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#117 - How To Be Instantly Magnetic To Women Jul 04, 2019

Show notes

Charisma and personal magnetism aren't about being the handsomest or most impressive person in the room. It's about knowing how to connect with people in ways that other folks can't. Understand how to build the right connections with people and amazing women won't be able to stop thinking about you... instead of someone else.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

What the story of one man's failure teaches us about personal magnetism and charisma
Why your presentation matters more than your looks
How your body language affects your connection with others
Why intensity and authenticity is so important
What most men get wrong about being cool, popular and desirable

...and so much more.

Find Your Swagger

The Value of Authenticity

5 Secrets To Being Make People Like You

How To Be Charming

5 Rules For Instantly Upgrading Your Style Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove

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BONUS EPISODE: Learning the (Love) Lessons of End of Evangelion Jun 28, 2019

Show notes

Now that Neon Genesis Evangelion is available on Netflix, what can we learn about love, life and loneliness from Shinji Ikari?

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Why so many fans relate to Shinji Ikari
How the End of Evangelion and "The Beast That Shouted AI at the Heart of the World" represent two paths for Shinji... and us
Why our fear keeps us from making the relationships we most need
How loneliness can turn to anger and violence
Why we're (not) alone

... and so much more

Elliot Rodger and the Price of Toxic Masculinity

Where Do You Get Your Validation?

Captain America and Non-Toxic Masculinity

Why Your Life Won't Get Better (And How To Fix It)

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#116 - This is Why Your Life Isn't Getting Better... and How To Fix It. Jun 20, 2019

Show notes

Incels are spending tens of thousands of dollars on plastic surgery to become Chads and they're still miserable. Here's why your life isn't getting better... and how to fix it.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Why there are no external solutions to an internal problem
How a micro-revolution can give you back control over your life
Why you're stuck in your comfort zone... and how to escape it
Why it's important to embrace The Pain Period
How to change the world around you to fix YOUR future

... and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

Unlearning Helplessness

5 Reasons Your Life Isn't Getting Better

How To Take Your Dating To The Next Level

Your Attitude Controls Your Dating Success

The McGurk Effect

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#115 - The Secret to Successful Flirting Jun 06, 2019

Show notes

Flirting with amazing women is far less complicated or difficult than people think it is. Here's the secret.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Why we rarely recognize flirting when we see it
The key to finding your flirting style
What makes the difference between conversation and flirting
How to make women become addicted to you
An underused secret technique for successful flirting

...and so much more

RELATED LINKS:

How To Use Humor In Your Flirting

The Subtle Things That Make Men More Attractive

The Most Attractive Aspect of a Man (Isn't Looks or Money)

Fix Your Flirting

How To Tell Amazing Stories

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#114 - The Mistake That's Costing You Dates May 23, 2019

Show notes

This common belief is ruining your relationships and making it impossible to find the dating success you want.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

How one simple change in your mindset means the difference between romantic success and failure
How guys sabotage their own chances with women
What Doctor Horrible's Sing-Along Blog teach us about Nice Guys and Bad Boys
Why being wrong can help you connect with women
Why women REALLY choose the "Bad Boy" over the "Nice Guy"

...and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

5 Simple Ways To Jumpstart Your Life

What Bad Boys Know That Nice Guys Don't

5 Secrets to Fix Your Love Life

Why Nice Guys Lose and Bad Boys Win

The Truth About "Nice Guys"

The Politics of Dr. Horrible

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BONUS EPISODE: Why Are Millennials Having Less Sex? May 16, 2019

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Millennials in general and Millennial men are having less sex than ever. Why? And what does this have to do with #metoo and the recent #sexstrike?

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

What the Economist gets wrong about Millennials and sex
Why #MeToo IS to blame for the "sex recession"... kind of
Why a "sex strike" is bad activism
How our attitudes towards sex affects our ability to please our partners
The REAL reason why men are having less sex

...and so much more

RELATED LINKS:

F*ck Like A Gentleman

The Unbelievable Secret to Getting More Sex

Can Consent Be Sexy?

Did #MeToo REALLY Ruin Flirting?

Is Masturbation BAD For You?

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#113 - The Dr. NerdLoveLine Special May 09, 2019

Show notes

You've been waiting patiently, and it's finally here! This week, the Doc - and special guest host Crystal Donovan - take your questions from the NerdLove Hotline and dispense wit, wisdom, dating advice and digressions into side topics.

Loved this episode? Have a dating question you'd like to hear answered on here? Call your question in to 512-522-6513 and leave a voice mail!

Show Highlights:

How do you talk about being an older virgin? What about when your friends want to talk about sex and you feel anxious?
How do you approach women during the day on a college campus?
What's the best way to flirt when you're worried about running out of things to day?
How do you approach an introverted guy?
How can you manage approach anxiety?
The time the Doc screwed up so badly the club closed down

... and so much more.

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#111 - This Is Why Women Won't Date You (And How To Fix It) Apr 11, 2019

Show notes

Young men are having less sex than ever. But what's more important is how you respond to that information. Here's what's ruining your chances with women.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

▶︎ How "why are men having less sex" is the wrong question

▶︎ The #1 reason why men ruin their chances with women

▶︎ How your attitude affects your love life

▶︎ The problem with "women are too picky"

▶︎ What a toxic waste monster can teach you about attraction

RELATED LINKS:

▶︎ This Is Why You Fail With Women

▶︎ The Trouble With Incels

▶︎ Which Matters More, Looks Or Personality?

▶︎ A Man's Guide To Being Happy About Being Single

▶︎ Become Someone Worth Dating

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#110 - The Truth About Women and Casual Sex Mar 29, 2019

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Why aren't more women interested in casual sex? What can guys do to find women who're interested in a no-strings hook-up? It's time to talk about the TRUTH about women, casual sex and how to find it...

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

▶︎ Why women prefer relationships to hook-ups and casual partners ▶︎ How the orgasm gap affects our relationships ▶︎ Why being The Cool Girl works against women AND men ▶︎ Why "casual" sex is BAD sex ▶︎ What men can do to find more casual, no strings hook-ups

...and so much more

▶︎ 5 Rules For Better Hook-Ups

▶︎ What Women Wish Men Knew About Good Sex

▶︎ Who REALLY Has The Power In Dating?

▶︎ Stop Calling It 'Casual Sex'

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