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SEX. We all THINK about it, a LOT, but very rarely do we TALK openly about it without blushing. According to “experience sampling,” the scientific attempt to measure thoughts, the average male has at least 19 thoughts about sex during the day, and the average woman has about 10. It begs the question, with sex being the #1 item being sold on social media and the dating apps right now, we wonder where it falls as far as importance in finding the perfect mate?
Most people think being good at sex comes naturally. Either you have it, or you don’t. Our guest, Kenneth Play, an international sex expert and sex educator, is proof that great lovers are made, not born. Named the world’s greatest sex hacker by GQ, he guides us in being beyond satisfied with endless orgasms, mind-blowing connection, and lasting confidence.
Keep up with Kenneth:
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What is ‘self love,” and aren’t we supposed to love ourselves for who we truly are?? In today’s world, loving yourself can be harder than ever. It seems like every man, woman, and occasional child has found some sort of new filter. How are us normal people supposed to compete? And how far do we take the lies to get ahead on social media and dating apps? Today we’re asking where do you draw the line between self love, and self promotion?
Our guest, Robert Mack, a positive psychology expert, celebrity happiness coach, executive coach, and author, is here to teach us lessons and inspiration for loving ourselves, our lives, and each other.
Get some love in with Rob:
Buy his new book: Love From the Inside Out
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In case you didn’t hear us mention it 1,000x before, we live in la la land, and with that comes a dating pool filled with a variety of characters. As we discussed with casting Director Jess Howard, there are certain archetypes people usually fill, but in LA, you can add “influencer,” “podcaster,” “reality star,” and “actor” to the list. And as we discussed in the last episode with expert dating coach Connell Barrett, sometimes it’s better if you have more “opportunities,” or more “skin in the game,” if you will. We’ve discussed relocating to different cities to try something, and someone(s) new, but would dating in a different zip code really do the trick, or do all cities have their own dating claim to shame?
Our friend, a Self Proclaimed dating expert, Mara Marini, joins us on the pod again, this time to share her experience with dating in LA, and why she’s saying boo-bye to all of the ghosts out there.
Keep up with Mara:
@popgloss
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If you’re into astrology like we are, you’re aware it was recently the Pluto Return, which happens like - every 248 years or something crazy. Well, turns out it sends things into a major transformation, and certain signs feel it more than others. It seems like all things are pointing towards authenticity, and we think finding someone who is authentically themselves is really attractive. Our guest, Connell Barrett, author of the bestselling book “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” and the founder of DatingTransformation.com, is here to help Rob and all of the other men out there attract their dream partners by being true to who they are, with or without Pluto’s help, and introduce the 5 Flirting Frequencies to help sparks fly and singles connect romantically.
Transform with Connell:
@datingtransformation
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Jen’s been binging Love is Blind lately, like the rest of Netflix subscribers and is strongly considering signing up for a reality dating show. Aside from being away from Mochi for an extended period of time, she can’t help but wonder how she’ll be perceived by the public.
Previously, we’ve been graced with the expertise of a reality TV casting director, but today our guest has had HER reality ON tv!! Vanderpump Rules TV personality, designer and entrepreneur, Kristen Doute, joins us to discuss what it’s like to be in a relationship on TV, how the public’s opinion has affected her relationships on AND off the screen, and how to embrace your “crazy” and never give up on love.
Keep hope alive with Kristen:
Buy her book HERE
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Valentine’s Day is approaching and unlike the other holidays, it’s one that comes with a multitude of feelings, given that it’s a holiday for couples. We share our thoughts on and experiences with February 14, how to celebrate if you're single, taken, or it's complicated, which kinds of gifts work best, and when it's time to go Instagram official.
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Breakups are hard, and truly can be the worst. We’ve all been there, and have had very different experiences with it, as you’ve heard during some of our episodes.
Our guest, Tim Bader, actor and host of The Bounceback Show, takes his listeners on a wild ride during his weekly podcast, and this week takes us on the wild ride of his on and off-again relationships, the difference between love and lust, whether we’re staying in certain relationships for the right reasons, why it’s okay to be content, and when it’s the right time to walk away.
Get on and off again with Uncle Tim:
@thebouncebackpod and @timmybounceback
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Breakups are hard, and truly can be the worst. We’ve all been there, and have had very different experiences with it, as you’ve heard during some of our episodes.
Our guest, Tim Bader, actor and host of The Bounceback Show, takes his listeners on a wild ride during his weekly podcast, and this week takes us on the wild ride of his on and off-again relationships, the difference between love and lust, whether we’re staying in certain relationships for the right reasons, why it’s okay to be content, and when it’s the right time to walk away.
Get on and off again with Uncle Tim:
@thebouncebackpod and @timmybounceback
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Jess is a Casting Producer who has worked on such shows as The Real Housewives, Masterchef, American Idol, and The Circle. She just wrapped three different dating shows for both network and streaming tv, and joins us to reveal the secrets behind shooting your shot at love in front of the world, the perfect recipe for hot mess success, and some of the most important questions to ask someone to see if they’re a good match. Also, Rob throws Jen into the hot seat to see which reality TV archetype Jess thinks she is!
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2021 has come to an end and it’s very “on brand” for us to review all of the things that made our past year special, merry and bright - despite the complicated nature of our dating and relationship subject matter! To start, Lauren’s very special early Christmas present arrived with the birth of her baby Hunter! Sending a BIG congrats to Lauren and her beautiful family. She is currently on maternity leave and will be back soon! Another thing that made 2021 so special was the addition of ROB to the It’s Complicated crew! In order to put our best foot forward for 2022, we are going over our favorite lessons from past episodes, how we feel we’ve grown, and what we're bringing with us into the new year!
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