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Savage Love Episode 1029 Jul 28, 2026

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An intersex man had his urethra operated on when he was a toddler. Now he wants to try sounding but his doctors advise against it. He is suspicious of doctors after his non-consensual surgeries. Should he ignore them and pursue his pleasure?

A 66 year-old woman loves to give blow jobs to her lucky husband. But sometimes she gets a bit too enthusiastic and ends up with bruises on her lip. Will people see them and know how she got them?

On the Magnum, have you ever slept with a clown? Meet Barney Muckle, a British kinkster who has turned clowning into an awesome fetish. He and Dan talk about the inherent silliness of sex ("Sex is putting weird things in funny places,") and how we would all do well to take it less seriously. Barney has a dildo that looks like a banana split, and so should you.

Finally, a woman and her girlfriend have decided to take a break from sex. They are both kinky. The caller wonders if they could make this break hot by leaning into a sexy abstinence vibe. Or would they then not be taking a break after all?

Record your question and send it in to Dan.

Q@Savage.Love

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From bondage to bisexuality, cuckolding to crossdressing and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.

After Action Report #39 Jul 24, 2026

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Monica is a tried and true, old school Magnum sub. With Dan’s advice in her head, she applied to join a “foot night” where men pay to play…with women’s feet.

Did Monica have a good time?
What did she wear?
And exactly how much money did she make?

All is revealed.

If you have an experience you enjoyed or endured, write about it, and send it to us at Q@Savage.Love.

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Savage Love Episode 1028 Jul 21, 2026

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Ouch! A woman has been fisting her boyfriend to both of their delight. But guess what hurts: Her hand! How can she get in there comfortably?

A woman is trying to convince both her conspiracy-minded friend and her wife that ultra rich people are not really eating babies. Because...they aren't...right?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Stephen Dubner - host of Freakonomics Radio. His new show, Better in Person, explores how conversations flow when people are in the room together. Dan and Stephen talk about the new show, and dig in to assumptions around long term relationships.

And, a woman was already not getting along with her new landlord. And that was *before* he left behind a ball gag in her bathroom drawer...

You said you wanted to get on the show?

Here's how:

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This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit ⁠VB.Health⁠ when you use the code Savage.

Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From fisting to frottage, cuckolding to crossdressing and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.

After Action Report #38 Jul 17, 2026

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In one of the more graphic After Action Reports we’ve had the pleasure to relay, hear Mary’s story not of getting peed ON, but getting peed IN.

Don’t worry. She has a “robust vagina.”

Do YOU have anything robust about you?
Send us the details to Q@Savage.Love.

Savage Love Episode 1027 Jul 14, 2026

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A lesbian with a pregnant wife is confounded and disgruntled at the way Pride celebrations can be a little too sex positive, especially if you have a little kid. Should Pride parades put on a straight-laced appearance, or go full bacchanal? It's an old, old debate.

A woman needs her lovers to tell her she's hot and generally praise her during sex. Like, a lot. Is this a kink?

On the Magnum, Dan meets his witty, homosexual match in Bryan Safi. The Emmy Award-winning actor, writer, and comedian known for his work on ABC’s “9-1-1” as well as his podcasts, Attitudes! and Ask Ronna, is making his Off-Broadway debut this summer with Are You Mad At Me?? They chat about all this, and answer a caller who wonders if she should agree to a man's request on Feeld to be her "foot boy." Safi is magically delightful, and you simply must listen in.

And, a woman's butt plug keeps disappearing up her butt. It's not supposed to work like that, right?

Right.

Call us with your quandaries.

206-302-2064

Record that Q and send it in: Q@Savage.Love.

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

After Action Report #37 Jul 10, 2026

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Have you ever bitten a dick? Like really hard?
NO YOU HAVE NOT.
She did. And he liked it.

Listen in.

If you’ve done something…shocking, and you want to tell us about it, send the details to Q@Savage.Love.

This episode is brought to you by Feeld- the dating app that so many Lovecast listeners are already using. Try Feeld’s new feature “Reflections” now by visiting feeld.co/reflections or by downloading Feeld on the App Store or Google Play.

Savage Love Episode 1026 Jul 07, 2026

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A man in a poly relationship is worried that his penis smells like his girlfriend's vagina despite his meticulous hygiene practices. This doesn't bother him. But when he eventually convinces someone else to go down on him, will they notice? Is there a "special soap" he could use?

In Paris, in the year 1911, an employee of the Louvre made off with the Mona Lisa. Fast forward to the year 2024. A woman "acquired" an explicit erotic painting left behind in an office re-organization featuring two men who live above the space. After 2 years of it hanging on her wall, she really loves this painting. She thinks the couple commissioned the art. Does she have to return it to them, and what on earth should she say if she does?

On the Magnum, in order to counter some of the skepticism around the practice of hypnokink, we welcome Daniel McGlothlen, kink educator, performer, and adult content creator who specializes in hypnosis. Is it real? Is it fun? Listen in.

And, a man issues a chilling PSA/warning. If you're kinky, and end up getting divorced, you might wish you had durable evidence of consent.

Have a question? Say it out loud! (Into your phone.)

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Call! 206-302-2064

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. GGG? DTMFA? CPOS? He came up with that. Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since 1991.

After Action Report #36 Jul 03, 2026

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Did you know that they have bathhouses in Canada? They do!
Meet Jay, married to his husband for 10 years, and ready for adventure.
Even though he was nervous and his glasses kept fogging up, he persevered.

Hear all about it.

If you have a story to share, write to us at Q@Savage.Love.

Savage Love Episode 1025 Jun 30, 2026

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A woman's hot boyfriend is being harassed by his upstairs neighbor who has come up with a novel way to summon him to his door.

Our first guest is GI physician and friend of the show Dr. Carlton Thomas. He is on to answer a question about NEW DOUCHING TECHNOLOGY.

On the Magnum, a newly single woman is howling at the moon with insatiably high libido. She's annoyed with apps and parties and wonders if she should just hire a sex worker already. Dan chatted with "Love Coach," podcast host and former sex worker Shaun Galanos about her options.

Finally, a man has just had prostate surgery. His doctors tell him he must have no sexual contact while he recovers. Can his girlfriend suck his dick anyway?

Here's how it works. You record your question. Then you send it to Q@Savage.Love

Or! You call 206-302-2064.

This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase.

Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of so many neologisms! Like GGG, monogamish, pegging, PUD, toly, Santorum- it goes on and on. Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity and we can dig it.

After Action Report #35 Jun 26, 2026

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Meet Maxon. Ho hum. Just your typical non-binary, exhibitionist, pre-op sub who has worn a titanium cock-cage constantly for over 850 days. If this sounds rather dull to you, remember as Maxon says: "Everyone's chastity journey is different."

BUT THAT ISN'T EVEN WHAT THIS AFTER ACTION REPORT IS ABOUT.

Do you like to play bingo? Then think hard before you press play. Because with this episode in your head, the game will never be the same.

Can you top this one? Yeah? Write about the shenanigans YOU got into and send it to Q@Savage.Love.

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