Self-Helpless

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De-influencing: Why Did I Buy This? Apr 17, 2023

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This week the girls are discussing the popular trend of de-influencing. They cover impulse buys, aligning your values with how you spend, reducing decision fatigue around which products to purchase, stuff they regret buying, the ugly truth about influencer metrics, how they used to shop vs. what they do differently now, and the tips and resources that help them practice more mindful consumption. Tune in to find out which items are always the hardest for them to resist!

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5 Simple Tips For Moving Apr 10, 2023

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This week, Kelsey shares her most helpful tips when making a move! Kelsey has moved many times in the past decade, and whether you’re moving to a new place within your city, or moving to the other side of the country, Kelsey can help make it go as smoothly as possible. Everything is covered from the most cost-effective way to move your belongings to selling furniture to changing your address. Plus, some tips that can make moving a pet more hassle-free!

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Tips For Dating In Your 30’s (On And Off The Apps) Apr 03, 2023

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This week, the girls cover a highly requested topic: dating tips on and off of the apps! Kelsey and Delanie share what they learned from their previous time on dating apps, how they’ve grown in their current relationship compared to previous ones, and how their relationship priorities have changed in their 20s versus in their 30s. Tune in to hear how they’ve both adjusted their communication styles as they’ve gotten older.

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The Importance of Your Dreams (Literally) Mar 27, 2023

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This week we are joined by ceremonialist, medicine woman, and psychotherapist, Claudia Barfoot. Claudia explains the importance of dreams and their benefits, how we can use our dreams as a tool for healing and creativity, powerful tips for dream journaling, as well as the variety of experiences we can have including nightmares, lucid, premonition, visitation, conception, and astral travel dreams. Tune in for some live dream interpretation too!

This episode was sponsored by Better Help! Visit BetterHelp.com/SELFHELPLESS today to get 10% off your first month.

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Healing Generational Trauma Mar 20, 2023

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This week we are joined by licensed marriage and family therapist and doctor of psychology, Dr. Sahar Martinez. Dr. Sahar explains how generational trauma can impact our present lives and relationships in a multitude of ways, what practical actions we can all take to heal and become more mindful around our decision-making and behavior, and blows our damn mind with the biological affects that generational trauma can have on us. Tune in for some seriously delicious analogies, anecdotes, and hot tips!

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10 Powerful Journal Prompts Mar 13, 2023

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This week the girls are discussing their favorite journal prompts! They share the questions they ask themselves for gaining perspective holistically, the ones that are helpful for daily check-ins, and the prompts that have influenced their most important life and business decisions. Tune in to put these to use in that journal of yours right now, or simply ask yourself the questions if journaling isn’t really your thing!

This episode was sponsored by BetterHelp & Ibotta! Visit BetterHelp.com/SELFHELPLESS today to get 10% off your first month. Right now, Ibotta is offering our listeners $5 just for trying Ibotta by using the code helpless when you register.

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Is it Anxiety or Generalized Anxiety Disorder? Mar 06, 2023

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This week we are joined by Associate Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and former President of the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, Dr. Luana Marquez. Dr. Luana explains why Generalized Anxiety Disorder occurs, what options for treatment are available, offers so many practical tips for breaking anxious thought spirals (today!), and how GAD differs from other anxiety disorders, ADHD, and a lot more. Plus, some VERY eventful life updates from Delanie and Kelsey!

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Having A Family Member with Dementia Feb 27, 2023

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This week, Kelsey and Delanie talk about Kelsey’s experience with her mom having dementia. Kelsey shares her experience navigating sudden life changes, caregiver burnout, and finding support during extra challenging times. This is an emotional one, but if you are taking care of a loved one with dementia, know that you’re not alone.

This episode was sponsored by BetterHelp! Visit BetterHelp.com/SELFHELPLESS today to get 10% off your first month.

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Adrenal Insufficiency Feb 20, 2023

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This week we’re joined by the great Dr. Shirisha to discuss a Helpsters’ Choice topic: Adrenal Insufficiency. Dr. Shirisha explains the difference between Adrenal Insufficiency and Adrenal Exhaustion, the root causes of it, how to tell if you have it, and how someone can manage their symptoms. Plus, Dr. Shirisha tells us how thyroid and hormone imbalances can be correlated to adrenal issues!

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Establishing A Daily Routine Feb 13, 2023

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This week, Kelsey is joined by one of her good friends and her tour opener, Tommy Brennan! He talks about navigating ADHD, learning what motivates him, and the struggles of maintaining a routine when your work schedule isn’t fixed. Come see Kelsey and Tommy on tour at KelseyCook.com/tour!

This episode was sponsored by BetterHelp, PrettyLitter, & Let's Get Deep! Visit BetterHelp.com/SELFHELPLESS today to get 10% off your first month.

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For 65 bonus episodes, exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com

Kelsey’s Tour Dates: https://www.kelseycook.com