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    Real Recovery Talk

    We are a podcast dedicated to sobriety and recovery from alcohol and drugs. (And whatever other addiction that is out there) It doesn’t matter what you have been through in the past. We have all done very bad things in our addiction. This does not define who we are. We know there is a way out of addiction. Family and loved ones, you play a part in this as well. There are plenty of stories out there of families and loved ones not knowing what to do with their addicted loved one. Let us guide you on the right things to do and the right decisions to make to ensure that you and your loved one gets the help that you need.

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    147 - 3 statements that we HATE hearing from people in early recovery Jul 09, 2020
    Show notes

    In today's episode, Benjamin and I are going to talk about the "why" behind being an addict. Drinking and doing drugs is a cover for an underlying emotional issue that must be addressed to fully recover successfully.

    Our clients, because of the choices they have made in the past, do not have the best behavior or comments when they are moving through the process of recovery. In today's episode, Ben and I will talk about questions and feedback we hear from clients most often, and how we respond to their concerns.

    If you're in a treatment program, make sure to really focus on treatment so you can get better and move on with your life. Realize the recovery process, to be successful, take time. You may have been an addict for over a decade - spending two weeks in recovery will not give you enough time to recognize what you need to change.

    Also, realize that you will need to not only be aware of the emotional issues that ended you up in recovery, but you'll also need to process these emotions and be mindful of triggers that can lead to continuing your addictive behavior. It's also easy to be in a mindset of not wanting to drink or do drugs, but that alone will not lead to a successful recovery.

    We talk about the six legs of alcoholism, including consequences, which, in and of themselves, are not enough to give you a clean and sober life. Some clients want to get back to their family and responsibilities. However, we see clients that leave early as they have self-evaluated they are OK, they go home and continue their addiction.

    Many times, you weren't helping before you came to rehab, as your addiction came first. You were most likely stealing and being an emotional and spiritual burden to your loved ones. When you're not ready to leave, you aren't prepared to take care of someone else, let alone take care of yourself.

    At Rock Recovery Center, we take a humanistic approach to recovery, teaching our clients how to live independently in a sober world. We care about the success and safety of each and every one of our clients from the moment they step into our center to the future of their well-being.

    Check out my new website where you can download any episode right from my site along with other useful information for those in recovery.

    • Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!

    Show Notes:

    • [03:27] Why people come for treatment at Rock Recovery Center.
    • [04:12] When our clients "don't even feel like using anymore."
    • [08:19] Motivators and consequences for the addict.
    • [11:17] Addicts saying they don't want to drink or drug anymore is usually a precursor to a future negative event.
    • [14:07] Unicorn addicts who can successfully complete the program in 30 days.
    • [18:15] Treatment and sober living can take up to a year to recover.
    • [19:49] "I just want to move on and put 'this' behind me."
    • [22:19] SMART goals and creating a new and healthy routine.
    • [24:40] The difference between leaving and leaving when you are ready.

    Episode Links and Resources

    • Real Recovery Live Chat
    • Real Recovery Talk on the Web
    • Real Recovery Talk on YouTube
    • Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes
    • Rock Recovery Center
    • Real Recovery Talk on Facebook
    • Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com

    146 - Patricia shares what can happen if you take ALL of the suggestions given to you while in treatment - 7 months of QUALITY SOBRIETY! Jul 02, 2020
    Show notes

    "When I started coming to meetings, I actually saw freedom in people's faces, and in the way they spoke, they were just really happy! And I wanted that, you know? It gave me a whole new perspective." - Patricia

    Ben and I are chatting with Patricia today. She is a very successful member of our community. Patricia took our suggestions and acted on them to become sober. Consuming her first drink at 12, Patricia decided she liked the feeling of drinking, trying to escape her feelings.

    This process became a never-ending cycle, bringing fear into her life until she finally realized she couldn't live the life she was living. She had several factors that led up to her eventual sober recovery. With her third DUI and recently breaking up with her boyfriend, Patricia started binge drinking for weeks on end, then stopped.

    While binge drinking, she would pay for a motel, drink until she passed out, then wake up the next day and repeat the pattern again. She also held a job at a bloodwork lab during the day and worked 60+ hours per week.

    Part of her knew if this behavior continued that she would die. Patricia realized she needed a change and wanted to do whatever she could to get back on the right path.

    The first time she checked into treatment, she worked on her sobriety for a year-and-a-half. "I was stuck in a sort of a bubble, and I was so focused on my internship that I didn't have time for anything else. When I got out of that, it was very much a culture shock for me. I didn't have anything else to rely on besides my new husband, and life got very overwhelming for me, and I ended up in a motel room." She didn't have a clear path to fall back on when she was released from her prior treatment center and returned to drinking.

    At Rock Recovery Center, we take a humanistic approach to recovery, teaching our clients how to live independently in a sober world. Many times, we don't have to remove freedoms from our clients as they are going down the right path with guidance.

    Check out my new website where you can download any episode right from my site along with other useful information for those in recovery.

    • Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!

    Show Notes:

    • [03:35] Patricia is a star member of our sober community.
    • [04:37] She tells of her story of spiraling downward into addiction.
    • [06:04] Factors that led to her second attempt at treatment, including her third DUI.
    • [08:40] What Patricia learned during her treatment at Rock Recovery Center.
    • [10:40] How Patricia would deal with her previous life stressors running away.
    • [13:53] Her daily schedule interning at her first treatment center.
    • [16:50] Recovery happens outside of work, not inside of your workday.
    • [19:45] Patricia realized that the choices she was going to make came down to her making the right decisions.
    • [21:49] Treatment models that fail is because they do not give the opportunity to practice their new tools in treatment.
    • [26:00] Providing the opportunity for yourself to do better.
    • [27:28] Three suggestions given to Patricia to help her build a better life.
    • [31:33] The challenges and reality of becoming sober.
    • [34:48] Why rehab romance never works.
    • [39:27] The pattern of romantic relationship development in rehab.
    • [41:27] Thanks to Patricia for coming on the show. We are honored to witness her sobriety.

    Episode Links and Resources

    • Real Recovery Live Chat
    • Real Recovery Talk on the Web
    • Real Recovery Talk on YouTube
    • Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes
    • Rock Recovery Center
    • Real Recovery Talk on Facebook
    • Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com

    145 - Mitchell talks about the biggest downfalls he has faced getting sober - Where he has failed and how he has recovered Jun 25, 2020
    Show notes

    "I have little brothers and sisters that currently don't have a dad so I feel like if I work on myself and get better for myself I can be a better role model and support for my family back home.' " - Mitchell

    Ben and I are chatting with Mitchell, who is 21 and has been in treatment five times because of his previous cocaine addiction. He started his addiction at 16, with college friends smoking weed mixed with cocaine. Then, he had two knee surgeries as a result of football injuries at age 17 and was hooked on Percocet. Not only was he addicted, but he also sold his prescription to other friends.

    He admits that early on, during his addiction, "I lost a lot of really good friends, and I lost a perfect girl at that time." Mitchell's mother was monitoring his medication and realized he was taking too many drugs and decided to stop giving him his medicine. At that time, Mitchell decided to go into treatment for juveniles at age 17 for one year.

    After his time in rehab, Mitchell returned home to live with his parents. He soon became, "caught in the wrong crowd, started fighting, stealing and not living the life that I should've been. It was really hard."

    At 19, he had to get another surgery, let his friends persuade him to take narcotic pain medications. From this point, he went back to cocaine, then switched to Xanax, and tried a multitude of other drugs. At 20, he went to detox again in Miami. Since then, he has been bouncing back and forth between centers without success until he came to Rock Recovery Center.

    He understands how peer pressure really pulls him down in a negative cycle. Mitchell knows he has to work on himself and have more self-control with his emotions. His family has a big part in gaining his sobriety. Dad is currently in prison, he loves his dad and feels that he has to help himself before he can help his dad. Even though his dad is in a tough situation, Mitchell understands that he needs to become clean so his dad won't be disappointed in him.

    Check out my new website where you can download any episode right from my site along with other useful information for those in recovery.

    • Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!

    Show Notes:

    • [03:58] Mitchell introduces himself and starts with his story of addiction at age 16.
    • [06:20] How he played the healthcare system to get more opioid drugs.
    • [09:34] What elements made Mitchell become unstable in recovery?
    • [10:30] How he is influenced by females and why he wants to break this habit.
    • [12:56] Ben talks about his experiences with previous relapses.
    • [15:48] Pitfalls that have given Mitchell huge obstacles for his sobriety.
    • [19:18] What things Mitchell can't go without during his sobriety.
    • [21:45] Going to treatment to go back and contribute to your family's health.
    • [25:03] Mitchell's plans and goals moving forward.
    • [28:20] Mentors and people to look up to during treatment.
    • [30:48] Priorities with relationships - make sure you are going in the right direction.

    Episode Links and Resources

    • Real Recovery Live Chat
    • Real Recovery Talk on the Web
    • Real Recovery Talk on YouTube
    • Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes
    • Rock Recovery Center
    • Real Recovery Talk on Facebook
    • Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com

    144 - Importance of sponsorship and why you might want to do the work the first time - with John S. Jun 18, 2020
    Show notes

    "I remember looking in the bathroom mirror and saying to myself, 'You're an alcoholic because you are drinking just like your old man.' " -John S.

    Ben and I are chatting with John S., who is a "real alcoholic" in his words. We are going to talk to John about sponsorship, which he is very adamant about. Our group chat will also dive into the differences between privately run and not-for-profit run treatment centers.

    John is a "real alcoholic" who was born in New Orleans, which is the drinking city of the world, where you can purchase drive-through alcohol. His father was a "beer-drinking alcoholic who loved to fight." He was unfaithful to his wife and cheated when playing games. His parents divorced around age 5, as his dad was very abusive.

    He started drinking casually in high school and remembered that he was always the guy pushing the alcohol on everybody during high school games. During college, he joined a fraternity and continued to drink, however, he didn't finish college. Even with drinking full-time, he never received a DUI.

    In addition to drinking, he added cocaine to his addiction in the mid-'80s. Since he was a functioning alcoholic, John was able to land a good banking job, making good money. He purchased a home and a lovely car with his new salary. He was living the good life until he was rear-ended by a dump truck and wasn't able to work because of damage to his spine and his neck.

    Now at home full-time, he started drinking more during the day as he was home alone. Drinking was an escape for his pain and suffering from his accident and subsequent surgeries. He would hide his alcohol in different places within his home and drink straight from the bottles. John would drink a little bit from each bottle, however, his partner only knew of one bottle he was drinking, so he didn't understand how much he was drinking. His doctor and his therapist didn't think he was an alcoholic.

    Check out my new website where you can download any episode right from my site along with other useful information for those in recovery.

    • Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!

    Show Notes:

    • [04:38] John talks about his story, his path to alcoholism and his recovery.
    • [07:05] He started drinking during his high school years.
    • [08:56] John's mom remarried and moved, thinking that a geographical change would help her son.
    • [10:23] His story of being rear-ended by a dump truck and the resulting effects.
    • [13:36] John's friends who were in AA would try to get John to come to meetings.
    • [15:54] The point at which his partner told him he needed to go to treatment.
    • [18:30] His first night in a treatment center in Salt Lake City, UT.
    • [22:24] Hiding bottles from himself, his partner and his family.
    • [24:00] John started helping people the first day he was in recovery.
    • [33:30] His take on relating to other people who were alcoholic, but not successful in life.
    • [39:56] He talks about his "sponsees" in the program.
    • [41:29] He and his person he has sponsored are total opposites but have a strong friendship.
    • [46:19] John talks about his current living situation and sobriety.
    • [51:51] Alcoholism as a progressive illness and relapse.
    • [55:45] How desperation sets people apart.
    • [58:44] John talks about how he came into Rock Recovery Center spiritually and morally bankrupt but came out the other end a whole person.

    Episode Links and Resources

    • Real Recovery Live Chat
    • Real Recovery Talk on the Web
    • Real Recovery Talk on YouTube
    • Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes
    • Rock Recovery Center
    • Real Recovery Talk on Facebook
    • Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com

    143 - 3 Biggest Challenges in Early Sobriety Jun 04, 2020
    Show notes

    Benjamin and I will give you advice on how to overcome the three biggest challenges you may face when you are moving from a life of addiction to a life of sobriety.

    First, you have to establish new relationships with other sober people. Don't hang out with your old friends who are drinking or doing drugs. They will be a negative influence on your life and can drag you back down to return to being an active addict. You'll outgrow the addicts that used to be your "friends," recover your family relationships and build new positive habits in your life.

    Look at your relationships and review your connections with others. Find those who genuinely love you and care about your well-being and restore these relationships. Review the relationships with others who are your drinking buddies or your friends you did drugs with and do not continue those connections.

    Grow your network that contains people who are also recovering, people who will assist you in moving forward in your sobriety, and add those who are a part of your sobriety journey.

    Secondly, you have to establish a new lifestyle as the former lifestyle is not conducive to sobriety. You have many hours to fill without drugs and alcohol. Find positive activities you like to do, such as exercise, finding a new hobby, and finding a job you want to do. Fill your day with positive, fun activities instead of the negative influence of drugs. You can also relearn to love old activities while sober!

    Third, be careful not to get into the "groundhog's day" syndrome. Make goals that are time-sensitive, and plan your day around moving forward toward your goals. Do activities that help you achieve what you want out of life. Make sure to start your day out positive.

    Check out my new website where you can download any episode right from my site along with other useful information for those in recovery.

    • Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!

    Show Notes:

    • [03:15] Stopping your addiction is not easy, but you can recover and live a better life.
    • [03:54] Establish new relationships with other sober people.
    • [06:05] Build your life of recovery with spiritual growth and other positive habits.
    • [10:34] You may want to restore relationships with others who stopped hanging out with you because of your addiction.
    • [13:16] Establish a new lifestyle for your new life of recovery.
    • [16:26] Why Ben hates running and he thinks it sucks, and why he does it every morning.
    • [18:18] Find new activities you like to do through your new sober connections.
    • [20:29] What can you do to deal with the boredom?
    • [24:04] The Triangle Club meets at 7am for those who are dedicated to getting their lives back together before they go off to work.

    Episode Links and Resources

    • Real Recovery Live Chat
    • Real Recovery Talk on the Web
    • Real Recovery Talk on YouTube
    • Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes
    • Rock Recovery Center
    • Real Recovery Talk on Facebook
    • Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com

    142 - How to know if I am going to a good Treatment Center or not? May 28, 2020
    Show notes

    Benjamin and I will give you advice on the questions you should ask and how you can research recovery and addiction centers. There are seven key questions or points you should discuss when you are looking for a center.

    #1 Confirm that the person who answers the phone actually works at the facility and isn't a hotline operator. Make sure you are speaking to someone at the center, not an answering service. A team member can give you a better idea of what is going on at their treatment center and details about daily living and structure. When someone calls Rock Recovery Center, Ben and I see you, sit in on meetings, and follow-through with your recovery.

    #2 Seek an organization that provides a list of full-time healthcare and addiction facility team members, along with their credentials. Find out the client-to-staff ratio in the system that you are looking to go to or place your loved one. Ask about the longevity of the staff and the turnover rate.

    #3 Check with state and federal agencies to see if complaints have been filed with the center or its staff members. Look for places that are licensed through your local children and families, Joint Commission, or other reputable organizations. Look at Google reviews, but read the reviews, don't just look at star ratings. See what people are saying about the center.

    #4 Do not use a facility that offers perks such as free flights, rent, food, cash, drugs, or other open items in exchange for joining their program. This is an illegal offering from the facility or a client / patient broker.

    #5 Look for a facility that is associated with a medical institution, depending on what state you are looking for treatment. Some states, like Florida, have better small care treatment facilities. Ask about caseload to doctor ratio - make sure the large facility doesn't have a large client to doctor or therapist ratio. More than eight to 12 clients per therapist aren't going to give your loved one good care. Also, ask about staff turnover.

    #6 Abstinence, for long-term, is, in our opinion, the best form of treatment. We have had clients tell us their drug of choice and don't consider themselves to be sober when they are on "treatment drugs." Clients who have been on Suboxone can get hooked on this for years and are very sick when they get off their secondary drugs. Some centers will not take addicts who are on these drugs.

    #7 Check for accreditation for the facility you are looking into for your loved one. Review that facilities are doing activities to improve their standards.

    Check out my new website where you can download any episode right from my site along with other useful information for those in recovery.

    • Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!

    Show Notes:

    • [05:56] #1 Confirm that the person who answers the phone actually works at the facility and isn't a hotline operator.
    • [11:15] Ben does his best to personally greet clients when they arrive at Rock Recovery Center.
    • [12:10] #2 Seek an organization who provides a list of full-time healthcare and addiction facility team members, along with their credentials.
    • [17:16] Read Google reviews to see what others are saying about the facility.
    • [19:30] #4 Do not use a facility that offers perks such as free flights, rent, food, cash or other free items in exchange for joining their program.
    • [22:16] Avoid places that are involved in illegal activity, they cannot be trusted.
    • [25:10] Be wary of treatment centers that first ask you what type of insurance you have.
    • [30:13] Ask about case load to doctor ratio - make sure the large facility doesn't have a large client to doctor ratio.
    • [33:09] Our discussion about using drugs to get off of addiction.
    • [36:36] Ben talks about our success rate at Rock Recovery Center and the benefits of abstinence based therapy.
    • [40:54] You can't relapse if you're not sober. Suboxone and other drugs are more addicting than the illegal drugs people are trying to get off of.
    • [45:40] Ben and I discuss the checkboxes for staying accredited.
    • [47:39] Give us a call or email us with questions!

    Episode Links and Resources

    • Real Recovery Live Chat
    • Real Recovery Talk on the Web
    • Real Recovery Talk on YouTube
    • Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes
    • Rock Recovery Center
    • Real Recovery Talk on Facebook
    • Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com

    141 - Sean Shares Some Experience, Strength and HOPE!!! May 21, 2020
    Show notes

    "In every single way, my sobriety has become a blessing for me." -Sean, Rock Recovery Center

    I have a guest today, Sean, who is from Long Island, New York. He came to our recovery center eight years ago for thirty days and decided to become a resident of Florida. We talk about Sean's stage character, how he dropped his walls, and his process of recovery.

    Two days before he came to Rock Recovery Center, Sean remembers "almost drinking myself to death. Everything was dark in my life. I didn't see a way out, and 99% of my thinking had to involve some sort of alcohol. I was losing my health, my wife and children, borderline diabetes with more than 120 pounds extra weight." He was Baker Acted after police came to his house because they received a call and thought he was going to hurt himself.

    When he returned from the hospital, he talked with his wife. In this conversation, he was yelling at her, then had a moment of clarity. The next day, he told his wife he needed help. Although he realized he needed help, he was adamant about not participating in a 12 Step Program as he didn't think it would work for him. When Sean landed in Florida for his first day of recovery, he felt he would erase over two decades of drinking in 29 days.

    In his first AA meeting, he didn't let any of the conversations in his head. He was 100% sure that this program wouldn't work for him. He created a calendar with 29 days to cross off until he went home. At the time he had six "x" marks on his calendar, he understood the fellowship of AA. "The lower your bottom, the higher your hope." He heard others who had much worse situations with addiction tell their stories of hope. "They were talking about how wonderful and amazing their lives were. If they could do it, I could do it! That little mustard seed of hope, that little bit of open-mindedness cracked open. Once it cracked open, it was off to the races."

    Listen in to find out how Sean realized he had a problem with alcohol, why he owes a debt of gratitude to the friend who told his wife details about his alcoholism, and why he thought he could "think his way through this" because of his education as a health coach. Learn how Sean views his recovery process today, how he came to the realization that he had to let the program process "in," and why prayer has made a significant difference in his life.

    Check out my new website where you can download any episode right from my site along with other useful information for those in recovery.

    • Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!

    Show Notes:

    • [04:34] Sean's story of how and why he came to Rock Recovery Center.
    • [07:34] What woke Sean up to his reality was a "look" he got from his then wife.
    • [09:29] His first day of recovery at Rock Recovery Center.
    • [11:33] Ben talks about his witness with Sean's process.
    • [13:30] Sean says, "I was without a doubt, a polished up garbage can."
    • [18:18] He saw the pain and sadness in his wife's eyes.
    • [20:55] The key people in his life that influenced Sean to go to recovery.
    • [22:55] For twenty years he tried to break the cycle of alcoholism on his own.
    • [24:32] What factors changed Sean to stop drinking and how he views his recovery process today.
    • [25:33] The day he decided to start praying, he has prayed everyday since and hasn't missed a day.
    • [27:06] His experience in outpatient treatment after his inpatient time at the recovery center.
    • [33:23] When Sean realized his new "normal" in his life.
    • [37:27] How the community we build around us will directly affect your level of success.
    • [41:10] Sean getting in with the "old timers" who had been sober for many years.
    • [45:08] His old company rehires him and he was able to stay away from alcohol on the job and how his sobriety has made him stronger.
    • [48:58] "There's a lot of respect for my sobriety" with people who drink.
    • [51:14] His post recovery relationship with his children and his family.
    • [53:42] How he recovered his relationship with his sister.
    • [55:43] "You never know what meeting is going to change your life."

    Episode Links and Resources

    • Real Recovery Live Chat
    • Real Recovery Talk on the Web
    • Real Recovery Talk on YouTube
    • Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes
    • Rock Recovery Center
    • Real Recovery Talk on Facebook
    • Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com

    140 - SET SOME FRIGGIN BOUNDARIES! PLEASE! May 07, 2020
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    Set some friggin boundaries please

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    I can't tell you how many phone calls I get from parents that don't know what to do with her addict son or daughter, a good place to start is setting some boundaries.

    Having a loved one with addiction problems can be a very stressful situation. Often times we try and navigate this path on our own and think that we know what's best for our loved one. When we can understand that we do not know what's best for them and we can finally reach out for help is when the real healing starts to happen. There are many situations in which we can handle addiction and it can be different for everybody given different circumstances.

    Most importantly we need to be able to ask for help and recognize that we don't know what's best and be OK with that


    139 - Maggie from Pittsburgh talks sobriety, and what she had to go through to get to where she is today! Apr 30, 2020
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    I have a guest today, Maggie, from Pittsburgh, who has come forward to share her story with us. This is the third time she has been in recovery from alcoholism and is going to tell her story of her past, her present, and where she plans on taking her life in the future.

    Maggie is in our program at Rock Recovery Center. She is 25 years old and started drinking 13 years ago as a result of trying to keep up with her two older brothers. The crack head down the street would go and buy them alcohol in exchange for watching her child when she was gone. Since their parents were out working a lot, her friends and her brothers' friends would come over to their house and party after school in their backyard pool. They would clean up their mess and then go to a park or another location to continue to party.

    She started high school at a Catholic High School, failed 9th grade. Her parents moved to a better area of Pennsylvania, and she was in a new school that was bigger than her old school. In the IMPACT program and not knowing any students in her new school, Maggie gravitated towards the "druggie kids" as they were her classmates. Maggie started doing several different types of drugs when she started going to RAVE clubs. She then got into a car accident, flew through the windshield, and was hospitalized with reconstructive surgery to her face.

    After high school, she became a bartender and started doing cocaine and Adderall to keep going throughout the day. She was hardly sleeping and felt that she was cool because she was only 18 but was able to be at the bar all day and night. At 21, she was drinking all night and ended up in a stranger's bed. Her friends were concerned with her safety. She realized at this point that she had a problem.

    Listen in to find out why she mixed Adderall, cocaine, and alcohol to get through her day, how she had blackouts and would sleep with strangers, and why she always had to drink alcohol, even while studying for college. Learn how Maggie broke down and finally called a rehab, how she had an affair with a male married nurse at another facility, and what led to Maggie's relapse after her first rehab.

    Check out my new website where you can download any episode right from my site along with other useful information for those in recovery.

    • Share this podcast with a friend and leave us a review!

    Show Notes:

    • [04:22] Maggie shares her story of her past and how she became alcoholic.
    • [07:47] Her Catholic high school and her friend groups in school.
    • [09:59] She started drinking and smoking weed at 12 years of age.
    • [11:54] How Maggie started going to RAVE clubs and doing drugs.
    • [15:02] Her parents were in denial of the situation.
    • [19:17] Maggie, at age 21, would end up drinking and ending up in a stranger's bed.
    • [22:40] She decided to go to school full-time as a paralegal.
    • [24:58] Her transition from bartender to full-time paralegal.
    • [26:56] The first time Maggie sought treatment and her experience.
    • [31:34] Maggie's first sponsor for her first outpatient.
    • [34:47] Her bouts with depression, how she felt unsettled again.
    • [38:23] How Maggie came to Real Rock Recovery Center.
    • [42:49] Differences between her home rehab and Florida rehab.
    • [47:05] What Maggie thinks about her new sober lifestyle.
    • [49:47] How Maggie sees her new future in Florida.
    • [52:01] Why working for her sobriety makes a significant difference in her recovery.

    Episode Links and Resources

    • Real Recovery Live Chat
    • Real Recovery Talk on the Web
    • Real Recovery Talk on YouTube
    • Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes
    • Rock Recovery Center
    • Real Recovery Talk on Facebook
    • Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com

    138 - The importance of sober networks and community - Chris and Dakota share their sobriety wins! Apr 23, 2020
    Show notes

    Ben and I have two guests today who are sharing their experience with their current recovery experience concerning their past recovery experiences. We will talk to Dakota and Chris about what had impacted them from when they started their sobriety journey to where their journey is taking them in the future. My guests will also talk about how their hard work has paid off, and benefits sobriety has brought to their lives.

    Dakota was addicted to heroin and has been sober for a year at the end of May. Chris is 21 years old, has been to nine treatment centers. His addiction was cocaine, and he has been sober for eight months. Both men have been to multiple treatment centers to achieve sobriety.

    Dakota woke up one day at age 19 and didn't want to live anymore. "That feeling that I had inside that I didn't want to live anymore is the worst bottom I've ever had." Originally going to treatment to get off opiates, Dakota still planned on drinking and smoking marijuana. He watched his situation worsen over time. "I had to get beaten down so bad that I became willing to do whatever it took to stay sober off everything." He didn't understand the steps he had to take to get sober. After several years of treatment, Dakota realized that he would have to go entirely off all drugs to be successful in his treatment.

    Chris has been through three previous treatment centers and is 30 years of age. A drug user since the age of 15, with the most substantial amount of clean time at seven months, much of that time being spent in jail. He pushed everyone out of his life as he only wanted to be with drugs and alcohol. "I basically messed up my life so bad, I lost about everything, I was barely holding on to a job." In 2018 he decided that drugs and alcohol were a problem. He felt bankrupt not only financially but emotionally and spiritually. In his first attempt at Rock Recovery, he relapsed after 45 days, drank for three days straight. This confirmed to Chris his problem with alcoholism.

    Listen in to find out how being alcoholic can become a habit, why Chris felt his alcoholism was on auto-pilot, why having positive habits is a vital ingredient to sobriety. Learn why addicts can't just stop doing drugs and alcohol, the struggles Chris and Dakota have faced in their recovery and how hard both clients have had to fight to become sober.

    Check out my new website where you can download any episode right from my site along with other useful information for those in recovery.

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    Show Notes:

    • [04:32] Dakota shares his previous treatment center experiences.
    • [07:20] See link below to hear Dakota's entire story on episode 80.
    • [11:40] Chris talks about his addiction and relapse experience.
    • [14:06] He decides he is an alcoholic after a three-day relapse spent drinking.
    • [16:18] Chris didn't know what to do when he was done work, so he chose to drink.
    • [17:47] Find out why addicts can't "just stop doing drugs and alcohol".
    • [21:37] Advice Dakota gives to others who are starting their journey to sobriety.
    • [25:27] How he has gotten through rough times, especially with COVID-19
    • [26:30] How Chris' situation is different for him now that he is sober.
    • [27:48] Why having a sober support community has impacted both clients' sobriety.
    • [29:24] Helping other addicts helps those with addiction stay sober.

    Episode Links and Resources

    • Real Recovery Live Chat
    • Real Recovery Talk on the Web
    • Real Recovery Talk on YouTube
    • Leave Real Recovery Talk a review on iTunes
    • Rock Recovery Center
    • Real Recovery Talk on Facebook
    • Ideas for a show? Email us tom@realrecoverytalk.com and ben@realrecoverytalk.com
    • Listen to Dakota tell his story in Episode 80

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