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Faith & Influence Apr 13, 2021

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Faith and Influence is the perfect episode for You! This episode is all about answering God's call on your life. We discuss fear, imposter syndrome, comparison, defining success and so much more. Also, do you want to know how to keep God 1st in your business and how to bounce back from a loss, then tune in!
Today's Guest: Michelle Ana is the creator of www.lovemichelleana.com a platform designed for the modern woman seeking inspiration for her lifestyle, beauty, and soul. With over 7 million views on Youtube and six years of social media marketing experience, it is no surprise she has founded “The Flourish Effect”. A lifestyle platform teaching creatives how to flourish in their soul, business and community.

Favorite quote: "Confidence is the revelation of my identity in Christ"
Scripture References

Matthew 5:13-16 13 “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot. 14 “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven."
1 John 4:4 " Little children, you are from God and have overcome them, for he who is in you is greater than he who is in the world."
Mark 9:23-24 "And Jesus said to him, “‘If you can’! All things are possible for one who believes.” Immediately the father of the child cried out[a] and said, “I believe; help my unbelief!"

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Music by Lil Byron, Mr. Talk Box, & J. Moss https://beacons.page/mrtalkbox

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Relationship over Religion Apr 07, 2021

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Today we're talking about "Relationship over Religion" and our guest today has an incredible story about the faithfulness of God. His testimony includes growing up in foster care, experiencing divorce, drunkenness, prison, drugs and more.
Now, Andrew F. Carter is a pastor, author and influencer that went viral on TikTok and has over 1 million followers across all social media platforms. Most importantly, he uses his story of overcoming obstacles to encourage, motivate & inspire others. His testimony is proof that God wants to use your story to bring Him glory. Also in this episode, we debunk a few myths about Christianity and give practical tips about growing closer to the Lord Jesus Christ, enjoy!

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Scripture mentioned in this episode

Matthew 6:33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
Colossians 3:23 Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men,
2 Timothy 3:16 All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness,

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Music by J.E. White
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The 7 Last Sayings of Jesus on the Cross Apr 02, 2021

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It’s Good Friday! And in this episode I am taking you to Church. I’ve invited some friends and we are preaching on the last 7 sayings of Jesus. These are the last 7 things Jesus said before dying on the cross.

Here are the sayings

“Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” — Luke 23:34
“Today shalt thou be with Me in paradise.” — Luke 23:43
“Woman, behold thy Son.” — John 19:26
“My God, my God, why hast Thou forsaken Me?” — Mark 15:34
“I thirst.” — John 19:28
“It is finished.” — John 19:30
“Father, into Thy hands I commend My spirit.” — Luke 23:46

Today’s Guests:

Pastor Irvin Wasswa: Clarksville, TN https://tylertownchurch.org/
Pastor Shedrick Heard: Memphis, TN https://www.hopecitymem.org/welcome
Pastor Averri Lemalle: Houston https://www.championforest.org/about/jerseyvillagecampus/
Pastor Ryan Parker: Houston https://www.championforest.org/
Pastor Matthew Weaver: New Orleans https://www.vintagechurchmvmt.com/neworleans/
Pastor Paul W. Calcote: Houston https://www.championforest.org/
Pastor Aljenon Cooper: Los Angeles www.adlcministries.com

Featured Music by Ron McCray “Come Holy Spirit” https://www.ronaldjmccray.com/

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#Goodfriday #Easter #ResurrectionSunday

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Million Dollar Life Lessons Mar 31, 2021

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If you need to be inspired and motivated moving towards success, then tune in, as we are giving you Million Dollar Life Lessons:

Define Success for Yourself
Pay Attention to your Mental
Stay in Your Chapter
Take Control of your Finances
Keep God First

Matthew 6:33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
Today's Guest Sebastian J Sanders is a serial entrepreneur, author, speaker, community investor and youth advocate that’s passionate about innovation, empowerment, and diversity.
Connect with Sebastian here.

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Music today by Lil Byron https://linktr.ee/Lilbyronmusic

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Secure The Bag! Mar 23, 2021

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Our goal today: to give you practical yet powerful tips that will help you thrive in your finances. So if you want to "Secure the Bag" and keep the Bag, take a listen. This episode is the launching pad to achieving Financial Freedom as we talk about Budgeting, Saving, Retirement, & Credit as well as how to honor God even in our Finances.
Today's Guest: Jasmine Noel holds a MBA & spent the last 10 years of her professional career in Banking/Finance and most recently obtained her Real estate license in Dallas, Texas.
Connect with her on IG https://www.instagram.com/the.jasmine.noel/
Connect with the Host Paul https://www.instagram.com/paulwcalcote/

Episode mentioned "Breaking Family Curses" https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/7000351
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Resources Mentioned:

Budgeting App Every Dollar https://www.everydollar.com/
Blog https://www.instagram.com/thefinancialdiet/

Top Quotes:

"A budget is telling your money where to go instead of wondering where it went" Dave Ramsey
"Do not save what is left after spending, but spend what is left after saving." Warren Buffet
"The real route to riches is to set aside a portion of your money and invest it, so that it compounds over many years. That's how you will become wealthy while you sleep. That's how you will make money your slave instead of being a slave to money.” Tony Robbins

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Dating Red Flags Mar 16, 2021

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We are going THERE today as we talk about Dating Red Flags. This episode is practical, spiritual, and even philosophical. If you want to date well and avoid some pitfalls then tune in.
Discussed in Today's Episode:

The Role of Discernment in Dating
Healthy boundaries
Should Christians date non-Christians
The concept of Soulmates
Examples of Red Flags in dating

Today's Guests: The Rooted Life is a Christian lifestyle brand that encourages people to build their lives on faith first. Through candid podcast conversations and inspirational online content, long-time friends Dorian and Morgan connect biblical truth to everyday life.
Connect with them here https://www.instagram.com/rootedlifepodcast/
Scripture from this episode: Galatians 5:16 But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.
Connect with the Host Paul on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/paulwcalcote/
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Music by J.E. White https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/jewhite/fall-in-love-2

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Reclaiming My Time! Mar 15, 2021

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Daylights saving has passed and you "lost" an hour, so its time to Reclaim Your Time.
If you want to know how to manage your time better, be more productive, effective, and efficient, then tune in! It's essential that you manage your time well because 1) Life is short, so make the best of it and 2) we will be held accountable for how we spent our time on Earth.

8 Ways to Successfully Manage Your Time

Seek God's Guidance
Prioritize
Plan\Set Goals
Get Organized
Identify Your Time Wasters
Learn to say No
Write it down
Put God 1st

What does the Bible say about time?

Ecc 3:1 “To everything there is a season and a time to every purpose under the heaven.”
Colossians 4:5 “Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time”
Psalms 90:12 “So teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom.”

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"Rest is Essential" Episode https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/6871640
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Featured song "The Hills" by Grant Allison IV https://linktr.ee/Grantallisonivministries
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Christian Dating 101 Mar 09, 2021

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New's Flash: Dating isn't a biblical concept! But in this episode "Christian Dating 101" We encourage you to utilize biblical principles & wisdom so you can make wise God-honoring choices in your dating. We also speak truth to and discuss Zodiac signs and "ghosting". Bonus: If you want to know how to respond to a person who says "God said that you are my spouse", then tune in!
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Dating 101 https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/7917592

Today's Guest: Russelyn Williams is a Christian Life Coach, Author, and Blogger that helps single Christian women walk in wholeness and confidence. Russelyn has been transparent about her personal testimony being a single Christian woman into her 30s. She has put off the shame of feeling like there was something wrong with her for being single and embraced her identity as a confident single woman who models wholeness.

Connect with the Host, Paul on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/paulwcalcote/
Scripture from today's episode

Galatians 5:16 "But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh."
1 Corinthians 6: 18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.
Ephesians 4:27 Give the devil no place

Resources mentioned:

Music by J.E. White https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/jewhite/fall-in-love-2

#relationshipgoals #womenshistorymonth

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Living Single, Guys Chat Mar 03, 2021

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Living Single, Guys Chat: Another episode dedicated to the Singles. But today we get to hear the guy's side of the story and these fellas hit the ground running as they give rich practical tips to navigating the season of singleness. We take another deep dive into both the joys and struggles of being Single, while also discussing practical ways to maximize the season of singleness and understanding how this season is actually a gift.
Related Episode "Living Single, Girls Chat" https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/8011590
Guests Today:

Lee Scott II :
- Speaker, Vlogger, Creative, and leadership coach.
- https://linktr.ee/leeascottii
Geoffrey V. Dudley II:
- Leadership consultant & pastor with a consulting business called R.E.A.C.T
- https://www.reactconsulting.services/
- Geoffrey was also featured in "Finding your Calling & Purpose" https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/5136616

Connect with the host, Paul Calcote on Insta https://www.instagram.com/paulwcalcote
Favorite Quotes

"Before God gave Adam a spouse, He gave him Purpose" Lee
"Dating is collecting data" Geoffrey

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"Thriving in Your Relationships" https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/7387870

Music by J.E. White https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/jewhite/fall-in-love-2

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Living Single, Girls Chat Feb 22, 2021

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Living Single: This episode is dedicated to all the singles out there. We take a deep dive into both the joys and struggles of being Single. .. But we also discuss practical ways to maximize the season of singleness and understanding how this season is actually a gift. So, do you want to know what pursuing purity really looks like and how to THRIVE in your singleness then TUNE IN
This is only part 1 #Girlchat... but tune in next week when we hear the guy's side of the story.

Related Episode "Living Single, Guys Chat"
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