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I High-Key Fantasize About… Jan 27, 2023

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Ever stumbled across a surprise fantasy? Something you didn’t realize turned you on…but here you are. It’s super hot, and now, you can’t stop thinking about it. Our sexual fantasies are here to help us understand ourselves better, so on today’s show I take your calls on sexual fantasies, what they mean, and how to turn them into a reality. First, she masturbates in the bathroom when she knows her neighbors are home, within earshot. He loves nipple play on his body and watching his wife do it to herself. They’re dabbling in prostate play, so I provide step-by-step instructions for finger stimulation. She’s afraid of rejection, but also fantasizes about it: how can she indulge this fantasy in a healthy way? All this and more on this revealing episode.

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Gifts For Every Turn On: Valentine’s Day Guide 2023
VUSH Destination: Play (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Destination: Play)
Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
EMDRIA

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Mental Health = Sexual Wealth Jan 24, 2023

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We all have personal demons. Whether it’s anxiety in your relationship, dissatisfaction in your sex life, or something hurtful from the past that’s infecting your present. But how do we heal so that our sex drive can thrive? That’s what today’s episode is all about. I talk to callers about their sexual mental blocks, and how to move past them for a more empowered future. When outside circumstances create stress for your family, how can you still prioritize intimacy? When one partner is inhibited in bed, how can they learn to relax, and find their authentic sexual voice? And when you’ve been through the death of a loved one, how can you make room for a new relationship while honoring their memory? All this and more on today’s show.

Show Notes:

Gifts For Every Turn On: Valentine’s Day Guide 2023
OdelaHealth.com/SexWithEmily to save $50
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Make Scheduling Sex Sexy?
Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
Podcast: Therapy: The Relationship Game-Changer
EMDRIA
More Dr. Amen: Instagram | TikTok | Twitter | Website
Your Brain Is Always Listening by Dr. Amen

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Penis Problems? Not Anymore Jan 20, 2023

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Real talk: penis problems are more common than you think. But don’t let shame stop you from healing - both inside and out. Today, we’re normalizing the experience of penis challenges, and providing tools to help mend your member. She wants to end a relationship because he can’t keep it up - are there other issues at play beyond sexual incompatibility? Can erection issues from a sex-related injury be reversed? I offer some science-backed treatments to check out. Another penis-owner can only orgasm through solo sex, are trust issues to blame? We talk through some exercises to help get to orgasming with a partner. I’ll cover all this and more in this episode.

Show Notes:

When It’s Time to Unplug, Plug In a Magic Wand
LELO Tor 2 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Boston Scientific treatment options for ED
PRP Injections (John Hopkins Medical)
Podcast: Best Of: Power to the Penis w/ Dr. Edward Karpman
SKYN Condoms
One Condoms “Find My Fit”
Pjur Woman Aqua Lubricant

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Porn, Orgasms & A Kink On the Rise Jan 17, 2023

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Consuming your own ejaculate: a kink on the rise. Whether it comes from porn or curiosity, a ton of you have asked me about it in the last few years. But that’s not the only trending sex topic: from porn to mental health, these are some of the most frequently asked questions we get at Sex With Emily. First, is porn healthy or harmful? It’s all about your relationship to it. Next, anxiety and low self-worth can make it more difficult to get turned on with a partner. I offer strategies to one listener for restoring their self-love practice. Finally, eating your own semen: yay or nay? I explain why this is not only a totally normal question – but a totally acceptable practice.

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Unlock Your Hidden Orgasms Jan 13, 2023

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Just how many pathways are there to your best orgasm? It’s more than you realize. Today’s episode is all about creative ways to climax, so you can unlock even more pleasure the next time you have sex. First: are breastgasms a thing? I explain to one caller how they work, and give her ideas for stimulating them and her other erogenous zones. Next, a couple calls in with a common problem: he finishes during penetrative sex, she doesn’t. I give them some orgasm gap hacks to solve it. Finally, why is it often easier to have a G-Spot orgasm with a toy, but not during sex? I give you tips for getting there with a partner and more tips to maximize your pleasure.

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How Sexually Compatible Are You? Jan 10, 2023

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Ever feel like your relationship is on cruise control? Do you continue to have the same conflicts, stale sex routine, or toxic dynamics and want to break the cycle and be with someone who’s actually a great fit? I’ll help you break out of all that. Today’s episode is designed to help you build better sex, dating and relationship habits. From incorporating kink and exploration into a relationship with someone who’s more reserved, to tips to work through jealousy in a relationship - we can all learn so much from this episode. I’ll also go over some exercises to build intimacy and share your top “green flags” when it comes to dating. All this and more on today’s show.

Show Notes:

Sexual Wellness Trends to Try in 2023
VUSH Empress 2 (code SWE50 for 50% off)
Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides
Article: How to Have More Sensual Sex
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Tell a New Partner About My Fantasies?
Article: What to Do When Your Partner Says ‘No’ to Trying New Things

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More Orgasms & Spicier Sex in 2023 Jan 06, 2023

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Your sexual needs are key to your sexual satisfaction and overall wellness. And when you’ve got a need that just can’t be met, I’m here for you. On today’s show, I give one caller who's never had an orgasm surefire masturbation tips to help her get there. Next, she’s 23 and loves her boyfriend, but he wants to move in together and she’s… not so sure. Psychologist and dear friend Dr. Jen Freed and I coach her on next steps. Another caller asked her partner to be more dominant in bed, and now he thinks they’re sexually incompatible. Finally, she needs more sexual experience – should she snag a friends with benefits? All this and more as we unpack your sexual needs and give you specific, sexy steps to achieve them.

Show Notes:

Sexual Wellness Trends to Try in 2023
Odela Health (use this link for $50 off your 1st prescription)
7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Pleasure Planner, Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides

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Find Your Sexual Voice w/ Lake Bell Jan 03, 2023

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When it comes to your sexual style, have you ever thought about your voice? Do you moan? Slow things down? Pitch up or down an octave? Actor, writer and director Lake Bell is obsessed with the human voice. On today’s show, we’ll discuss her new audiobook Inside Voice, which explores this obsession, including the “sexy baby voice” phenomenon - which happens to be her least favorite choice for bedroom talk. We also discuss your takes on dating in your 40s, and why things often get better with age when it comes to the pursuit of romance. All this and more with my amazing guest, Lake Bell.

Show Notes:

Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Get Better at Dirty Talk?
Lake Bell’s New Audiobook, Inside Voice: My Obsession with How We Sound: Audible | Pushkin
More Lake Bell: Instagram | Twitter

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The Hottest Episodes of 2022 Dec 30, 2022

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As the year comes to an end, what are the biggest revelations you’ve had when it comes to pleasure? What is something new you’ve learned that has redefined your sex life - now and in the new year? To answer this, I turned to you - the Sex With Emily community - for a roundup of the best of the best. From oral secrets to solo sex, your sex language and your sex fantasies, these are some of my favorite moments from the episodes you listened to the most this year. Consider this your end of year send off, from Emily with love.

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Article: How to Write Your New Year’s Sex Resolutions
Magic Wand
Breathe App
Podcast: Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed
Podcast: Your Sex Language w/ Dr. Jen Freed
Podcast: How to Relationship Better w/ John Kim a & Vanessa Bennett
Podcast: Best Blow Job Ever
Podcast: Orgasms with a Capital O
Podcast: Sex & Loving Your Body w/ Shaun T
Podcast: Therapy: The Relationship Game Changer
Podcast: Sex + Creativity w/ Liz Goldwyn

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Hotline Calls: The Do’s and Don'ts of Non-Monogamy Dec 27, 2022

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Are you considering opening up your relationship? When and how did you decide to do so? And did moving away from monogamy change your perspective on sex and pleasure? Today, I’m taking your calls all about being in open relationships. First up: a group sex success story after a married couple learned to communicate their fantasies – always love hearing those. Next, they have a great sex life, but after a threesome gone wrong, she’s worried he’ll leave. How can she alleviate her anxiety and share her fears? Finally, we define compersion and discuss what to do when your partner wants a threesome… but you don’t. We get into all this and more on today’s hotline show.

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