Sex With Emily

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Better Dates, Better Sex Dec 23, 2022

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Variety is the spice of life – as well as vital to your sex life. But how many times have you turned to your partner on Friday night and said: “how about dinner? Usual spot?” Planning a creative date requires thinking outside of the box. That’s why I’ve done the legwork for you of helping you create playful dates that are as unique as they are arousing. From role playing sexy strangers to planning out a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market, these date ideas will give you a break from the norm - while also building sexual tension and enhancing intimacy.

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Article: How to Train Your Penis
VUSH (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Next Gen Vibes)
Article: These Are The 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?
Podcast: What’s Your Arousal Type?
The 36 Questions That Lead to Love
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Podcast: Sex & Loving Your Body w/ Shaun T
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What Makes Oral Sex Hot w/ Alex Cooper Dec 20, 2022

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Alex Cooper, host and creator of “Call Her Daddy” knows a thing or two about the pursuit of a more fulfilling sex life. From transcendental oral to disastrous anal, she walks us through the good, the bad, and the funny when it comes to trying new sexual experiences. Alex also shares her mindful masturbation routine and what her partner does to make oral incredible (hint: vulva worship). All this and more in today’s fan favorite best of episode.

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Emily on Call Her Daddy: How to Have an Orgasm | 104- The Roadmap to his A**hole | 96- The Orgasm Gap & Forced Sex Fantasies
Article: 9 Ways to Elevate Your Solo Sex
Article: Ask Emily: Oral Sex for Beginners
More Alex Cooper: Instagram | Twitter
Call Her Daddy: Website | Instagram | Twitter | TikTok

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Mismatched Sex Drives: Here’s the Fix Dec 16, 2022

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Mismatched sex drives: it’s one of the most common issues longterm relationships face. Frequently one partner has an insatiable appetite for sex, while the other treats sex more like a chore. But just because your libidos aren’t synced up now doesn’t mean they’ll be that way forever. On today’s Hotline show, I answer questions all about you and your partner’s differing sex drives and how to communicate your way to better alignment. From a caller who misses the drama and excitement their sex life once had, to another whose partner’s medication has caused his desire to be depleted - I’ll break down step by step how to broach this sensitive subject. Because if left unaddressed, issues around sex can be fatal to a relationship - and working through it will only make you and your partner stronger.

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Article: Best Sexy Stocking Stuffers 2022
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Article: These Are the 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?
Podcast: Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed

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Like Your Body, Love Your Sex Life Dec 13, 2022

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We’ve all heard of “body positivity” - the idea that we should celebrate the skin we’re in, rather than emphasize how we think others see us. But in practice, how really is your relationship with your body? Today’s show is all about giving our bodies the respect they deserve. I’m first joined by Bethany C Meyers, whose fitness company the be.come project aims to change our motivation behind working out. Bethany also shares why sex takes on a new, rich depth when we learn to connect with our movement on a daily basis. Afterwards, I’ll answer questions from listeners struggling to accept their own bodies. Because if we can’t learn to love our own bodies, how can we share them intimately with someone else?

Show Notes:

Article: 4 Sex Toys So Pretty, They Double As Art
Article: Ask Emily: How Can I Be More Confident in the Bedroom?
Promescent
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The Become Project: Website | Instagram

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Your 2023 Sex Goals (& the Toys to Get There) Dec 09, 2022

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As we wind down the year, what are your pleasure goals? Do you want to explore your body? Incorporate a new pleasure ritual? Try out a new toy? Today on the show, I pull back the curtain on Sex With Emily and invite my team to share their pleasure goals and the toys to get there. From vibrators to arousal gels, they give their honest reviews on what to stuff your stockings with this holiday season. I’ll also break down the science behind them that makes them so effective. If you’re looking to create your own pleasure goals for the new year, these products are a great place to start.

Show Notes:

Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
Article: 4 Sex Toys So Pretty they Double as Art
Book: Court of Thorns
Guide: The Pleasure Planner
7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Good Vibrations
Je Joue (Emily30 for 30% off all products)
OhMiBod bluMotion NEX1 Wearable Panty Vibrator
Lelo Sona 2 Cruise
B-Vibe Triplet
Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager
Playground Lube (SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)
Promescent Female Arousal Gel
Fleur Du Mal Sex With Emily Bundle (FLEURWITHEMILY for 10% off all orders)

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Masculinity, Masturbation & Marriage w/ Larry Hagner Dec 06, 2022

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It’s the question married men often ask themselves: why is my marriage just OK? How do I get the spark back? And when did our sex life become so mediocre? Life coach and fellow podcaster Larry Hagner has not only worked through these issues himself, but has devoted his life to helping other men become better husbands and fathers. His project the Dad Edge was inspired by both his struggles in parenting and a lack of having a father during his own childhood. On today’s best-of show, Larry breaks down his four pillars of a good marriage (which absolutely includes sex), as well as how to talk to sons about sex, porn and masturbation.

Show Notes:

Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
Vush Destination: Play (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Destination: Play)
More Larry Hagner: The Dad Edge | Instagram

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Dating Smarter w/ Dr. Helen Fisher & Dr. Justin Garcia Dec 02, 2022

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Dating - for most of us, it's a necessary evil. We fear rejection, don’t know where to look for our people, or simply feel it's a hopeless waste of time. But as my guests on today’s show can attest, the research behind dating may tell a different story. Today, I’m joined by Anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher and evolutionary biologist Dr. Justin Garcia of the Kinsey Institute. They pulled data from 5,000 American singles ages 18-89 as part of Match’s annual Singles in America survey, and the results are fascinating. People dating more consciously - hookup culture is dead, and singles are prioritizing things like political awareness rather than looks. We’ll unpack their findings and why today’s singles should be more optimistic than ever about finding their match.

Show Notes:

Sexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
Article: Cold Weather Date Ideas
7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Singles in America Study
More Dr. Helen Fisher: Website
More Dr. Justin Garcia: Kinsey Institute Bio | Instagram | Twitter

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The Sex Lives of College Students Nov 29, 2022

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What do you wish you knew about pleasure when you were in college? Maybe it's how to please yourself? Or the signs of sexual incompatibility? Or maybe you just need permission to break up? I answer your questions all about sex in college. From making casual hookups more stimulating, to embracing queerness in heteronormative spaces, to simply finding your people - I give the advice we all wish we could tell our younger selves. I also asked for your hottest college sex stories, and you absolutely understood the assignment. All this and more on today’s best of show.

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Hotline Calls: Why Can’t I Orgasm? Nov 25, 2022

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How’s your orgasm lately? Do you wish it was more intense? More frequent? More predictable with a partner? Orgasms don’t have to be a thing of mystery. And that’s why today's call in show is devoted to all things O. First up: she fears a loss of control while climaxing, which derails her arousal altogether. Can she relax and stay present? Next, he’s fit and athletic, with a girlfriend who loves sex. The problem? It takes him a long time to finish – maybe too long. Finally - when you’re with a partner who loves giving you oral, but it’s not exactly getting you off…what gives? I answer these questions and more from our brave live callers.

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Ask and You Shall Receive (Oral) Nov 22, 2022

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Getting the sex we want: it’s easier said than done. Sharing your needs with a partner can be difficult and awkward. But what if we feel undeserving of the gift of pleasure all together?

On today’s best-of episode, I’ll answer your questions all about giving and receiving. From trouble with orgasms to insecurities around body parts - how we receive the gift of oral is often where mental blocks around sex begin - and end. Plus, we hear some giving success stories. Because improving our pleasure potential is all about communicating our needs - ask, and you shall receive.

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