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After Action Report #44 Aug 28, 2026

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Hey Everybody! Meet Jay- a pan, poly furry who, along with 15 other queer furries, met up for a "kink tasting, orgy event."

What goes on at kink cabin? We won't say here, but please know that an inflatable horse costume was involved.

Also, Dan brings a much needed Marxist interrogation to the story.

If you have a tale to share, write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love

Savage Love Episode 1033 Aug 25, 2026

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A gay, married couple journeyed to Montreal to enjoy the services of a tantric masseur. And they REALLY enjoyed him. But did this open Pandora's box? How can they continue to have earth-shattering, mind-blowing sex when it's back to the hum-drum two of them?

A caller wonders if folks who enjoy adult baby play actually... well, actually shit themselves. The answer comes from Dan's guest, Fancy of the InTheNook podcast. The show champions "nuance, kink-positive education, and unfiltered queer realness" for those into ABDL. They have a great conversation about what fuels this maligned kink.

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Atlantic writer Faith Hill, who covers dating, young adulthood, family, and social connection. Her latest piece, "The Great Romance Slump" digs in to why young people are forgoing sex and dating. She and Dan discuss the changes that have left us in this dismal place. They also discuss age gap relationships and the various other "gaps" that our culture eyes with suspicion.

And, what makes a sexy foot? Are some feet sexier than others? Why? Dan answers.

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to adult babies, tantric sex to BDSM and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

After Action Report #43 Aug 21, 2026

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After 22 years of marriage, well, it was just time.

Hear Trix’s story about writing, filming and performing in her “queer adoring gang bang” story.

And how she feels about the possibility of her kids stumbling across it one day.

How have YOU kept your marriage fresh? Tell us a story at Q@Savage.Love

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Savage Lovecast Episode 1032 Aug 18, 2026

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As this is a wholesome, family-focused show, we bookend the episode with parenting questions. First, a woman's 5 year-old nephew wants to wear a padlock around his neck. He saw this on a stranger in a grocery store and thought it looked cool. Should they let him?

And last, when your five year old asks "What is sex?" What should you say?

Our guest is the incomparable Jane Don't! The break out star of Season 18 of Ru Paul's drag race is here to talk about her upcoming tour, her Miss Congeniality role on Drag Race, growing up gay in a small town, and her abiding love for drag. She and Dan dish and do a deep dive on Drag Race. If you're a fan of the show, you're going to want to listen. A little is in the Micro and the whole thing is on the Magnum.

And, a woman has been dating her boyfriend for a year now, and he still never comes when he's with her. Dan spells out his technique to get him there.

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After Action Report #42 Aug 14, 2026

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Jade is normally a sub with her husband. But when she inserted the sounding rod into his urethra, did she really feel submissive? Really?

It’s a journey…

Tell us all about your novel erotic transgressions.Q@Savage.Love

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Micro Extra! Sex & Politics #46 Aug 13, 2026

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Sex & Politics #46

Can we really change?

Welcome to Sex & Politics!
For this bonus episode, Dan chatted with Benoit Denizet-Lewis, an associate professor at Emerson College, a longtime contributing writer for The New York Times Magazine, and the author, most recently, of “You’ve Changed: The Promise and Price of Self-Transformation.” He and Dan talked about the various ways people can change- how prisoners who have the possibility of parole can improve themselves and prove they’ve done so. They talk about the ex-gay movement, specifically Michael Glatze, who went from gay activist to anti-gay activist. And they answered a call from a man whose wife’s weight loss has completely altered their sex life.

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Savage Love Episode 1031 Aug 11, 2026

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A woman in her 60s has a husband who is into feet. She's planning to get a professional foot massage. Can he come along and watch if he promises to hide his boner?

A woman has a boyfriend who provides financial security and perfectly fine sex. But she finds him so very dull. Is a comfortable but boring relationship enough?

On the Magnum, meet comedian, filmmaker and avowed cuck queen Edy Modica. She and Dan talk about her brilliant performance on Jury Duty, and in her personal life, how she eroticizes jealousy. Then, they take a call from a woman whose boyfriend wants her to put whipped cream up her ass and squeeze it out all over him. So there's that too.

And, a femme person is developing a hot, kinky, fulfilling relationship with...a chat bot. She found "him" on an app, and it's turning her on so hard! Is this gonna be ok?

Maybe! (Probably not.)

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Edy Modica's debut special, I'm Just Like You (And It Sucks) On VEEPS now: https://veeps.com/edymodicaOn YouTube Sept 17 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMhAV7XrSKM

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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From bondage to bisexuality, cuckolding to crossdressing and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.

After Action Report #41 Aug 07, 2026

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What’s it like for a trans man at a gay leather convention?Listen and you will find out…

Tell us about your brave excursion.

Write about your experience and send it to Dan: Q@Savage.Love

Savage Lovecast Episode 1030 Aug 04, 2026

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Her friend's new girlfriend stinks to high heaven. Is this intentional? Is it a kink? What would be the polite way to ask her to wash up?

A woman with super-high libido is trying to convince her husband to have a three-way with another woman. But he doesn't wanna. How can she convince him to do the thing that many straight men would kill for?

On the Magnum, a woman is being drawn in to more and more extreme porn. Now she needs the really intense stuff to get off. Dan discusses this with professor of clinical psychology Dr. Eric Sprankle who has literally written the book on masturbation. ("DIY: The Wonderfully Weird History and Science of Masturbation.") Does the Algorithm influence people's porn tastes? They also talk about blasphemy kinks.

And, a woman and her partner are traveling to Greece. She heard it's legal to hire a sex worker there, but wants to make sure the person they hire isn't being exploited. How?

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After Action Report #40 Jul 31, 2026

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“He had a kiddy pool set up by the time we were there…”

Meet Abe, who finally got to *immerse* himself in the world of gunge.
You haven’t heard of gunge, you say? Simply press play.

If you had a sexual experience that called for a LOT of logistics, write about it and send us the details to
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