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"Nobody gets a pass from pain. We would never choose the things that happened to us, but we can choose what it produces in us." - Brenda Viola, Founder of Vici Communications
Brenda lost her dad at 10. Not long after, a teacher named Mrs. Dodge told her, "Brenda, you're a great writer."
When she didn't believe in anything else, she believed that.
She became the first in her family to go to college, even though her mom's first reaction was, "But Brenda, you could be a cocktail waitress."
She beat out 10,000 people to become one of QVC's first hosts, and was laid off a few months later.
She kept going, through news, marketing, and eventually a role as Chief Happiness Officer.
In 2021 the losses stacked up. Her mom was ill, her partner died suddenly, and then her dog of 17 years died.
She'd always said "someday" she'd speak full-time.
So she sold her house with everything in it, moved to San Diego, and bet on herself.
Then a car crossed the median and hit her head on. The scan afterward found a lump on her thyroid. What scared her most wasn't the biopsy. It was having to go alone.
She called the one person she knew, a woman she'd met at the farmers market because they were both wearing Eagles gear.
Before Brenda could finish asking, she said, "What time? I'll be there."
Brenda was 60 when she learned that lesson: letting people in is not a weakness.
Her company is coming up on four years old. Vici means "I conquered."
"The beauty of life is letting people in and not robbing them of the privilege to show up for you."