Pairadocs

Latest Episodes:

On Death and Dying Mar 06, 2020

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It's been said that there are only two things that are a certainty in this life: Death and Taxes…well, and you could also add the Dallas Cowboys losing in the first round of the playoffs. But your family is going face the death of a grandparent, family member, or friend at some point. That IS a certainty. So, how do we guide our families through this very sad, scary, and confusing life experience? Listen in this week. This discussion is to die for…sorry.

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Give yourself grace! Don't judge yourself for your feelings while grieving.

There is no one right way to grieve, but there is a wrong way - avoiding it.

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Wisdom for Mid Life Feb 24, 2020

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It is easy to freak your freak in mid life. This moment, that you've been looking forward to your whole life. You have the spouse. The kids. The job. The house. But it can still feel empty.

But what if this is as good as it gets?

What do you do then? Listen in as the boys discuss.

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Wisdom is having the right perspective. It is fighting the feeling of being trapped!

There is purpose in mid life

We must accept that this is mid life. It's not perfect, but it is beautiful.

You are not alone; most in this life stage feel this way.

God's word remains a constant, even when your life is a storm. So trust Him. Don't lean on your own understanding.

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Love Anyway Jan 27, 2020

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Like a foot fungus you just can't seem to get rid of…the boys are back with all new episodes for the new year! And they kick it off with this little gem. Question: Would you love a spouse that was gentle, loving, kind, generous, engaged, compassionate, and absolutely couldn't keep their hands off you? WELL WHO WOULDN'T!!! Anybody would love a spouse like that. The trick is to be able to love a spouse that isn't like that. As believers, we're not called to love our spouse "because", but to love them "anyway."

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Poltergeist Intro

Love Anyway - Gary Thomas

Different Types of Love

Luke 6

"It's so hard to see when my eyes are on me" Keith Green

Gary Gramling

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Empathy Sep 05, 2019

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What if there was one thing that would make most, if not all, family conflicts lessen, of not end. What would pay for get ahold of the "magic bullet" of relational harmony? Well get out your credit cards my friends, because this week, the guys discuss the all-important issue of empathy. This one little touchy-feely word can go a long way toward reducing marital, occupational, and parental conflict. How do I know? Because I can feel your pain…

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Brene Brown on Empathy

Empathy drives connection, sympathy drives disconnection.

Brene Brown

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Talking Tragedy with Kids Aug 28, 2019

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The tragedy of a mass shooting. It's all over the news. Everybody is talking about it, political blame is flying back and forth, and there sits our kids. Scared, confused, and in some cases, completely ignorant of the events swirling around them. So how do we best discuss unimaginable evil with our kids and keep their innocents intact? Not sure that's possible, but listen in as Jimmy and Josh tackle talking tragedy with our children.

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Luby's Shooting in Killeen

The Case for Faith by Lee Strobel

When God Doesn't Make Sense by James Dobson

If kids are old enough to ask, they're old enough to hear.

You don't have to know an unknowable act of God. There's nothing wrong with saying 'I don't know.'

Talk about the solution more than you talk about the problem.

Solution: Pray, love others

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Drowning in Politics Aug 21, 2019

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If you are as sick of politics as I am, raise your hand, right there where you are…yes, God bless you…yes, I see that hand. Are there any others? With the current political climate and ever-present social media bombarding our every waking moment, we can't get away from politics, even if we wanted to. Every song, TV show, movie, sporting event, etc. has comments, demonstrations, or snide political comments. IT JUST NEVER ENDS!! Join the fellas this week, as they examine, how we as believers, couples, and parents can navigate the political ocean that we're all seemingly drowning in.

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Margaret Thatcher

Jesus is the Answer (song)

Andy Bannister interview

Home Fires

As parents, we set the emotional tone of the home. Don't freak your kids out with your anxieties.

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Self Image Aug 09, 2019

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When you look in the mirror, what do you see? What does your child see? How does our body image impact the way we perceive ourselves and how we perceive others perceive us…I may have used the word, "perceive" one too many times? Our self-image has an enormous influence on the quality of our lives and the lives of our children, yet how we determine that self-image can make us fickle at best and be damaging at it's worst. Join the guys this week as they look at how we view our physical selves, where it comes from, and how it can negatively effect our entire lives.

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Josh Harris' announcements about Christianity and his divorce

Solutions:

Parents set the tone

Eat to live, don't live to eat

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Isolation Jul 31, 2019

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You've heart it said that it is not good for man to be alone. Well, this week, the guys explore exactly why that is. This is not about being single, or the benefits of "alone time." It's about the pervasive, negative impact of toxic isolation in both individuals, couples, and families. So, in keeping with the theme, listen to this episode in a large group of your closest friends!

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"pathology, sin, addiction breeds in isolation"

"The fruit of the spirit will never breed in isolation"

Isolation - not busyness, but not having people who truly know you.

Solution:

Church! (Being involved, not just going)

Be known

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Movies for Parenting Daughters Jul 24, 2019

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This week the guys talk through essential movies to watch with your daughters. Whether you're a dad or mom, watch these movies with your girls. Through these movies you can help them learn healthy feminine traits.

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History Lovers Club on Twitter

Top 10 Movies for Girls:

1. Parent Trap

2. Mean Girls

3. Princess Diaries

4. Freaky Friday

5. Moana

6. Brave

7. Wizard of Oz

8. Frozen

9. A League of Their Own

10. Soul Surfer

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Porn: What Do We Do? Jul 15, 2019

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After three episodes dealing with the devastating impact of pornography on a person's life. The boys thought that a wrap up session was in order. What are some practical step to elevate this problem? Listen in and find out…

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www.brainheartworld.org

Part 1 - how porn impacts our brain

Part 2 - how porn impacts our relationships

Part 3 - how porn impacts the world

You have to get real with someone besides the men in your life.

Pornography is infidelity.

Any sex that is selfish is wrong.

The addict brain tells you the exact thing to do in order to keep you addicted.

Disclosure is essential.

Fear is the opposite of faith.

Find a Certified Sexual Addication Therapist (CSAT)