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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Do You Do If She Gives You A Fake Number? Nov 13, 2019

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I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe next week the question I'll answer will be yours!

This week: Why do so many women have empty online dating profiles? And what do you do when a woman's given you a fake number? Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove

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#126 - Why Online Dating SUCKS (And 5 Ways To Fix It) Nov 06, 2019

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Online dating sucks. Doesn't matter if it's Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid or Christian Mingle. Men get next to no matches, women get flooded with awful messages, bots, trolls and zombie profiles run rampant on most apps... it's like trying to find a diamond in a pit of sewage. Most dating apps seem designed to be frustrating to ANYONE who wants to date someone of the opposite sex.

But it doesn't have to bet that bad.

Here's why online dating is so awful... and 5 ways you can make it better.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

What science has discovered about how men and women use Tinder
Why men match with women less than .6% of the time
How to use dating app algorithms to your advantage
Why you're using the WRONG dating app
How The Cat Theory of Online Dating can improve your matches
The biggest sin of online dating

... and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

Private Coaching With Dr. NerdLove

How To Master Tinder

Tune Up Your Tinder Profile

How To Get Laid (Without Being a F*ckboy)

Texting Mistakes Men Make

How To Write The Perfect Online Dating Message Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove

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#125 - Are You Trapped In An Abusive Relationship? Oct 23, 2019

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Toxic relationships can be hard to recognize. Are you being stubborn and selfish? Or is something actually wrong? Toxic people don't look like cartoon abusers, gloating about how great it is to manipulate folks.

Learning how to recognize the signs of a toxic relationship — and how to avoid them in the first place — will strengthen your relationships, improve your confidence and make you 100% happier. Learn to recognize these signs and how to drive toxic people out of your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Why toxic relationships are so hard to recognize
How toxic people trade on myths about love and relationships
What red flags you should be watching
Why "no" is your shield against toxic people
How to enforce your boundaries — even when people think you're wrong

...and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

Is Your Relationship Toxic?

What Will You Put Up With? Boundaries, Self-Esteem and Dating

Why It's So Hard To Break Up (Even When You Need To)

Dump Your Toxic Friends

Enforcing Your Boundaries Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove

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#124 - Why Women Don't Like Nice Guys Oct 10, 2019

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Why do women say they want to find a nice guy, but never seem to want to date them?

The answer is that what women are not saying is actually more important. Whenever a woman says "I wish I could find a nice guy", there's the unspoken modifier: "I wish i could find a nice guy… who actually excites me."

Here's how men can stop being so "nice", and start being amazing.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

What women REALLY mean when they talk about finding a nice guy
Why women aren't attracted to "nice" guys
Why being "nice" by itself isn't enough
Why nice guys lose respect... and how to get it back
How to develop the qualities women are REALLY looking for in men

...and so much more.

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#123 - 5 Things Men Do That Women HATE Sep 25, 2019

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Are you ruining your chances of meeting incredible women before you even start? Women HATE it when the guys they meet do these 5 things.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

How guys turn women off before they even say a word
Why trying to impress women you're attracted to is the wrong move
How to demonstrate REAL value and status when you're flirting
Why you don't want to have TOO much in common
How men manage to turn a win into a loss with this ONE mistake

...and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

5 Signs Women Want You To Approach Them

How To Get Women To Approach You

5 Secrets To Make People Like You

How To Be Charming Make The Right First Impression

How To Tell Amazing Stories Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove

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#122 - Conquer Your Social Anxiety and Develop Bullet-Proof Social Confidence Sep 12, 2019

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Confidence isn't about being 100% sure of your inevitable success, it's simply feeling that you know how to handle the situation. Taking away the fear of social awkwardness helps build bullet-proof social confidence.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Why your attitude is the key to your social success
How you accidently cripple your in-person social skills
Why MeetUps, mixers and networking is better for developing your social skills than cold approaches at bars
How to block out social anxiety by avoiding the Spotlight Effect
How to make it easier for other people to approach YOU

... and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

Stop Being Socially Awkward Pt. 1

Stop Being Socially Awkward Pt. 2

Developing an Abundance Mentality

Face Your Dating Fears

How To Get Women To Approach YOU Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove

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#121 - The 5 Things That Make You Irresistible To Women Aug 28, 2019

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What does it take to be someone that women want to date? It's not about looks, status or money. It's about understanding the secret behind why we fall in love and with whom.

Show Highlights:

Why guys focus on surface issues... and miss the most important parts of attraction
Why women will reject you BEFORE getting to know the real you
How guys turn off women long before they ever start talking to her
Why you keep meeting the WRONG women
What makes a woman decide INSTANTLY whether she will EVER sleep with somebody

...and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

The Myth of What Women Want

What Matters More, Looks Or Personality?

The Subtle Things That Make Men Attractive

Do Looks Matter?

The Dr. NerdLove Facebook thread The Dr. NerdLove Twitter thread Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove

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#119 - What Does A Real Man Look Like? Aug 01, 2019

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Men feel immense pressure to look a particular way and they're breaking themselves, physically and psychically to try to get to reach those ideals.

As bodies are marketed to us as products and men are sold self-loathing, we have to ask: what does a REAL man look like?

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

How male celebrities are getting the body-shaming treatment from the media
Why the idea of what makes a "real" man is always in flux
How the "perfect" body has changed over time
What men get wrong about trying to achieve the perfect body
Why there's no body positivity movement for men

...and so much more.

The Fear of Being Invisible

The Myth of What Women Want

The Selling of Masculinity

What Men REALLY Need Transcript available at patreon.com/DrNerdLove

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#118 - Dating Tips for Short Men Jul 18, 2019

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When Chris Morgan had a meltdown at the Bagel Boss in Long Island, he was tapping into real frustrations short men have in dating. Here's how short guys can learn to get the girl.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

How the body shaming of Jason Momoa and the Bagel Boss meltdown are symptoms of the same problem
Why your height isn't the deal breaker you think it is
What Tom Cruise, Robert Downey Jr., Donald Glover and Bruno Mars have in common
Why women like tall men
How to seem taller than you really are

...and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

5 Dating Tips for Short Men

How To Get Women To Approach You

Finding True Confidence

Why You Should Fake It Til You Make It

What is The "It" Factor?

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