer: Spilling the Tea - with Dr. Sara Reardon Sep 30, 2025

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**What if someone told you that your vagina was trying to tell you something, but you just didn't know how to listen?**

Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of pelvic floor health with the one and only Dr. Sara Reardon, aka The Vagina Whisperer. With hundreds of thousands of followers on social media and a bestselling book, FLOORED: A Woman's Guide to Pelvic Floor Health at Every Age and Stage, Dr. Reardon is here to spill the tea on all things vagina.

**Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode:**

• The fascinating story of how Dr. Reardon became The Vagina Whisperer and dedicated her life to helping people care for their pelvic floors

• What the heck is the pelvic floor, and why is it so crucial for our overall wellbeing?

• The common symptoms of pelvic floor dysfunction and why so many people suffer from it in silence

• What to do when your doctor tells you that your pelvic pain or leakage is "just part of being a woman" (hint: it's not okay, and Dr. Reardon has got your back)

• Dr. Reardon's top tips for taking care of your own pelvic floor, whether you're dealing with issues or not

• How your partner can help you with pelvic floor pain (because, let's be real, they can be part of the solution too)

**By the end of this episode, you'll:**

* Feel empowered to take control of your pelvic floor health and wellbeing

* Understand the importance of listening to your vagina (yes, you read that right)

* Have a newfound appreciation for the incredible work of Dr. Reardon and her mission to educate and support women everywhere

**So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode and get ready to join the conversation about pelvic floor health with Dr. Sara Reardon, The Vagina Whisperer.**

Learn more about Dr. Reardon's work here:

Book: FLOORED: A Woman’s Guide to Pelvic Floor Health at Every Age and Stage

https://thevagwhisperer.com/floored/

Online Workouts for your pelvic floor: 7 days of free workouts

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Instagram: The Vagina Whisperer

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TikTok: The Vag Whisperer

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Youtube:

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Facebook:

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#452 Face Sex: Exploring Intimate Kink Play Sep 23, 2025

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Can you handle the face-to-face intensity of face fucking, sitting, and queening?

In this episode of Shameless Sex, we dive head-first (pun intended) into the world of face-centric kink with the incomparable Orpheus Black. This isn't Orpheus' first rodeo with us – he's back for his sixth visit, and we're thrilled to have him share his mastery of the erotic arts.

Here's what you can expect to learn:

• The nuances of face fucking, face sitting, and queening: what sets them apart, and why people are drawn to these intense, intimate experiences

• Safety first: essential precautions and potential risks to consider when exploring these kinks

• Top tips for maximizing pleasure and connection during face fucking, face sitting, and queening – from dildo dynamics to queening techniques

• The best props and toys to elevate your face-centric play

• Orpheus' expertise on the intersection of trauma, transformation, and conscious kink

By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complexities and joys of face-centric kink, as well as practical advice for exploring these desires with confidence and care. Whether you're a seasoned kink enthusiast or just curious about the world of face fucking, sitting, and queening, this episode is sure to inspire and educate.

Orpheus Black is a true master of his craft – a mystic, magician, and visionary who weaves ancient wisdom into the fabric of modern eroticism. With a presence that's both commanding and intimate, Orpheus has a gift for cracking open the deepest, most vulnerable parts of our beings. Don't miss this opportunity to learn from him and discover the transformative power of conscious kink.

So, are you ready to face your desires head-on?

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Listen to these episodes to learn more about our answer to today's sex question:⁠

#336 How to Have the Ultimate Pleasure (and Health) at any Age ⁠

⁠#370 How to Repair Sexual Function ⁠

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#451 F-ing vs. Making Love: What's the Difference? Sep 16, 2025

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Beyond the Bedroom: The Art of F**king vs. Making Love

Get ready to dive into the world of intimacy, connection, and unapologetic lovemaking with Erwan and Alicia Davon, the dynamic duo behind the Davon Method. As renowned relationship coaches and Tantra teachers, they're here to dish out the truth on the age-old question: what's the difference between f**king and making love?

Here's what you'll learn from this episode:

* The fascinating story of how Erwan and Alicia went from individual journeys of self-discovery to creating a revolutionary approach to relationship coaching

* The lowdown on the difference between f**king and making love (and why it's not just about semantics)

* Alternative terms for "making love" that won't make you roll your eyes (we've got some suggestions!)

* How Tantra can transform your sex life (and what it means to f**k Tantrically)

* Practical Tantric tools to boost intimacy and connection (no matter your relationship status)

* How to apply these tools to your solo practice (yes, singles can get in on the action too!)

* A sneak peek into the Davon Method's upcoming offerings (because you'll want to work with them after this episode)

By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of yourself, your desires, and your relationships. Erwan and Alicia's approach is all about creating a safe space for growth, exploration, and fun – and that's exactly what you can expect from this episode.

So, what are you waiting for? Join us as we dive into the world of unapologetic lovemaking and discover the secrets to hotter, deeper intimacy and connection. Text (415) 308-9580 for a free consultation, or head to https://davonmethod.com/ to learn more about the Davon Method and their upcoming offerings.

About our guests: Erwan & Alicia Davon, longtime Relationship Coaches & San Francisco's foremost Tantra Teachers, developed their signature process, the Davon Method, and have taught it to over 20,000 students in groups, retreats and individual sessions. As a married couple, they have been teaching singles to get into relationship & couples to thrive in relationship for the last 25 years. They have become the go-to place in the San Francisco Bay Area for all things romantic and sexual and are quickly becoming that worldwide through online learning. Get ready to have fun because working with them is a blast! To learn more text (415) 308-9580 for a free consultation, or go to https://davonmethod.com/

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#336 How to Have the Ultimate Pleasure (and Health) at any Age

#370 How to Repair Sexual Function

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#450 The Art of Lasting Passion - Your Mashup with Dr. Aly Sep 09, 2025

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In this special mashup episode, we dive deep into what it really takes to keep passion alive over the long haul with one of our favorite returning guests: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly. As a trauma-informed intimacy coach, Stanford University lecturer, and founder of TurnON.love, Dr. Aly brings a unique blend of academic insight and real-world tools for sustaining emotional and sexual intimacy.

We explore:

#83 How to Be an Intuitive Lover

#311 How to Take the Pressure Off of Sex

#348 How to Keep the Flame Blazing in Longterm Relationships

Dr. Aly also shares details about her upcoming courses and retreats, including her popular Sustainable Intimacy: Refuel Passion for Lasting Love couples retreat and her Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course.

Whether you're partnered or solo, this episode is full of actionable insights that can help you connect more deeply, communicate more clearly, and bring more pleasure into your life and relationships.

Sustainable Intimacy: Refuel Passion for Lasting Love retreat for couples in Sonoma Oct 10-13th (also available as an on-demand course rental)

Whether your goal is to rekindle passion or simply carve out meaningful time together, this 3-night, 4-day retreat offers a supportive space to slow down and savor each other. You’ll uncover what’s blocking intimacy and gain customized tools to support your unique dynamic. Use discount code shameless for $100 off!

Can't make the retreat? Rent this course on-demand and watch from home!

Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course on Wednesdays, Jan 27th-Mar 17th

This course features 8 live, virtual classes with a woven balance of science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development designed to support you in creating, deepening, and sustaining sexual and emotional intimacy in your relationship(s). All classes feature a combo of lecture with optional breakout room discussions and experiential exercises plus extra time for questions and individualized support after. Recordings available for those who can't attend live or want extra review. Super early bird tickets are available now for $200-$400 off

Last but not least, reach out to Dr. Aly for 1:1 and couples coaching support!

To learn more go to http://www.TurnON.love

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#449 Buzzing with Pleasure: What the Research Says Sep 02, 2025

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The Ultimate Pleasure Experiment: Can a Magic Wand Really Change Your Sex Life?

Get ready for a fascinating conversation with Danielle Bezalel, MPH, aka DB, the Creator and Host of Sex Ed with DB, and a special anonymous guest who participated in the Magic Wand study.

Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode:

• The surprising story of how our anonymous guest became part of the Magic Wand study and what they learned about themselves in the process

• Why Danielle felt compelled to study pleasure and how it led to the creation of the Magic Wand study

• The gap in sex education that the Magic Wand study aimed to fill and how it's changing the conversation around pleasure

• The most striking results of the study and what Danielle found most surprising

• How the study's findings can be applied to real-life sex and relationships

• What still needs to be studied in the world of sex and pleasure, including representation and inclusivity

As a listener, you'll benefit from:

• A deeper understanding of the importance of pleasure in sex education

• Insights into the latest research on sex and pleasure

• Practical advice for improving your own sex life and relationships

• A more nuanced understanding of the complexities of sex research and representation

Danielle Bezalel, MPH, is a renowned expert in sex education and research, with a Master of Public Health from Columbia University. She's the Creator and Host of Sex Ed with DB, a podcast that delivers trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure.

So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode to learn more about the Magic Wand study and how it can impact your own sex life. And, as a special treat, we'll share details on how you can get your own Magic Wand and support further research in the field of sex and pleasure.

Will this study revolutionize the way we think about sex and pleasure? Listen to find out, and get ready to upgrade your sex life!

Learn more about the study here: https://magicwandoriginal.com/study/

Learn more about Sex Ed with DB here: https://www.sexedwithdb.com/

Follow DB on Instagram @sexedwithdbpodcast

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#448 Bottoms Up: Exploring Anal Play, Training, and Fisting Aug 26, 2025

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Let's Get Real About Anal: Breaking Down Fears and Unlocking Pleasure

Are you ready to talk about the butt? Like, really talk about it? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of anal sex with Jamie Joy, a certified sex educator and self-proclaimed "hungry slut for freaky fantasies". With over a decade of experience in spreading joy, consent, and pleasure, Jamie is here to dispel the myths and misconceptions surrounding anal sex and give you the lowdown on how to make it a pleasurable experience for all involved.

Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode:

• How Jamie's journey in the field of sexuality led them to become a leading expert in anal play

• The most common fears and concerns people have about anal sex (yes, poop is on the list!), and how to overcome them

• The benefits of anal plug training and how it can help first-timers ease into anal play

• Tips and techniques for smooth insertion, whether you're using a plug, dildo, or something a little more... natural

• Jamie's favorite anal toys and why they're obsessed with them (hint: it's not just about the butt)

• An introduction to anal fisting, including tips and techniques for those curious about trying it (because, why not?)

By listening to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complexities and joys of anal sex, and how to approach it with confidence and curiosity. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting to explore, Jamie's expertise and enthusiasm will leave you feeling empowered and excited to take your pleasure to the next level.

So, are you ready to unlock the secrets of anal sex and discover a world of unbridled pleasure? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex and get ready to have your mind blown (and your ass explored)!

Find Jamie Joy on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website http://www.jamiejoy.com to learn more about their work and how to connect with them.

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#447 The UTI, BV, and Vaginal Health Survival Guide Aug 19, 2025

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UTIs: the ultimate party crasher in the world of sex and relationships. But what's the real deal behind these pesky infections?

Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the wild world of urinary tract infections with Megan Henken, Co-Founder and Chief Marketing Officer of MyUTI. With over two decades of experience in diagnostics and biotech, Megan's on a mission to transform women's health through innovation, education, and empathy.

Here's what you'll learn from this episode:

• The lowdown on UTIs: what they are, how they're caused, and why they're not just a vulva-owner problem

• UTI myths busted: separating fact from fiction and tackling the shame and stigma surrounding vaginal health

• How to ID UTI symptoms and what might feel like a UTI but isn't (psst... it's not just about the burning sensation)

• The scoop on Micro Plasma, BV, and other mysterious conditions that might feel like a UTI

• Home remedies to keep UTIs at bay and promote vaginal wellness

• How hormones and aging affect UTI risk - and what you can do about it

Megan shares her personal journey of struggling with recurrent UTIs and how it sparked her passion for improving care for women. As a healthcare marketing executive and entrepreneur, she's led the commercial launch of over 20 products, generating $93M+ in revenue.

Tune in to learn more about MyUTI, a game-changing digital health platform offering advanced at-home testing and personalized guidance for UTIs, STIs, and BV. And as a special treat, use the code SHAMELESS10 at checkout on http://Myuti.com for 10% off

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Ready to kick UTIs to the curb and take control of your vaginal health?

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#446 Beyond the (Religious) Shame and How to Recreate Your Sex Life Aug 12, 2025

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Can you really overcome the shame and guilt tied to your religious upbringing and find your authentic, sexy self?

Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the complex world of sex, shame, and spirituality with certified sex and relationship coach, Erica Lemke. With a background in community counseling, kinesiology, and dance instruction, Erica brings a unique, holistic approach to helping midlife women and couples reclaim their sensuality and confidence.

Here's what you can expect to learn from this powerful conversation:

• How Erica's own journey led her to become a sex coach and her experiences working with clients who've been impacted by purity culture

• The challenges of overcoming sexual shame related to religion and Erica's expert tips for navigating this complex issue

• The good, the bad, and the ugly of purity culture: can it ever be a positive force in someone's life?

• The transformative power of saying yes to your desires and how it can help you break free from shame

• How Erica's coaching practice can help you overcome shame and find your authentic, sexy self

Erica's mission is to empower clients to explore their desires, deepen intimacy, and experience sexuality as a healing, joyful, and transformative force. With her radically affirming and grounded presence, she's the perfect guide to help you come home to yourself - sensual, sovereign, and shamelessly alive.

So, if you're ready to break free from the shame and guilt holding you back, tune in to this episode and discover how you can start living your most authentic, sexy life. And as Erica says, "The power is in the yes"... but what does that really mean? Listen to find out, and be sure to check out her work at https://sexcoachslc.com, as well as her latest book

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