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This podcast is for those who are interested in improving their intimate relationship. If you are in a relationship, and believe in keeping the spark alive, this podcast is for you. For those couples who are dating, engaged, newlyweds, married, or in a long term relationship, we will focus on enhancing your intimate connection.

Dr. Kia James, will interview specialists, relationship coaches, marriage counselors, and successful couples to bring you tips, advice, and strategies for making your good relationship or marriage better. Of course, these tips can also benefit couples who are experiencing relationship stress. We will cover topics related to successful co-parenting, creating a healthy blended family, dating, sex, love, passion, supporting your partner, and much more. Nurture your relationship and avoid relationship road blocks. Tune in as we discuss relationship tips that will give your relationship that extra boost!

Latest Episodes:

32. Love Yourself Aug 02, 2017

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The Relationship with Yourself

Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 32

Interview with: Love Coach Dani Spikes

An essential component in your relationship

Love yourself

The journey is self-love is on your own, and it will impact the connection in your relationships.
Men and women both can experience problems related to self-love.
- Women need to better themselves to become better wives just as men need to better themselves to become better husbands
Loving yourself includes developing Self-worth and Self-value.

Some major components in self-love

Learn to forgive yourself
Be ok with putting yourself
Know your own truth

Take away points

It is impossible to love anyone else if you do not know how to love yourself.

Follow the link below to find out more about Love Coach Dani Spikes and The Spiked Brunch

www.iamdanispikes.com

31 .Don't allow your past relationship to ruin your current relationship Jul 11, 2017

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Don't allow your past relationship to ruin your current relationship

Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 31

Chats with Dr. Kia James and Monika Cope-Ward

There is a reason why your Ex is your Ex

In this week's podcast we discussed how you can bring your past relationship into your current relationship. This can happen so quickly and so easily. Make sure you consider the consequences when you open the door to an ex. Additionally, be aware that your current behavior may be the result of previous interactions with an ex-lover. Review and analyze your current behavior. If your current behavior has the potential to hold your lover responsible for the actions of an ex, it is time to change your behavior.

Ways your Ex Can Be Present and Problematic in Your Current Relationship?

Social Media Stalking your Ex can be tempting, but this can cause major damage to your current relationship
When there are problems in your current relationship, a friendship with your ex may be questioned.
If there is unfinished business in your previous relationship, this can wreak havoc on your current relationship.
Keeping the lines of communication open can be problematic to your current relationship
Comparing your significant other to your ex is a major fail
- Don't compare life to death

Make sure you do not ruin your current relationship by living in the past. Don't hold your current significant other responsible for the behavior of an ex. They do not deserve the consequences from someone else's behavior. It also does not help you create a happy healthy bond in your current relationship.

30: Protect Your Relationship Jun 28, 2017

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Protect Your Relationship

Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 30

Chats with Monika and Kia

Affair Prevention

Don't be the victim of an "After School Special" of relationships. You are not the exclusion to being in a relationship where an affair can occur.

What is an affair

An affair is Any external factor that comes between you and your partner. For the purpose of this podcast, the focus is on an emotional or sexual connection with another person.

Factors That Lead to an Affair

Stinking thinking is a set up for an affair. Your thought process will definitely leave a gap in your relationship for an affair to occur. There are a few mindsets that can leave your relationship especially vulnerable.

Thinking that your vows are enough to save your relationship is not realistic. You have to regularly work on your relationship to continuously strengthen your bond.
Putting your partner on a pedestal is a sure set up for failure. No one is perfect, and having unrealistic expectation of perfection can cause stress to your partner and your relationship. This can set your partner up to be secretive. When they are expected to be "flawless," being able to discuss and be open about their flaws becomes more difficult.
Believing that you could never have an affair is the ultimate set up. When you believe that you are the special human who is not vulnerable, you are more prone to allow yourself to engage in behavior that can get out of control quickly
- Remember, just because you communicate your vows to someone does not mean that they will respect you or your vows. In fact, your "friend" may be waiting and plotting to get into a relationship with you.
Avoiding confrontation and disagreements is a no-no. You and your partner need to have productive conversations to discuss problems in your relationship. The lack of open conversation will lead to relationship stress.

If you are in a relationship, an affair is possible. Protect your relationship today. Don't wait for stress to attack your relationship and open the door to an affair. For more information on Affair Prevention, check out our Affair Prevention Webinar.

29: Criticism Jun 13, 2017

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Criticism

Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 29

Dr. Kia James

A Communication Killer

Criticism is not keeping it real, It is an attack of your partner.

As opposed to stating that you have a concern, you attack your partner by stating that they have a character flaw.
You tell your partner, "something is wrong with you." as opposed to stating that you have a problem about a specific situation or event.
The recipient of the criticism many times feels disrespected.
Criticism shuts down communication
Criticism many time starts with the statement you always or you never.
- You always make a mess. You never take out the trash.
Being critical leads to high level conflict

We all have complaints

I am not saying that you should not communicate your complaints. What I am saying is that you should not justify an attack of your partner due to you being dissatisfied with a situation.

A complaint allows your partner to know what you like and don't like.
It opens the door for more communication.
You are sharing facts about a specific event or a situation. Sticking to the facts helps.

Attack defend cycle

Being brutally honest without tact does not communicate that you are attempting to solve a problem. This type of critical communication many times puts your partner in a defensive place. This derails the conversation and problems are not solved.

Take responsibility for yourself and your behavior. If you want to have effective communication, don't begin a conversation in a way that will be unproductive. If you need additional assistance, check out our mini-course Avoid Turning a Disagreement into an Argument.

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Thank You for Listening

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28: What Do Men Want in Relationships May 04, 2017

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What do men want in relationships

Podcast Episode 28

Interview with Panama Jackson the Co-Founder of Very Smart Brothas (VSB)

A Male Perspective on Relationships

Panama Jackson is a relationship and pop culture blogger. On today's episode, he shared a male perspective on relationships.

A few of the topics covered in this episode are:

Is sex a priority for men in a relationship?
Is understanding the mind of a male essential to have a great relationship?
Are there things that are known as a real "turn off" for most men?
What are common themes that men struggle with in relationships?

The Burning Question: "What do Men Want in a Relationship?"

Men want to have Inside Jokes with their partner
Loyalty is a desired characteristic.
Men want to have the desire to want to come home.
A comfortable home
A relationship that helps him grow as a person.
A significant other that can slow him down and capture his attention.

Concisely, men and women want similar things in a relationship. The overall goal is to have a relationship with peace and happiness. It that too much to ask?

To connect with Panama Jackson or find out more about Very Smart Brothas, you can visit their website. http://verysmartbrothas.com/

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Thank You for Listening

Thank you for taking the time to listen to this week's podcast.

If you enjoyed today's episode, please share it with other couples, friends, or your partner using the social media buttons on this page.

Please consider leaving an honest rating and review for the podcast on iTunes. This helps the podcast reach more couples who want to build an extraordinary relationship

27: Communicating with Your Significant Other Apr 26, 2017

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Communicating with Your Significant Other

Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 27

Chats with Monika

The Importance of Communication in Your Relationship

What is Communication

Communication is the art of expressing yourself. There is the person who sends the message, and there is also the person who receives the message. What is actually said is just as important as what is heard. Both people have a role in this communication dance. Make sure you take responsibility for the role that you play.

You Express yourself through many ways

Recognize that you are expressing yourself in many different ways. Depending on how you send the message, pieces of the message may be missed. This is especially true when you are communicating in an electronic way. When you send a text message, you miss much of the non-verbal portion of the message. Keep this in mind when you are having conversation. During the podcast, we discussed the different methods of expression:

Verbal
Non-Verbal Communication
Facial Expressions
Body Language

Different Communication Style

Aggressive Communication
Assertive
Passive aggressive
Passive

Effective communication is one of the core components in a healthy relationship. If there are glitches in your communication, work on the small hiccups before the short gaps become massive sink holes.

26: An Inter-Racial Relationship Apr 18, 2017

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An Inter-Racial Relationship

Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 26

Interview with Shaundra Hudson

Diversity Series Part 3

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25: Inter-Racial Relationships Apr 11, 2017

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Inter-Racial Relationships

Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 25

Interview with Julie Hanson

Diversity Series Part 2: Navigating the world of biracial relationships

Check out the show notes at www.relationshipboosters.com

24: Sexual Minorities & Relationships Mar 29, 2017

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Sexual Minorities and Relationships

Podcast Episode 24

Xanthia Johnson LPC, LCPC, ACS, RPT-S

Diversity and Relationships Series (Ep 1)

There are many potential problems and stressors that impact sexual minorities who are in intimate relationships. The term sexual minority refers to individuals who identify as the Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgender, Intersex Questioning, Queer, and Non-binary. During the Podcast, Xanthia shares relationship do's and don'ts for sexual minorities.

Get the Show Notes: www.therelationshipboosters.com/episode24

23: Using Getaways to Keep Your Relationship Strong Mar 21, 2017

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Black Couple Getaways

Podcast Episode 23

Interview with Jerome (JD) Davis, Executive Director of Black Couple Getaways

Get the Show Notes For todays episode www.therelationshipboosters/episode23