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Bonus Episode: Why Doing Men's Work Is Sexy - with Edward Willey Jan 21, 2022

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Edward is passionate about teaching powerful practices to help embody true leadership with clarity, presence, and authenticity from the bedroom to the boardroom. He holds a 2nd degree black belt in Aikido and is a senior instructor of Sheng Zhen Meditation. With this unique combination of martial arts, movement, and meditation he has helped thousands of people relax their bodies, quiet their minds, and embody the wisdom of an open heart full of love. He is the founder of Knot Love, an open-hearted approach to erotic rope play. He also providers leadership coaching through Willey Leadership. His 8-week men’s self-leadership program Awaken the Leader Within begins Feb 22nd. Also, register for his free online workshop Essential Self-Leadership Skills For Better Sex on Feb 10th at 5pm PST here: https://mailchi.mp/3cb6ebe9eecc/self-leadership-for-better-sex

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#259 Triads, Non-Monogamy & Modern Day Relationships - with Multiamory Podcast Jan 19, 2022

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This episode is packed with all kinds of goodies on how to navigate modern day relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, or wanting to add a third, the hosts of the Multiamory Podcast offer tools and tips on how to deepen connection, sharpen communication skills, and do relationships in a way that works for you as a unique sexual being.

About our guests: Jase, Dedeker, and Emily, created the Multiamory Podcast in 2014 because they were tired of the same old toxic dating advice. They offer new ideas and advice for multiple forms of love: everything from conscious monogamy to ethical polyamory and radical relationship anarchy. They combine the knowledge from their years of personal experience with the best information available and present it in a way that’s entertaining, thought-provoking, and easy to apply to your relationships to. They have been featured in Cosmopolitan, Self Magazine, Vice, as well as offering talks at large-scale companies such as Google. Learn all about Multiamory at multiamory.com.

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#256 Sex Parties Aren't Just About Sex - with William & Misha of the Bonobo Network Dec 28, 2021

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In this episode we interview the creators of Bonobo Network - a sex-positive community that hosts sex parties, as well as educational workshops, retreats, potlucks, happy hours, discussion groups, online mixers, interviews, and so much more. We talk all about the ins and outs of sex parties, the importance of safety and consent, and how connection and community serve to create more aliveness in our everyday lives.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16.

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About our guests: William is the founder and co-organizer of Bonobo Network. In 2014, the San Francisco Chronicle named William Winters the "de facto king of the East Bay polyamory scene." He's been working to earn the title ever since.

William’s perspectives on non-monogamy, often through the lens of his own relationships, have appeared in San Francisco Magazine, KQED's Forum, the San Francisco Chronicle, and the New York Times. He has facilitated conversations about polyamory and sexuality in settings including university campuses, political conferences, living rooms, festivals, Burning Man, and beyond. He lives with his wife and their stupid cat in Oakland, CA.

Misha Bonaventura co-produces Bonobo Network with William. Alongside William, she is passionate about supporting sex positive community and helping people create more pleasure for themselves. She teaches and consults individuals and communities to develop their consent culture with a harm reduction and transformative justice lens. Her private practice, Clearing Conversations, focuses on conflict resolution and communication coaching and she loves supporting the sex positive community of the Bay Area and beyond in creating sustainable, long-term relationship building.

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#255 Have More Intimacy & Great Sex With the 80/80 Relationship - with Nate Klemp, PhD Dec 21, 2021

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What’s the problem with striving for 50/50 fairness in modern day marriages and relationships? How does an 80/80 approach lead to more connection and far less conflict? What does “the way you do life is the way you do sex" mean, and what 80/80 tools can couples apply to their relationships to inspire more intimacy and great sex? Nate Klemp, PhD answers all this and more.

We also answer a sex question about how to talk to a partner about keeping it casual.

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Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 22.

About our guest: Nate Klemp is a writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur. Along with his wife Kaley, he is the author of the newly released The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage (Penguin Random House). He is also the coauthor, with Eric Langshur, of the New York Times Bestseller Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing and is a regular contributor for Inc. Magazine, Fast Company, and Mindful. He is also a founding partner at Mindful, one of the world's largest mindfulness media and training companies. Nate holds a B.A. and M.A. in philosophy from Stanford University and a PhD from Princeton University. To learn more visit 8080marriage.com

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#254 How to Have Mind-Blowing Sex - with Layla Martin Dec 14, 2021

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What is “mind-blowing sex”? What gets in the way of having it? How can folks begin to move from "okay" or "good" sex to MIND BLOWING life-altering sex - not just from time to time but as a regular part our lives? The incredible Layla Martin shares all this and so much more.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.

About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 18+ years along with her sexuality studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Her programs have taught over 12,500 women, men, and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation, and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. She is a thought leader who combines mystical practices with the most up-to-date scientific approaches to transformation to enable radical liberation, rapid change, and outrageous pleasure. Her highly effective programs, tools, and practices empower you to experience exquisite sex, shameless self-love, and incredible depths of intimacy. She’s the founder of the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach (VITA™) and the creator of the VITA™️ Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification, the VITA™ Sacred Sexuality Initiation, and other programs. She’s shared her work with over 135 million people through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. If you want to experience epic sex, legendary love, and your most magnificent self, visit Layla’s website and follow her on Facebook and Instagram.

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Bonus: How to Spice Things Up With Sex Toys & Sexy Gifts That Won't Break the Bank Dec 10, 2021

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The holiday's are here and it's cold outside (at least where we live), so why not keep it hot by adding more pleasure into the mix? In this episode we share a number of sexy gift ideas that will inspire more eroticism and connection in your life including some that won't cost you a dime. We also share our top sex toy gift ideas for this holiday season.

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#253 Keeping It Hot With Fantasies and Role Play - with Dr. Alison Ash Dec 07, 2021

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Return guest Dr. Alison Ash joins is to talk all about fantasies: What kind of things do people most commonly fantasize about? What if we fantasize about someone other than our partner? Are fantasies and actual role play (acting them out) the same thing? Also, how can we up our fantasy game whether alone or with a partner?

We also answer a sex question about jealousy over a partner's past sexual partners.

Want to skip for the interview? Fast forward to minute 14.

About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients experience the kinds of sexual interactions and romantic relationships they long for.

As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi method of psychotherapy as well as Somatica model of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves.

Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love

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