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#224 Masturbation 101: How to Have GREAT Sex With Yourself - with August McLaughlin May 18, 2021

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Why is masturbation important? How can it change your life for the better? And what are some of the ways people can bring more self-pleasure into their lives? August shares her own personal journey as well as plenty of tips and applicable life hacks for ways you can have great sex with yourself.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17.

About our guest: August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which offers a spicy blend of personal stories, in-depth reporting and inspiration. Reviewers have called the show “Sex in the City meets NPR” and the “Fresh Air of Sex” and the show frequents Apple Podcasts’ top 100 sexuality chart.

August’s work as an advocate for sexual empowerment and gender parity led her to the TEDx stage and to attend the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated change maker. Her articles have appeared in a range of notable publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post and DAME Magazine. August is also a trauma-informed certified sex educator with a passion for myth-busting and normalizing stigmatized topics.

Publishers Weekly called her book, Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2018) “equally fun, risqué, and informative” and “a welcome addition to sexual health literature.” The New York Times called it “terrifically encouraging” and “a thorough primer on everything from sex toys to bondage to ‘no means no.” Her workbook, Girl Boner Journal: A Guided Journal to Sexual Joy and Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2019), is full of true stories and writing prompts for deepening sexual self-discovery.

August’s forthcoming book, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships, cowritten by sex therapist, Jamila Dawson, LMFT, will be released by Chicago Review Press in the fall of 2021. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills to lift others’ voices, debunk damaging myths, and encourage folks to embrace their bodies, sexuality and selves, making way for richer, more authentic lives. To learn more visit girlboner.org

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#223 D!ck-Riding 101 - with Samia May 11, 2021

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Learn how to give pleasure to your partner WHILE bringing yourself to orgasm with you on top! This episode is packed full of tips, tricks, position techniques, and a lot of laughter.

About our guest: Samia created Sexual Essentials to take an unconventional approach to sexual education, by offering hands on sex workshops such as the infamous #MouthMasterclass #DickRiding101 & the Sex Conditioning Workout. These workshops are centered around building confidence in a bold yet respectable way where anyone can feel comfortable because they are a tribe & a 100% judgement free zone. To learn more visit thesexualessentials.com. Use code MasturbationMay now through 5/31/21 for a discount

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#222 Crossdressers, Bi-Curious Men & Their Admirers - with Ms. Ava Durga and Sissy Becca May 04, 2021

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What is crossdressing and why does it feel so good (and arousing) for penis owners who embrace the feminine part of themselves? How does crossdressing show up in sexuality? And how is this related (or not related) to sexual orientation or gender identity?

We also answer a sex question: Menopause is ruining my marriage.

About our guests: Sissy Becca has been an alpha male all of his life, but discovered his feminine side 15 years ago. Over the past 15 years he has alternating with struggling with his desire and being proud of his femininity. Over the last 2 years he found the perfect woman who helped him understand that being a CD is just a part of his psyche and that he should be perfectly content with living a double life. He now is happy as an alpha male most of the time, but also proud of being the sissy crossdresser the rest of the time.

Ms. Ava Durga discovered the fun of feminizing males in 2001, and has helped crossdressers, sissies, and bi-curious males achieve their potential at The Sissy Parlor in South Florida since 2017. She’s been a guiding force in helping them accept that their feminine side, often including the desire for receptive sexuality, is a key part of their psyche that they should embrace. To learn more visit https://circleofq.com/

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#221 Safe & Slutty Sexual Adventures - with Billy Procida of the Manwhore Podcast Apr 27, 2021

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Billy joins us to share his shameless slutty YET SAFE sexual adventures including installing a glory-hole in his apartment, masked outdoor blowjobs, getting jerked off by a FemDom and then cumming on her male sub's face, and more.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 10.

About our guest: Billy Procida is a professional stand-up comedian, podcaster, and accidental gang-bang organizer. For over a decade, he's entertained audiences all over the country and can be seen at comedy clubs around New York City. His show The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love was named a Top Sex Podcast by Esquire and Uproxx three years in a row, and his sex & dating advice has been featured in outlets like Cosmo, YourTango, Men's Health, and more. Oh, and his father is finally proud of him. To learn more visit ManwhorePod.com/itunes

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#220 Kidney Orgasms, Liver Orgasms, and Sex As Medicine - with Dr. Willow Brown Apr 20, 2021

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NOTE: Dr. Willow Brown's retreat has been moved to June 12th, 2021.

Did you know that you can have a kidney orgasm, a liver orgasm, and utilize sex as medicine to change, heal and empower you? Friend and repeat guest Dr. Willow Brown joins us to to talk about all of this, as well as sex for longevity, vitality, & spiritual/emotional harmony, the four phases of moon cycle and five Chinese elements in relation to sexuality, and how to unlock and embody your inner Queen.

We also answer a sex question about vulva shaming.

About our guest: Willow Brown holds a doctorate in Chinese Medicine, blending ancient taoist philosophy with sexual and spiritual practices that ignite the souls true calling. She is devoted to the sexual healing of humanity and works to promote and open receptive pleasure pathways in each person she works with. Willow works with her clients and patients on every level. Physical, spiritual, emotional, sexual and psychological. You will not find a more holistic approach to a long happy and healthy life. To learn more visit drwillowbrown.com.

For her Dreaming the Queen Awake retreat on June 12th, 2021 visit https://drwillowbrown.com/dreaming-the-queen-awake/

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#219 How to Have More Sex and Better Intimacy - with Sex Therapist Ian Kerner, PhD Apr 13, 2021

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Ian Kerner, PhD, joins us to talk about why he asks all of his clients the question, So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex (also the title of his new book), and how this question helps uncover couple's repetitive sex scripts. He also shares tips on how to re-write old sex scripts for more sex and better intimacy, as well as ways to "turn off" to really turn on.

We also answer a sex question: My wife has never had an orgasm. How can I help her achieve one + open up more sexually?

Ian Kerner is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy, and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. He is also the New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First and many more, including his latest book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex, helping couples achieve more intimacy and better sex. He is a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists; certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (where he also sits on the board); the Society for Sex Therapy and Research; and the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy. To learn more visit iankerner.com

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#218 How to Find Peace In Betrayal, Breakups and Divorce - with Tammy Letherer Apr 06, 2021

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How can what feels like the ultimate betrayal turn into the ultimate blessing? How can folks navigate the feeling of their lives/world falling apart - especially when it comes to breakups and divorce? And what if you have kids? Tammy Letherer, author of The Buddha at My Table, answers all this and more.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 25.

About our guest: Tammy Letherer is an author, writing coach, and blogger. She holds a degree in Journalism from Indiana University and has enjoyed a long and varied professional writing career. In addition to The Buddha at My Table, Letherer is also the author of the novel, Hello Loved Ones and the children’s book, My Health is in My Hands. She lives in Chicago with her three children.

Read her blogs on Huffington Post or learn more about her work at TammyLetherer.com. Also visit her on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn.

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#217 How To Have Extended Orgasms - with Erwan and Alicia Davon Mar 30, 2021

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What is Extended Orgasm? How does it lead to a hot passionate relationship and/or help couples get the chemistry back into their love lives? And what about for single folks? How can they practice/have Extended Orgasms?

We also answer a sex question: I'm having a a hard time making my partner orgasm.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14.

About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and sexuality and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others.

Erwan and Alicia have been together for almost 20 years and over 10K students have participated in their work since 1995. They have demonstrated their signature sensual technique, Extended Orgasm, for over an hour in front of 100 people. Their specialties are supporting singles in getting into turned on and intimate relationships and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of passion and intimacy. Erwan & Alicia offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world.

To learn more text Alicia at 415-308-9580 (please text + note this is a business number)

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#216 Tips From A Dating Expert & How to Find Your Future Partner - with Damona Hoffman Mar 19, 2021

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Dating and relationship expert Damona Hoffman shares her top tips for successful dating - both online and in person, as well as advice for folks looking for long term partners. She also touches on the question: “Is it dating preference or racial bias?”.

For this week's sex question, we answer: How do I navigate losing attraction for my partner after excessive he's gained a lot of weight?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.

About our guest: Damona Hoffman is a certified dating coach, radio host, and TV personality. Damona starred in the TV series #BlackLove and A Question of Love on FYI TV (A & E Networks), she hosts the Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman Radio Show & Podcast, plus she is the Love Expert for BET.com. Damona has made hundreds of media appearances on NBC, Fox, Animal Planet, SiriusXM, People Magazine and more. To learn more visit damonahoffman.com/

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#215 Sex, Relationships, and Healing After Sexual Trauma - with Darshana Avila Mar 16, 2021

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What happens to the mind/body/spirit when someone experiences sexual trauma? How does sexual trauma show up in sex, intimacy and relationships? And what are some ways folks can begin to heal from their sexual trauma? Darshana Avila answers all this and more.

We also answer a sex question about shame while exploring "dirty talk" after having an affair.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 30.

About our guest: Darshana Avila helps women (and sometimes their partners too) who are ready for radical intimacy to lay down their armor and claim their wholeness in life and love, tapping into the power of the erotic within themselves. She believes that none of us is actually broken and in need of fixing, but instead we have fragmented parts that need to be reclaimed and integrated into our being. Her unique approach facilitates this journey and supports her clients and students in having a sense of deep intimacy within themselves, more access to the power of the erotic in their lives and greater authenticity and enjoyment in their relationships.

As an Erotic Wholeness Coach she weaves together a somatic and relational style of guidance that is rooted in nature-based and trauma-informed wisdom. Knowing that we all long to belong, to feel ourselves truly at home in our bodies and lives and to experience more ease in our being, her work is dedicated to exactly that. Using the laboratory of her own life and relationships as a foundation, she has mixed together a very singular brew of modalities, influences and wisdom bodies - not to worry, she's a good witch! - that is spiced with her grounded, candid and loving approach to meeting people in some of the most tender parts of themselves.

Wondering about her credentials? She is a Certified Sexological Bodywork (Somatic Sex Educator), a Somatica (TM) Relationship & Intimacy Coach, a NeuroAffective Touch Practitioner and is in training as a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner. She's also a Certified Professional Coach, has a certificate in EcoTherapy and is in the process of certification as a Wild Mind Practitioner through Animas Valley Institute. She received her B.S. from the University of Florida in 2004. To learn more visit darshanaavila.com and find her on Instagram at @eroticwholeness

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