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#242 Kegels, Pu$$y Power, & Pleasure After Baby - with Brooke Cates Sep 21, 2021

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Why are kegels important? Is there such things as doing too many kegel exercises? And for folks who have or are going to have a baby - what should they be concerned about regarding their pelvic floor? What changes should they be aware of? How does sex change? How long do you really have to wait to have postpartum sex? And what options are out there for more pleasure before, during and after having a baby?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12.

About our guest: Brooke Cates is the Founder & CEO of The Bloom Method, a pre and postnatal fitness method, redefining exercise for the modern mom. Brooke created The Bloom Method with a desire to empower women through movement before, during and after their pregnancies. Recognizing gaps in both the mainstream and pregnancy fitness worlds, she created a fitness method that consists of diastasis recti rehabilitation and prevention exercises, labor training, functional exercise movements and innovative core techniques that are designed to keep women strong and thriving through pregnancy and motherhood. In 2018, Brooke launched the first ever Pre and Postnatal virtual fitness studio making the education, tools, and innovative fitness classes of The Bloom Method accessible to women everywhere. Brooke is a Certified Personal Trainer, Pre & Postnatal Corrective Exercise Specialist, Diastasis Recti & Core Rehabilitation Specialist and Pre & Postnatal Holistic Health Coach. To learn more visit thebloommethod.com

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#241 "It's Called A Vag!na" & Why It's Good to Be Bad - with Good Moms Bad Choices Sep 14, 2021

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Erica and Milah of Good Moms Bad Choices joins us to talk about everything from talking to their kids about sex and why it's important to say "vagina", how smoking weed makes them better people/parents, what it's like being a sex podcaster and navigating the dating world, and the importance of being bad.

"Whether you like threesomes on the weekend or smoking weed, you should be able to do whatever the fuck you want as long as it is not negatively affecting your child and your spirit”.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.

About our guests: If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored and outspoken sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like and breaking life's archaic stereotypes. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! In fact, this audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. From guests like social Activists, Shaun King, to Porn Star parents, every week Good Moms deliver personal perspectives and voices that inspire and empower. Erica and Milah's sometimes "bad choices" keep this weekly podcast as entertaining and unpredictable as life itself. To learn more visit goodmomsbadchoices.com or listen on your favorite podcast app

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#240 How to Stop Having Painful Sex & Sexual "Dysfunction" - with Urologist Dr. Nicole Eisenbrown Sep 07, 2021

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Why do a lot of vulva-owners experience painful sex? What can they do about it both holistically and via working with a medical professional? What about penis-owners who experience some form of "sexual dysfunction"? And how do the O-shot, P-shot, Femiwave and Gainswave work? Dr. Eisenbrown answers all this and more.

We also answer a sex question: Am I addicted to sex?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.

About our guest: Dr. Eisenbrown is a private practicing urologist who is board certified in both Urology and Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery (FPM-RS). Her practice is dedicated to restoring pelvic health in women. This includes all types of incontinence, but also includes reconstructive surgery for prolapse, female sexual dysfunction, stone disease, recurrent urinary tract infections, and all general urologic problems.

Dr. Eisenbrown graduated at the top of her class at the University of Florida in 1997. She completed her general surgery and urology residency training also at the University of Florida in 2002. She became one of the first urologists in the country to become dual board certified in both urology and female pelvic medicine and reconstructive surgery in 2014. Although she is fully trained and all aspects of urology, her practice from the beginning has focused on female pelvic health issues.

Dr. Eisenbrown is a #1 best selling author of several books. Her newest book “Sometimes I laugh So Hard the Tears Run Down My Legs” was written to help educate women about this very common problem. Her Earlier book “Why Does Sex Hurt” is written for women who suffer from painful intercourse. This, unfortunately, is also very common, but grossly undertreated so women suffer needlessly. Both are available in print or kindle on Amazon. To learn more visit https://www.dreisenbrown.com

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#239 FemDom and Fetishes - with Dominatrix Mistress Eva Aug 31, 2021

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What does it mean to be a Feminine Dominatrix - both as a lifestyle and/or as a profession? What is the difference between physical and psychological punishment, and why might someone be into this? How does it serve them? What can everyday folks learn from FemDoms in terms of boundaries and how to be more dominant in the bedroom? And how do fetishes fit into FemDom work? Mistress Eva answers all this and more.

We also answer a sex question: I'm a vulva owner and I can't orgasm from penetrative sex.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12.

About our guest: Eva Oh, aka Mistress Eva, is an International Dominatrix of Chinese-Burmese-English-Irish descent, and grew up across Asia, Australia and Europe. Her unique career began in 2012, when she left an unfulfilling corporate job to train at Sydney’s renowned Salon Kitty’s dungeons. She has since held select arrangements (and keys) from Berlin to Cape Town, London to Singapore, Dubai to New York – and back.

Mistress Eva holds a deep enthusiasm for slave training and total power exchange; currently based in Bali, Indonesia, she runs an online slave training playground, YouWillPleaseMe.com , and tours the world for select engagements only.

In addition to her work as a BDSM trainer, Mistress Eva also hosts the #teakink web series and SafeWord Podcast. She has also been featured high-profile media outlets such as VICE, Slutever, DAZED, Washington Post, Sinical Magazine and Kink Queens. To learn more, visit Eva-Oh.com

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#238 Nonmonogamy and How to "Open Smarter" - with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova Aug 24, 2021

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What does the research say around why people want or choose non monogamy? How does someone know which relationship style is right for them? And what are some tips for folks who want to "open smarter"?

We also read a testimonial from Dr. Shawn about how to navigate anal sex and hemorrhoids.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.

About our guest: Zhana Vrangalova, PhD, is a NYC-based sex and relationships consultant, speaker, and writer passionate about elevating society’s conversation about sex and relationships. She was born and raised in Macedonia, a small country in Southeast Europe, where traditional gender and sexual norms clashed with her own alternative sexual desires and interests, and inspired her to pursue a career of understanding and helping sexually adventurous individuals and couples live authentic, healthy, and ethical lives.

Dr. Zhana has a BA in psychology from the University of Saints Cyril and Methodius, and a PhD in Developmental Psychology from Cornell University where she studied how nontraditional sexual lifestyles (casual sex, nonmonogamy, and nonheterosexuality) affect psychological health and wellbeing. She currently teaches Human Sexuality courses at New York University, and hosts the global Uncensored conversation series. Her new online course, Open Smarter, helps people make smarter decisions about their relationship choices using their unique relationship personality. Join her weekly conversations on Instagram @DrZhana or visit DrZhana.com

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#237 Oral Sex 2.0: #MouthMasterClass - with Samia Aug 17, 2021

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Return guest Samia Burton joins us to talk all about how to up your blowjob game. She even covers topics such as how to strengthen the receiver's (penis-owner’s) orgasm, as well as how to prolong their erection.

We also answer a sex question: My wife likes anal sex but I'm not into it. How can I learn to like it?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13.

About our guest: Samia created Sexual Essentials to take an unconventional approach to sexual education by offering hands on sex workshops such as the infamous MouthMasterclass, DickRiding101 & the Sex Conditioning Workout. These workshops are centered around building confidence in a bold yet respectable way where anyone can feel comfortable because they are a tribe & a 100% judgement free zone. To learn more visit thesexualessentials.com

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#236 Ass-Tastic Anal Sex From a Bottom's Perspective Aug 10, 2021

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Last week Erik Everhard taught us all about how to have great anal sex from a penis-owner's/top's perspective, so this week we are coming in hot from a bottom's perspective (AKA the person being penetrated). Happy Anal August everyone!

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#235 How to Have Great Anal Sex From a Male Porn Star's Perspective - with Erik Everhard Aug 03, 2021

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Return guest, author, coach, porn star and adult film director, Erik Everhard, joins us to teach us all about anal sex from a top's (the one doing the penetrating) perspective. Happy Anal August everyone!

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17.

About our guest: Erik Everhard is one of world's top male porn stars, having starred in and directed over 3,000 films. Erik is a professional coach and one of the most decorated adult performers of the 21st century. He is a leading authority on sexual and mental techniques which can empower men and bring them success in the bedroom as well as in all other aspects of their lives. In addition to his wealth of practical knowledge, he holds a Masters level certification in Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP). To learn more visit erikeverhard.com

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Bonus Episode: Sex Work & A Day In the Life Of A Gay Male Escort - With Tim Lagman Jul 30, 2021

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Tim Lagman is a certified sex educator with the American College of Sexologists International and pleasure advocate based in Toronto, Canada. He began his sexual journey through escorting where he worked with a number of clients from different backgrounds and all walks of life ranging from couples, individuals, poly relationships, and everything in between.

Tim then went to study at Durham College where he received his diploma in Business Management specializing in the music industry and graduated with honors. In his free time, Tim likes to volunteer and give back to the community through outreach in Toronto’s LGBT scene providing sex education and harm reduction resources to the public. It is his mission in life to make sex fun and funny as he loves to make people laugh and believes in the curative powers of laughter. Sex is already a sensitive and touchy subject..."We might as well laugh at the fart noises!". To learn more visit sexedwithtim.com or follow Tim on social media:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gayslutclown https://www.instagram.com/sexedwithtim

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gayslutclown

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Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gayslutclown

#234 How to Be a Great Lover: For Singles and Couples - with Erwan and Alicia Davon Jul 27, 2021

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What makes a great lover? How can both couples and singles up their sexual mastery skills? Return guests and dream couple Erwan and Alicia answer all this and more.

We also answer a sex question about kegel balls/vaginal beads.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.

About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and sexuality and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others.

Erwan and Alicia have been together for almost 20 years and over 10K students have participated in their work since 1995. They have demonstrated their signature sensual technique, Extended Orgasm, for over an hour in front of 100 people. Their specialties are supporting singles in getting into turned on and intimate relationships and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of passion and intimacy. Erwan & Alicia offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. To learn more visit pleasurecourse.com or:

Book your free Love Life Consultation with Alicia- text her school at 415 308 9580 OR click this link to set it up https://erwandavon.com/consult/
Sign up for The Pleasure Course, their 2 day online course where they dive deep into the Davon Method & the 5 key skills for a successful relationship: https://erwandavon.com/events/

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