Stay ConnectedOn It’s Complicated, Jenifer Golden, Lauren Leonelli, and Rob Evors dive into the oh-so-messy world of dating and relationships with hilarious anecdotes, strong opinions, and expert guests. From situationships and ghosting to commitment and compatibility, they share their own experiences while bringing in the pros to weigh in.
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Have you ever sent a text to someone you’re interested in, and an embarrassing typo changed the entire context? Have you ever sent a message to the person you like, only to read it to a friend and have them say that it didn’t land the way you thought it would? Have you ever sent a “hey, you up?” text to the wrong Mike? Even worse, have you ever had a few too many adult beverages and sent a message (or 7) that literally makes you want to go into witness protection when you read it the next morning? If any of these questions are making you cringe because you’ve been there and done that, then listen up because the new Apple iOS will make it possible to edit or unsend a text message within a 15 minute window once sent and once deleted. We talk technology, and wonder if this new feature will be used for good or evil in relationships!
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When is it appropriate to ask deep questions when you are dating someone? Some lay it all on the table from the jump so that everyone is clear about expectations. Some wait until it’s serious before they discuss serious matters. Because timing in relationships runs at a different speed for everyone, the talk happens at different times depending on where you are at. Listen for our take on when to go deep, which questions you should ask, and why cool girls are all uncool.
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Lauren’s back to share what life has been like during maternity leave, and her thoughts on everything Jen and Rob have been up to, which begs the question - does being a good dater actually make you bad at dating? Are you funny, entertaining, can keep the convo flowing at all times, while sharing info about yourself, flirting but also keeping it light and breezy? Or do you prefer to listen, keep to yourself, and only ask questions about the other person? Welp, if you’re either of those versions, then you need to listen up!
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Was there ROME-ance in Rome for Rob, and did things heat up in Miami for Jen?? Did Rob meet someone at Beau and Stassi’s wedding? Is Jen becoming bicoastal for love? The It’s Complicated crew is back to recap their recent travels and reveal whether they found the sparks they were looking for in different cities, or if the flame has always been right here at home.
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Time is flying and summer is approaching. We’re gearing up for what that means in terms of dating and relationships - will it be the opposite of cuffing season now that it seems the worst of the pandemic is behind us, and warmer temperatures are upon us? Will people be traveling more, and getting serious less? We dive into Jen’s most recent dates, as well as both of our upcoming travels and how we’re approaching them in terms of potential romance.
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Keep it Complicated with Jen, NotJen, and Rob:
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We’ve talked a lot about the different ways to find love on this show. We’ve also talked a lot about what some people are doing right vs. what some people are doing wrong. The thing about finding a “partner” for life is that they, too, are their own separate person. They have needs and wants and desires that are their own. As much as we want someone who fits into our lives perfectly, we MUST fit into theirs just as well. This begs the question: is there one specific person out there that is our “match.” Our, “soulmate,” if you will? Or are there many different options, and we just have to navigate and find the best one that fits when the stars align? Instead of soulmate, maybe it’s just the “right mate.”
Kierstan Saulter, former contestant on Love Island USA season 2, nursing student and Texan living in Los Angeles, joins us to dish on her love life after the show, whether soulmates exist, reality dating shows and if they really work, and which celebrity couples she thinks will make it.
Keep up with Kierstan:
@kierstansaulter
@nakd_aesthetics
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We’ve both had our fair share of time with other people’s kids lately and often take a look at ourselves to evaluate where we’re currently at. While everyone’s path is different, it often makes you wonder if you missed the boat altogether, or if another one will sail by when the tide is right. Having patience during those times can be challenging.
Emily Lauren Burg, heybaby app CEO, and two-time founder and C-level operations strategist with Wall Street roots, and co-founder Chas McFeely, an award-winning marketing/advertising experience for brands big and small, join us to help people who have - or want kids, like us - find lasting relationships.
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There have been a ton of celebs in the news recently with major relationship updates - Brit Brit is preggo, Kravis got hitched in Vegas, and our romcom dreams came true with Bennifer’s second engagement…With all of this love in the air, we can’t help but wonder how it happens for some people, but hasn’t yet for us…#areweright?
Our guest, Sara Runnels, a writer and humorist who has appeared in The New Yorker, McSweeney’s, Betches, group chats and countless dating app messages, doesn’t claim to be a dating expert but is definitely a masterdater. She joins us to share the inspiration behind her hilarious dating posts, why she believes you should date on your own terms and make it fun, and how to perfect your dating profile to filter the wrong people out.
Laugh it Out with Sara:
@omgskr
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While Rob continues to work on himself and prep for any romance that might come his way, Jen is trying her luck at the dating apps and constantly battles the ups and downs that come along with it.
Love and life coach Veronica Grant is back on the podcast to reveal why the old rules for finding love are meant to be broken, how to approach dating apps and patterns, and provide a no-nonsense approach to attracting the partner and relationship we really want with her new book, You Are Meant For Love.
Find love with Veronica:
Listen to the Love Life Connection
Work with her To Find Deep Love
How ready are you for the relationship you actually want? Take the assessment.
Order her book You Are Meant For Love
Want to get unstuck in your love life? This workshop is for you.
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We all want some sort of structure in our lives. Some NEED structure, like Jen. Others try their hardest to avoid it (here's looking at Rob)… but ultimately we can’t live without it. Whether it’s lining up a bunch of dates, or doing nothing and attempting to go with the flow...we all need something to keep us on track one way or another. But, we wonder, if you do crave structure…are you “coachable?”
Our guest, Tori Gordon, founder of Coachable LLC, believes that coachability is the biggest indicator of long-term success and the most under-valued skill we can acquire. She joins the pod to tell us all about her Relationship Masterclass, help us break codependent patterns, stop attracting emotionally unavailable partners, shed light on the pros and cons of dating in 2022, and ultimately, get untriggered.
Get a Masters in Relationships with Tori:
TikTok - @coachtorigordon
Website - www.torigordon.com
Workbook - https://coachable.ac-page.com/untriggered-workbook
Course - Relationship Masterclass
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Keep it Complicated with Jen, NotJen, and Rob:
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