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Gratitude vs. Grinding, Caring for a Sick Spouse, and Dealing with a Narcissistic Father | ASK ME ANYTHING Mar 08, 2023

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In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man, and the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(7:50) Can you provide some time on how to deal with my wife getting too invested in her friends?

(14:20) How do you make a judgment call between stability and gratitude for what you have vs the concern you're settling or playing small?

(25:40) Do you have any advice for someone who has become a caretaker for their spouse due to cancer?

(33:10) What would you personally recommend in dealing with a narcissist father?

(40:40) I am torn between having a "man to man" conversation with my new pastor or biting my tongue, out of respect, after he said some insulting things about our church and congregation, where my family has deep roots.

(46:00) How do you deal with fighting and picking and bickering between your kids?

(55:50) What is/was your stance with the whole mask thing in churches during Covid?

(1:04:20) How do we tackle cognitive dissonance?

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CHRIS ELISE | Is The American Dream Alive or Dead? Mar 07, 2023

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Is the American Dream alive or dead? It's a question that begs asking but more importantly, how can we each, individually carve out our own piece of it if possible? These are all questions my guest today, Chris Elise, and I address. Chris was born in France and has since become an American citizen following his dreams as a young boy. Today, we talk about channeling anger for productive outcomes, how to develop a personal renewal of faith, why you need to be cautious of betraying yourself, not getting yourself stuck in a bubble, investing in brotherhood, and pursuing your version of the American Dream.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

What is the American Dream?
The media pushing a racist narrative across the country
We are more similar than different
Being involved in change, but not getting caught up in it
Walking away from on argument
Finding healthy outlets
The importance and power of brotherhood
Transitioning from photographing the NBA to the PBR
Differences between NBA and PBR culture

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Mind Your Tongue | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Mar 03, 2023

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In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares 5 tips to help you be more intentional with the words you use to become a more effective communicator. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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Know what our intent is with our language (and know our audience)
Think about the information you consume
Slow down your pace
Take inventory of your previous communication
Expand your vocabulary

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Finding the Third Alternative, When to Pop the Question, and Establishing Work 2 Home Boundaries | ASK ME ANYTHING Mar 01, 2023

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In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(5:00) I am currently working in the family business but I do not enjoy it or see a future there. Should I switch industries for an uncertain job and possibly have to move in with my wife's parents, or should I look for another company and start something on the side where I can use my skills?

(11:00) What questions should you ask yourself to determine if you are ready to propose to your girlfriend and move toward marriage?

(16:40) How important is it for you to have a partner that challenges you?

(25:00) How to encourage our wives to work on their mindset around anxiety and depression without giving the impression that we think there is something wrong with them?

(41:00) How do you assess how you are performing in certain areas that are hard to measure?

(49:20) I was looking for a woman who is career oriented but found a great girl who has different goals. Am I sacrificing my standard by going out with this girl or is it ok to compromise on this?

(54:20) Do you have any book recommendations for a season of transition that isn't to "heavy" reading?

(58:00) Any recommendations for setting boundaries when working from home and trying to be an engaged and involved father?

(1:01:40) Is there a happy medium for sacrificing current comfort for future satisfaction?

(1:07:20) How should I deal with rumors in the workplace that aren't true?

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IAN WENDT | Become a Man of Conviction Feb 28, 2023

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As men, we're hardwired to look for problems we see with the environment around us. Unfortunately, too few of us are willing to take the next step and do something about the issues we identify. My guest today is not that kind of man. His name is Ian Wendt and he's taking a stand against some of the most polarizing social issues of the day. Today, Ian and I talk about overcoming the opinions of others, when to compromise and when not to, how excellence is the ultimate rebellion, how a man ought to show up in his community, and, ultimately, becoming a man of conviction.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Why talk about cultural and societal issues
Who is trying to divide us?
The ultimate agenda of evil is to take away freedom
I'll respect your freedom, you respect mine
Have we compromised too much?
Many people feel the same way but are afraid to speak up
Our abundance is our challenge
Don't give people power over you
How men can influence culture
Stack little wins every day

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Treat Your Family Like Your Business | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Feb 24, 2023

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In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why men tend to have an easier time focusing on success in business rather than family and how we can implement some of these "business" systems into our family routine. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

Mission statement
Meetings
Goals
Dedicated time
Delegation and roles

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Reclaiming Power in Marriage, How to Journal Effectively, and Measuring Productivity | ASK ME ANYTHING Feb 22, 2023

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(10:40) Is there a way to retain information from podcasts and audio books when I do most of my listening while I am driving and cannot take notes in the moment? Or should I just accept it as entertainment?

(18:00) How do you track how you spend your time, what you are eating, etc.?

(23:40) When my girlfriend informed me that she was pregnant, I reacted poorly. After calming down, I tried to discuss the plan for moving forward but she had already decided to move on from the relationship. I was open to continuing the relationship, but at a minimum want to have a relationship with my son and she is making it very difficult. What is the best way to proceed?

(35:00) What key components have you identified to begin a business? What should you do to be successful?

(43:20) Are you still attending the Baptist church and what difference have you noticed between the Baptist and Mormon church?

(49:20) How much does your faith influence your everyday life and has it grown stronger since you've given up alcohol?

(52:40) How do you lead your family spiritually?

(1:01:40) What are some good questions we can ask ourselves to be more effective with journaling?

(1:07:00) After your wife has lost respect for you, can you get it back and how?

JOSHUA BROOME | From Pornstar to Patriarch Feb 21, 2023

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Pornography is something that negatively impacts millions of men on a daily basis. And, yet, so few of us know what really goes on behind the scenes of the adult entertainment industry. We hear whisperings of the shadiness and degeneracy, but it continues to permeate just about every fabric of society.

My guest today is Joshua Broome. He is a former adult film star and even named porn star of the year. He spent 6 years in the industry, before fleeing to find himself, warn others about the dangers of pornography, and the message of Christ. Today, we talk about the manipulation that takes place in the porn industry, overcoming the tremendous guilt from poor decisions, how obedience and discipline create freedom, owning your past, lust versus love, and eliminating "contaminants" from our lives.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

People are realizing how destructive pornography is
Lack of appropriate consent in the porn industry
Racism and hypocrisy among those who protect the porn industry
There is always another choice
Push away people who provide accountability
Most mens first exposure to porn is accidental
How to approach conversations about porn with your kids
How to put a porn addiction in the past
Strategies for overcoming struggles
We need to lead someone, and be led by someone

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This is How I Got Sober | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Feb 17, 2023

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In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares the 8 steps that he followed on the path to sobriety. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

The pain must be so great that you feel the need to change
You have to confess (with discretion)
Accountability
Create friction and flow
Fill the void
Do deep work on yourself to get to the root of the behavior
Plan for relapse
Celebrate and attach wins to healthy behavior

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Don't Be a Flaccid Jellyfish, Learning to Validate Yourself, and Minding Your Tongue | ASK ME ANYTHING Feb 15, 2023

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(10:40) How can I talk to others about my own struggles with alcohol without referring to myself as an alcoholic and wrapping my identity around that label?

(15:00) How do we maintain our masculine frame with our wives, while still being humble and kind?

(33:30) Do you have advice for starting over in a career and being the best I can be? As well as advice for moving my family across the country?

(39:00) Are there things you would advocate not sharing with your spouse or partner?

(45:20) Describe the difference between today's Ryan and the Ryan from 6 months ago.

(51:00) What do you do when your managers don't communicate with you until there is a problem and every idea that you pitch them is always answered with a no?

(1:00:00) What are some ways to come up with a business name?

(1:04:40) How do you not take things personally? For example, when an employee leaves my company. And how can I make sure that more employees don't leave?

(1:12:30) A lot of times guys are looking for a woman who is "like a bro." Is this a sign of immaturity and what are those men missing out on?

Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto

For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.

Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.