Sex With Emily

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Love, Lust & Lexapro Nov 18, 2022

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Mental health and sexual desire - do you really have to choose between one or the other? While antidepressants like Lexapro can be lifesaving — all too often, they can deflate our sex drive. But conversely - it’s hard to get aroused if your depression goes untreated. Is there any way out of this predicament? On today’s show, I’ll discuss how to overcome this struggle that is more common than you think - as you’ll hear from some of our listeners. From alternative treatments to hacks around timing and dosage, I’ll help you keep pleasure in your life without compromising your mental health.

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Someone Cheated. Now What? Nov 15, 2022

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Infidelity - it’s one of the most painful emotional experiences out there. But once the pain heals, it can also create enormous opportunities for growth and self-reflection.

In this episode, I’ll unpack infidelity and all the ways it can play out. It doesn’t always mean the end of a relationship. Sometimes, monogamy just isn’t the right fit. Other times, it means a couple needs to work on deepening intimacy and trust with one other. Whether you’ve been cheated on or you’re the cheater, I’ve got advice to help you work through it to create the love life you want.

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Article: Ask Emily: My Wife Cheated
VUSH (code ‘EMILYBFCM’ for 60% off Empress 2 OR Big O Bundle)
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Hotline Calls: How to Squirt & Find a Third Nov 11, 2022

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We all strive to be lifelong learners - as the world and people around us change, we need to adapt and evolve to keep up. And nowhere else is this more true than our sex lives. Our sexual intelligence can only reach its full potential if we’re open to nurturing its growth. That’s the mission of today’s call-in show. I answer your questions all about picking up new sex skills. From a fun-loving couple who wants to incorporate others into their play but can’t find the right candidates, to a twenty-something who wants to learn how to squirt on her own - these brave callers’ questions offer something for everyone to learn from.

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Article: The Different Kinds of Unconventional Couples
Article: The Guide to a Successful Friends with Benefits Relationship
Article: Ask Emily: How Do We Prepare for a Threesome?
7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Playground
Je Joue (use code ‘Emily30’ for 30% off)
#Open

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Oral Sex Secrets Nov 08, 2022

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Got hangups around oral sex? You’re not alone. While oral sex can provide abundant intimacy and pleasure, lots of us struggle with giving – and sometimes, receiving – it.

Today, we’re getting out of our heads and communicating with our partners: two essential steps for mind-blowing oral sex. Love giving oral, but it’s not being reciprocated? Concerned about hygiene issues – either your own, or your partner’s? What if your partner takes a while to orgasm during oral, but your jaw gets tired along the way? From hangups to hygiene - I answer your questions so you can amp up your oral and enhance your pleasure.

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VUSH Destination: Play (code ‘SEXWITHEMILY’ for 40% off)
Article: Ask Emily: Oral Sex for Beginners
Article: How to Give a Better Blowjob
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex?
Article: Ask Emily: I Hate Giving My Partner Oral Sex

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Sex Toys for Penis Owners Nov 04, 2022

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Life is short, so why not add sex toys to your pleasure routine? Vulva owners seem to understand this, but today I’m talking toys for penises. Whether you have one or you want to please one, sex toys offer tons of benefits. Plus, toys are not just for solo play - they can enhance connection (and pleasure) with your partner.

But it can be difficult to know what to look for, how to use them, and why you may need them at all. And that’s why on today’s episode, I’m myth-busting misconceptions and sharing my top products and tips for penile pleasure. From lasting harder and longer, to discovering those pleasure points a hand alone simply can’t reach - if there’s a penis in your life, I’ve got the toy for it.

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Je Joue Mio Vibrating Cock Ring
Magic Wand
Playground (SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)
Aneros Helix Trident
Promescent Delay Spray
Article: How Do I Buy My Boyfriend a Sex Toy?
Hot Octopuss Pulse III Solo / Duo
Fleshlight
Tenga
LELO HUGO (EMILY for 25% off all products)
Fun Factory NOS
We-Vibe Verge

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Ask Emily: Oral, Orgasms & Anal Nov 01, 2022

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First comes love, then comes anal. Isn’t that how the song goes? On today’s best of show, we’re talking your sexual firsts: your first dating app, oral sex experience, anal play, and so much more. I help you face your fears so you can radically expand your pleasure potential.

Up first: she’s 32 weeks pregnant and wants to keep her partner satisfied – but she’s never given him oral. Where to begin? He wants his wife to experience sex with another woman, so they can have their first threesome. But is she truly into the idea or just going along with it to please him? And last but not least - she’s got a play partner who wants to try anal, but has her reservations regarding pain and hygeine. How do you avoid a messy situation? We will unravel all this and more.

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Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed Oct 28, 2022

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Sexual fantasies are not only normal, they’re a key component of your sexual health. But why are we attracted to certain fantasies? And is it normal to have certain fantasies, or no fantasies at all?

On this episode, I reveal your top sex fantasies and why you have them. I also divulge your fantasy success stories and questions, from CNC to cuckolding. I give you tips for expanding your erotic imagination.

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How to Have Game: The Dating Show Oct 25, 2022

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So what’s the hardest part about dating? Meeting people? Making conversation? Figuring out if there’s enough chemistry? How do you have dates that leave you happy, aligned and energized, rather than defeated and hopeless?

On today’s best-of show, I’m here for your dating dilemmas. He’s new to dating, and nervous to talk to women – I give some talking points. She wants to have sex, but also wants it to be more than casual – I help refine her approach. He’s super honest about being polyamorous, but they think he needs to grow up – I coach him on how to find the right partners, while still being open. Because when it comes to dating, your people are out there – you just have to learn how to look.

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Sex + Creativity w/ Liz Goldwyn Oct 21, 2022

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We’re all looking for better ways to have sex. But what if I told you the thing holding you back is your own beliefs around sex and sexuality? My guest today knows a thing or two about how to realize our own sexual well-being.

Author, filmmaker, and founder of The Sex Ed, Liz is a sexual wellness connoisseur. In her new book Sex, Health & Consciousness, Liz explains how to build a sexual consciousness for a radically happier, healthier life. She’ll help me answer your questions on masturbation, shame, BDSM, and how to rewire the way we think about pleasure.

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7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Pre-Order Liz’s Book: Sex, Health, and Consciousness
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I Love My Partner, But My Coworker Is Hot Oct 18, 2022

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Got relationship drama? Don’t we all. On today’s Best of show, I’m helping you navigate choppy relationship waters, to get to the other side safely.

First up: he just divorced, and jumped right into an ultra-serious relationship. Too soon? Next: when you’ve got a massive crush on your coworker, should you divorce your spouse and pursue your colleague instead? And if you’re not so into your partner’s bedroom style, can you teach them to be more dominant? All this and more on a particularly juicy Best Of show.

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