Fostering Voices Podcast

Embodied: Transgender Identities, the Church, and What the Bible Has to Say: Sprinkle, Preston: 9780830781225: Amazon.com

Episode 192: Now What? How to Support Your LGBTQ Youth Oct 08, 2024

Summary:

In this episode, we’re diving into an essential conversation about the role we all play—parents, caregivers, and community members—in supporting the wellbeing of LGBTQ+ youth. Even if you don’t feel this is directly relevant to your life, we encourage you to listen. Statistically, more than one in five Gen Z adults and one in ten millennial adults identify as LGBTQ+. Youth who identify as LGBTQ+ are at a significantly higher risk for homelessness, substance abuse, trauma, and suicide, with even greater risks for those who’ve experienced the foster care system.

These youth could be our neighbors, friends, children, or our kids’ friends, making it crucial for us to put down our guard and open our hearts.

To guide this discussion, we’re joined by Rochelle Rippy and Hira Ismail from one•n•ten, a nonprofit organization dedicated to serving LGBTQ+ youth and young adults ages 11-24. They provide critical services that promote self-expression, self-acceptance, leadership development, and healthy life choices. Let’s explore how we can all play a part in creating a more supportive, inclusive world for the LGBTQ+ youth in our lives.

Resource Links:

one•n•ten: one•n•ten

Tips for Parents of LGBTQ+ Youth: Tips for Parents of LGBTQ Youth | Johns Hopkins Medicine

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Episode 191: Fostered for Greatness Sep 24, 2024

Summary:

In this episode, we are honored to sit down with Mari Ramsey, whose inspiring journey began when he and his brother entered foster care at the age of 14. While many teens in his situation end up in group homes, Mari was fortunate to find a loving foster family where he could thrive. Through the challenges he faced, Mari discovered his passion for music, faith in God, and a calling to share his story with others. Join us as we listen to Mari’s heartfelt reflections on his experiences, the power of resilience, and how his love for music and faith shaped his path.

Resource Links:

Fostered for Greatness - Mari Ramsey - Fostered For Greatness

Foster and Adopt Information: Foster Arizona | Foster & Adobt

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What adolescents (or teenagers) need to thrive | Charisse Nixon | TEDxPSUErie

Episode 190: Real Talk: Group Homes in Arizona Sep 10, 2024

Summary:

In today’s episode, we dive into the world of group homes for children in foster care. When family or foster families aren't an option, group homes become the next step for many kids. But what is life really like inside these homes?

We’re joined by Shevaun Sullivan, Director of Group Home Relations at OCJ Kids, who shares her insights from years of experience. Shevaun discusses the day-to-day realities for kids in these environments and highlights the crucial role the community plays in supporting their well-being. If you’ve ever wondered how group homes function or how you can help make a difference, this conversation is a must-listen!

Resource Links:

OCJ Kids

Gestures - Changing Minds, by Futures Without Violence

Dr. Bruce Perry: How the Neurosequential Model Can Be Used to Meet Children Where They Are

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Episode 189: Learning & Growing Together - On Location @ FC Training Day Aug 27, 2024

Summary:

Join us on location at Central Christian Church in Glendale, Arizona, for Foster Arizona’s semi-annual Foster Cooperative Training. This episode is packed with insightful talks from experts dedicated to empowering caregivers and community champions. Discover valuable knowledge and practical tools to better support the children who need us most. As we learn and grow together, we enhance our ability to make a meaningful impact in their lives. Tune in to be inspired and equipped to show up with greater purpose and compassion.

Resource Links:

Taproot Therapy

Pure Phoenix

Lighthouse Psychiatry

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Episode 188: How Art Helps Build Resilience Aug 13, 2024

Summary:

In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the concept of building resilience, particularly in children. We often hear about the importance of resilience, but what does it really mean? And more importantly, how can we help our kids develop this crucial skill? Resilience isn’t just about surviving challenges—it’s about learning to bounce back and thrive in the face of adversity. While there are many ways to nurture resilience, today, we’re focusing on a powerful and perhaps unexpected tool: art.

Art can be a transformative medium for children, offering them a way to process emotions, express themselves, and find healing. To explore this topic further, we’re excited to welcome Matt Sandoval, the Executive Director of Free Arts for Abused Children of Arizona. This incredible local nonprofit is dedicated to providing trauma-informed programs that connect the community to the healing power of the arts. Matt brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to our discussion, and we’re grateful to have him with us as we explore how art can be a successful tool in building resilience in children.

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Free Arts for Abused Children of Arizona -

Free Arts

Video: 3 Art Therapy Activities to Boost Resilience Made from Dollar Tree Materials

BOOK - I Can do Hard Things - Mindful Affirmations for Kids

I Can Do Hard Things: Mindful Affirmations for Kids: Garcia, Gabi, Russell, Charity: 9780998958088

Resilience Guide for Parents and Teachers

Resilience guide for parents and teachers

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Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors: Gobbel, Robyn: 9781839974281: Amazon.com: Books Lighthouse Psychiatry

Episode 187: Behavior Interventions that Work for Us Jul 23, 2024

Summary:

In our last episode, we shared how our family embraces summer adventures. This time, we're diving into the real struggles we face, not just in summer, but every day. Join us as we explore the challenges and interventions that work for us.

We tackle road trips and outings, discussing how the struggle is real and how we manage in-car and outing behaviors, handling nighttime routines when you're the only adult or with another adult. We then shift our focus to home life, addressing challenges like out-of-control behaviors, unsafe car habits, dysregulation, and lack of sleep. We'll cover prevention strategies, therapy, additional supports, practice drills, preparing conversations, and identifying triggers. We also look at tips for taking care of yourself both on vacation and in everyday life, ensuring you can be present and supportive for your family.

Tune in for practical insights and relatable stories to help navigate family life with confidence and resilience.

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Episode 186: Vacation Planning & Tips - Vehon Style Jul 09, 2024

Summary:

As summer blazes in Arizona, we’re constantly on the move, seeking cooler escapes to preserve our sanity. Traveling with a family of nine is no small feat, and we’ve gathered a treasure trove of tips and tricks to make it smoother.

In this episode, we dive into Intentional Travel. Fresh from a recent timeshare presentation, we discuss the joys and challenges of discovering new experiences together and the importance of adventure in our family. We’ll share our favorite adventures and how we align them with our family goals.

Next, in The Planning Behind the Fun, we break down the essentials of gearing up for family trips. From our favorite Shacke Paks to specific bags for medications, bug spray, sunscreen, and more, we cover it all. Learn how we manage kid bags, hygiene kits, and day bags to keep everyone organized. We’ll also share tips on cooler prep, using Stasher Bags and Mason Jars, and our go-to kitchen bucket.

Our clothing plan includes an emergency washing kit and a portable clothing rack, plus how to plan laundry stops on the road. We’ll guide you through planning the fun with tools like the Road Tripper app and Google Docs for seamless travel details.

Lastly, we touch on the essentials of permits, advance tickets, seasonal activities, and international travel tips. And when things don’t go as planned, we’ll share our go-to interventions to keep the fun alive.

Join us for an insightful episode packed with practical advice for memorable family travels!

Resource Links:

Shacke Pak!: Shacke 5 Set Packing Cubes for Travel Lightweight Luggage Organizer (Precious Pink)

Stasher Bags: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Stasher/page/72A85B6D-96FA-4F49-9D3D-156FABEC9DB6?ref_=ast_bln&store_ref=bl_ast_dp_brandLogo_sto

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Roadtrippers app: Roadtrippers

Bonus Content:

Copy of Vehon 2023 Summer Trip Itinerary and Meal List: LINK TO DOWNLOAD FROM DRIVE: Copy of Vehon 2023 Summer Trip Itinerary & Meal List.pdf

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Episode 185: Consider Yourself a Mandated Supporter Jun 25, 2024

Summary:

In this week's episode, we continue the important conversation started in Episode 184 “The Link Between Foster Care and Social Disparities”. If you haven’t had a chance to listen to it yet, we highly recommend checking it out to gain a deeper understanding of today’s discussion. June is Family Reunification Month, a time to celebrate families coming back together after separation due to child protective services. But what if reunification wasn’t necessary? What if we could focus more on prevention and support within our communities to keep families together in the first place? This week, we explore these critical questions with our returning guest, Claire Louge. Join us as we examiine how every one of us can play a role in supporting our neighbors and fostering stronger, more resilient communities. Don’t miss this insightful and thought-provoking episode!

Resource Links:

“Considering Yourself a Mandated Supporter” training: For Mandated Reporters - Prevent Child Abuse Arizona

Arizona - Triple P Parenting Education: Triple P Arizona

Non-Arizona Triple P Parenting Education: Triple P - Positive Parenting Program

Family Resource Centers: Arizona Family Resource Network - Find a Resource Center

Foster Cooperative: Foster Cooperative

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Article: Contact with Child Protective Services is pervasive but unequally distributed by race and ethnicity in large US counties | PNAS

Episode 184: The Link Between Foster Care and Social Disparities Jun 11, 2024

Summary:

In honor of June being Family Reunification Month, today's episode sheds light on a crucial yet often overlooked issue in our community: the challenges and misconceptions surrounding birth families involved in the foster care system. As foster parents, we initially held unfair biases towards these families. However, through our journey, we've learned that various factors make some families more at risk of system involvement than others.

To deepen this conversation, we are thrilled to welcome Claire Louge, the Executive Director of Prevent Child Abuse Arizona. Claire is dedicated to strengthening families and protecting children. She is passionate about creating a supportive and welcoming community where everyone can access the resources they need. Her insights and dedication to family reunification will inspire and inform our discussion.

Join us as we explore the complexities of the foster care system, challenge our preconceptions, and learn how we can all contribute to a more understanding and supportive environment for families in need. We are grateful to have Claire share her expertise and heart with us, and we hope this episode fosters greater awareness and compassion within our community. Tune in and be part of this important conversation.

Resource Links:

Protective Factors Framework - Center for the Study of Social Policy

“Considering Yourself a Mandated Supporter” training: For Mandated Reporters - Prevent Child Abuse Arizona

Community Opportunity Map

Blink by Malcolm Gladwell: https://a.co/d/1zrvSxg

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Episode 183: A Single Mom’s FosterAdopt Journey May 28, 2024

Summary:

In honor of Foster Care Awareness Month, join us for an inspiring episode featuring a heartfelt conversation with my sister-in-law, Tara Armstrong. Tara played a pivotal role in our family's foster care journey, guiding us as we transitioned from having two kids to seven. Now, she has embarked on her own remarkable path. As a single mom of two, Tara opened her heart and home, adopting two children from the foster care system who were searching for their forever family. This episode delves into the challenges and triumphs of fostering and adoption, offering real talk and personal insights that highlight the profound impact one person can make. Tune in to hear Tara's story of love, resilience, and the transformative power of family.

Resource Links:

Arizona Association for Foster and Adoptive Parents

ASA Now

Families | Arizona 1.27

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Episode 182: Life-Changing Connections in Foster Care May 14, 2024

Summary:

In today's episode, we explore the profound impact of connections on well-being, particularly in the context of foster care. The Center for Disease Control and Prevention highlights the pivotal role of social connections in fostering healthy choices and better mental and physical health outcomes. However, many children entering foster care face profound disconnection from their familiar support networks, exacerbating challenges like stress, anxiety, and depression.

In Arizona, where the average foster child experiences two or more placements, the need for stable, nurturing relationships is starkly evident. Our guest, Freddie Hernandez, a former foster youth, shares his remarkable journey of resilience and transformation. With a degree in Digital Film and Video Production from The Art Institute of Phoenix, Freddie defied the odds, emerging as a beacon of hope in his community.

Join us as Freddie sheds light on how one caring adult can alter the trajectory of a young person's life. Through his passion for digital storytelling and filmmaking, Freddie exemplifies the power of connection and the ripple effect of mentorship. His story serves as a testament to the transformative potential inherent in human connection. We extend our gratitude to Freddie for lending his voice and invaluable experience to today's conversation. Tune in as we explore the profound impact of connection and the pathways to support and empower those navigating the foster care system.

Resource Links:

Child Welfare Statistics: Arizona Children in Out-of-Home Care

Voices for CASA Children

Big Brothers Big Sisters of Central Arizona

Get Involved

How Does Social Connectedness Affect Health? | CDC

Volunteer at Family Involvement Center

Book: Tattoos on the Heart

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Your Mental Health Today Test / Quiz

Episode 181: It's OK to Say, "I'm Not OK." Apr 23, 2024

Summary:

Today, it’s just the two of us, engaging in a candid conversation about mental health. Ironically, we find ourselves easing into a month dedicated to both mental health and foster care awareness. For those who have experienced life within the foster care system, the intricate connection between these two realms becomes evident. So, let’s dive into the spaces where our mental well-being has been profoundly affected and the valuable lessons we’ve gleaned along the way. With that, let’s begin this authentic conversation. 🌟

Resource Links:

31 Tips to Boost Your Mental Health

11 Ways to Find and Make Friends as an Adult

The Arizona Association for Foster and Adoptive Parents

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Caregiver stress: Tips for taking care of yourself - Mayo Clinic

Episode 180: How Caregiver Stress Impacts Our Bodies Apr 09, 2024

Summary:

In honor of Stress Awareness Month, our podcast delves into the crucial topic of stress reduction and self-care. While this is important for everyone, it holds even greater significance for caregivers of children with special needs and those working in social services fields. The toll of constant stress can adversely affect our health, leading to feelings of depression, anxiety, inadequate sleep, lack of physical activity, and imbalanced diets. These factors increase the risk of serious health conditions like heart disease and diabetes.

But how do we address this challenge? Today, we’re thrilled to welcome back Dr. Jaime Parker, a seasoned expert with over 25 years of experience in health and wellness. Dr. Jaime wears multiple hats as a holistic health coach, fitness instructor, certified personal trainer, nutrition educator, and certified Pilates instructor. She has personally triumphed over numerous health obstacles.

Recently, I sought Dr. Jaime’s guidance in my own healing journey. The years of accumulated stress have taken their toll on both Brian and me. Dr. Jaime’s genuine empathy and understanding resonate deeply as she navigates the delicate balance between caring for others and prioritizing self-care. Her remarkable ability to meet people where they are, infused with love and encouragement, is something we’re excited to share with you today. Tune in as we explore simple yet impactful changes that can lead to stress relief and better health. 🎙️🌟

Resource Links:

Bali Blue Wellness (Dr. Jaime Parker)

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Episode 179: What is Critical Memory Integration and How Can it Help? Mar 26, 2024

Summary:

Today, we’re delving into an exciting new therapy modality called Critical Memory Integration. This groundbreaking approach focuses on healing trauma by exploring unresolved critical memories and integrating them with neutral memories, fostering resilience in individuals.

At the forefront of this creation, our incredible team of panelists joins us today. You might recognize one of our team members—Estefana Johnson—who shared her insights in our Valentine’s episode. Estefana is a cherished friend of Foster Arizona. Alongside Estefana, we have two remarkable psychologists: Dr. Brian Livesay and Dr. Diego Hernandez. Both experts bring extensive backgrounds in trauma care and post-traumatic stress disorder.

Over the past two years, I’ve eagerly followed the progress of this project, and it’s truly remarkable to witness its practical implementation locally and globally.

Resource Links:

The trajectory of PTSD among youth in foster care: A survival analysis examining maltreatment experiences prior to entry into care.

How We Feel

Atlas of the Heart - Brené Brown

Lighthouse Psychiatry

Lt. Col Mann TEDx on Generosity of Scars

The Generosity of Scars | Scott Mann | TEDxSantaBarbara

Elizabeth Feldmann Barrett How Emotions are made

How Emotions are Made (Cinematic Lecture)

Luiz Pessoa: “The Entangled Brain: Integration of emotion, motivation, and cognition”

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Chapters:

00:00 - Opening

00:33 - Intro

02:03 - Dr. Brian Livesay

03:40 - Connection is Fundamental

04:35 - Dr. Diego Hernandez

05:23 - Did I Make a Difference?

06:38 - We Did Everything Together

08:07 - Estefana Johnson

09:57 - You were Made to Fly!

10:46 - It Starts with the Therapist

13:20 - Clinicians are more than Technicians

15:42 - Survival is not Enough

16:34 - Critical Memory Integration

18:24 - The Deepest Conversations

19:00 - We are Designed for Play

19:47 - Getting Through the Bad Feelings

21:54 - Recognizing the Signals

22:59 - Tactical Disclosure

25:02 - Power in Relatability

28:55 - Where does CMI Fit?

32:20 - Integrating CMI

35:08 - Critical Memories

36:14 - The Stories Movies Tell

37:15 - Full Access to your Emotions

40:21 - Teaching Kids to Experience Emotions

43:33 - Stories are Wisdom

44:18 - How to get this new Therapy

47:10 - New Understanding

48:03 - A Hub for Training

50:18 - Resources

51:15 - Final Thoughts

55:10 - Conclusion

55:40 - Thank You!

Episode 178: Learning and Growing Together - On Location at Foster Cooperative Training Day: Part 2 Mar 12, 2024

Summary:

Welcome back to the Fostering Voices podcast! In today’s episode, we’re picking up where we left off last week. Our microphones are live on location at Foster Cooperative’s first training day of 2024, where we’re soaking up knowledge and growing together. 🌱

Last time, you had the pleasure of meeting some of our incredible presenters. This week, get ready to hear from three more remarkable human beings. They’ll share their stories, insights, and passion for fostering. 🎙️

So, without further ado, let’s dive into this enriching conversation! Buckle up, because here we go! 🚀

Resource Links:

PAX Arizona Initiative – PAXIS (Frances Holguin)

Mercy Care (Nichol Khan)

Bali Blue Wellness (Dr. Jaime Parker)

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Episode 177: Learning and Growing Together - On Location at Foster Cooperative Training Day: Part 1 Feb 27, 2024

Summary:

Today is all about something extra special! We've packed our gear and hit the road to bring you an exclusive behind-the-scenes experience. Right now, we're on location at Foster Cooperative's training day, immersing ourselves in a day of learning and growth.

Foster Arizona, a beacon of support and empowerment, hosts these training events twice a year. And let me tell you, each time is a unique journey filled with eye-opening insights. Today, we're not keeping those gems to ourselves – we're bringing you along for the ride!

Join us as we dive into various topics and explore valuable resources that shape the fostering landscape. Whether you're a seasoned advocate or just starting your journey, there's something for everyone. So, buckle up and get ready to embark on this enlightening adventure with us. Are you ready? Let's go!

Resource Links:

Learn From People Who Lived It (Mathew Blades)

I Needed That Podcast - Chris Powell (Mathew Blades)

Shift Happens Transformative Counseling (Wade Cordell)

Lighthouse Psychiatry (Carol Melim)

Internet Safety | Arizona Attorney General (Jillian Ashby)

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Arizona Council of Human Service Providers – Neurosequential Model in Caregiving© Webinar Series

Episode 176: All You Need is Love (Not!) Feb 13, 2024

Summary:

It’s officially Hallmark’s week of love! 🌟 When it comes to parenting kids with trauma, we often hear the words, “All You Need is Love.” But is that really true? This week, we dive deep into this question.

We’re thrilled to have Estefana Johnson joining us in the conversation. Estefana, a clinical social worker, began her career working with youth in residential treatment facilities. She’s a mover and a shaker, bringing innovative approaches to trauma therapies. Plus, she’s a favorite trainer at our semi-annual Foster Cooperative training events. And let’s not forget, she’s one of the most loving people we know. Tune in for insightful discussions and heartfelt stories! ❤️🎙️

Resource Links:

Trainings

History | ChildTrauma Academy

Info@fosteraz.org

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Foster - Step 1 and 2 - Let's Get to Know You | Arizona Department of Child Safety

Chapters:

00:12 - Opening

00:35 - Welcome!

01:41 - Estefana's Journey

03:39 - Radical Acceptance

04:46 - Moving Beyond Fear

06:31 - Being Curious

06:59 - Therapy

08:07 - The Hero Complex

09:58 - What is Love?

11:00 - If you Loved them Better...

13:10 - "We're on Your Team"

14:35 - Rose-Colored Glasses

17:40 - Your Purpose is Greater

19:01 - The Heart Connection

21:17 - Handling Trauma

24:07 - Drip Drip Drip

26:00 - Self-Judgment

28:09 - It is not a Fault

30:17 - Deep Connections

32:01 - Choosing to Show Love

36:34 - Gratitude

36:55 - The Takeaway

37:58 - Resources

39:09 - Connect with Us!

39:33 - Thank You!

Episode 175: I Want to Foster! Now What? Jan 30, 2024

Summary:

Discover the profound journey of becoming a foster parent in a nation grappling with a staggering shortage. In this episode, we explore the critical issue of the national decline in foster parent numbers, intensified by a 60% drop since the onset of the pandemic. Arizona, mirroring this trend, has witnessed a drastic decrease from 5,559 licensed foster homes in 2019 to a mere 2,798 as of November 2023 – marking a nearly 50% loss.

Against this backdrop, our guests, Elisia and Jade from Step Stone Youth Agency, shed light on the challenges and rewards of foster parenting. At a time when Arizona is fervently working to address the shortage through extensive recruitment initiatives, this podcast provides a timely and insightful conversation. If you've ever wondered about the complexities, triumphs, and heartaches involved in fostering, join us as we explore the untold stories and experiences that shape the journey of these unsung heroes. The need for foster parents has never been more urgent, and this episode aims to inspire and inform, encouraging listeners to consider making a difference in the lives of vulnerable children.

Resource Links:

Arizona - StepStone Family & Youth Services

Foster Care: Avoiding Foster Parent Burnout | Justice Resource Institute

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Arizona Association for Foster and Adoptive Parents

Episode 174: Moms Get Real Jan 23, 2024

Summary:

Welcome to the Fostering Voices podcast with your host Kim! Join us as we shake things up in this episode by delving into some authentic mom talk. We've given Brian the boot for now to bring you a heartfelt discussion on the joys and challenges of parenting within the realms of foster care and adoption. As a mom personally touched by these experiences, connecting with others who share similar journeys has been both empowering and deeply meaningful. In today's episode, we're joined by the wonderful Elisia and Ally, fellow moms navigating the unique landscape of foster care and adoption. Tune in for an honest and relatable conversation that sheds light on the beauty and complexities of building families through love and compassion.

Resource Links:

MOMnation® AZ

Three Precious Miracles

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Authentic Voices Video Series: Sharing Our Perspective - Center for States - Child Welfare Capacity Building Collaborative

Chapters:

00:34 - Welcome!

01:13 - Elisia's Story

04:32 - Ally's Story

09:37 - What have you Learned

13:24 - Filling in the Gaps

15:28 - Momma Joy Moments

21:43 - Challenging Spaces

30:05 - Tag You're In!

32:47 - Tag You're Out!

34:11 - Keeping Your Sanity

39:47 - Filling Your Own Cup

41:26 - Saying No in Love

42:36 - Resources

45:11 - Connect with Us!

45:50 - ThankYou!

Episode 173: Kids’ Perspective on Foster Care and Adoption Jan 09, 2024

Summary:

Welcome back to the Fostering Voices podcast! Happy 2024, everyone! We're thrilled to kick off another year of heartfelt conversations and insightful stories. In today's episode, we have a special discussion with our 'bigs'—Maisey, Liesey, and Sam—sharing their unique perspectives on foster care and adoption. Join us as we delve into their experiences, gaining valuable insights into the world of fostering and adoption through their eyes. Thanks for tuning in, and let's embark on this journey of understanding and empathy together!

Resource Links:

Educate | Foster Arizona

Foster - Step 1 and 2 - Let's Get to Know You | Arizona Department of Child Safety

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Episode 172: Foster Care Land Between: Planning Your Future in the Unknown Dec 26, 2023

Summary:

As we wrap up 2024, we're diving into the complexities of foster care planning. Unlike the conventional New Year's resolutions, the foster care journey is a unique landscape filled with uncertainties. In today's raw and unfiltered discussion, it's just the two of us sharing our personal experiences without any guests. We want to pull back the curtain on the challenges and emotions that come with navigating the foster care land between.

As we all contemplate what the coming year holds, those entrenched in foster care face a different set of considerations. Planning takes on a whole new meaning. Join us as we explore the intricacies of making decisions in the midst of uncertainty, reflecting on the hurdles, and finding the courage to move forward. Whether you're part of the foster care community or simply curious about the realities, this episode aims to resonate with you on a profound level. Tune in for an honest conversation about the uncharted territories of fostering, hoping it sparks a connection and provides insights into the often overlooked aspects of this journey.

Resource Links:

National Foster Care & Adoption Directory | Child Welfare Information Gateway

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Chapters:

00:09 - On Today's Episode

00:55 - Welcome!

01:32 - In the Thick of the Crazy

03:22 - What is the Land Between?

06:20 - Handling the Phases

08:10 - Managing Emotions

12:13 - Emotional Roller Coaster

15:05 - Being Fully Invested

17:09 - It Affects More than Just Us

20:48 - Bringing in the Family

22:17 - Pre Foster Training

23:04 - Us vs. Them

25:56 - It's not About the Socks

29:53 - Controlling what you Can

34:02 - Connect with Community

36:04 - Create a Memory

39:21 - Don't be Afraid to Connect

41:36 - Resources

42:11 - Connect with Us!

43:16 - Thank You!

Episode 171: Laughing all the Way: Vehon Christmas Traditions Dec 12, 2023

Summary:

Welcome to a festive episode of our podcast, where we dive into the heartwarming world of holiday traditions and intentional joy. As we usher in the holiday season, we're joined by some special guests – the Vehon kids! In this intimate conversation, we explore how our family of 9 embraces the spirit of togetherness and crafts unique traditions that redefine the meaning of festive celebrations.

Discover the magic of intentional joy and connection as we unpack the Vehon family's approach to the holidays. From crazy traditions that spark laughter to thoughtful rituals that deepen family bonds, this episode offers a glimpse into the joyous tapestry we’ve woven. If you've ever been curious about what holiday festivities can look like in a bustling household, this is the perfect episode for you.

Join us in celebrating the season with the Vehon kids’ first-ever podcast recording. Whether you're seeking inspiration for your own festivities or just love a good holiday story, this episode is sure to fill your heart with warmth and festive cheer. Thanks for joining us as we unwrap the magic of intentional joy in this joyous holiday season!

Resource Links:

Rolo Pretzels Recipe - The Girl Who Ate Everything

Butterscotch yule log: A retro Christmas dessert recipe from the 60s - Click Americana

Christmas 2023: Phoenix holiday lights map

Foster Care & The Holidays

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The Importance of ICWA Foster Homes: A Personal Account | American Indian Policy Institute

Episode 170: A Look Into Tribal Foster Care Dec 05, 2023

Summary:

In this episode we peel back the curtain and take a look into tribal foster care. Joining us are Brad and Karin Dahlman, a remarkable couple who have dedicated themselves to fostering children for many years. Through tribal foster care, they've opened their hearts and homes to dozens of kids, making an immeasurable impact on our community. Karin sits on the board of Foster Arizona, and Brad is one of those people we can call to rally troops or step into a problem. We absolutely love them and are really grateful we all get to learn from them today. Tune in as we dive deep into their incredible journey as foster parents and explore the vital role of tribal foster care in the lives of children. Join us for an inspiring and informative conversation that sheds light on the challenges and rewards of this vital work.

Resource Links:

For Families & Service Providers » NICWA

Foster a Future for American Indian Children | Arizona Department of Child Safety

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Families Considering Foster Care and Adoption

Chapters:

00:09 - On Today's Episod

00:43 - Welcome

01:17 - Brad and Karin Dahlman

01:38 - Life Before Foster Care

02:27 - Deciding to Foster

04:01 - Answering the Call

04:21 - Adjusting to the Decision

06:17 - Tribal or Not?

08:27 - Overcoming Tribal Challenges

13:37 - Kill 'em with Kindness

15:07 - It's all About Relationships

16:45 - Let them Lead Us

18:29 - The Baby Book

19:59 - From Baby Book to Dad

20:16 - Packing the Children Up

22:28 - Losing a Child

24:17 - Can't do it for Yourself

24:55 - Stronger for It

25:55 - Never too Old

26:56 - Unexpected Blessings

28:11 - Being on the Same Page

30:15 - Changing Visions

31:57 - Misconceptions

32:58 - Starting Late

34:23 - 7 kids; 6 and Under

35:09 - You Can!

35:47 - The Takeaway

37:21 - Resources

38:52 - Connect with Us!

39:16 - Thank You!

Episode 169: Talking Adoption with an Adoption Attorney Nov 14, 2023

Summary:

Welcome back to the Fostering Voices podcast with Kim and Brian! In celebration of Adoption Awareness Month this November, join us for a special episode dedicated to all things adoption. Our guest, Ed Johnson, a revered local attorney deeply embedded in foster and adoption circles, brings a wealth of experience to the discussion.

In this insightful episode, Ed shares his years of knowledge, shedding light on crucial aspects of the adoption journey. If you're on the path to adoption in Arizona, don't miss the opportunity to connect with Ed—his contact information will be in the resource notes. As advocates for informed parenting, we emphasize the importance of understanding the unique spaces of loss associated with adoption. Education is key, and the more you empower yourself with knowledge, the better equipped you'll be to support your children, present or future.

We hope today's conversation sparks valuable insights and encourages ongoing discussions about adoption. Tune in for a heartfelt exploration of this meaningful journey.

Resource Links:

Ed Johnson - adoptionlawaz@gmail.com, 480-209-2847

The Primal Wound by Nancy Newton Verrier

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Types of Trauma Therapy | Mental Health Treatment | California

Chapters:

00:03 - Intro

00:53 - Welcome!

01:42 - Ed's Story and Work

02:25 - Having a Voice in the Court System

03:53 - Ed's Experience with Adoption

05:39 - Kids Need to be Remembered

06:09 - Appreciating RAD

07:54 - The Joy and Reality of Adoption

10:12 - FIrst Hand Experience with Trauma

12:18 - Relating to One Another

12:46 - Support Leads to Successful Adoptions

15:56 - Resilience Leads to Successful Adoptions

17:51 - Those who Stick Around

18:54 - It's a Family Affair

19:25 - Who's Your Favorite Child?

20:24 - Other People's Perceptions

23:08 - To Foster or To Adopt?

27:03 - Talking about Severence

28:24 - Talking about Cost

30:24 - Subsidies for Fostering

35:23 - The Practical Support of Subsidy

36:56 - The Courtroom Process

40:03 - After the Courtroom is Over

42:08 - The 30-dollar Staple

44:29 - Freedom After Adoption

46:39 - Extended Family

47:35 - The Takeaway

48:59 - Resources

51:01 - Connect with Us!

51:24 - Thank you!

Episode 168: Mental Health: Where do I go from Here? Oct 25, 2023

Summary:

In this episode, we dive deep into the crucial topic of mental health and finding a path forward when you're grappling with the question, "Where do I go from here?" Today, we are thrilled to have Carol Melim join our conversation. Carol is not only a Licensed Clinical Social Worker but also a specialist in trauma therapy, certified in EMDR and EMDRIA, with a unique perspective. She brings a wealth of book knowledge and invaluable lived experience to the table, making her exceptionally attuned to the distinctive challenges faced by foster and adopted children, as well as their families.

Throughout this episode, we'll explore the intersection of mental health and family dynamics, drawing on Carol's expertise and personal insights. Whether you're a parent seeking guidance, someone interested in mental health, or simply curious about the experiences of foster and adopted children, this conversation will provide valuable insights and practical advice. Join us as we navigate this important conversation, offering hope and understanding for those asking themselves, "Where do I go from here?"

Resource Links:

Lighthouse Psychiatry

Support Group & Retreats

Complementary & Alternative Techniques and Interventions used with Complex Trauma Clients

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Perry Emerick LICENSED PROFESSIONAL COUNSELOR | PASTOR

Chapters

00:22 - On Today's Episode

00:35 - Welcome Carol Melim

01:33 - Carol's Story

04:04 - RTC's, CFT's, Life Skills

04:55 - Making a Change to Help

05:48 - Respite

06:55 - Becoming a Therapist

07:57 - Unique Challenges

09:18 - Lacking Behavioral Support

11:47 - Having a Safe Space

12:53 - Navigating Therapy

15:18 - Maneuvering Within Therapy

16:57 - Knowing When Therapy is Needed

18:09 - Recognizing False Motivation

20:51 - Follow the Mama Duck

21:31 - The 'Why' Journal

23:02 - Changing Behavior

25:22 - You Don't Get Pie

27:41 - Fun in Parenting

28:58 - Identifying Urgent Scenarios

30:51 - Behavior Coaches

32:32 - When it's not just Trauma

33:55 - Beyond Therapy

35:14 - Leaving too Soon

36:38 - The Takeaway

37:20 - Resources

38:25 - Connect with Us!

38:46 - Thank You!

Episode 167: Trauma’s Impact on Marriage Oct 10, 2023

Summary:

Today, on our 20th wedding anniversary, we embark on a meaningful journey, delving deep into the intricate layers of marriages affected by trauma. Join us as we explore the profound impact that caring for children with special needs has on marital relationships, acknowledging the challenges without getting lost in statistics.

We are honored to be joined by Perry Emerick, an ordained minister and EMDR trained counselor and supervisor. With 26 years of marriage and three children under his belt, Perry brings a wealth of personal and professional experience to our discussion. Together, we unpack the complexities of trauma, relationships, and family dynamics, focusing on the ways past traumas can influence our present connections.

In this episode, Perry shares invaluable insights on how to strengthen marriages and families, especially when past traumas cast their shadows. His expertise and compassionate approach offer guidance on shoring up relationships, emphasizing the resilience and transformative power of love and understanding.

Tune in as we navigate the profound impact of trauma on marriages, discovering the resilience that lies within the bonds of love and commitment. Thank you for joining us on this heartfelt exploration.

Resource Links:

Keeping a Marriage Together While Raising a Child with Special Needs

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing by Oprah Winfrey, Bruce D. Perry, et al.

Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience Audible Logo Audible Audiobook – Unabridged

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Episode 166: Journey to Becoming a Foster Parent Sep 26, 2023

Summary:

In this episode we delve into the transformative journey of becoming a foster parent. Join us as we sit down with Katie O’Dell, the passionate Executive Director of AZ127, a steadfast advocate for fostering life within a supportive community. AZ127 firmly believes that children require families, and families thrive with a strong support network. Together, we explore the profound steps, challenges, and rewards on the path to becoming a foster parent. Katie shares her invaluable insights, highlighting the vital role that community plays in this process. Tune in as we embark on this inspiring journey, discovering the power of love, compassion, and unity in building a brighter future for children in need.

Resource Links:

https://az127.org/

Foster & Adopt

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https://fosterarizona.org/get-involved/#events

Chapters:

00:08 - On Today's Episode

00:35 - Welcome Katie O'Dell!

01:03 - Katie's Story

04:12 - Invisibility in Our Own Community

05:58 - What Happens to the Invisible?

07:23 - Advocating for the Invisible

09:15 - The Stereotype of The Invisible

10:03 - Mobilizing Faith Communities

11:27 - Families Need Communities

13:51 - Fostering is Hard

14:59 - Wrap Around Care Community

17:10 - Lonliness in America

18:05 - Offering Care

19:08 - We are "Judgy" People

21:28 - We can Change our Communities

22:44 - Walking the Talk

26:55 - Foster Parents are Real People

28:00 - Take the Next Step

30:03 - Anyone can Step Up

31:14 - It will Change Your Life!

31:58 - Every Little Thing Counts!

33:31 - The Takeaway

33:48 - Step Into Caring for the Vulnerable

34:31 - Resources

35:19 - Start Asking Questions

36:02 - Join the Conversation!

36:30 - Thank You!

Episode 165: Celebrating 10 Years of Impact Sep 12, 2023

Summary:

Today is all about celebration as Foster Arizona turns 10 years old. Join us as we take a delightful trip down memory lane, reflecting on the invaluable lessons and heartwarming joys we've encountered throughout this incredible journey.

In this special episode, we're honored to have Al Moore, one of our founding board members and the current board chair, as well as Ashley Shick, one of our earliest lead team volunteers and a dedicated board member. Their stories and insights will inspire you as we share our love and gratitude for these incredible individuals. Get ready for a heartfelt and enlightening conversation as we celebrate a decade of fostering hope and change. Stay tuned!

Resource Links:

Please submit your story (and photos if you’d like) to: development@fosteraz.org

Register for the celebration event!: https://rock.fosterarizona.org/registration/10YearBash

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Archived: Guide to the Individualized Education Program

Chapters:

00:10 - On Today's Episode

00:36 - Welcome Ashley and Al

00:59 - How did you get Involved?

04:01 - Ashley Getting the Call

04:30 - And then there's Al!

06:00 - Foster Care Becomes Personal

07:36 - The Kids Change Your Life

08:28 - What Keeps You Coming Back?

11:33 - It Takes a Village

12:03 - The System's Numbers are Skewed

13:38 - What Brings them Back?

15:04 - It's not all Sunshine and Roses

18:53 - Pivot, Flex, Adapt, Grow

20:10 - The Human Challenge

25:20 - Meeting People Where They Are

26:51 - Mountain Top Moments

31:02 - Reminiscing on the Beginning

33:35 - Celebrating Today and the Future

34:59 - The Magic Sauce

37:11 - There's a Surprise Drawing!

39:04 - The Takeaway

41:18 - Big Birthday Bash Event Coming Up!

41:56 - Submit Your Story Please!

42:31 - Connect with Us!

43:08 - Thank You!

Episode 164: All Things School - When you Need an Advocate Aug 22, 2023

Summary:

As we continue exploring the return to school season, today's discussion delves into a crucial topic. Join us as we sit down with Amanda Glass, an esteemed legal professional with a passion for advocating for children's rights.

Amanda's journey, post-graduation from the Sandra Day O'Connor College of Law at Arizona State University, led her to a groundbreaking Equal Justice Works fellowship at the Arizona Center for Disability Law, supported by Greenberg Traurig, LLP. Her impactful project focuses on enhancing accessibility to special education and mental health services for children with invisible disabilities within Arizona's child welfare system. Through legal expertise, community education, and collaborative efforts with existing organizations, Amanda strives to uplift children facing emotional or unseen challenges.

In this insightful conversation, Amanda sheds light on the invaluable role collaboration and connection play in ensuring every child's needs are met. If you're a parent or guardian encountering roadblocks, frustration, or uncertainty in securing the necessary support for your child, this episode offers guidance and hope. Join us as we explore the transformative power of collective action and empathy in advocating for the future of our children. Thank you, Amanda, for gracing us with your expertise and perspective today. Tune in and empower yourself with knowledge!

Resource Links:

Learn The Law - NCLD

Resources - Arizona Center for Disability Law

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Arizona Association for Foster and Adoptive Parents

Chapters:

00:04 - On Today's Episode

00:46 - Meet Amanda Glass

01:29 - Amanda's Work

03:23 - What Disparities are There?

05:05 - What Draws you to Child Welfare?

07:08 - Dukes Up!

10:04 - Options for Parents in Dispute

11:58 - Options for Filing Complaints

13:39 - Ordering Corrective Action

16:23 - Timeline for Due Process

19:06 - Broken Systems

23:21 - Restraint and Seclusion

27:00 - What can a Parent Do?

29:26 - Follow the Plan with Fidelity

31:41 - Accountability

32:37 - Public Records of Accountability

34:38 - Least Restrictive Placement

35:56 - Change of Placement

37:10 - Knowledge is Power

38:18 - Procedural Safeguards Notice

39:22 - Don't go it Alone!

40:00 - The Takeaway

40:57 - Resource Links

42:56 - Thank You!

Episode 163: All Things School - IEP /504 Aug 08, 2023

Summary:

Join us in celebrating the return to school as we dive into an enlightening discussion on IEPs and 504s with the incredible Nancy Williams. Our guest, Nancy, brings a wealth of expertise to the table as the Executive Director of the Arizona Association for Foster and Adoptive Parents, an organization that has personally touched our lives. With a remarkable 30-year career in education, including roles as a special education teacher and administrator, Nancy's insights are invaluable.

As a volunteer Surrogate Parent through the Department of Education, Nancy advocates passionately for youth in group homes who require special education services. She's a dedicated champion for families navigating the complex school system and fighting for their children's rights. In this episode, we'll delve into the intricacies of Individualized Education Plans (IEPs) and 504 plans, gaining essential knowledge and strategies for supporting children with diverse needs.

Nancy's dedication and expertise shine through as we discuss fostering inclusive and supportive educational environments. Tune in as we engage in a dynamic conversation that empowers parents and educators alike. We're thrilled to welcome Nancy into our podcast space today.

Resource Links:

A Guide to the Individualized Education Program

National Center for Learning Disabilities

Arizona Center for Disability Law

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20 Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew - Nightlight

Episode 162: An Adoptee's Story - The Blessing; the Heartbreak Jul 25, 2023

Summary:

In this thought-provoking podcast episode, we delve into the world of adoption through the eyes of Mea Han Fajardo, an extraordinary international adoptee and the visionary behind FostAdopt Connections. Join us as we explore Mea's deeply personal journey and how she has transformed her experiences into a powerful platform, fostering meaningful opportunities and connections for children in foster care and group homes.

Throughout the conversation, Mea opens up about the unique challenges and joys of being an adoptee, offering valuable insights that shed light on the intricacies of the adoption process. Her heartfelt reflections inspire empathy and understanding, as we gain a profound appreciation for the resilience and strength of those touched by adoption. Mea's passion for making a positive impact in the lives of vulnerable kids shines through, and we express our sincerest gratitude for her willingness to share her remarkable story with our listeners.

So tune in and join us in this moving discussion as we celebrate the power of human connection and the transformative influence of compassion and love in the world of adoption.

Resource Links:

FostAdopt Connections

Link to book:

Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew: Eldridge, Sherrie: 9780440508380: Amazon.com

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Learn From People Who Lived It - Podcast

Chapter Markers:

00:01 - Open

00:04 - On Today's Episode

00:33 - Welcome Mea Han Fajardo

01:33 - Mea's Story - Adopted at 10

02:58 - The Life-Long Experience

03:48 - We don't talk About it

04:01 - Gratitude and Lonliness

05:34 - The Space to Grieve

07:01 - Grieving with Intent

08:02 - How to Grieve

09:41 - Being Allowed to Grieve

10:32 - Normalizing Grief

11:29 - Breaking Open

12:50 - Grieving with Others

14:31 - Unlocking Grief

17:09 - The Mystery of Being an Adoptee

18:17 - Sympathizing with Adoptees

20:45 - Sharing my Adoption Story

22:38 - Reflection for Compassion

23:59 - An Adult Relationship with Parents

25:13 - Searching for Relationship

26:50 - Don't Hold on so Tightly

27:01 - Being Prepared when your Kid Starts Searching

27:44 - We Accept Your Family

29:42 - Loving Myself

31:26 - The Takeaway

32:27 - On Behalf of Adoptive Parents

33:25 - Resources

35:04 - Closing

Episode 161: Real Talk - Self Care with Matthew Blades Jul 11, 2023

Summary:

Matthew Blades is a familiar and friendly voice known to many in Arizona from the successful Matthew and Priscilla in the Morning show on Mix 96.9 FM. Matthew's own journey of battling physical and mental health challenges led him to step away from broadcasting and embark on a healing journey. Now, he sits in front of the podcast mic, hosting the insightful "Learn From Those Who Lived It" podcast, where he engages in conversations with individuals who have overcome unimaginable circumstances and found their path to healing.

Matthew's commitment to spreading joy continues with his new podcast, "I Needed That," co-hosted with Fitness Expert Chris Powell. Drawing from his personal experiences, Matthew shares valuable lessons in his workshops and speaking engagements, touching the lives of others. Today, we dive into an important topic: self-care. This discussion resonates with everyone, particularly those involved in the foster care world. Get ready to join us as we explore the significance of self-care and welcome Matthew Blades to the podcast. Prepare to be inspired and uplifted!

Resource Links:

2021 Top 10 Self-Care Resources - PDF

Caregivers Guide to Wellbeing - PDF

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Family Involvement Center

Chapter Markers:

00:04 - On Today's Episode

00:34 - Welcome Matthew Blades!

02:25 - Matthew's Story

04:40 - Your Super Power

05:12 - 3 Ways to Screw up Your Kids

07:10 - I am a Human FIrst!

07:41 - Shame, Fear, and Guilt

11:06 - The Recordings in our Heads

12:33 - Moving Forward

13:49 - Spinning the Plates

15:52 - It's not Control; It's Fear

16:59 - Letting Go

18:44 - You're a Transitional Character

20:44 - Speaking it Out Loud

21:47 - Redefining Success

23:59 - Your Real Life - Personal Inventory

26:43 - The Value of Self

27:51 - Having a Self Care Strategy

30:03 - Kim's Weekend

31:31 - Being Selfish

33:36 - The Blame Game

35:00 - Giving Yourself Permission

38:02 - The Takeaway

40:04 - Resources - Closing Thoughts

43:16 - You are not Broken

44:05 - Wrap Up

45:00 - Thank You!

Episode 160: Real Talk - Parents of Foster Care Jun 27, 2023

Summary:

At just 25 years old, Lindsey found herself pregnant and the parent of two children in the custody of the Department of Child Safety. She endured a heartbreaking struggle with homelessness, residing in motels and even living on the streets, surrounded by others in similar desperate circumstances. Desperate for change, Lindsey discovered a lifeline—a housing program for pregnant women with substance use disorders. This pivotal moment led her to the Family Involvement Center, igniting her path to healing and the reunion of her fractured family.

Now, Lindsey is an active force in her city, advocating for change through various organizations such as the Parent Advisory Board, the Prevention Advisory Collaborative, and the Family Navigation Action Team. Her passion for improving child welfare has brought her before community audiences, the governor's office, and dependency judges. Lindsey's dedication to serving her community is truly inspiring.

Join us as we delve into Lindsey's extraordinary journey, her triumphs, and her unwavering commitment to making a positive impact and becoming a beacon of hope and change in foster care.

Resource Links:

Birth-Foster Family Connections • Bright Spots

RiseIssue_35_Parent-Advocacy.pdf

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How did Cradle to Crayons adapt the Safe Babies Court Team™ approach in Maricopa County, Arizona?

Chapters:

00:01 - Open

00:34 - Welcome Lindsey Shine

02:09 - Lindsey's Story

03:47 - Going to the Wrong Attorney

04:21 - Leaving with Nothing

06:21 - Getting Help

07:05 - 5 Months and 3 Years

08:00 - Keeping Hope Alive

09:11 - Homelessness

10:27 - A Fork in the Road

12:19 - One More Shot

14:06 - Severance Trial

15:51 - Transition from Visitation

16:54 - A Traumatic Space

17:54 - A Glorified Babysitter?

19:11 - Being Friends with the Fosters

19:53 - A Broken System Challenge

22:13 - Choosing a Solution

23:38 - Choosing Responsibility

25:07 - Advocating in a Meaningful Way

27:18 - Normalizing Relational Support

28:28 - Deficiencies are Opportunities

30:45 - The Takeaway

32:30 - Being the Change

32:54 - Resources

34:25 - Wrap Up

34:56 - Thank You!

Episode 159: The Way Home - How Kids Return to Their Families with Judge Colleen McNally Jun 13, 2023

Summary:

In honor of national reunification month, in this episode we have a conversation with Judge Colleen McNally about what reunification means for kids and their families. Before retiring, Judge McNally served the people of Arizona for over 16 years in the Maricopa County Superior Court of Arizona. Since retiring, she has devoted her time and efforts to supporting families that have experienced the foster care system and continues to advocate for better systems in Arizona.

Resource Links:

On the Road to Reunification: Experiencing Foster Care with My Sister by My Side By D'Artagnan Caliman

American Bar Association - Celebrating Reunification Month

Prevent Child Abuse Arizona

Foster Arizona

PO Box 20787

Mesa, AZ 85277

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Chapters:

0:00 - Open

0:33 - Intro

1:32 - Who is Judge McNally?

3:39 - We all have Trauma

5:36 - The Courtroom Experience

7:00 - How can the System be Supportive?

8:44 - It's the Simple Things

10:32 - A Drink of Water

10:50 - The Challenge of Severance

12:42 - The Reality of Reunification

14:04 - And Now What?

16:00 - What is your Wish for Change?

18:43 - Reunification Day

20:53 - Kid Initiatives

22:06 - How can the Community Support?

22:35 - ACE Questionnaires

23:55 - Love for a Child vs. Love for an Adult

25:55 - Fear

27:54 - Send an Encouraging Note

29:26 - Reflections on the First Reunification Day

30:59 - Ways for the Community to Connect

33:17 - The Takeaway

34:34 - Get Involved

35:23 - Resources

37:21 - Thank You

Episode 158: Recovery - Why Does it Work? May 23, 2023

Summary:

What comes to mind when you think about Recovery and Recovery spaces? Often the images that come to mind are uncomfortable and we think of these spaces as the last place we would ever want to be, but what if we told you that Recovery…Is For Everybody!

Join us in a conversation as we talk to Jillian about her journey into recovery and why the room of recovery can be the most freeing, accepting. and healing space around.

Resource Links:

Chapter Markers:

00:01 - On Today's Episode

00:34 - Introduction

01:20 - Jillian's Story

05:19 - Enter Celebrate Recovery

05:47 - It Stuck

07:34 - A Journey of Recovery

11:22 - Being a Leader in Recovery

14:05 - What are the Misconceptions?

16:45 - Recovery is for Everyone

18:48 - More than Just a Meeting

19:16 - The First Steps

20:34 - The Fellowship of Recovery

23:08 - It's Also About Your Loved Ones

24:08 - The Hardest Part

25:20 - It's an Ongoing Process

25:54 - What's Brought you the Most Joy?

26:57 - Who is Welcome?

28:21 - The Takeaway

28:54 - Resources

30:13 - Call to Action

32:15 - Wrap Up

32:39 - Outro

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https://drugabusestatistics.org/teen-drug-use/

Episode 157: Real Talk: Substances (Mark’s Story) May 09, 2023

Summary:

Today there are so many people, humans like you and me, struggling because of varying hurts, habits or hang-ups, and they may be at the end of their rope. Today we have a conversation with Mark as he shares his story on substances and addiction and how connection helped him get to his space of recovery. Trigger Warning: Today’s episode deals with topics including addiction and suicide ideation. We encourage you to be aware of yourself while listening to this episode and please take time to pause if needed and reach out for support if any of today’s topic affects you.

Chapters:

0:00 - Start

0:48 - Introduction

1:03 - Today's Topic

1:07 - Introduce Today's Guest Mark Gill

1:42 - Set Up Today's Topic

1:58 - Mark's Testimony

5:53 - The Denial

6:37 - Peer Pressure

8:18 - The Next Level

8:38 - The Big Moment

10:56 - The Wake Up

11:50 - The Aftermath

12:31 - Becoming Something Else

14:15 - The Next Phase

15:31 - Coming Home

16:27 - One More Option

21:01 - Three Questions

24:08 - An Impactful Story

25:33 - What Breaks Your Heart?

28:45 - Understanding the Story

30:31 - Being a Better Community

33:49 - Advice for Parents

36:07 - It's Too Easy

37:22 - The Takeaway

41:32 - Closing

44:01 - Outro

Links:

https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubPDFs/bulletins_youthsud.pdf

https://www.celebraterecovery.com/

https://alcoholicsanonymous.com/

https://na.org/

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https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0308575918823436

Episode 156: Fighting the Fear of Stigma in Foster Care and Adoption Apr 25, 2023

Summary:

What happens when you choose to put your comfort space aside and open up your heart and home to a child in foster care? Spoiler alert, it can be humbling, messy, and chaotic at times, but it can also be the most rewarding experience that will change your life and the life of another, forever.

Join us as we have a conversation with Stacy Bradley on Fighting the Fear of Stigma in Foster Care and Adoption. Stacy is an adoptive mom and former foster parent who has gone on the journey, advocated hard for her kiddos, and is a pretty cool person to boot!

Chapters:

0:02 - Introduction

0:31 - Welcome

0:45 - Introduce Stacy Bradley

1:22 - Get to Know Stacy Bradley

3:08 - Learning Experiences

4:40 - Sharing the Journey

5:25 - Learning to Compromise

7:01 - Fear Associated with Stigmas

8:57 - Getting the Wrong Impression

11:28 - The Response to the Wrong Impression

13:09 - What are the Different Stigmas?

14:48 - There's Something Wrong with these Kids

16:59 - Birth Families are Scary

19:48 - These Kids are Lucky

20:38 - The Emotional Journey

22:37 - These Kids are Orphans

23:42 - It's a Learning Experience Every Day

24:35 - When the Answer is Found on Pinterest

25:30 - It's a True Partnership

26:42 - Getting Fired by a 5-year Old

28:56 - Stepping Through the Fear

31:52 - It's not About Being Brave

33:04 - Be Willing to do Something

36:27 - A Smile Goes a Long Way

36:59 - Episode Takeaway

37:35 - The Hope

38:08 - Resources

38:22 - Dr. Bruce Perry and Oprah Winfrey

38:39 - SAGE Journal

39:41 - Poverty by America by Matthew Dezmond

41:12 - Outro

Links:

What Happened to You : Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing

Hardcover – April 27, 2021

by Oprah Winfrey (Author), Bruce D. Perry (Author)

https://a.co/d/hke5wqN

Keeping secrets: how children in foster care manage stigma

Poverty, by America

Hardcover – March 21, 2023

by Matthew Desmond (Author)

https://www.amazon.com/dp/0593239911?aaxitk=73e15f98719317c85bc0256cb8f76c56&pd_rd_plhdr=t&smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER&ref=dacx_dp_577378484348386487_580878620785794769

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Episode 155: Real Talk, Connecting When Connection is Hard Apr 11, 2023

Summary:

Truth…Parenting is hard, but those little moments of sweetness can make the tough days bearable. But what happens when those moments feel few and far between?

Often in our foster care and adoption journeys the struggle to connect with our children can be an all too frequent reality. Join us as we welcome Chris and Caitlin and have a real conversation about connecting when connection is hard. It’s a tough conversation to have, but one that many of us need to face.

Chapters:

0:00 – Intro

1:15 – A Beginning in the World of Foster Care

4:12 – The First Experience with a Placement

8:35 – The Beginning of the Real Journey

9:35 – The Mixed Emotions of Adoption Day

10:40 – An Amazing Creative Beginning

11:25 – Day One of 'Now I'm Mom' to this Amazing Person

17:17 – Managing School Life and Home Life

21:04 – Connecting With Teachers and Making Them Part of the Team

23:09 – Setting Expectation as a Parent

34:58 – Let's Have a Little Fun With This!

35:56 – Understanding in the Community

36:25 – Tactics That Work

41:18 – Continuing the Conversation with Resources

43:10 – Connect With Us!

Links:

The Connected Child: Bring Hope and Healing to Your Adoptive Family:

What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing

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Foster Arizona Housing Project

Episode 154: A Look Into Aging Out of Foster Care Mar 28, 2023

Summary:

Life can be tough sometimes, but for a young adult aging out of foster care the transition can be life altering and either set them up for success or leave them without a connection or direction. Join us as we have a conversation with Zack, a young adult with lived experience, and how connection and having a community changed his trajectory in life.

Chapters:

0:00 – Intro

0:26 – Welcome, Zack!

1:10 – What Brought Zack To Foster Arizona

3:43 – Becoming An Adult In Foster Care

5:38 – Embracing A New Situation

9:52 – Having Pride And Satisfaction In Accomplishments

11:16 – Showing The Way To Those Struggling Through

18:18 – Excitement Moving Forward

29:55 – One Takeaway

27:06 – Connect With Us!

Links:

Aging Out Institute

ChildWelfare.gov

https://fosterarizona.org/get-involved/

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Supporting Infants, Toddlers and Families Impacted by Caregiver Mental Health Problems, Substance Abuse, and Trauma – A Community Action Guide PDF

Episode 153: Finding Connection, Finding Your People Mar 14, 2023

Summary: Community is what gets us through life. In today's conversation we talk with Anika Robinson about finding your people and the importance of community and connection in our everyday lives.

Chapters:

0:00 – Intro

0:26 – Welcome Anika!

1:44 – Advocacy for Children

3:10 – Establishing Connections

8:38 – ASA Now

14:04 – Finding Hope in Dark Times

20:39 – The Powerful Impacts of Community

27:50 – The Need For Community

29:55 – One Takeaway

33:27 – Community Connections

37:02 – Connect With Us!

Links:

https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubPDFs/racial_disproportionality.pdf

ASA Now

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Foster Arizona

Episode 152: Interracial Adoption and Finding Your Identity Feb 28, 2023

Episode 152: Interracial Adoption and Finding Your Identity

Summary: A personal look into an adoptees story involving interracial adoption and her journey to discover her personal identity along the way.

Chapters:

0:00 – Intro

0:52 – Welcome Ann!

1:32 – Ann's Work and Focus

12:00 – A Position of Learning

16:44 – Ann's Journey

24:33 – Wanting Kids to Experience More Individuals Like Themselves

32:00 – Accepting a Child With Hands Open

35:01 – One Takeaway

37:21 – Kids at Risk

38:18 – Links in the Show Notes

41:36 – Connect With Us!

Links:

https://www.abc15.com/news/region-phoenix-metro/central-phoenix/study-finds-extreme-racial-disparities-in-dcs-cases-phoenix-family-says-they-were-stereotyped

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https://fosterarizona.org/

Episode 151: Meet the Vehons Feb 14, 2023

Meet your new hosts, Kim and Brian Vehon and learn a little bit about the heart behind their why and their vision for the Fostering Voices podcast.

Chapters:

0:00 – Intro

0:25 – Welcome Back In!!

1:43 – Creation of Foster Arizona and Community

21:34 – Our Mission at Foster AZ

27:19 – Thank you!!!

Links:

https://www.aecf.org/blog/child-welfare-and-foster-care-statistics

https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubPDFs/trafficking_caseworkers.pdf

https://www.law.georgetown.edu/poverty-journal/blog/child-welfare-and-the-criminal-system-impact-overlap-potential-solutions/

https://www.samhsa.gov/homelessness-programs-resources/hpr-resources/supporting-teen-mothers

Episode 150: Goodbye from Chris and Jihae Jan 04, 2023

Friends, as we FINALLY wrap up season 8, we are also wrapping up our time as your hosts of the Fostering Voices Podcast. We have loved the 5 years that we were the hosts, but we are so excited for your new hosts to take over, Brian and Kim Vehon of Foster Arizona! Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 13:54 – Good Word of the Day!!! Good Word of the Day!!! Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 NIV 1 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: 2 a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot,

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Episode 149: Interview with an Incredible Single Foster Mama Aug 21, 2022

This episode features an interview with an AMAZING foster mama who happens to be single. Lina Bublys thought life would look differently than it does now, but she is still so grateful and so active in blessing those around her, especially her foster babes. We salute all you foster parents out there, but you single foster parents take the cake!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

8:46 – What's Been Helping Chris This Week?

14:15 – How Lina Came To The Fostering World

18:18 – Examples of Challenges of Fostering Children

24:51 – Examples of Beauty in Fostering

26:09 – Advice for Anyone Thinking About or In Foster Care

32:26 – Good Word of the Day!!!

33:17 – What Has Lina Been Doing For Her Health?

Links:

Lina on IG

Good Word of the Day!!!

Reinvent

to invent again or anew, especially without knowing that the invention already exists.
to remake or make over, as in a different form

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Episode 148: Positive Imprints and Taking a Chance on Foster Kids Aug 14, 2022

We are so often triggered by negative things that happen, but what about the positive things? This episode features a story of our son and the time we picked up a homeless lady on our way to McDonald's, and how that left a serious impression on his soul. Our call to action - take a chance. Say kind things, do kind things for others. And also, don't discount foster kids as broken and bad. They are not castaways of people who don't want them. They are humans who are able to accomplish great things and to be great. We just need to take a chance on them.

Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 1:13 – Being Open and Honest About Adoption 9:01 – A Story About Birthdays and Imprints 22:303 – Good Word of the Day!!! Links: The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. Good Word of the Day!!! Isaiah 43:19 NIV 19 See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.

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Episode 147: Interviewing your host, Jihae Watson Jul 31, 2022

This episode features an episode with host, Jihae! Join us as Chris grills Jihae on life's highs and lows. And you will even hear what Jihae's favorite physical attribute is of Chris'. It's very appropriate and clean.

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

1:30 – Jihae Describes Growing Up in Her Parent's House

6:44 – What Has Been Your Biggest Challenge In Life?

9:19 – What Helped You Overcome That?

11:12 – What Time Did You Feel Most Fulfilled?

13:36 – What Advice Would You Give To Teenage Jihae?

19:58 – Good Word of the Day!!!

Links:

South Korea

Edmonton, Alberta

Good Word of the Day!!!

Joshua 1:9 NIV 9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

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Episode 146: Interviewing your host, Chris Watson Jul 11, 2022

This episode is a quick interview with your host, Chris Watson! Get to know Chris and what drives him to be a WINNER at all times. We hope you enjoy getting to know Chris a little better! Next week will be Chris interviewing Jihae.

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

3:01 – Thank you, SHOWIT!!

4:27 – Story From This Week

5:12 – Showit EDM and Plank Challenge

10:07 – What Makes Chris a Winner?

12:00 – What is a Hard Thing That You Overcame During Childhood?

15:22 – What's One Thing People Do Not Know About Chris?

17:44 – Good Word of the Day!!!

Links:

Spark – A conference for Showit creatives

Chevy's Fresh Mex Restaurant

Good Word of the Day!!!

Romans 12:2 NIV 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

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Episode 145: Strokes, Bio Families, and Other Highs and Lows as a Family of 9 Jun 19, 2022

In this episode we share some highs and lows of the last month. Highs include seeing our big kids become amazing big kids. Not without faults and failures, but as young people who are trying to figure out what it looks like to be a loyal, kind person who has integrity. Church camps and cousins are also very high on the list. And in the lows category, Chris' dad had a stroke, Chris and Jihae have been feeling disconnected, and a meet up with a bio family got cancelled at the last minute and basically the wheels fell off for a minute. But we are all trying to weather these storms together, with grace, open communication, and community. So we encourage you to do the same!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

1:14 – Thank you, SHOWIT!!

2:19 – Chris's Highs of the Week

9:20 – Jihae's Highs of the Week

11:52 – Chris's Lows of the Week

21:36 – Jihae's Lows of the Week

27:36 – Good Word of the Day!!!

Good Word of the Day!!!

Persevering

James 1:2-4 NIV

2 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. 4 Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.

Hebrews 12 NIV 7 Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children. For what children are not disciplined by their father? 8 If you are not disciplined—and everyone undergoes discipline—then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters at all.

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Episode 144: Football, Faith, and Purpose Jun 05, 2022

This episode features an incredible interview with Ben Malcolmson, author of Walk On: From Pee Wee Dropout to NFL Sidelines: My Unlikely Story of Football, Purpose, and Following an Amazing God. Ben has seen some major lows in his life, starting with having an alcoholic mom, and being thrust into college life a year early. But God was with him every step of the way, and brought him through so many dark days, to so many glorious days. You will learn so much from this former USC football player, and Pete Carrol's right hand man of 10 plus years on the Seattle Seahawks. If you have ever questioned your purpose in life, you will want to listen to this episode!

Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 1:13 – Welcome Ben! 2:45 – Ben's Journey 7:22 – Talking About Faith 12:10 – The Intersection of Journalism and Football 28:53 – The Bible Story – From the Book 44:39 – Good Word of the Day!!! Links: Ben Malcomson Walk On: From Pee Wee Dropout to NFL Sidelines: My Unlikely Story of Football, Purpose, and Following an Amazing God Clay Mathews Chunky Soup Commercial Good Word of the Day!!! Habakkuk 1:5 NIV The Lord’s Answer 5 “Look at the nations and watch— and be utterly amazed. For I am going to do something in your days that you would not believe, even if you were told.

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Episode 143: Talk to Your Kids May 29, 2022

This week we have a less than 5 minute episode! In light of the horrifying events of this last week, we just want to encourage you to talk to your kids about it. Cause they have heard about it. But they should hear about it from you and be able to talk about it with you. Cry together, pray together, and be prepared together. We don’t need to live lives of fear as parents, so let’s definitely make sure we are helping our kids to do the same.

Chapters: 0:00 - Talk to Your Kids 2:06 – Good Word of the Day!!! Good Word of the Day!!! Proverbs 1:33 NIV 33 but whoever listens to me will live in safety and be at ease, without fear of harm.”

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Episode 142: Why You Shouldn't Follow TikTok Trends May 22, 2022

This episode is for parents of teens and teens! We would LOVE for teenagers to listen to this episode, but it wasn't until midway through the recording that Jihae realized she was using her condescending 'mom voice', for which she is VERY SORRY. She tries to reserve that for exclusive use to the Watson children, so we are sorry you have to hear it during this episode. But, it's a serious one, and we have seen Tik Tok trends go the complete wrong way, and we want you to make better choices for yourself and those around you! We hope you learn something new and useful from this episode!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

3:02 - The Power of the Phone/Don't Follow the Trends

21:22 – Good Word of the Day!!!

24:44 – Reading Reviews Time!

Links:

"Complacency Kills"

Proverbs 1:32

32 For the waywardness of the simple will kill them, and the complacency of fools will destroy them;

Episode 141: Finding Health in Habits and Relationships with Bekah Tinter

Episode 116: Protecting Your Family From Tech with Some Tech

Good Word of the Day!!!

Proverbs 15:31-33

31 Whoever heeds life-giving correction will be at home among the wise.

32 Those who disregard discipline despise themselves, but the one who heeds correction gains understanding.

33 Wisdom’s instruction is to fear the Lord, and humility comes before honor.

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Episode 141: Finding Health in Habits and Relationships with Bekah Tinter May 15, 2022

This episode features and interview with Health and Lifestyle Coach, Bekah Tinter. She shares some truly simple tips and habits you can implement to enjoy a healthier, and more enjoyable lifestyle. Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 3:56 - Honest Stories in Adoption 10:27 – Health Tips from Bekah 20:32 – Good Word of the Day!!! Links: Bek and Kev Uncommon Freedom with Kevin Tinter Good Word of the Day!!! Release – releasing what we can't control and allow God to be God in our lives. Isaiah 40:29-30 New International Version 29 He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. 30 Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; Thank you to our sponsor Showit Listen to Us on Spotify (and leave a review please)!! Connect with us! Fostering Voices on Instagram You can also email us! hello@fosteringvoices.com We would LOVE it if you would SUBSCRIBE AND please leave us a review on iTunes! This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people! If you want to see how to leave a review, check out this handy little video!

Episode 140: More Harmony in your Life: Interview with Author Grant Botma May 01, 2022

Grant Botma, author, business owner, and super family man! He gives us some great tips on having more harmony in our lives.

Chapters:

0:00 – Intro

1:19 – Welcome, Grant!

5:56 – Talking About a Unicorn

7:25 – Work-Life Harmony

13:09 – Tips on Harmonizing Your Life

25:55 – One More Thing to Do to Work Towards Harmony

31:40 – Good Word Of The Day!!!

32:48 – Focusing on Health

Links:

Grant Botma

Work-Life Harmony – Grant Botma

The Eight Paradoxes of Great Leadership – Tim Elmore

Episode 136 with Jodie Botma

Family Plan Calendar

Good Word of the Day!!!

Mark 10:45 NIV 45 For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

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Episode 139: Communicating AND Connecting, With Your Kids and Others Apr 24, 2022

In this episode we talk about ‘Everyone Communicates, Few Connect’, a great book by John C. Maxwell. And we just want to encourage everyone (including ourselves) to always strive to connect with your loved ones, and those around you!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

3:41 - "Everyone Communicates, Few Connect"

18:57 – Good Word Of The Day!!!

20:02 – Thank you to our sponsor, Showit!!

Links:

Everyone Communicates, Few Connect: What the Most Effective People Do Differently – John C. Maxwell

UHF – 1989

The Truman Show

Good Word of the Day!!!

"When you make a commitment you create hope and when you keep a commitment you create trust." – John C. Maxwell

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Episode 138: Improve Your Spiritual Health Apr 10, 2022

This week’s episode is with the incredible Bethany Lauren. She loves the Bible and she wants you to learn how to read it, understand it, and love it as well. We hope this interview will encourage you to be more spiritually healthy!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

6:03 - Welcome, Bethany!!

7:55 – A Little About Bethany

12:16 – Bethany's Foster Care Journey

16:08 – Some Tips for Approaching Studying the Bible

23:26 – Taking the Next Steps of Study

29:02 – "The Heart Has to Come With You"

31:40 – Good Word Of The Day!!!

32:48 – Focusing on Health

Links:

Bethany on IG

Sharpie Highlighters at Target

Good Word of the Day!!!

Colossians 4:5-6 New International Version 5 Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. 6 Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.

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Episode 137: For The Control Freaks Apr 03, 2022

This episode talks about a bit of a funk that Chris had been in recently, and he realized it was stemming from his need to control things, which also caused him to feel less empathetic towards others. Might you be in the same boat? Check out this episode!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

2:14 - What We Are Reading

3:20 – That Thing Where You DM Us

9:12 – Being in a Bit of a Funk

22:00 – Getting Out of the Funk

24:00 – Good Word Of The Day!!!

Books:

The Gospel Comes With a House Key – Rosario Champagne Butterfield

The Context Marketing Revolution – Matthew Sweezey

Permission Marketing – Seth Godin

Good Word of the Day!!!

Hebrews 4:16 NIV

16 Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.

Next week's guest, Bethany

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Episode 136: How to Survive Your Winter Season Mar 14, 2022

This episode features my sweet friend, Jodie Botma, who on the outside may look like she has a pretty darn good life! And she does! But she has also just come out of such a dark and hard season, and she shares with us how she survived the longest and darkest year of her life. And she has gone through many hard things in her life already, so that is actually saying a lot! Even though we may not have the tools to help you get out of your winter season, we believe this episode can help you through it!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

7:05 - Different Seasons of Life

11:31 – Winter as a Season of Life

21:28 – Word of Advice

26:33 – Jodie's Turning Point

33:16 – A Word of Encouragement

34:17 - Good Word Of The Day!!!

Links:

Oil Pulling Description at National Library of Medicine:

Megan Fate Marshman Sermon talking about seasons and Jesus as our Wonderful Counselor.

The Problem Isn't Their Paycheck – Grant Botma

Work-Life Harmony – Grant Botma:

2 Timothy 4:17:

17 But the Lord stood at my side and gave me strength, so that through me the message might be fully proclaimed and all the Gentiles might hear it. And I was delivered from the lion’s mouth.

Good Word of the Day:

Psalms 40:1-3

For the director of music. Of David. A psalm.

1 I waited patiently for the Lord;

he turned to me and heard my cry.

2 He lifted me out of the slimy pit,

out of the mud and mire;

he set my feet on a rock

and gave me a firm place to stand.

3 He put a new song in my mouth,

a hymn of praise to our God.

Many will see and fear the Lord

and put their trust in him.

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Episode 136: How to Survive Your Winter Season Mar 14, 2022

This episode features my sweet friend, Jodie Botma, who on the outside may look like she has a pretty darn good life! And she does! But she has also just come out of such a dark and hard season, and she shares with us how she survived the longest and darkest year of her life. And she has gone through many hard things in her life already, so that is actually saying a lot! Even though we may not have the tools to help you get out of your winter season, we believe this episode can help you through it!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

7:05 - Different Seasons of Life

11:31 – Winter as a Season of Life

21:28 – Word of Advice

26:33 – Jodie's Turning Point

33:16 – A Word of Encouragement

34:17 - Good Word Of The Day!!!

Links:

Oil Pulling Description at National Library of Medicine:

Megan Fate Marshman Sermon talking about seasons and Jesus as our Wonderful Counselor.

The Problem Isn't Their Paycheck – Grant Botma

Work-Life Harmony – Grant Botma:

2 Timothy 4:17:

17 But the Lord stood at my side and gave me strength, so that through me the message might be fully proclaimed and all the Gentiles might hear it. And I was delivered from the lion’s mouth.

Good Word of the Day:

Psalms 40:1-3

For the director of music. Of David. A psalm.

1 I waited patiently for the Lord;

he turned to me and heard my cry.

2 He lifted me out of the slimy pit,

out of the mud and mire;

he set my feet on a rock

and gave me a firm place to stand.

3 He put a new song in my mouth,

a hymn of praise to our God.

Many will see and fear the Lord

and put their trust in him.

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Episode 135: Legacy and Inheritance Mar 06, 2022

The amazing Robert T Watson went to be with the Lord on February 15th, and what an amazing grandfather he was to Chris, and I, and all of our many children and cousins! This episode is in memory of this phenomenal man of God, who chose to live his life with great intentionality and love and prayer. We would truly not be who we are without him. We hope you enjoy this episode, and that it inspires you to love each other well, and to stay sharp, and hug your grandparents while you still can!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

1:32 - High and Low from Last Few Weeks

25:14 - Good Word Of The Day!!!

Links:

Grandpa's Obituary

Fostering Voices – Episode 43 – Wes Watson

Good Word of the Day!!!

A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children, but a sinner’s wealth is stored up for the righteous.

Proverbs 13:22

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Episode 134: Helping Kids with Their Thoughts - Interview with a Child Psychologist Feb 17, 2022

This week we are so pleased to have Dr. Dayna Harris - a Child Psychologist, with us on the podcast! She has an Educational Specialist Degree and a Doctor of Education Degree, and she truly loves to work with kids. In fact we met because she was the Child Psychologist at our kids' school! And her son is one of my son's best friends! Dr. Harris shares with us how to help our kids to think about what they are thinking about, and encourages us as parents to do the same!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

2:39 - Dr. Dayna's Background

4:19 - Good Word Of The Day!!!

6:21 - Functioning in Dysfunction

13:38 - Tailoring the Conversation to the Age of the Child

19:57 – Thinking About What You Are Thinking About

23:55 – Things Parents Should Strive to Modify

37:30 - Keeping Oneself Healthy

Good Word of the Day:

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

- Jeremiah 1:5

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Episode 134: Helping Kids with Their Thoughts - Interview with a Child Psychologist Feb 17, 2022

This week we are so pleased to have Dr. Dayna Harris - a Child Psychologist, with us on the podcast! She has an Educational Specialist Degree and a Doctor of Education Degree, and she truly loves to work with kids. In fact we met because she was the Child Psychologist at our kids' school! And her son is one of my son's best friends! Dr. Harris shares with us how to help our kids to think about what they are thinking about, and encourages us as parents to do the same!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

2:39 - Dr. Dayna's Background

4:19 - Good Word Of The Day!!!

6:21 - Functioning in Dysfunction

13:38 - Tailoring the Conversation to the Age of the Child

19:57 – Thinking About What You Are Thinking About

23:55 – Things Parents Should Strive to Modify

37:30 - Keeping Oneself Healthy

Good Word of the Day:

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

- Jeremiah 1:5

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Episode 134: Helping Kids with Their Thoughts - Interview with a Child Psychologist Feb 17, 2022

This week we are so pleased to have Dr. Dayna Harris - a Child Psychologist, with us on the podcast! She has an Educational Specialist Degree and a Doctor of Education Degree, and she truly loves to work with kids. In fact we met because she was the Child Psychologist at our kids' school! And her son is one of my son's best friends! Dr. Harris shares with us how to help our kids to think about what they are thinking about, and encourages us as parents to do the same!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

2:39 - Dr. Dayna's Background

4:19 - Good Word Of The Day!!!

6:21 - Functioning in Dysfunction

13:38 - Tailoring the Conversation to the Age of the Child

19:57 – Thinking About What You Are Thinking About

23:55 – Things Parents Should Strive to Modify

37:30 - Keeping Oneself Healthy

Good Word of the Day:

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

- Jeremiah 1:5

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Episode 134: Helping Kids with Their Thoughts - Interview with a Child Psychologist Feb 17, 2022

This week we are so pleased to have Dr. Dayna Harris - a Child Psychologist, with us on the podcast! She has an Educational Specialist Degree and a Doctor of Education Degree, and she truly loves to work with kids. In fact we met because she was the Child Psychologist at our kids' school! And her son is one of my son's best friends! Dr. Harris shares with us how to help our kids to think about what they are thinking about, and encourages us as parents to do the same!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

2:39 - Dr. Dayna's Background

4:19 - Good Word Of The Day!!!

6:21 - Functioning in Dysfunction

13:38 - Tailoring the Conversation to the Age of the Child

19:57 – Thinking About What You Are Thinking About

23:55 – Things Parents Should Strive to Modify

37:30 - Keeping Oneself Healthy

Good Word of the Day:

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

- Jeremiah 1:5

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Episode 133: Marriage Advice for Newlyweds and Beyond Jan 23, 2022

Marriage is something we love to talk about, because it truly does help foster kids, and adoptive kids, and your bio kids to feel like they are in a safe and healthy home. The things that make marriages awesome are great communication and even great community!

We are happy to have been able to host a Marriage Shower for Cate and Josh this week, and that’s what prompted this episode. We start with why we have showers and gatherings, then we get into the advice that was shared at the shower.

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

1:13 - Today's Topic – Marriage

10:42 - Bits of Wisdom Shared at Wedding Shower

18:40 - Our Sponsor – Showit!

19:00 - More Marriage Wisdom

28:48 - Good Word Of The Day!!!

Marriage:

Marriage is something we love to talk about, because it truly does help foster kids, and adoptive kids, and your bio kids to feel like they are in a safe and healthy home. The things that make marriages awesome are great communication and even great community!

We are happy to have been able to host a Marriage Shower for Cate and Josh this week, and that’s what prompted this episode. We start with why we have showers and gatherings, then we get into the advice that was shared at the shower.

The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters by Priya Parker

“This book will forever alter the way you look at your next meeting, industry conference, dinner party, and backyard barbecue—and how you host and attend them.”

Advice:

Don’t think you are competing or deserve something for serving your spouse. You are on the same team, not keeping score of stuff that doesn’t exist, so set your spouse up for success. Have grace.

Envisioning your spouse in the other team’s jersey is not healthy. Referenced Outward Mindset again, by the Arbinger Institute. Very important to have a healthy mindset in marriage!

Surround yourself with great community in every season that will point you to Jesus. Desperate need for Jesus to make your marriage work - humility is necessary. And ask for help. Steadiness, and pointing others to truth. Be a safe place to confess things to each other and confess everything to each other.

When you feel like things are coasting, that’s when things fall apart. Communicate frustrations so they don’t pile up. God created us with emotions. Part of emotion is connection. Learn how to understand what emotions are happening helps build intimacy. Untangling Emotions is a good book.

Allow yourself to go to bed angry. Think of marriage as a team sport- be willing to shift to cover. Go to bed at the same time- it’s hard to have sex in different rooms. Decide roles (who is in charge of finances), decide how you will communicate about money.

Of course, since this is a wedding shower, we talked about sex:

Communicate desires and drives ahead of time.

And “tiredness is the enemy of sex”, which is a good word from Grandma Watson

Good Word of the Day:

Say what you mean. 'It's fine', is never fine.

– From Cate and Josh’s Wedding Shower

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Good word of the day:

“It’s fine” is never fine.

Establish common communication habits. Say what you mean. Truth and love in communication.

Episode 132: Talking About Fitness with Queen Dee Fitness Jan 16, 2022

This is a great episode featuring an interview with our sweet friend, Dee Lavigne, of Queen Dee Fitness, and The Lavigne life on YouTube and beyond. She shares some simple tips for us all to stay fit and healthy! Give her a follow on social media and YouTube to be entertained, and inspired!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

5:15 - Welcome To The Pod, Dee!!

10:11 - How Long Have The LaVignes Been YouTubers?

11:04 - Let's Talk Some Fitness

21:18 - Accountability and Community

25:50 - Good Word Of The Day!!!

Links:

Dee LaVigne and family on These Four Walls YouTube

Queen Dee Fitness

Even more LaVigne-ness!!

The LaVignes on Tik Tok

Good Word of the Day!!!:

Balance!

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Episode 131 - Accountability and Achievement in 2022 Jan 09, 2022

Starting off the new year with goal setting is our favorite way to start the year! This helps us to set up ourselves, and our kids, to accomplish things! Accountability is a big piece of the goal setting puzzle, especially because it helps us to remind the kids of the work they need to put in to make sure they accomplish their goals too. We also use the goal setting time to pause and reflect on the great, and hard things, from the year before. We are able to give thanks to God for answering specific prayers, which is always a great thing!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

2:03 - Watsy's 2022 Goals For The Year

8:42 - Here Is Where We *Actually* Talk 2022 Goals!!

18:06 - Good Word Of The Day!!!

Show Notes:

Dave Ramsey Goal Sheet

Bek and Kev goal setting with kids

Financial Goals

Give a higher percent every year

And stick to personal allowance

Spiritual

Read paper Bible - the beautiful book Jihae talked about is this one

Chris is going to refocus on men’s group - learn more about the one he goes to here.

Prioritize accountability

Intellectual

Reading more books - but especially rereading books! Which goes back to the Good Word of the Day last week, where we want to be more effective, not just more efficient.

Family

Becoming a family of service and creating memories

GOOD WORD OF THE DAY

“Forget the former things;

do not dwell on the past.

See, I am doing a new thing!

Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?

I am making a way in the wilderness

and streams in the wasteland.”

Isaiah 43:18-19

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Episode 131 - Accountability and Achievement in 2022 Jan 09, 2022

Starting off the new year with goal setting is our favorite way to start the year! This helps us to set up ourselves, and our kids, to accomplish things! Accountability is a big piece of the goal setting puzzle, especially because it helps us to remind the kids of the work they need to put in to make sure they accomplish their goals too. We also use the goal setting time to pause and reflect on the great, and hard things, from the year before. We are able to give thanks to God for answering specific prayers, which is always a great thing!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

2:03 - Watsy's 2022 Goals For The Year

8:42 - Here Is Where We *Actually* Talk 2022 Goals!!

18:06 - Good Word Of The Day!!!

Show Notes:

Dave Ramsey Goal Sheet

Bek and Kev goal setting with kids

Financial Goals

Give a higher percent every year

And stick to personal allowance

Spiritual

Read paper Bible - the beautiful book Jihae talked about is this one

Chris is going to refocus on men’s group - learn more about the one he goes to here.

Prioritize accountability

Intellectual

Reading more books - but especially rereading books! Which goes back to the Good Word of the Day last week, where we want to be more effective, not just more efficient.

Family

Becoming a family of service and creating memories

GOOD WORD OF THE DAY

“Forget the former things;

do not dwell on the past.

See, I am doing a new thing!

Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?

I am making a way in the wilderness

and streams in the wasteland.”

Isaiah 43:18-19

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Episode 130: 2021 Year-End Book Review Dec 31, 2021

Here are our top 5 books from 2021 with honorable mentions of the other 40+ books we read this year. We love to read as a way to grow our minds to different ideas and perspectives and we hope you enjoy these books as much as we do!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

2:46 - Intro to High and Low from 2021

6:47 - Actual(!) High and Low from 2021

11:44 - The Books of 2021

13:28 - Quick Thank You to Our Sponsors

14:06 - The Books of 2021 cont.

31:09 - Good Word Of The Day!!!

33:21 - Continued Focus on Health

Gigantic 2021 Book Review

Jihae Books

1 The Madness of Crowds by Douglas Murray
2 Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy
3 Daring Greatly by Brene Brown
4 No Greater Love by AW Tozer
5 The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World John Mark Comer
6 Business Made Simple: 60 Days to Master Leadership, Sales, Marketing, Execution, Management, Personal Productivity and More Don Miller
7 The Tanning of America: How Hip-Hop Created a Culture That Rewrote the Rules of the New Economy Steve Stoute
8 The Gospel Comes with a House Key: Practicing Radically Ordinary Hospitality in Our Post-Christian World Rosaria Butterfiled
9 Crying in H Mart: A Memoir Michelle Zauner
10 Never Lose a Customer Again: Turn Any Sale into Lifelong Loyalty in 100 Days Joseph Coleman
11 I Am Here: The Journey from Fear to Freedom Ashley Lemieux
12 Surprised by Joy: The Shape of My Early Life CS Lewis
13 Eat a Peach David Chang
14 Fortitude: American Resilience in the Era of Outrage Dan Crenshaw
15 Real Artists Don't Starve: Timeless Strategies for Thriving in the New Creative Age By: Jeff Goins
16 Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life By: Emily Nagoski PhD
17 The Hiding Place by Corrie Ten Boom

Re-Read Books

Chris’s Books

1 Wizard's First Rule: Sword of Truth, Book 1 Terry Goodkind
2 What Got You Here Won't Get You There: How Successful People Become Even More Successful Marshall Goldsmith
3 His Needs, Her Needs: Building a Marriage That Lasts By: Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr.
4 Nonviolent Communication: Create Your Life, Your Relationships, and Your World in Harmony with Your Values Marshall Rosenberg PhD
5 Public Speaking for Success Jim Rohn
6 It Worked for Me: In Life and Leadership – Colin Powell
7 Twelve Pillars – By: Jim Rohn , Chris Widener
8 More Than a Carpenter Josh McDowell
9 Tangled Up in Blue: Policing the American City – Rosa Brooks
10 Re-read The Compound Effect

Read Together

11 Feeding the Mouth That Bites You: A Complete Guide to Parenting Adolescents and Launching Them into the World Kenneth Wilgus PhD
12 Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew By: Sherrie Eldridge
13 The Anatomy of Peace, Expanded Second Edition: Resolving the Heart of Conflict The Arbinger Institute
14 The Outward Mindset: Seeing Beyond Ourselves The Arbinger Institute
15 Leadership and Self-Deception: Getting Out of the Box The Arbinger Institute
16 A Promised Land by Barack Obama
17 How To Have Your Best Year Ever Jim Rohn
18 Your Turn: How to Be an Adult by Julie Lythcott Haims
19 Winning the War in Your Mind: Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life – By: Craig Groeschel

Keeping Score:

Jihae - 29 Books

Chris - 19 Books

Jihae is the 2021 FV Pod Book Reading Champion!!

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Episode 123: Interview with Kate Somerville and Foster Nation Sep 20, 2021

This episode features an interview with Kate Somerville, the founder of Kate Somerville Skin Health Experts, and Maggie Lin, co-founder of Foster Nation. These two powerful women have overcome hard beginnings and started their own companies, all in the name of being able to help others. Especially foster youth. We hope you are inspired by this interview as much as we were!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro

7:46 - Welcome Kate and Maggie!

8:50 - Kate's Background

12:34 - Maggie's Background

16:00 - The Vulnerability Hangover

19:54 - Foster Nation x Kate Sommerville Skin Care

22:58 - Guardian Angels

27:50 - More on the Kate Sommerville and Foster Nation Collaboration

32:48 - Ways To Support Foster Nation

37:58 - Giving Back As A Mentor

40:48 - Learn About Kate's Company

42:04 - Good Word Of The Day!!

46:24 - Reminder to Focus on Health!

50:26 - Thank You For Listening Please Check Out The Show Notes!

Links

https://www.katesomerville.com/us/en/

https://www.fosternation.org

https://finance.yahoo.com/news/kate-somerville-skincare-announces-partnership-130000036.html

https://www.instagram.com/fosteringvoices/

Episode 122: Ohana - A Place for Foster Youth and Adults with Special Needs Sep 05, 2021

Episode 122 features an interview with Ryan Moore, director of Community Partnerships at Ohana. Ohana is an organization here in Arizona that creates safe, faith-based and loving family environments for foster youth and adults with special needs. They strive to create dignified environments through love and family.

Chapters:

0:00 - Welcome to our guest, Ryan Moore!

1:29 - Ryan's 2-minute....no, 5-minute(!) Bio

4:45 - How Ryan and His Wife Met

6:19 - What is Ohana and What Do They Do?

14:45 - What Are Some Ways To Support Ohana?

17:57 - What Has Been Ryan's Biggest Surprise in The Foster Care Community?

22:44 - Donations and Sponsors

24:08 - Good Word Of The Day!!

27:08 - Thank You For Listening And Please Check Out Ohanaaz

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Episode 122: Ohana - A Place for Foster Youth and Adults with Special Needs Sep 05, 2021

Episode 122 features an interview with Ryan Moore, director of Community Partnerships at Ohana. Ohana is an organization here in Arizona that creates safe, faith-based and loving family environments for foster youth and adults with special needs. They strive to create dignified environments through love and family.

Chapters:

0:00 - Welcome to our guest, Ryan Moore!

1:29 - Ryan's 2-minute....no, 5-minute(!) Bio

4:45 - How Ryan and His Wife Met

6:19 - What is Ohana and What Do They Do?

14:45 - What Are Some Ways To Support Ohana?

17:57 - What Has Been Ryan's Biggest Surprise in The Foster Care Community?

22:44 - Donations and Sponsors

24:08 - Good Word Of The Day!!

27:08 - Thank You For Listening And Please Check Out Ohanaaz

Let's Connect!

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Episode 122: Ohana - A Place for Foster Youth and Adults with Special Needs Sep 05, 2021

Episode 122 features an interview with Ryan Moore, director of Community Partnerships at Ohana. Ohana is an organization here in Arizona that creates safe, faith-based and loving family environments for foster youth and adults with special needs. They strive to create dignified environments through love and family.

Chapters:

0:00 - Welcome to our guest, Ryan Moore!

1:29 - Ryan's 2-minute....no, 5-minute(!) Bio

4:45 - How Ryan and His Wife Met

6:19 - What is Ohana and What Do They Do?

14:45 - What Are Some Ways To Support Ohana?

17:57 - What Has Been Ryan's Biggest Surprise in The Foster Care Community?

22:44 - Donations and Sponsors

24:08 - Good Word Of The Day!!

27:08 - Thank You For Listening And Please Check Out Ohanaaz

Let's Connect!

Fostering Voices on Instagram

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Episode 122: Ohana - A Place for Foster Youth and Adults with Special Needs Sep 05, 2021

Episode 122 features an interview with Ryan Moore, director of Community Partnerships at Ohana. Ohana is an organization here in Arizona that creates safe, faith-based and loving family environments for foster youth and adults with special needs. They strive to create dignified environments through love and family.

Chapters:

0:00 - Welcome to our guest, Ryan Moore!

1:29 - Ryan's 2-minute....no, 5-minute(!) Bio

4:45 - How Ryan and His Wife Met

6:19 - What is Ohana and What Do They Do?

14:45 - What Are Some Ways To Support Ohana?

17:57 - What Has Been Ryan's Biggest Surprise in The Foster Care Community?

22:44 - Donations and Sponsors

24:08 - Good Word Of The Day!!

27:08 - Thank You For Listening And Please Check Out Ohanaaz

Let's Connect!

Fostering Voices on Instagram

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Episode 122: Ohana - A Place for Foster Youth and Adults with Special Needs Sep 05, 2021

Episode 122 features an interview with Ryan Moore, director of Community Partnerships at Ohana. Ohana is an organization here in Arizona that creates safe, faith-based and loving family environments for foster youth and adults with special needs. They strive to create dignified environments through love and family.

Chapters:

0:00 - Welcome to our guest, Ryan Moore!

1:29 - Ryan's 2-minute....no, 5-minute(!) Bio

4:45 - How Ryan and His Wife Met

6:19 - What is Ohana and What Do They Do?

14:45 - What Are Some Ways To Support Ohana?

17:57 - What Has Been Ryan's Biggest Surprise in The Foster Care Community?

22:44 - Donations and Sponsors

24:08 - Good Word Of The Day!!

27:08 - Thank You For Listening And Please Check Out Ohanaaz

Let's Connect!

Fostering Voices on Instagram

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Episode 122: Ohana - A Place for Foster Youth and Adults with Special Needs Sep 05, 2021

Episode 122 features an interview with Ryan Moore, director of Community Partnerships at Ohana. Ohana is an organization here in Arizona that creates safe, faith-based and loving family environments for foster youth and adults with special needs. They strive to create dignified environments through love and family.

Chapters:

0:00 - Welcome to our guest, Ryan Moore!

1:29 - Ryan's 2-minute....no, 5-minute(!) Bio

4:45 - How Ryan and His Wife Met

6:19 - What is Ohana and What Do They Do?

14:45 - What Are Some Ways To Support Ohana?

17:57 - What Has Been Ryan's Biggest Surprise in The Foster Care Community?

22:44 - Donations and Sponsors

24:08 - Good Word Of The Day!!

27:08 - Thank You For Listening And Please Check Out Ohanaaz

Let's Connect!

Fostering Voices on Instagram

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Episode 122: Ohana - A Place for Foster Youth and Adults with Special Needs Sep 05, 2021

Episode 122 features an interview with Ryan Moore, director of Community Partnerships at Ohana. Ohana is an organization here in Arizona that creates safe, faith-based and loving family environments for foster youth and adults with special needs. They strive to create dignified environments through love and family.

Chapters:

0:00 - Welcome to our guest, Ryan Moore!

1:29 - Ryan's 2-minute....no, 5-minute(!) Bio

4:45 - How Ryan and His Wife Met

6:19 - What is Ohana and What Do They Do?

14:45 - What Are Some Ways To Support Ohana?

17:57 - What Has Been Ryan's Biggest Surprise in The Foster Care Community?

22:44 - Donations and Sponsors

24:08 - Good Word Of The Day!!

27:08 - Thank You For Listening And Please Check Out Ohanaaz

Let's Connect!