How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

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How to Write Irresistible Openers on the Apps + The Easy Way to Text and Get Dates (Part 3 of 5) Nov 20, 2024

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Do you struggle to write good openers? Do the women you text tend to ghost you? Help is on the way! In part 3 of this week’s special series on how to get a great girlfriend, your host—dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett—teaches you how to write irresistible openers on the apps that women reply to. Then he shares his simple, 4-step texting framework so you’ll always know what to message women, leading to more dates. And you’ll do all of this with authentic charm—no weird pickup tricks needed.
In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett will discuss:
(4:28) The Real Reason You Struggle on the Dating Apps
(7:27) The 3 Kinds of Openers NOT to Send
(9:01) The 3 Secrets to Writing Openers that Women Love
(10:25) How to Personalize Your Openers to Get Replies
(12:57) The BIG Mistake You’re Making in the Apps
(13:45) Why Women Love, Love, Love Playful Messages
(15:30) How to Write the “Opposites Attract” Opener
(17:58) How to Write the “Compliment + Nickname” Opener
(20:56) How to Write the “Pop Quiz” Opener
(28:00) 3 Tested Copy-Paste Openers that Women Love
(29:58) Connell’s 4-Step Texting Framework to Get You Dates
(32:57) A Breakdown of a Flirty Text Exchange with Suzy
(38:30) Exactly When to Ask Women Out
(40:32) Why Connell’s New “Surprisingly Sexy” Opener Works with ANY Woman
(43:15) Your Dating Mission for this Episode
Are you ready to stop getting ghosted and start getting dates? Listen now!
Quotes
"Learn her interests to tailor your approach; discussing them sparks meaningful conversations." - Connell Barnett
"Master teasing by staying light and avoiding sensitive topics like appearance or intelligence. Keep it fun, not personal." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

You’re Flirting Wrong: The New Way to Talk to Women + 5 Flirting Fails to Avoid (Part 2 of 5) Nov 19, 2024

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Chances are, you struggle with flirting. You’re not sure how to talk to women, and you run out of things to say. It hurts your confidence and your dating results. But what if you knew exactly how to talk to girls in a way they love, leading to great dates and deep connections? In part 2 of his 5-part series to help you get you a great girlfriend, dating coach Connell Barrett teaches you a new way to flirt. You’re about to harness the power of Man-to-Woman Communication, a simple way to confidently talk to women with charm and authenticity.
In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:
(4:58) The “Aha!” Moment when he Realized the Power of Man-to-Woman Communication
(13:08) The Reason You Get Stuck in the Friend Zone
(14:28) The 3 Pillars of Man-to-Woman Communication
(16:20) How to Never Run out of Things to Say
(18:30) The “80-20 Rule” to Help You Flirt with Genuine Charm, Not Manipulative Tactics
(20:21) 10 Tested Flirting Moves Connell and His Clients Use
(22:40) How to Make Her Swoon: the Right Way to Give a Compliment
(29:37) The Difference Between Flirting (Good!) and Fawning (Bad!)
(34:00) The Flirty Text Message that Helped Connell Charm His Future Girlfriend
(37:11) The Right Way to Touch a Woman on First Dates… and the WRONG Way
(41:40) The Most Potent Weapon in Your Dating Arsenal
(43:15) 5 Flirting Fails You Must Avoid
(49:20) 3 Back-pocket Questions to Assure You’ll Never Run Out of Things to Say
Are you ready to stop struggling when talking to women and start flirting with charm and authenticity? Learn the art of Man-to-Woman Communication. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
Quotes
"Man-to-woman communication is like turbocharged flirting—it simplifies and authenticates romantic connections." - Connell Barnett
"I think the most powerful tool you can bring to your dating life is playfulness." - Connell Barnett

How to Attract Your Dream Girlfriend by Dating with Radical Authenticity—Part 1 of a Special Series Nov 18, 2024

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Do you want a great relationship with a wonderful woman, but you struggle with flirting and dating? It can make you feel frustrated, lonely and low in confidence. Let’s change that! Introducing the new How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, which launches this week with a 5-part series about how to attract your soulmate. In this first episode, dating coach and author Connell Barrett shares his groundbreaking dating philosophy—Radical Authenticity—to help you confidently flirt, get dates, and find love. Your dream girlfriend is out there, and she wants to meet the authentic you. Listen now!
In this episode, Connell will tell you:
(4:45) What Women REALLY Want in Men
(6:00) The Moment He Learned How to Approach and Attract Women
(10:30) How Connell “Stole” His Girl Away from 3 Charismatic Wall Street Bros
(12:45) How He Moved in for the First Kiss
(16:25) Why Radical Authenticity Is So Powerful to Women
(20:04) The Real Reason Men Struggle with Low Confidence
(24:24) Jaw-Dropping Success Story: How Connell’s Client Nick Escaped the Friend Zone
(30:30) How Connell Bounced Back After His Wife Left Him
(40:45) The Secret that Made Women Start Chasing Connell
(44:30) The 5 Benefits of Dating with Radical Authenticity
(52:00) The 5 Pillars of Radical Authenticity
(56:00) The 2 Missions Connell Wants You Do To Today
(59:25) How to Get Your Free Copy of His No. 1 Bestselling Book, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”
Quotes
"Authenticity unlocks a paradox: Embrace your worth, speak freely, and let the right words effortlessly flow." - Connell Barnett
"Embrace fear, take courageous actions, especially when approaching women. Courage is the antidote to fear in life." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

How to Know Exactly What to Say When You Approach… & NEVER Get Rejected Oct 24, 2024

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So you want to talk to women you notice IRL—in bars, coffee shops, at the gym—but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares his 3-step approaching framework so you’ll know exactly what to say to break the ice in a charming way. The great news? Connell’s approaching method is virtually rejection-proof! And you don’t need to memorize weird pickup-artist lines. You can confidently talk to women anywhere, while being spontaneous and in the moment. Stop struggling with approaching and start confidently meeting women, and do it with charm and authenticity. Listen now to learn how!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED): http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
Quotes
"Release the pressure to be perfect; authentic words resonate more deeply than the perfect script." - Connell Barnett
"Engage with light, playful compliments and watch simple interactions blossom into memorable moments." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:01 - Approach Women with Genuine Charm
04:02 - No Perfect Words: Use This Framework
07:28 - Compliment Beyond Looks
10:33 - Ask Sincere Questions, Expect Warmth
16:01 - Tailor Compliments to the Context
17:58 - Smoothie Date from an Indirect Compliment
21:21 - Prep Mentally Before Approaching Women
22:11 - Outro

3 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid! Plus: Steal the Flirty, 12-Word Opener that Gets Women Replying Oct 21, 2024

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Do you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge… and don’t know why? It’s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—identifies 3 dating app mistakes that you make when writing openers. Plus, Connell shares the flirty, 12-word opener that gets him a 77% percent response rate on the apps with wonderful women. Stop getting ghosted and start sending openers that women love! Listen now.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
Quotes
"Engage women with fun, flirty questions—not just logic and information—to spark lively conversations." - Connell Barnett
"Improve your match success by refining your opening lines for better connections." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:27 - Crafting Effective Dating App Openers
03:25 - Engage with Fun, Playful Questions
09:52 - Personalize Messages with Profile Insights
10:36 - Initiate Chats by Noting Unique Traits
15:37 - Opt for Fun, Light Conversation Starters
17:50 - 'Opposites Attract' for Engaging Chats
24:03 - The 12-Word Power Opener
28:49 - Value Authenticity in Compliments and Questions
30:21 - Start with Intrigue to Avoid the Friend Zone32:12 - Outro

The 7 Deadly Dating Myths to Avoid Sep 23, 2024

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Do you feel like you’re just not good-looking or not tall enough to attract wonderful women and find a great girlfriend? Well, think again! Those are two of the 7 deadly dating myths that can hurt your confidence and make it difficult to connect with women. Never fear! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett runs down each of these 7 hurtful dating myths, and offers you 7 new and improved strategies to help you flirt and connect with incredible women… and help you find the dream girlfriend you want. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"Height isn't everything; a man can make a woman feel protected and cherished through confidence, muscle, assertive speech, and skilled flirting." - Connell Barnett
"If you see a woman you want to meet, approach her right away. Waiting too long lets doubt creep in." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:11 - 5 Biggest Common Dating Frustrations
03:00 - Debunking Dating Myths: No Need for Perfection
05:25 - Blending Humor with Flirtation in Dating
08:52 - Jason's Genuine Approach Captivates an Attorney
13:04 - Confidence: Key to Dating Success
15:27 - The 3-Second Rule for Approaching Women
17:57 - Conversation Skills Aren't Crucial
22:05 - Rejections as Courageous Opportunities
23:38 - Interest Shifts with Time
27:07 - Outro

How to Use Emojis to Send Flirty Texts and Get Dates ;) Jun 23, 2024

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In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix 5 of the most frustrating dating problems men face. He shares texting secrets to help you STOP getting ghosted, reveals why women love nice guys (not “alpha males”), and shares his favorite move for going for the first kiss. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend

How I Went from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women! The Power of Radical Authenticity May 20, 2024

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Would you like to stop doubting yourself and start confidently connecting with wonderful women—without using sketchy pickup artist tricks? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks about the night that transformed his love life and his self-confidence. Are you ready to harness the power of your own Authenticity, flirt with charm, and find a wonderful woman who loves you for you? Then listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend

10 Flirty Questions to Ask Women When You Approach May 15, 2024

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Not knowing what to say is the biggest thing that stops you from approaching women in bars, coffee shops, or at your gym. And if you talk to women sometimes, do you flirt correctly? Or do you come off as boring, or even creepy? It’s hard to know! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 10 flirty questions to ask women when you approach, so you can confidently know exactly what to say when you approach… and get numbers and dates. Listen now! And remember to approach with AUTHENTICITY! Because women like you for you.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"Syncing with emotions is key. It's about embracing the emotional wavelength—fun and playfulness intertwined." -Connell Barnett
“Genuine connections thrive when you show interest in understanding her true self."- Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
01:53 - Mastering Interaction with 10 Key Questions
03:35 - The Key to Engagement06:58 - Love Life Transformation
12:26 - Inquiring About Her Company
13:37 - Turning Misunderstandings Around
17:09 - Breaking Stereotypes
21:54 - Positive Work Inquiries: Elevating Conversations
23:19 - Boosting Attraction Levels25:18 - Outro
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The Top 10 Flirting Mistakes You Make… and 10 Instant Fixes! Apr 15, 2024

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If you struggle to flirt with women, guess what: You’re likely making some common flirting mistakes, and you don’t even know it! If you fall into any of these 10 flirting traps, you’ll get ghosted or friend-zoned. But if you FIX these flirting mistakes, you'll start making sparks fly and find your dream girlfriend. Dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 10 most common flirting mistakes men make, and he gives you 10 instant fixes—so you can flirt with confidence and authenticity, with ZERO pickup-artist sleaziness. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"All it took was a bit of small talk, sharing our names, our stories, our vulnerabilities—simple steps to meaningful connections.”-Connell Barnett"
Spice up conversations by discussing your loves and hates, adding depth and interest to your dialogue."- Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
01:52 - Mastering Confident Flirting: Tips to Captivate and Attract
05:06 - Delicately Inquiring About Her Kissing Preferences
09:03 - Elevate Your Dating Journey: Embrace Confidence Coaching
10:44 - Timing Matters: Appreciation Interplays with Woman's Perception
15:11 - Authenticity in Communication: Keeping It Genuine, Vulnerable
18:10 - Embracing Innocence: How a Pure Approach Resonates
20:55 - The Power of Physical Touch in Flirting: Balancing Calibration
25:30 - Flattery: Finding the Sweet Spot for Genuine Connection
28:37 - Playful Banter: Teasing and Joking with Subtle Accusations
32:01 - Emotional Depth: Initiating Connections through Feelings
36:23 - Unwind and Engage: Let Your Authentic Self Guide Conversations
37:22 - Mastering Conversations: Navigating with the 80 20 Rule
38:40 - Outro
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