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243. Don't Do It Alone Aug 19, 2025

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Thomas Doochin is dedicated to a world where men are well such that the Earth can be well. He is the founder and lead facilitator at Heart of Men, an organization working across the continent to provide men with the conditions to know who they are and why they're here. Thomas lives in the Appalachian Mountains and stewards a 22-acre land project alongside his family and his parents.

Becky Boisvert is a lover of life, a cultural change agent, a steward of the land and place-based living, a mother, a community visionary, and a maître d' of the house that is her body. Becky offers an exquisiteness to space holding, whether that be the Heart of Men's Council Program or in her work with individuals and couples, which has been honed through her lifelong study of the human experience coupled with skill in the area of somatic exploration, compassionate consciousness, nervous system literacy, and the body-mind connection, to name a few. Becky is here in service to a vision of life that extends beyond survival into great thriving.

In this conversation we talk about the importance of community connection and witnessing in the processes of healing, learning, growth, and self-discovery and therefore not just "doing it alone."

A Council of Brothers is a curated space of 12 men ready to anchor deep changes in their internal and external landscape. We take an alchemical journey through masterfully-crafted group process and curriculum that touches every part of the self. Beginning September 17th, we meet twice monthly online and gather for an in-person retreat in both the fall and spring in a beautiful mountain retreat setting where Heart of Men is headquartered. Learn more here.

Connect with Thomas:

Leading the Heart of Men: A Council of Brothers

Connect with Becky:

becky@heartofmen.community

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Theme music "These Streets" provided by Adi the Monk

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242. Self-Discovery as a Way to Connect With Others Aug 05, 2025

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Bodhi Samuel is a Zenthai Shiatsu practitioner, astrology practitioner, group facilitator, and community builder who is interested in supporting the birth of new ecovillages into the world and designing micro cultures. He currently holds long-term residencies focused on embodied connection, emotional intimacy, and being our authentic sweet selves.

We discuss how self-discovery helps you understand your own needs, values, and boundaries, which makes it easier to communicate openly with other people. When you are clear about who you are, you can build stronger, more authentic connections without losing yourself in relationships. It also boosts emotional resilience, so you can handle conflicts better and support your partner's growth.

Connect with Bodhi:

Check out his newest community project, Community Lab, at communitylab.life

Podcast underthbodhitree

Website underthebodhitree.8b.io

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Check out our Guided Audio Practices and Meditations at Relationships! Let's Learn About It.

You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo's Podcast Songs.

Don't forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

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Theme music "These Streets" provided by Adi the Monk

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241. Heartshare: Don't Be a Fixer Jul 22, 2025

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In this solocast I talk about how being a fixer can be detrimental in some relationship dynamics. The idea of "stop being a fixer" in relationships refers to avoiding the role of trying to change, rescue, or "fix" your partner's behaviors, emotions, or life circumstances. The mindset often stems from a well-meaning desire to help but can lead to unhealthy dynamics.

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HeartShare: Making Your Relationship a Priority

HeartShare: Are You Hiding Your True Self?

HeartShare: How To Be The Partner You Want To Be

Managing Expectations in Relationships

HeartShare: Expressing Needs

Let's Talk About It!

Check out our Guided Audio Practices, Meditations, and Workshops at Relationships! Let's Learn About It.

You can check out the original songs I have sung on my podcast at Pripo's Podcast Songs.

Don't forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

Theme music "These Streets" provided by Adi the Monk

Sound Production by Matt Carlson

240. Self Regulation Jul 08, 2025

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Megan Hearne is the owner of Vitality Coaching and provides neurofeedback and integrative nutrition health coaching in Asheville, NC. Her training was through the Institute for Applied Neuroscience, EEG Education and Research, New Mind Academy, and the Institute for Integrative Nutrition. Megan has been a neurofeedback practitioner for over 6 years. She is currently accepting new clients who are ready to ignite their vitality.

In this episode, Megan and I discuss the importance of focusing and knowing how to self-regulate and the crucial role it plays in enabling individuals to manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors effectively, leading to better decision-making, improved relationships, and personal growth. It helps maintain focus, resist impulses, and adapt to challenges, fostering resilience and productivity in both personal and professional settings. Megan also presents how neurofeedback and nutrition can be vital tools in increasing our capacity to self-regulate.

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Connect with Megan Hearne:

www.vitalityneuro.com
megan@vitalityneuro.com
Ph: 828-273-3272

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You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo's Podcast Songs.

Don't forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

Theme music "These Streets" provided by Adi the Monk

Sound Production by Matt Carlson

239. Heartshare: Relationships as a Spiritual Path Jun 24, 2025

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In this solocast I talk about how focusing on your primary relationship to create a ripple effect of thriving in other areas of your life is about nurturing that bond with intention, presence, and care. By tending to your primary relationship with intentional acts, you're building a foundation of love and trust that makes everything else feel possible. That is why relationships can be viewed as a spiritual path. It can be a beautiful, messy, and deeply transformative journey—one that mirrors a quest for meaning, connection, and growth at the heart of spirituality.

Related Content: Other Podcast Episodes

HeartShare: Making Your Relationship a Priority

HeartShare: Are You Hiding Your True Self?

HeartShare: How To Be The Partner You Want To Be

Managing Expectations in Relationships

HeartShare: Expressing Needs

Let's Talk About It!

Check out our Guided Audio Practices, Meditations, and Workshops at Relationships! Let's Learn About It.

You can check out the original songs I have sung on my podcast at Pripo's Podcast Songs.

Don't forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

Theme music "These Streets" provided by Adi the Monk

Sound Production by Matt Carlson

238. - Emotional Intelligence! Jun 10, 2025

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Emma Olyff is passionate about artistry, personal development, and spiritual practices. Eight years ago, she founded Emwa Jewelry, a high-end brand where she creates collections, custom designs, and leads workshops. Alongside her work as a jewelry artist, she has also become a business coach. In both fields, she weaves together embodiment, practical tools, and spiritual wisdom—offering a grounded, holistic approach to creation and growth. I am so so grateful to have her in my life as my Daughter-in-love.

In this episode, Emma and I have a conversation about emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence (EI) in relationships refers to the ability to recognize, understand, and manage one's own emotions while also being attuned to and empathetic toward a partner's feelings. It's a critical factor in building and maintaining healthy, fulfilling relationships. Some of the key factors of emotional intelligence that we discuss are self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, social skills, motivation, trust, and safety, to name a few.

Connect with Emma Olyff:

Let's Talk About It!

You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo's Podcast Songs.

Don't forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

Theme music "These Streets" provided by Adi the Monk

Sound Production by Matt Carlson

237. Heartshare: You Get What You Expect in Relationships May 27, 2025

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In this solocast I talk about how you get what you expect in relationships. Expectations in relationships are a double-edged sword because they can both guide and undermine connection. On one hand, clear expectations set standards for respect, communication, and mutual effort, creating a framework for trust and stability. For example, expecting honesty or support fosters accountability and helps partners align their actions. On the other hand, unrealistic or unspoken expectations can breed resentment and misunderstanding. I emphasize how having positive expectations of your partner and relationship is actually a good thing!

Related Content: Other Podcast Episodes

Managing Expectations in Relationships

HeartShare: Expressing Needs

Let's Talk About It!

Check out our Guided Audio Practices, Meditations, and Workshops at Relationships! Let's Learn About It.

You can check out the original songs I have sung on my podcast at Pripo's Podcast Songs.

Don't forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

Theme music "These Streets" provided by Adi the Monk

Sound Production by Matt Carlson

236. Mind Reading in Relationships May 13, 2025

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Corey Costanzo is the Co-Owner of Asheville's Still Point Wellness Spa, a licensed addiction counselor, trauma specialist, licensed massage therapist, master didgeridoo player, colleague, and my good friend.

In this episode, Corey and I have a conversation about mind reading. Mind reading is a cognitive distortion where individuals believe they can accurately guess or know what others are thinking or feeling without direct communication. In relationships, this often involves making assumptions about a partner's thoughts, feelings, or intentions based on minimal or ambiguous cues. Attunement is different than mind reading, which we elaborate on.

Connect with Corey Costanzo:

Let's Talk About It!

You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo's Podcast Songs.

Don't forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

Theme music "These Streets" provided by Adi the Monk

Sound Production by Matt Carlson

235. Don't Lose Yourself in Your Relationships Apr 29, 2025

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Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky is the founder of Artsy Goddess Studio, where she actively carries out her role in helping others and the planet heal. Rainbow is passionate about art, as seen in the upcycled clothing she creates from second-hand materials, as well as the visual arts she creates, such as murals, paintings, and tapestries. She also helps women transform through voice-empowering workshops, and she co-facilitates couples retreats and workshops with me.

Not losing yourself in a relationship is about maintaining your autonomy, self-worth, and unique identity while building a shared life with someone. It's the art of "we" without letting the "me" fade away. Staying true to yourself ensures you remain a whole, fulfilled person, which ultimately strengthens the relationship by fostering mutual respect and authenticity.

Rainbow's upcoming workshops:

https://urlight.org/events/world-labyrinth-event-walking-and-toning-peace-meditation-with-rainbow-teplitsky/

https://urlight.org/events/toning-and-drumming-our-prayers-with-yvonne-rainbow-teplitsky-and-janice-doochin/

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Couples Appreciation

Feeling Seen and Heard

Aftermath of a Fight or a Regrettable Incident

The Importance of Apologies

The Art of Apology

Maintaining Connection Through Conflict

Let's Talk About It!

Check out our Guided Audio Practices and Meditations at Relationships! Let's Learn About It.

You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo's Podcast Songs.

Don't forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

Theme music "These Streets" provided by Adi the Monk

Sound Production by Matt Carlson

234. HeartShare: Asking for What You Want and Need Apr 15, 2025

Show notes

In this solocast I talk about asking for what we want and need in our relationships. It can be tricky, but it's about clear communication and mutual respect. It's also about building a dynamic where both of you feel safe, heard, and willing to stretch for each other. The deep wants always have a "root," and it is very good to identify it. So, what's the toughest thing you've held back from asking?

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HeartShare: Expressing Needs

Asking for Help

Shedding People Pleasing into Authentic Relationships

People Pleasing

Encourage Your Partner's Authenticity

Encourage Your Partner's "Deeper" Authenticity Part 2

Let's Talk About It!

Check out our Guided Audio Practices, Meditations and Workshops at Relationships! Let's Learn About It.

You can check out the original songs I have sung on my podcast at Pripo's Podcast Songs.

Don't forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

Theme music "These Streets" provided by Adi the Monk

Sound Production by Matt Carlson

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