Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas

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57. Dating Co-Workers Mar 13, 2023

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Most of our daily time is spent at work with fellow coworkers, more than we see our loved ones. Our co-workers are the people who relate the most to us because they work side by side for hours throughout the week. It's unrealistic to think that we won’t ever create a bond or develop potential feelings for at least one co-worker. Whether those feelings are on a romantic level or just a pure deep friendship connection you’ll find it hard to keep the vibes as just “business”. So what are the pro’s and con’s of dating someone within your workplace? Jojo and Dayra run through those pros and cons as well as some "DO'S and DON'TS" in the event that you DO decide to cross that line.

Family Meeting:

1. "My wife got super close with a male coworker. They are texting/calling each other constantly. I told her that it’s too much but she told me that I can’t tell her what to do. "

2. "So my girlfriend has been lying to me about her ex..."

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56. Green Flags Mar 06, 2023

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Red flags are the signs telling us to proceed with caution and that we're playing at our own risk. Sometimes those red flags are actually telling us that it maybe it’s time to let the relationship go.

Although it's usually easier to notice all the negative things that we experience, sometimes we just have to remind ourselves of all the positive things too. In this episode Dayra and Jojo tap into that positivity by discussing "Green Flags" when it comes to dating/relationships. They give examples of what they seek as green flags when dating someone such as good family connections, self awareness, acceptance of presentation, respectful of pronouns etc.

Family Meeting:

1. “I caught my girlfriend sexting another girl.”

2. “How do I get over the fear of approaching my crush?”

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55. Am I A Lesbian? The Master Doc Feb 27, 2023

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The “Lesbian Masterdoc” is a google document that asks you to consider if you are a lesbian. This is the same master doc that Kehlani read that made her realize she may be a lesbian. It’s written like a blog post and it goes through bullet points to help you understand the difference between heterosexuality and compulsory heterosexuality which is the idea that heterosexuality is assumed and forced upon women, which may make women feel forced into being attracted to men, even when they might not be. You may not relate OR you may REALLY connect with this google doc.

We review a few sections from the chapter and discuss our thoughts on “Am I Lesbian?”, such as…

Having such high standards that literally no guy meets them – and feeling no spark of attraction to any guy who doesn’t meet them
You’re far more certain about being attracted to women than you are about being attracted to men
Only/mostly being into guys who are gender nonconforming or feminine in some way.

Family Meeting Questions

1. “I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months and I still haven't seen her n@ked or haven't gotten to really be intimate with her. "

2. “I have heard Dayra say that she has a few health problems related to IBS. I’ve been going through similar issues and feel like there are no answers for what is truly wrong with my health."

Copy of “Am I A Lesbian Google Doc” -

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BONUS: Bad Dates Sneak Preview Feb 22, 2023

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In this bonus episode we talk about our BAD dates stories! Join our Patreon Family! On Patreon we want to connect with our audience on a deeper level by providing more bonus content, vlogs, behind the scenes, monthly zoom meetings, discord chats, live advice, merch discounts, and more! patreon.com/leschatpod We currently have 2 membership tiers, the BABY GAYS for $6 which includes EXCLUSIVE COMMUNITY: Take part in Patreons community, polls, posts, Q&A’s, etc. LES CHAT GROUP CHAT: Join our private Discord group chat. 2x BONUS CONTENT: (Two minimum monthly Les Chat extended episodes, behind the scenes, OR vlogs) Q&A FAM MEETING: We’ll answer your family meeting questions in 48 hours via DISCORD. IG CLOSE FRIENDS: More content from us from our Instagram page. VOTES: Give us feedback on future topics, merch & contribute to future episode topics. MEETUPS: NJ/Philly/NYC meetups And our MOST popular one, LES CHAT FAMILY, which includes Everything in the previous tier AND + 4x BONUS CONTENT: (Four minimum monthly Les Chat extended episodes including live zoom audio, behind the scenes, OR vlogs) LIVE ZOOM & CHILL: Monthly zoom meetings where we’ll play games, talk shit & bring on your FAV GUESTS! LIVE FAM MEETING QUESTIONS: We’ll chat about your personal questions! MERCH: Get merch discount!

54. Muralist Artist goes on Reality TV - FT Melanie Posner Feb 20, 2023

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In today’s episode we have Melanie Posner, muralist and artist. Her name rings a bell because she was part of the reality tv show Tampa Baes from Amazon Prime Video. The show was inspired by The Real L Word! In this episode we talk about.

The REALITY of filming a reality show
Melanie’s dating life during the show
How Melanie got into art/becoming an artist/muralist

Tiktok Reference:https://www.tiktok.com/@therealmelpoz/video/7133654642830953770

Unfortunately, we did not answer any family meeting questions in this episode!

Melanie's Instagram
Amazon Prime Tampa Bae's Show
Tampa Bae's Trailer

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53. Queer Dating Struggles & Tips Feb 13, 2023

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In EP 53 we dive into lesbian dating and the struggles of dating when it comes to

Dating apps
Cat fishes
Being ghosted
Finding time to date and more!

We also get into

How do I initiate a conversation with a girl? OR What if I’m awkward or have anxiety?
How do I talk to girls on dating apps?
I'm fem presenting and I’m into fems, how do I flirt with a girl?
How do you know if she likes girls?
Is she flirting or being friendly?
What if you are not receiving the same love you’re giving?

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Family Meeting Questions

“How can I pass the feeling of being scared of having seggs with my s/o?”
“My relationships have mostly been with non-Latinas who I never feel a true connection with.. but I’m too insecure to pursue who I want”

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52. That First Healthy Relationship Feb 06, 2023

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Why does nobody talk about your first healthy relationships after having so many toxic ones?

It's ideal to want to build a healthy relationship between you and your significant other. However, no one tells you how HARD maintaining a HEALTHY relationship is! Jojo and Dayra dive into the reality of how they transitioned into building a healthy relationship together. Also, how to continue maintaining a healthy relationship by always being intentional and learning new ways to communicate on the same level. Including 5 examples of healthy characteristics/ signs to leading a healthy relationship as well as 4 foundations to maintaining it.

Family Meeting Questions

“Dating a 34 year-old female who’s living at home with her parents and she is not out to them. I love her but it is becoming a turn off”
“Where can I find fems that are into fems?

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51. 10 Things I Wish I Knew Before Coming Out Jan 30, 2023

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In EP 51 we talk about 10 things we wish we knew before coming out of the closet! We get into coming out to your family and friends, as well as bisexuality, straight girls, and more!

As always, in each episode, we answer questions from our regular listeners.

FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS

1. "I’ve NEVER been on a date or been with anyone and I don’t know where to start. Any tips?"

2. "I think I'm polyamorous and I have a crush on two girls who happen to be sisters"

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50. Meeting Her Parents: Gay Edition Jan 23, 2023

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We all want to be accepted into our partner's family, especially when in a QUEER relationship. In this episode we discuss how important it is to try to have a rapport with your partner's family.

We also talk about the following

How we met each other's parents/family members.
Past experiences when meeting our partner's family.
Uncomfortable situations when meeting family.
Setting boundaries with our family in order to make our partner feel safe and comfortable.
& Steps to getting along with their family (if you’re an awkward person).

Family Meeting Questions

What are your thoughts on girls who refuse to eat out their partners?
“I’m still in love with my ex”
“I came out as a lesbian 3 or 4 years ago and haven’t started dating yet. I'm 19 so I can’t go to bars, any tips on meeting women?”

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48. Tales Of A Lesbian Long Distance Relationship Jan 09, 2023

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HAPPY NEW YEAR LES CHAT FAMILY! Can you believe we almost make a year since we started Les Chat? We started our podcast back on January 24th of 2022 and we’re so grateful for all of you!

We are BACK like we never left with Season 2 of Les Chat Podcast and we’re coming in with new segments! This podcast episode is a little different from previous episodes. In this episode, Dayra reads a story submitted by a listener. The story gets JUICY, we talk about