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**Sex Ed The Musical**

Hosted by Emmy-winning comedy writer Wendy Miller, Sex Ed The Musical is an unapologetic feminist celebration of comedy and sex. But like many marriages, there isn’t always a lot of sex. Featuring bestselling authors, experts, and plenty of funny women with opinions, on this show guests are allowed to swear, complain about the jerks they encountered in life and namedrop Oprah.

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UNDER COVERS -- "NADIA" Oct 24, 2019

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What a MASSIVE week!

This podcast surpassed 15,000 downloads!!!

I managed not to say anything stupid on two other podcasts - Dates and Mates and Sexy As A Mother.

My writing on Medium garnered over 20,000 views.

I found a new, amazing remote-controlled vibrator (affiliate link) that you need right now to make your life a lot more fun.

And if that's not enough, we're back with an all-new episode of Under Covers!!!!

I think I can safely say, I won this week.

Now, on to today's episode.

NADIA

(That's not her real name).

Just like the previous Under Covers conversations, there's a lot I could share with you about Nadia in advance, but the truth is, I knew absolutely nothing about her when I started this interview. I didn't know her age, her job, her socioeconomic status, her religious background, where she lived, nothing. And that was 100% deliberate because these are bits of information we all use to subtly judge and categorize each other in advance. I wanted all of that off the table because going into an interview blind is a great way for me to experience these conversations exactly like you will.

I never knew what her answers were going to be.

This is all about hearing other women's stories with no bias whatsoever, and realizing that there may be aspects of another woman's vastly different life that actually resonates with your own. Suddenly, you're not so alone anymore. Suddenly things make a little more sense. Maybe by hearing these stories, you can move forward with the knowledge that we're all in this together and the best way for all of us to start healing is to start sharing our differences with each other.

With no judgment.

So I will keep this brief.

All you need to know in advance is that Nadia is 31, married and polyamorous.

That's where all similarities end…or begin.

MEMORABLE QUOTES

"There was a decade of my life where I was like, I'm only going to have sex with you if you excite me tremendously. So that was like a lot of really great sex for a while."

"I've always felt constrained by the rules of monogamy."

"The thing with rules is that whenever a rule is set, people want to break it."

"I'm always loving multiple people. That's a thing that is very real for me."

"I think a lot of people often don't understand that this kind of arrangement actually requires way more trust. Way more communication."

"Most marriages do end and I'm much more hopeful for the longevity of my partnership now that we are open and talking about these things."

10 SEXY THINGS YOU CAN DO THIS WEEKEND Oct 17, 2019

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You know that Sunday night feeling when you sadly reflect back on your measly 2 days off and realize you did absolutely nothing fun at all?

Well, get ready to kiss that 'Sunday Night Sad' goodbye!

In this episode, I have compiled a list of 10 things you can do this weekend that are SEXY, CHEAP and FUN — just like me!

Ranging from absolutely free to nothing all that insane, this is the perfect list to wake up your sex life. The time is now! Have fun. Be adventurous. Stop leaving pleasure on the table!

NUMBER 10 — VISIT A LOCAL SEX TOY STORE

There are lots of local sex toy shops and many of them are not repulsive at all. In Los Angeles, NY and Chicago, I highly recommend The Pleasure Chest. If you're looking for something kinkier in LA, check out The Stockroom. In NY, Babeland is a fantastic shop and I'm a big fan of Good Vibrations in San Francisco. These are all brick and mortar shops but they also have online stores. If you can't go to a local shop with your boo, check out some of the amazing stores online together and enjoy a virtual naughty shopping trip.

NUMBER 9 — TAKE A SEX EDUCATION CLASS

Many of the major sex toy shops offer live classes but there are also several places online, where you seriously your sex skills and basic knowledge. Grab a laptop, cuddle up and get your learn on. This article from September, 2018 on Mashable offers links to 20 Online Resources For Sex Education. Smart is the new sexy.

NUMBER 8 — GET A ROOM AT A NEARBY CHEAP MOTEL

Hotel sex is fun. Cheap motel sex takes it to a whole new level. But, before you get stabbed in a darkened hallway, do a little research on Trip Advisor to see what others have said about that nearby no-tell motel with free HBO. Manage your expectations, this is for a fun, deliberately sleazy outing. Safety first! So here's an excellent tarp to put on a sketchy bed to add an extra layer of kink and sanitation to your night.

NUMBER 7 — NAKED DAY!

Spend the whole day naked with your boo. Obviously, this means don't leave the house. However, if you live in a nudist resort and want to do something freaky, leave your house wearing pants. Crazy!

NUMBER 6 — DON'T DO THIS, IT'S TOTALLY ILLEGAL

Yes, sneaking a quickie in a nearby Open House sounds super sexy and dangerous but it's illegal. Whatever you do, don't find a secluded spot behind a locked door and get busy. It's illegal and you can get arrested.

NUMBER 5 — HAVE SEX IN EVERY SINGLE ROOM IN YOUR HOUSE

If you have a 200 square foot apartment, this might not be much of a challenge. If you live in this house, you'd better hydrate.

NUMBER 4 — ROLE PLAYING

You hit a local bar and order a drink. A minute or two later, your partner comes in and tries to pick you up. For the night, you both construct fake identities, backgrounds and even a British accent if you want to put in the labour. Have fun, take this as far as possible and if you're in a hotel bar, go straight up to your room that has already been checked into. Extra credit if one of you goes by the name Mr. Gladstone.

NUMBER 3 — GO TO A SEX CLUB OR LIFESTYLE PARTY

At a sex club or a lifestyle party, your boundaries will be respected better than just about anywhere else. Consent is a big part of the conversation. But how to find these places? Check out lifestyle website Kasidie.com for links to local and national lifestyle clubs and events. SDC.com is another source for adults seeking all sorts of information. There are also several adult play parties you can find through MeetUp.com and Eventbrite.com. Go online and do some research. Chances are, there's an event or club not far from you. Also, when it comes to rules and communication, you must be as clear as possible before you get there. Here's a great article about How To Prepare For Your First Orgy Or Sex Party, written by my friend and favourite Canadian, Dr. Jessica O'Reilly.

NUMBER 2 — DO SOMETHING WACKY TOGETHER

Your pre-gaming doesn't always have to include sex. My husband and I went ax throwing one night. It was ridiculous and so much fun. Whether it's bowling, a tango lesson at a local ballroom dance studio or a trippy artistic immersion — the whole point is staying connected to each other. The nookie will follow. Find fun, new, weird things and do them together. Your genitals will thank you later.

NUMBER 1 — BUY THIS REMOTE CONTROLLED VIBRATOR

Hours and hours of fun will be had when you purchase one of my all-time favorite sex toys. One of you puts the vibrator in their underwear. Then you give the remote control to your partner…and BUZZ-ANG! You're going to have an incredibly fun night.

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I WENT TO A SEX PARTY...WITHOUT MY HUSBAND Oct 10, 2019

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It's a dark, October night in Los Angeles.

I'm riding in the back of a strange man's car.

All alone, I'm on my way to a Sex Party in a house full of strangers.

My husband has taken our kid to a theme park for Fright Night.

I chose not to join them.

Because I don't like to be scared.

In this episode, on a totally last minute whim, I decide to attend a sex party.

Alone.

I have no idea who will be there.

I have no idea why I'll be there.

But, much to my surprise, I go.

Then…things get scary.

And I like it.

LET'S JUST CUDDLE Oct 03, 2019

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Touch.

It's the first sense we acquire. There are enormous emotional and physical health benefits that can come from human touch. Yet, many of us are going through life touch deprived. Floating through the world, self-armored yet longing for a personal connection.

Now you can buy that connection and start healing.

Cuddle Sanctuary is one of several new specialty organizations offering people the unique health benefits of personal human touch. 100% non-sensual, this touch therapy releases the feel-good hormone oxytocin, creates a safe space for people, and helps many find a well-needed semblance of connection in an increasingly fractured society.

In this episode I speak with Jean Franzblau, the founder of Los Angeles-based Cuddle Sanctuary. As we cuddle together in Jean's lovely Cuddle Cottage (photos below), Jean explains all of the amazing benefits of her service, how she remains safe and exactly who seeks out her services.

You may be surprised.

To find out more about Cuddle Sanctuary and for free stuff and cuddle swag go to: http://cuddlesanctuary.com/store/

To find out how you can become part of this amazing group, check out Cuddle Sanctuary training: http://cuddlesanctuary.com/train-with-us/

Cuddle Sanctuary videos are here: http://cuddlesanctuary.com/press/

If you'd like to become a champion cuddler, Jean recommends you immediately pick up The Cuddle Sutra

If you're looking for a professional cuddler outside of LA, Jean recommends:

https://cuddlist.com/

https://www.certifiedcuddlers.com/

EXPERT BLOWJOB TIPS FROM A GAY MAN Sep 27, 2019

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Michele Bachmann once famously said, "No one knows his way around a penis like a gay man." Or maybe she was talking about her husband?

Either way, it's totally TRUE!

That's why on this episode, I went to THE SOURCE! My very dear friend and gay husband, Mr. LaRue, to find out exactly what blowjob techniques will blow a guy's mind.

I hate to call out the Blowjob Education Industrial Complex, whose annual operating budget must 7,504,503% larger than the Cunnilingus Community College budget, but the hard fact is that men are in charge of fucking everything. Which is why womenpeople are inundated with scrillions of classes, magazine articles, listicles, podcasts, instagram posts, Facebook fights, and videos all dedicated to making us Blowjob Beyonces.

Cunnilingus tips? Heeeey, look over there! It's a boner!

Here is my irrefutable anecdotal evidence: I invited my pal, sex educator Nina Hartley to teach a blowjob class to some of my vanilla suburban friends in my house, and it was standing room only! And I have a big house! On the flip side, I had a cunnilingus class in my house and 6 people showed up. That included me and one friend who just so happened to be there to return a Pyrex baking dish they'd borrowed.

So yeah, we're all getting sucked in to the pressure to become blowjob goddesses. That's why I decided to go right to the source and got some insane BJ tips from my boo, Mr. LaRue, who knows his way around a boner.

You are about to learn things that I've never ever heard. And that, my friends, is saying something.

WHAT GOES DOWN IN A SEX CLUB? Sep 19, 2019

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In every city across America, there are Sex Clubs. Some are private and require memberships. Some require you to send nude photos to make sure you conform to a certain aesthetic in order to be admitted. Some are super elite and cost thousands of dollars to attend for just one night. Some are exclusively gay. Some are exclusively kink centric. Regardless of their individual rules, crowds and aesthetics, Sex Clubs are places where adults can meet each other and have sex right on the premises.

You might think that by entering a Sex Club, you're immediately surrendering all of your clothes, rights and consent just by virtue of being there. That cannot be further from the truth. In fact, in many sex clubs rules are posted everywhere and entrants must agree to all of the rules before then can join the crowd. Your boundaries and personal space are more respected in a Sex Club than in your typical bar…or grocery store…or subway car…or the myriad other places you can be groped without your consent.

So what really happens inside of a sex club and why would you ever want to go to one?

On this episode I speak with Brad and Tammy McCray, the owners of a unique Sex Club in Portland called Sanctuary. When it comes to Sex Clubs, Sanctuary is an outlier. They don't require a membership before you can enter (which is common practice for many other sex clubs). They don't charge male and female guests different entry fees (also common among other Sex Clubs). They are LGBTQ+ and hetero mixed (very rare among Sex Clubs). And they are body positive, welcoming of all gender identities, kinks, and relationship configurations.

And here's the crazy part — it totally works!

If you've always been a little curious, now's your chance to find out what really happens inside of a Sex Club, what you can expect, what you are always within your rights to demand and how you're probably safer in a room full of perverts than your local grocery store.

How To Find A Sex Club Near You — Of course you can check Yelp or search "Sex Clubs Near Me" but you're also going to get a lot of strip clubs, which is not the same thing as a Sex Club.

Check out swinging lifestyle sites such as Kasidie.com, an adult community for sexually adventurous people. It's not the largest swinger community but it's very easy to navigate and there are easy to find links to sex parties and sex clubs near you.

There are also couples dating apps out there but a lot of them require you to link them to your Instagram or Facebook profiles. This can be privacy problematic so you may need to set up a new profile that's not linked to 800 of your closest friends. Although, at least 40 of them should be able to recommend some fun sex clubs. If not, you might want to get some new friends.

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THE TRUTH BEHIND SEX ED THE MUSICAL Sep 12, 2019

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"Always listen to your heart, because even though it's on your left side, it's always right."

— Nicholas Sparks

On this episode, I reveal the surprising true story behind the creation of Sex Ed The Musical. I don't want to give too much away right here. Let's just say it required a fuckton of failure, a lie to some big-time studio executives and staring at someone a lot smarter than me.

Not necessarily in that order.

QUESTIONS THAT WILL BE ANSWERED IN THE NEXT 9 MINUTES

What really sparked the idea for this podcast?
Why is your past not at all relevant to your future?
Exactly how many Shamans do I know?

And in case an episode of just me talking about me isn't enough me, below is a link to me talking about me with someone else who's not me.

Here I am on the MILF Podcast also explaining the story behind this podcast, except much longer and to someone a lot taller than me.

Did you ever tell a lie about yourself that actually turned out to be true? Share your story in the comments. I'd love to hear from you.

THE LIES YOU WERE TAUGHT ABOUT SEX Sep 05, 2019

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Sex Education has a controversial history in this country.

Deliberate misinformation, scare tactics, religious corruption, institutionalized misogyny, and archaic educational materials are all part of the story.

Sex education isn't required in every state and even if it is taught in your state, it's not always required to be factually and technically accurate.

State and Local Legislators Decide What Can Be Taught in Sex Education

Even though it's been proven conclusively that Abstinence Only Education DOES NOT WORK, there's a very clear and direct correlation between unintended teen pregnancies and the states with conservative politics that will only teach abstinence.

No abstinence-only-until-marriage program has been shown to have any impact on young people's behavior.

If you've had any institutionalized sex education in this country, there's a good chance you were taught something wildly inaccurate.

SO I'M CELEBRATING THOSE LIES!

On this episode, I share some of the best worst lies I've heard.

I also play clips from this masterpiece: Molly Grows Up.

But Wait, There's More!

Planned Parenthood is the nation's largest provider of sex education, and they are under attack.

Therefore, for every download this episode gets in its first week of release, I will donate $1 to Planned Parenthood, up to $2000. Meaning, if 2000 people download the episode, I'll donate $2000. It's that simple.

If you want to match my donation, comment below.

I'll also be posting daily stats on Instagram @SexEdMusicalPodcast

Correction: I mistakenly state in this episode that 39 states require that abstinence is included in sex education. The actual number is 37 states that require abstinence is included in sex education. I regret the mistake but not as much as I regret abstinence only sex education.

HOW TO LIGHT YOUR OWN FIRE WITH AMY JO GODDARD Aug 29, 2019

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Amy Jo Goddard is a Sexual Empowerment Educator, Coach, Bestselling Author and All Around Epic Badass in the world of feminism, human sexuality and education.

In this interview, Amy Jo covers many amazing subjects including:

Why Is A Sexually Empowered Woman So Threatening?
Why Owning Your Sexual Power Is The Key To Owning Your Overall Power As A Woman
How Much Deprogramming Women Need When It Comes To Sexuality
The Common Misunderstandings About Female Sexuality
How To Reclaim The Pleasure You Deserve After Leaving A Sexually Unfulfilling Relationship

A highly sought-after expert for over two decades, in addition to her writing and work leading a variety of classes, workshops and programs, Amy Jo is also the host of the Fire Woman Retreat - a three-day, life-changing event that empowers women to own their sexuality, reclaim it, heal it and then celebrate it.

Amy Jo has given me a special discount code for listeners of this show: wendy100 will save $100 when you register online for her upcoming Fire Woman Retreat which is taking place in Southern California on September 27-29, 2019. When you experience this amazing event, you'll have a completely new framework for your sexuality that will help you create what you really desire.

To find out more about Amy Jo Goddard, and learn how you can take her amazing classes and workshops, or for personal coaching contact her here.

Amy Jo Goddard is the author of two books:

Woman on Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power, and Sexual Intelligence And she's co-author of the bestseller, Lesbian Sex Secrets For Men

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SCREW CONFESSIONS Aug 22, 2019

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What do plastic sheets, the New York City Fire Department, an overzealous puppy, an errant sesame seed and a head injury have in common?

They all play hilarious roles in the true confessions you're about to hear.

That's right folks, it's time for an entire episode of sex fails, our First Annual Screw Confessions Extravaganza!!!

Get ready for a bunch of absolutely true and hilarious sex fails, told by listeners and guests of the show. Every one of these stories is so wrong and yet so very right.

So, put on your laughing pants, sit back and press play. I promise you'll feel a lot better about yourself when it's over.

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