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78. Hypothetically Speaking Aug 28, 2023

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There’s a current trend going around where people are asking their parents hypothetical questions just to see how they would respond/react in situations that most strict parents would overreact.

In episode 78, we’re now following this trend by asking each other how we would react in certain scenarios where most lesbian couples would probably OVERREACT! Dayra asks Jojo “What if I were to go out with my friends and I tell you that a guy was buying my friends and I drinks ALL night?”... And Jojo asked Dayra “What if I told you that I did not like your outfit and told you that you needed to change your outfit?”.

Family Meeting Questions

“I identify as a lesbian, I used to be so passionate about my identity and would always talk/think about it, now, I feel like I could care less. I have less desire to partake in discourse or consume queer media. Even when pride came around this year I just didn't get all that excited about it. Is it wrong to feel this way?
“My partner and I have a very flexible and *healthy* relationship, but sometimes I feel like I haven't enjoyed my young adult life being single, and that's making me nervous…”

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77. Lesbian Slang Aug 21, 2023

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Has someone ever asked you if you listened to “girl in red”? If so, they basically asked you if you’re gay. Everyday we’re coming up with new lesbian terminology! In this episode we go over some of the popular terms and what they mean. We also go over what it means to be "sapphic" and what is the difference between being a lesbian and being sapphic?

Read more about Lesbian Slang: https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide (https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide)

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💖 “Is it strange that my current girlfriend is currently living with a friend that she has previously dated?”

❤️ “14 years together, married 3 years. My wife left in Feb, she said she loved me but wasn't in love with me.“

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76. Flirting Styles Aug 14, 2023

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We’re often asked to give tips on how to flirt whether you’re out in public or on social media. Flirting is supposed to be fun. It’s not meant to be hard or done with the intention of finding the love of your life. So we share 5 types of flirting styles we learned to help you find your groove. You can stick to the style you’re most confident with or learn a new one to master!

Flirting Styles: http://news.ku.edu/2013/09/11/new-book-outlines-five-types-flirting-styles

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1. "I've been dating a woman for a month and a half. From the first moment we exchanged messages in an app, I felt a connection. When should the title of girlfriend be used?"

2. "I’m 23 years old and still live with my strict sister and her family. I don’t want to lose the girl I’m talking to but my sister also never tries to understand my point of view when I talk about how I shouldn’t have to be asking her for permission to go out" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

75. Before I Came Out Aug 07, 2023

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What was life like before coming out for us? Since Dayra came out later in life she had a lot to say about this, comparing gay dating vs straight dating, how we dressed compared to now, and even finding ourselves in welcoming spaces with people who make us feel comfortable to be ourselves.

FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS

1. "I came out when I was 18 and have only had one brief relationship and an series of hookups and situationships with women. I’m sick and TIRED of dating apps and want to meet someone organically but don’t know how?!"

2. "My straight best friend for 3 years is giving gay vibes, I don't see her as more than a friend but I still feel kinda awkward around her. Do you think it's just girls being girls or something else?"

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74. Does My Girlfriend Hate Me?! Jul 31, 2023

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“Does my partner hate me?” Has this thought ever crossed your mind? why does everything you say upset your partner? This could be because your partner is stuck in negative sentiment override. In this episode we dive into feeling disconnected with your partner emotionally and tips/questions on how to reconnect with your partner. We also talk about our experience and recent discussions when feeling disconnected. Links: https://celebrateagain.org/feeling-disconnected-from-your-partner/ https://www.regain.us/advice/general/how-to-recognize-emotional-disconnect-in-your-relationship-and-what-to-do-to-reconnect/ Questions to ask your partner to reconnect 1. Is there anything I used to do that you loved that I don’t do anymore? 2. What’s the number one cause of tension or disconnection in our relationship right now? 3. How can I be a better partner? 4. What dream of yours could I support you with, and what would that support look like? 5. What kind of date night activities could we plan to experience more joy in our relationship?

Family Meeting Questions

💖 “Met my wife on tiktok. Everything moved fast and we got married in less than a year, but things have quickly changed”

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73. The Best Of Breakups Jul 17, 2023

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In today’s episode, we talk about the good things that come after breakups. Breaking up can be quite devastating, especially for the person who doesn’t expect it, but believe it or not, it's not as awful once we redirect our energy into the things that make us feel whole again. Family Meeting: 1. "I have a friend and we’ve been flirting and everything, now her family is in the way ….so i’m confused idk what to think what should i do?" 2. "I've been in the closet for 30 years! And I’ve finally started dating..."

3. "I’ve had the same best friend for over 20 years but I don’t like her current partner..."

Sources:

https://markmanson.net/how-to-break-up-with-someone
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-psychology-relationships/202203/breakup-doesn-t-have-leave-you-broken

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72. Lesbian Dating & Relationships Jul 10, 2023

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In this week's episode we answer some relationship questions submitted by our fellow listeners..

1. Being loved bombed by partners that aren’t ready to commit.

2. “Partners” that aren’t ready to commit but want you to meet their friends and do things for you.

3. Talking to other people while also figuring out your dating goals with the person you’re talking to.
4. Why do partners feel the need to overspend on you fresh out the gate?

Family meeting:

1. "I've been talking to a girl for 6 months but she isn't ready for a relationship. Should I wait for her?"

2. "How do I continue to grow with the person I'm talking to when I always feel second to their deceased ex?"

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71. Sibling Relationships Jul 03, 2023

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As adults we get busy with life and we tend to grow apart from those we love. If you’re a loyal listener you know we focus on lgbtq+ topics, however, in this episode we talk a little bit about family. We dive into the following…

Describing our relationship with our siblings
How we came out to our siblings and how that relationship was like after coming out
Sibling drama/fighting for our parents attention/favoritism, etc!

We also dive into why siblings grow apart over time.

Family Meeting Questions

“I was talking to a married lesbian for 2 months and her wife found out”
“My girlfriend has an ex who has a son and my gf is very attached to him, not sure what to do”.

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70. Is It Cheating? Queer Women Edition Jun 26, 2023

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Les Chat about cheating again! There are no “universal rules” around cheating, what is cheating and what is not cheating is up to you and your partner. In this episode we go over this TikTok video where she goes over “cheating” scenarios (video link: https://www.tiktok.com/@kristy.ca/video/7239822376970587398 - for queer couples) and we go over it in this episode. If you would like to listen to our last cheating episode (The Cheater & The Cheated) tune into episode 8. Below are some questions we go over.. IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner still listens to a playlist that their ex made them? IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner STILL hangs out with an ex that still has feelings for them? IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner uses a strap that used to belong to them and their ex Family Meeting Story “My gf cheated on me emotionally..” “I cheated on my BF and I am GAY AF." PRECIOSA NIGHT TICKETS: https://www.preciosanight.com/tix Please rate, review, and subscribe to or follow the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com

69. The Ultimatum: Queer Love Jun 19, 2023

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We couldn't let pride month go by without out deep diving into the most popular Netflix queer reality series "THE ULTIMATUM: QUEER LOVE"!! Yes, we FINALLY discuss our thoughts on the original 5 couples, the trail couples, and the all the drama in between up until the reunion. DISCLAIMER this episode is a huge spoiler alert so if you have not yet watched or finished watching this series we suggest you do that first and tune back into this episode. Also, if you're looking to close out this pride month with a night to remember then come join us in NYC for the very last pride month celebration!! Click the link below for details on the NYC Pride Event!

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Family meeting:

1. "I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years but we haven't be sexually intimate".

2. "My girlfriend recently told me that she want to experiment with other people and that she may never want to come out".

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