Fly on the Wallin with Amber and Ben

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Booty Shaking and Beardless Freaks Apr 03, 2024

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Welcome to "Fly On The Wallin," the podcast where hosts Amber and Beyn invite you to eavesdrop on their candid conversations about life, culture, and everything in between. In this week's episode, we dive into some intriguing topics that are sure to pique your interest about cosmetic tourism, beard transplants and how far you'll go to get some peace and quiet in the house.

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First up, in our #influenced segment, we're taking a deep dive into the Freaknik documentary and the growing trend of cosmetic tourism for men. From beard transplants to other cosmetic procedures, men are increasingly exploring ways to enhance their appearance. Join us as we discuss the impact of these trends and the broader cultural implications.

Next, in our #imperfectparents segment, we're tackling the hectic world of school fundraisers and the role of organizations like the Girl Scouts. From cookie sales to community events, fundraising season can be both rewarding and overwhelming for parents and children alike. We'll also explore the controversial topic of using sleep aids such as melatonin for children, weighing the pros and cons of these interventions.

Finally, in our "do's and dont's of relationships" segment, Beyn and Amber offer their unfiltered opinions on whether they would ever consider recording themselves during intimate moments. From privacy concerns to the potential risks of sharing such personal content, we'll delve into the complexities of modern relationships and technology.

So grab your headphones and join us for another insightful episode of "Fly On The Wallin." Whether you're commuting to work or relaxing at home, let us be your companions as we navigate the twists and turns of contemporary life. Tune in for laughter, thought-provoking discussions, and plenty of unexpected moments. You won't want to miss a single minute!

Daycare Dilemmas, TikTok Dentists, and Beyonce's Hair Line Controversy Mar 27, 2024

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Welcome back to Fly On The Wallin, where we dive into the complexities of life, relationships, and the subtleties of the world around us. Join us for an episode where we tackle a mixture of personal anecdotes, pop culture, and a dash of humor. __________ Need Advice? Call FOTW Hotline: 1-833-FOTW311 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/itsamberwallin Order MERCH: https://www.amberwallin.com/category/all-products Welcome back to Fly On The Wallin, where we dive into the complexities of life, relationships, and the subtleties of the world around us. Join us for an episode where we tackle a mixture of personal anecdotes, pop culture, and a dash of humor. - Marriage bliss or miss? We unravel the mysteries of intimacy before and after tying the knot. - Daycare dilemmas: Smells, shaming, and the educational clash over teaching shapes and standards. - A shift in the ring and perception: Understanding the Paul brothers through documentary insights and the anticipation of Jake Paul's fight with Mike Tyson. - Culinary chronicles and domestic debates: From turmeric chicken trials to pot roast disasters, and the tension over time-consuming brown rice. - Loyalty and consequences: Addressing ultimatums within friendship circles and what happens when partners encounter cut-off acquaintances.

Big Backs, Single Child Homes and Spoiled Children Mar 20, 2024

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Welcome to the latest episode of Fly on The Wallin, where hosts Amber and Beyn unpack the vibrant and multi-layered brew of topics, ranging from will Wilde get a sibling, Charlamagne the God , plus hotline calls, Shelfie, and more!

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In today's episode, we dove into raw and relatable topics from managing postpartum rage and society's relentless beauty standards to the pressures of social media on personal choices. We laughed about our quirks, shared our family histories, and debated the merits of a one or multi-child household. Plus, we offered some heartfelt advice on reclaiming individual identity amidst the whirlwind of parenthood. If you’re navigating the crossroads of personal growth and societal expectations, this episode serves practical wisdom wrapped in candid banter.

Exploring Identity Beyond Parenthood - For many, including Amber, motherhood can eclipse individual identity. Beyn and Amber recommend a balanced approach, where personal time, like joining clubs or attending classes, helps regain a sense of self. Recognizing your energy levels and clearly communicating them to your partner can make all the difference in navigating life changes.

The One-Child Household Debate - The hosts openly discuss the growing trend of having one child, contradicting the myth of the 'spoiled only child.' Financial practicality, personal aspirations, and societal influence fuel this discussion, with Amber considering her own desires against external opinions.

Fostering Relationships in Transition - Listeners reach out for advice on maintaining relationships during postpartum and beyond. Beyn and Amber highlight the power of community, be it family, therapy, or church, and stress the importance of recharging and transparent communication with your partner.

Embracing Independence and Community - For those seeking deeper friendships and personal pursuits, Beyn shares his experience with Meetup groups, book clubs, and setting aside time for himself, demonstrating how small steps can lead to fulfilling connections.

Beyn and Amber's honest conversations reflect the multifaceted challenges we all face. They advocate for carving out personal spaces, advocating for oneself, and fostering relationships built on understanding and support.

Tradition Meets Trend: Amber and Beyn Tackle Viral Wife Content and Modern Relationships Mar 13, 2024

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Embracing the Chaotic Beauty of Travel Mishaps

Breaking down the barriers of typical travel glorification, this segment saw Amber candidly sharing the trials of her Napa Valley escapade, a trip peppered with cancelled flights and delays. While picturesque landscapes awaited, the rainy backdrop and travel woes painted a more grounded picture, inviting listeners to find humor and camaraderie in imperfect journeys.

Of Art, Museums, and Cosplay Musings

A cultural jaunt with Beyn at the Los Angeles Contemporary Museum of Art (Lockma) revealed musings on cosplay and its intersection with high art. The hosts' exchange about a woman dressed as Alice in Wonderland sparked discussions on self-expression and the evolving facets of art appreciation amidst museum walls.

Recognizing Traditional Roles vs. Modern Realities

The hosts delved into the controversial trend of 'traditional wives' content, tackling the romanticized notions of stay-at-home motherhood and marital submission. With acerbic wit and earnest discomfort, they unpacked the uneasy feelings that arise from such viral musings, challenging listeners to reflect on the complexities of societal expectations.

The Complexity of Racism in Neighborly Relations

Closing the discussion was a poignant exploration of racist undertones in 'low key' neighborly interactions. Beyn and Amber shed light on an issue all too easily swept under the rug, urging us to confront uncomfortable truths and question whether the expectation to educate rests upon the offended or the offensive.

Laci Mosley the Scam Goddess Mar 06, 2024

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Have We Become the Wormwoods? Feb 28, 2024

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