Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Latest Episodes:

Tools for Surviving Infidelity | E367 Sep 18, 2023

Show notes

You know that infidelity is survivable… but it doesn’t always feel that way when it’s happening to you. Being cheated on by someone you love and trust is a profoundly painful experience. You need some practical tools to process what happened, heal your heart, and begin moving forward again.

This episode is about the tools that will help you survive infidelity and come out the other side stronger than before. I hope you’ll join me.

With love,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

growingself.com

How to Connect with an Emotionally Unavailable Partner | E366 Sep 11, 2023

Show notes

When you feel like you can’t connect deeply with someone you love, it’s painful. It’s common for people in relationships with emotionally unavailable partners to blame themselves, and believe that if they could just be perfect enough, then their emotionally unavailable partner would magically become responsive and available for the kind of relationship that they want to have.

This mindset makes you feel bad about yourself, and unfortunately, it can push your emotionally unavailable partner even further away. So what should you do? That’s what we’re exploring on this episode of the podcast. I hope it helps you see where your relationship’s growth opportunities are, and make choices that are right for you.

With love,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

growingself.com

Setting Boundaries at Work | Career | E365 Sep 04, 2023

Show notes

When you struggle to set boundaries at work, it doesn’t just intrude on your personal life, it makes it harder for you to achieve your vision of career success. Learn how to set healthy limits with coworkers, achieve work-life balance, and deal with a boss that doesn’t respect your boundaries.

All of that and more on this episode of the podcast.

Xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

growingself.com

How to Let Go of the Past | E364 Aug 28, 2023

Show notes

Do you feel haunted by the past? Whether you’re struggling with regret, anger, or grief, having unfinished business with the past can keep you feeling stuck. But you can let go of the past and begin moving forward, and this episode will show you how.

I hope you join me for this one, all about how to let go of the past and start looking forward.

With love,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

growingself.com

Why We Fall Out of Love (and What to Do About It) | E363 Aug 21, 2023

Show notes

Long term relationships can get a little stale when you don’t know how to keep love alive over the long haul. It’s very common for couples to believe they’ve fallen out of love when this happens. But a stronger, more fulfilling relationship is possible, and on this episode of the podcast, I’m going to tell you how.

I hope it gives you hope for your relationship and guidance on how to bridge the gap so you can feel in love with your partner again.

Xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

growingself.com

Navigating Pregnancy as a Couple | E362 Aug 14, 2023

Show notes

Smart couples recognize that pregnancy is more than a growing-a-baby waiting game. It is a prime opportunity to work through important relationship issues and strengthen your relationship.

Having a baby can feel like it’s the Pregnant Lady Show, rather than an experience that you and your partner are working through together. But the journey of pregnancy, and the challenges it offers, are opportunities for growth — for both of you.

Using these moments during pregnancy will help you know how to work as a team, improve your communication, increase your emotional intimacy, support your emotional wellbeing, and lay the foundation for the happy, healthy family life you want for yourselves and your child... but only if you know how.

This episode is going to teach you how to turn the pregnancy into a positive relationship growth experience, by navigating the pregnancy experience as a team. My guests D’Anthony and Rachel Ward are experts on this subject, and today they're sharing their wisdom with you.

Join us!

Xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

GrowingSelf.com

PS: I have so much more to support you and your family in my "Happy Families" content collection. Tap in to find expert advice from the marriage and family therapists and parenting coaches on my team, as well as curated podcast playlists just for you.

Avoid the Communication Killer: Negative Sentiment Override | E361 Aug 07, 2023

Show notes

There’s a sneaky relationship killer lurking in your communication… but you’ve probably never heard of it.

Negative sentiment override happens when you get into the habit of reacting negatively to your partner because of bad past experiences, even when it’s not really called for in the present. It makes it hard to let go of the past and make positive changes for the future, and it can keep you feeling bogged down in unsatisfying relationship patterns.

In this episode, I’m teaching you what negative sentiment override is, why it happens, and how you can break the cycle for a stronger relationship.

With love,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

growingself.com

How to Deal with Difficult Coworkers | Career | E360 Jul 31, 2023

Show notes

You know that coworker who drives you nuts? Whether you’re dealing with a controlling coworker, a deadweight, or a bully, difficult people in the workplace can drag down your job satisfaction and performance.

So what can you do? This episode is all about how you can deal with the difficult coworker in your life and continue to succeed at work, no matter what.

I hope you’ll tune in!

Xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

growingself.com

Why You Miss Your Ex (and What to Do About It) | Heartbreak | E359 Jul 24, 2023

Show notes

If you’re going through a breakup, you know that missing your Ex is one of the toughest parts of the heartbreak experience. Even if you know the relationship is ultimately not right for you, it’s normal to look back on the happy memories and feel sad that your Ex can no longer be in your life. You might even question whether breaking up was the right choice, or if you should reach out and try to be friends.

This episode will help you understand why you miss your Ex, what it means, and how you can transform those difficult moments into something that moves you forward. I hope you’ll find it helpful and healing.

With love,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

growingself.com

Communication Skills: Reacting Versus Responding | E358 Jul 17, 2023

Show notes

We've all been there: Your partner says something that just inflames you, and you say something you regret later. Or you instinctively defend yourself and withdraw when things get tense, rather than leaning into a healthy and productive courageous conversation.

We all know that being able to react vs. respond is a cornerstone of emotional intelligence, and healthy relationships. But that can be easier said than done in the middle of a heated conflict.

When you’re frustrated, hurt, or stressed, you might raise your voice, say something you don’t mean, or make an impulsive decision with long-lasting consequences. All of this is bad news for you and for your relationships.

But learning the art of being responsive versus reactive leads to deeper, healthier connections, and a life that’s directed by your true values.

That's what we're talking about on today's show. I hope you'll tune in!

With love,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

growingself.com