Sex for Saints

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Episode 331 - Are Your Teens Interrupting Your Sex Life? Aug 23, 2024

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I recently got a DM from a listener asking me how to navigate her sexual relationship with teens in the house. We often think that little kids make it harder to have sex, but sometimes teenagers are even harder. They have crazier schedules, they stay up later, and they have more knowledge about what's going on in the bedroom. So, in this episode, I want to talk to those mid-life couples who have teenagers and young adults at home, but who want to find ways to have a great sex life too. Listen in as I explain to you how to navigate this season.

Episode 330 - Consumption vs Connection Aug 16, 2024

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I recently had the opportunity to be a guest on the Therapy Brothers Podcast. I talked with Tyler and Brannon about the difference between consumption and connection. I really enjoyed our conversation and the insights that were shared and wanted to share those things with you. So, here is my conversation with Tyler and Brannon of the Therapy Brothers Podcast.

Episode 329 - A Different Way to Approach Sex Aug 09, 2024

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What if I told you that the way you have been thinking about sex is wrong? What if that's the reason you don't have the sex life that you thought you'd have? I know that your intentions are good. I know that you know that sex is good for your marriage, but maybe it's the way that you look at sex that is affecting your relationship. In this episode, I want to talk about a different way to approach sex in your marriage; a more mindful approach that fosters authenticity, self-expression, and love, intimacy, and connection. Let's go!

Episode 328 - Fantasy vs Desire Aug 02, 2024

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I've noticed a lot of people expressing problems with their spouse's fantasies. They don't understand certain fantasies, and they are afraid that their spouse wants to turn them into reality. But, there's a difference between fantasy and desire. A fantasy is more about thoughts where a desire is bringing that thought into reality. Let's talk more about the difference and what that means to your relationship in this episode.

Episode 327 - Traits of Healthy Couples Jul 26, 2024

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Do you know what a healthy relationship looks like? Many of us don't because our parents didn't know what a healthy couple looked like either. But we can change that now. In this episode, we'll talk about why we want to have a healthy relationship beyond being a good example to our children. Then we will talk about what a healthy couple looks like. I'll bet you're already doing some of these things, so it's time to add a bit more.

Episode 326 - Mining for Conflict to Increase Intimacy Jul 19, 2024

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In this episode, I want to talk about something that may make you feel a little uncomfortable - mining for conflict. It is absolutely crucial for the health and intimacy of our relationships, but what is mining for conflict? It means actively seeking out and addressing underlying issues in a relationship. Finding these conflicts before they escalate into bigger issues and addressing the problems. Why rock the boat? Well, even if you're ignoring them, the issues are still there. I'm going to give you real steps to take to not only find the conflicts, but to fix them as well.

Episode 325 - Why Sex Seems So Hard Jul 12, 2024

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In this episode, I want to talk about a question I get asked all of the time. It's said in different ways, but it all comes down to this - Why does sex often seem so hard, even when we genuinely want to have it? Have you ever wondered that? Sex is a beautiful, integral part of a healthy marriage, but it's not uncommon to face challenges in this area, as we all know. So, let's break down some of the reasons why we might struggle and explore ways to make things better. Are you ready? Let's go!

Episode 324 - Are Devices Hurting Your Sex Life? Jul 05, 2024

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In this episode, I want to talk about something that is more and more relevant in our digital age - how devices are hurting marriages and sexual relationships. Because this is now the third leading cause of divorce in the United states, it seems like it's something that needs to be discussed. So, let's discuss why devices can be so bad for our relationships, and what we can do about it.

Episode 323 - How Much Sex is Normal in Marriage? Jun 28, 2024

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This is something I get asked all the time! I understand why people want to know, but the answer isn't so black and white. In this episode we're going to talk about what is normal when it comes to sex in marriage, and how to get to normal if you feel like your sex life is outside the so-called norm. Are you wondering how much sex is normal in marriage? Let's answer all your questions.

Episode 322 - Feeling Like You Are Never Enough Sexually Jun 21, 2024

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Have you ever felt like you weren't enough in your life? Most people do, but when that feeling creeps into the bedroom, it can be incredibly frustrating and disheartening. Maybe you feel like you will never satisfy your spouse or maybe you're met with "I'll never be enough for you" when sharing your wants and desires. Either way, I know how difficult it can be! So, in this episode, we're going to unpack the phrase "I'll never be enough for you" and explore what's really going on beneath the surface.

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