Secret Life

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Living with OCD, Depression, Anxiety & PTSD May 17, 2021

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Dealing with mental and physical health problems before she even hit her 20s taught Rachel a lot. She learned what she wanted out of life and about the things that helped her get through very dark times. And perhaps most importantly, she realized that you can never know what someone else is going through. People go through all kinds of shit that we don't know about. Rachel's goal is to make everyone's lives better by discussing all of that shit. Sharing, listening, and laughing about the tough stuff is the only way to get through. Check out her The Raw Contributor Podcast for more.

Mental Health Awareness month kicks off May 2021

Obsessive-compulsive disorder is characterized by unreasonable thoughts and fears (obsessions) that lead to compulsive behaviors. OCD often centers on themes such as a fear of germs or the need to arrange objects in a specific manner. Symptoms usually begin gradually and vary throughout life. Treatment includes talk therapy, medications, or both.

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Body Dysmorphia: Male Body Shame May 10, 2021

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Body dysmorphic disorder is a mental health disorder in which you can't stop thinking about one or more perceived defects or flaws in your appearance — a flaw that appears minor or can't be seen by others. But you may feel so embarrassed, ashamed and anxious that you may avoid many social situations. — Body dysmorphic disorder - Symptoms and causes - Mayo Clinic Body dysmorphic disorder affects about 1 in 50 people. In the United States, an estimated 5 million to 10 million people have this condition.

NAMI resources: https://www.nami.org/Get-Involved/Awareness-Events/Mental-Health-Awareness-Month

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If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction or depression, we've compiled a list of resources on the Secret Life Website: https://secretlifepodcast.com #mentalhealthawarenessmonth

To share your secret and be a guest on the show, email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com

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Natalie: Secrets Led Me To Prison 5 Times May 03, 2021

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After sexual abuse, teenage rape, suicide attempt, drug abuse, imprisonment, toxic relationships and chronic pain condition, Natalie now a self-esteem and relationship coach shares about how she managed to overcome the trauma and learned to love herself back to life.

If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction or depression, we've compiled a list of resources on the Secret Life Website: https://secretlifepodcast.com

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Connnect with NATALIE: Natalie does 1:1 coaching with spots available in June, but will also be releasing a group coaching program in Relationship Recovery in October.

Website: https://natalierussell.uk

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Molestation, Trauma & Sexual Orientation Apr 26, 2021

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TRIGGER WARNING - This episode contains topics of sexual abuse by a parent and trauma. Some people may find it disturbing. The Secret Life team is committed to engaging in uncomfortable conversations to shed light and hope on some of the darkest topics. Our intention is to create a space for guests and listeners to release the shame attached to situations they had no control over.

Amber was just 6 years old when she was molested by her father. A secret she'd kept from her family for over 15 years. Yet when she shared with her mother and sisters, nothing was said or done. Even though they are a tight and loving family, religious beliefs have kept Amber from communicating with her mom about being queer. All the while wondering if her sexual orientation is tied to the trauma from her past.
This year, President Biden announced that April 2021 is National Child Abuse Prevention Month. He calls upon all Americans to protect our Nation’s greatest resource — its children — and to take an active role in supporting children and parents and creating safe communities filled with thriving families.

For more information on what you can do: https://www.childwelfare.gov/topics/preventing/preventionmonth/
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If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction or depression, we've compiled a list of resources on the Secret Life Website: https://secretlifepodcast.com
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RAINN - Sexual Assault Hotline - Call 800.656.HOPE (4673) to be connected with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area. https://www.rainn.org/about-national-sexual-assault-telephone-hotline
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To find out more information about Brianne's book Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex & Love Addict, check out the website: https://secretlifenovel.com or At Amazon
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Jim Clemente: From Child Sex Abuse Victim to FBI Profiler Apr 19, 2021

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When Jim Clemente walked into the Bronx home of his former summer camp director, it wasn’t for old time’s sake. The twenty-something Clemente was wearing a wire. Federal agents and an NYPD detective were listening in.

And his old camp boss, Michael J. O’Hara, was showing Clemente pictures of kids he’d molested — just like he’d abused Clemente a decade prior. Clemente had convinced the predator he was a kindred spirit and had to keep his cool, or the criminal case being built against O’Hara — a Boy Scout leader, Catholic school teacher and youth-basketball coach believed to have sexually abused hundreds of kids — would fall apart. (Excerpt from New York Post Article)

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This year, President Biden announced that April 2021 is National Child Abuse Prevention Month. He calls upon all Americans to protect our Nation’s greatest resource — its children — and to take an active role in supporting children and parents and creating safe communities filled with thriving families.

For more information on what you can do: https://www.childwelfare.gov/topics/preventing/preventionmonth/

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At least 1 in 6 men have been sexually abused or assaulted. If you’re a man who has experienced sexual abuse or assault, you’re not alone.

https://1in6.org is there to support you in your path to a happier, healthier future.

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Jim Clemente is a retired FBI Supervisory Special Agent/Profiler and former New York City Prosecutor. During his 22-year career with the FBI, he investigated cases from bank robberies to serial killers. He also investigated public corruption in the White House, white collar and violent crime, and has worked as an undercover agent posing as everything from a street beggar to a broker on Wall Street. For over a decade, he was an FBI Profiler investigated violent and sexual serial crimes. He is an internationally recognized expert in the fields of sex crimes and abduction/homicides. Today he is the Founder/CEO of XG Productions, a cross-platform development and production company. He co-hosts the WONDERY podcasts: REAL CRIME PROFILE, BEST CASE WORST CASE. and hosts LOCKED UP ABROAD. He is a Writer/Producer for Criminal Minds and The Case Of: JonBenet Ramsey on CBS, as well as the Co-Creator of Manhunt: Unabomber on NETFLIX. He also Executive Produced the upcoming series: TRUTH & JUSTICE and COLONIAL PARKWAY MURDERS on OXYGEN Network. Clemente authored his first novel, WITHOUT CONSENT, based on his true story and co-authored the non-fiction Audible series, EVIL HAS A NAME.

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If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction or depression, we've compiled a list of resources on the Secret Life Website: https://secretlifepodcast.com

To share your secret and be a guest on the show, email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com

To find out more information about Brianne's book Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex & Love Addict, check out the website: https://secretlifenovel.com or at Amazon

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Cheryl Burke: Groomed for Addiction—Abuse, Sex & Love Apr 12, 2021

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Dancing With the Stars' Cheryl Burke has been very open about her abuse as a young girl and recently about her recovery from alcohol, but it wasn't until she had Brianne on her own podcast did she realize that she too struggled with sex and love addiction.

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This year, President Biden announced that April 2021 is National Child Abuse Prevention Month. He calls upon all Americans to protect our Nation’s greatest resource — its children — and to take an active role in supporting children and parents and creating safe communities filled with thriving families.

For more information on what you can do: https://www.childwelfare.gov/topics/preventing/preventionmonth/
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If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction or depression, we've compiled a list of resources on the Secret Life Website: https://secretlifepodcast.com
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MORE ABOUT CHERYL BURKE:
With over 25 years dancing experience and several championship titles under her belt, Emmy nominated professional dancer Cheryl Burke, tangoed and sambaed her way into the hearts of millions through the hit ABC television show Dancing with the Stars becoming champion twice with Emmitt Smith in Season 3 and Drew Lachey in Season 2.

In 2015, Cheryl starred alongside Joe Jonas, Ciara, and Marlon Wayans in NBC’s I Can Do That, a variety show that challenged celebrities to live outside their comfort zones. 2016 marked Burke’s return to Dancing with the Stars for her 19th season on the show, pairing her with infamous Olympic swimmer Ryan Lochte. In the fall of 2017, Burke partnered with NFL Hall of Famer Terrell Owens for her 20th season on the Emmy nominated program. Most recently, she partnered Backstreet Boy AJ McLean, with whom she hosts the Pretty Messed Up Podcast for iHeartRadio.

Connect with Cheryl on (@CherylBurke) Instagram

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If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com.

To find out more information about Brianne's book Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex & Love Addict, check out the website: https://secretlifenovel.com or at Amazon

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I'm Obsessed With Big Boobs Apr 05, 2021

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Is there anything wrong with having a type? Don't we all have a type? That's what makes us unique. No two people have the exact same things that they find attractive. But what if our type becomes an obsession? What if it limits your choices, and you find yourself repeating a cycle of bad decisions because of it? They say marrying for looks or money is never a good thing—so does it have to be about something deeper then? Does having a type cut you off from finding someone whose insides are more than the sum of their outsides? In this episode, we talk anatomy and connection.

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If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com.

To find out more information about Brianne's book Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex & Love Addict, check out the website: https://secretlifenovel.com or At Amazon

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Trinity: The Sexual Predator — My OB-GYN Mar 29, 2021

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*TRIGGER WARNING - This episode contains topics of sexual assault, trauma, and abortion. Some people may find it disturbing. In another moment of "What the f@#% is wrong with some men," we have a brave survivor who shares her story of being sexually assaulted minutes after giving birth. Was this deep-seated secret fuel on the first for her addictions and suicidal thoughts? Listen to her heartbreaking and ultimately uplifting journey to recovery.

Just days ago, on March 26, 2021, USC agreed to pay over $1 bn to over a thousand victims. According to an editorial published in the journal Obstetrics & Gynecology, over the past two years, at least eight gynecologists have landed in the media spotlight after sexual misconduct allegations, according to an editorial published in the journal Obstetrics & Gynecology. That includes Dr. George Tyndall, the former longtime head gynecologist of the health center at the University of Southern California.

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If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction or depression, we've compiled a list of resources on the Secret Life Website: http://secretlifepodcast.com

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If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com.

To find out more information about Brianne's book Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex & Love Addict, check out the website: https://secretlifenovel.com or At Amazon

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Bumble: Swiping Right Into My Addiction Mar 22, 2021

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Dating apps are a $3 Billion industry with over 270 Million users worldwide. And for an addict of any variety—a dangerous place to swipe.

April found herself falling for the first man she swiped right on. What ensued was a year-long “relationship” that consisted of the two recording their sexual encounters and little else.

Shortly after, she heard our episode with Olivia Munn; she listened to Brianne’s story in episode #1. For the first time in her life, she heard her story and realized that she wasn’t alone. April is now attending meetings of Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous and on her way to transforming her life and creating healthy relationships.

We’ve said it before—if just one person hears something that lets them know they aren’t alone and discover that help is out there, then starting this podcast has been entirely worth it!

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If you or anyone you know is struggling with an addiction, depression, trauma, or sexual abuse, we've compiled a list of resources at https://secretlifepodcast.com.

If you'd like to share your secret on the show or want to share your thoughts about an episode, please send an email to secretlifepodcast@icloud.com.
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To find out more information about Brianne's book Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex & Love Addict, check out the website: https://secretlifenovel.com or At Amazon

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The Mistress: Waiting To Be Chosen Mar 15, 2021

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Why do women stay once they find out that the man of their dreams is married? Is the saying true; once a cheater, always a cheater? "But he's different... he says he loves me and will choose me." Cut to years later, and that isn't the case. He stays in the relationship he said he was leaving, with the woman he loathed and left you wanting those years of your life back. Lee has kept this secret from everyone in her life except one person. How can she trust another man again?

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If you or anyone you know is struggling with an addiction, depression, trauma, or sexual abuse, we've compiled a list of resources at https://secretlifepodcast.com.

If you'd like to share your secret on the show or want to share your thoughts about an episode, please send an email to secretlifepodcast@icloud.com.

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To find out more information about Brianne's book Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex & Love Addict, check out the website: https://secretlifenovel.com or At Amazon

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HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE SHOW?

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