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Savage Lovecast Episode 1024 Jun 23, 2026

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A woman discovers her recently deceased father had a foot-tickling fetish and doesn't know how to process this new view of her dad.

Speaking of kinks, a man with a diaper fetish is feeling resentful that his kink so severely limits his dating prospects.

On the Magnum, Dan chats with hunky clinical psychologist Dr. Thomas Whitfield about dating closet cases, sex education, masc for masc and why the common use of therapy terms like "narcissist" and "avoidant" is so annoying.

And, a man and his girlfriend need a comfortable but effective gag option.

But you! You must not be quiet. Open your mouth and ask your question:

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After Action Report #34 Jun 19, 2026

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Becca just needed to relax. So she thought she’d be like the gays and try poppers. How did it go?

Listen and then you’ll know.

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Savage Lovecast Episode 1023 Jun 16, 2026

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A woman who enjoys multiple orgasms doesn't understand why, physiologically, all woman can't come over and over and over. Like she can.

A gay man wants a new word for the practice of rubbing dicks together, other than "frotting."

On the Magnum, Dan interviews Tracy Clark-Flory whose memoir ⁠My Mother's Daughter ⁠, brought Dan to tears. It encompasses feminism, racism, parenting, adoption and so much more. They also take a call from a teacher who is grappling with teaching little kids about consent.

And, a woman was horrified to hear about straight women groping men at gay bars, because they thought the guys there were fair use. A gay male friend countered that groping in gay bars was permissible because it's just their culture. Is it? Or is some consent required?

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. Answering relationship questions from everyone in the LGBTQIA rainbow (and even straight people,) along with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.

After Action Report #33 Jun 12, 2026

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Somewhere in Peru, 1,100 feet above the sea, a handsome masseuse in Peru offered our brave, queer woman weed, sensual massage and “yoni massage.”

Seems sketchy, but he got lots of good reviews on Google.

After this show comes out we expect an uptick of tourism to Peru…

Have you thrown caution to the wind? Let us know all about it.

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Savage Love Episode 1022 Jun 09, 2026

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A trans woman's friend is married to a Russian-born MAGA creep-o. But, plot twist! The Trump/Putin-lover is transitioning! It's hard for the caller to gin up sympathy for someone who supports anti-gay/trans autocrats. How should she interact with these bizarre people?

A gay man's new boyfriend wants to get dominated. But the caller has always been vanilla. Dan welcomes Master R, who specializes in shibari bondage to offer this newbie some tips.

On the Magnum, Dan once asked if there were ANY poly-under-duress memoirs written by men. There is, and we got him! Adam Darrow, author of Seek the Risk: One Man's Journey into Non-Monogamy is on to talk about his initial reluctance in dating a woman with a various sexual appetite. He compares his experience to participating in extreme sports. Listen in.

A woman is about to meet a new paramour, who will be visiting her for the first time. In their remote conversations, he has made it crystal clear that he enjoys jizzing all over his ladies. She hates the taste of come. It makes her wretch. How can they square their opposing desires?

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After Action Report #32 Jun 05, 2026

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Ho hum. Threeway, marathon fuck session with a woman at a punk rock party. Sounds boring, right?

But wait for it- this 3-way has a surprise ending.

Surprise us! Write about your naughty little experience, and send it to Q@Savage.Love.

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Savage Love Episode 1021 Jun 02, 2026

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A woman who really wants a long term partner has gotten a "tantric opportunity" she may not be able to refuse. Hours and hours of hot sex? But the dude isn't boyfriend material. Should take this once in a lifetime opportunity anyway?

A woman's friend only dates women much younger than himself. He insists he's being respectful and mindful of power imbalance. But it still gives her the creeps- should it?

On the Magnum, a man asks if hypnotism as a means to control someone sexually is a bunch of nonsense. Dan brings on science journalist Sadie Dingfelder to look into the matter.

And, a man dated a woman, broke up, came out, and remains very good friends with his ex. She feels like his platonic but important partner. He had a boyfriend for a while, but the guy was a bit of a dullard and couldn't hold a candle intellectually to his female bestie. Can he find a partner who will accept his gal pal as a part of his emotional life?

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After Action Report #31 May 29, 2026

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A man who wanted to confirm his hetero-flexibility gives his first BJ.

But did he pass the cocksucker test? Not everyone does.

Hear all about it.

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Savage Love Episode 1020 May 26, 2026

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This show is a roller coaster...of love. We start out with a heartbreaking question from a woman whose fiancé broke up with her after she had bought the dress and sent out the invites. Their lives and friends are intertwined. How can she bounce back from something like this?

Then, a gay man has observed trans men at sex clubs getting it on with lots of guys. If they aren't on birth control, can they get pregnant? Is it polite to ask, and should cis men wear condoms in this situation?

On the Magnum, strap in- it's Eric Andre! Dan and the master prankster answer a straight man's question about whether gathering with other men to masturbate together constitutes cheating. They also talk about some of the personal advice Dan gave Eric a little while ago. Want to get up close and personal with Eric Andre? Listen in...

And, meet a rare woman who likes receiving dick pics. 6 months into their relationship, she started sending him nudes. When he asked if he should reciprocate, she expected some shirtless photos, and was surprised to see much, much more. She grew to really like it, but worries she's training him to send dick pics to other women after they break up. Should she explain to him that she's not like the other girls?

Oh, I would NEVER!

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. Verse tops? Polyamory? Dick pics? Multiple orgasms? He covers it all, and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since September 21, 1991.

After Action Report #30 May 25, 2026

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What a feel-good story for the ages. Victor managed to amass three sexual "firsts" in one potent session with a transwoman domme:Experience subspace- check.Have sex with a transwoman- check.Dick in the butt? Check!

This sizzling story also offers a study in sex worker professionalism.

Listen in and feel the joy.

Have you gone through some new interesting times?

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