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Dear Dr. Tracy

Welcome to Dear Dr. Tracy, the podcast that helps you navigate the everyday challenges of relationships, marriage, and parenting with expert advice and real, relatable conversations. Hosted by clinical psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, this podcast is your place for honest, no-nonsense guidance on love, intimacy, boundaries, and communication. With over 18 years of experience, Dr. Tracy brings a mix of clinical expertise, evidence-based research, and personal insights as a wife and mother to help you break unhealthy patterns and build stronger connections. Each week, Dr. Tracy answers the questions so many of us have but don’t always know how to ask—about resentment, desire, mental load, and how to truly feel like a team with your partner. She’s joined by fellow experts, real couples, and her husband Greg, who offers a down-to-earth perspective on the struggles so many relationships face. If you’re ready for actionable tools and heartfelt conversations that will help you create a relationship that feels fulfilling, this podcast is for you.

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Latest Episodes:

Is That Really You… or Your Inner Child? How to Recognize and Heal Emotional Triggers Apr 03, 2025

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Have you ever reacted in a way that felt… bigger than the moment? Maybe your partner forgets to check in, and suddenly you feel unimportant or abandoned. Or you receive a small piece of feedback and spiral into shame.

You might wonder, “Why am I like this?”

In this episode, Dr. Tracy guides you through how to identify when your inner child is showing up—and how to begin healing those younger parts of you that still carry unmet needs and emotional wounds.

This episode explores:

What the inner child really is (and what it isn’t)

The subtle signs your inner child is driving your reactions

A personal story of when Dr. Tracy's own inner child took the wheel—and how she did the work

The exact steps Dr. Tracy uses with clients to heal emotional triggers and reparent themselves with compassion

Why understanding your inner child can transform not just your relationship with yourself, but with your partner and your loved ones

If you’ve ever said, “I know better, but I still react this way,” this episode will help you move from self-blame to self-understanding—and offer you a clear path to healing.

Press play now to begin the powerful process of reconnecting with your inner child in a way that’s healing, grounded, and life-giving.

LINKS:

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Are You Really Sharing or Just Being Defensive? Mar 27, 2025

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In this episode, Dr. Tracy and her husband, Greg, tackle a communication struggle that so many couples face—understanding why saying "I'm afraid to tell you because of your reaction" backfires. It’s a fine line, and crossing it can quickly turn a conversation into an argument.

Dr. Tracy shares a personal experience that sparked this discussion, including a thought-provoking comment from one of her social media posts that made her pause and reflect: Was she explaining her perspective, or was she being defensive? From there, she and Greg break down how context, emotional intelligence, and tone shape our responses—and why so many of us misinterpret each other in the heat of the moment.

They also explore:

- The subtle (but crucial) difference between sharing vs. putting up a defensive wall. (e.g., when you say "I'm afraid to tell you because of your reaction")

- How social media has blurred the lines of healthy communication by over-labeling behaviors.

- Practical strategies to recognize and shift defensiveness in real-time.

- The power of slowing down, validating emotions, and staying connected even in difficult conversations.

This episode will leave you rethinking the way you respond to your partner—and help you approach communication with more clarity and intention. If you've ever struggled with feeling unheard, misunderstood, or frustrated in your relationship, this conversation is a must-listen.

Hit play now and share this with someone who needs to hear it.

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Why Asking for Romance Feels So Hard (And How to Fix It) Mar 20, 2025

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Have you ever felt lonely in your own relationship... longing for romance but afraid to ask for it?

You’re not alone.

So many of us crave connection, but the fear of rejection, disappointment, or even feeling like a burden keeps us silent.

In this episode, Dr. Tracy and her husband Greg dive deep into the emotional weight of longing for more while holding back our true desires. They unpack why asking for romance can feel so vulnerable, how past experiences shape our fears, and the subtle ways resentment builds when needs go unmet.

Dr. Tracy and Greg discuss the steps you can take to break free from this cycle.

This episode offers simple, actionable shifts to express your needs without guilt or fear.

Because you deserve love, effort, and connection in your relationship.

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LINKS:

Ready to deepen your connection? Download my 100 Questions!

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here!

Heal old wounds and build healthy interdependence with my book “I Didn’t Sign Up for This” - order here!

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Are You Really ‘Unhealed’… or Is It Just Your Nervous System? A Polyvagal Perspective on Triggers Mar 13, 2025

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Have you ever been told that if something still triggers you, it means you haven’t healed? This idea oversimplifies trauma, healing, and how the nervous system actually works.

In this episode, Dr. Tracy is breaking down why triggers aren’t just signs of unresolved wounds but natural responses from your nervous system—and why healing isn’t about never being triggered, but about recovering faster.

We’ll explore:

What Polyvagal Theory teaches us about triggers and emotional reactions

How your vagal brake helps regulate stress—and what happens when it’s weak

Why some triggers come from systemic or relational harm, not just personal trauma

What resilience really means for the nervous system

Through real client stories and my own experiences, you’ll learn how to stop blaming yourself for your reactions and start working with your nervous system, not against it.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by triggers or questioned whether you’re “healed enough,” this episode will give you the insight and tools to navigate emotional responses with more self-awareness, compassion, and resilience.

Press play to learn how to reframe your triggers, regulate your nervous system, and move through life with greater ease.

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Books mentioned in this episode

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Why You Don't Want to Win Your Next Conversation - with Jefferson Fisher Mar 06, 2025

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Most people approach arguments with one goal in mind: winning. But what if winning an argument actually means losing something far more important—connection?

In this episode, Dr. Tracy sits down with Jefferson Fisher, a trial lawyer and viral communication expert, to explore why people approach conflict the wrong way. Jefferson shares practical strategies that will help you stay in control, reduce defensiveness, and shift from a "you vs. me" mindset to an "us vs. the problem" approach.

In this episode, they discuss:

Why winning an argument often damages the relationship

A simple phrase that instantly de-escalates conflict

How to say difficult things without fear or avoidance

A key mindset shift that transforms the way couples communicate

For anyone who has felt frustrated by recurring fights or struggles to be heard in their relationship, this episode offers game-changing insights. Communication doesn’t have to feel like a battle—learn how to argue better, not harder.

Grab Jefferson Fisher's New Book "The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk more"

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Links:

Ready to deepen your connection? Download my 100 Questions!

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After The Honeymoon Stage: What Your Relationship Needs Now Feb 27, 2025

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The butterflies have faded, the sparks feel dim, and now… it’s like you’re just coexisting. You love each other, but your relationship feels more like roommates than romantic partners. Sound familiar?

In this episode, Dr. Tracy and Greg dive into what really happens after the honeymoon stage—why passion shifts, why connection starts to feel harder, and why so many couples struggle with feeling distant as life gets busier.

If you’ve ever thought:

Why doesn’t it feel the same anymore?

Are we falling out of love, or is this normal?

How do we get back what we had?

This episode is for you. You’ll learn:

✔️ The biggest misconceptions about love after the honeymoon stage.

✔️ Why feeling like “roommates” doesn’t mean you’re broken—it means you’re human.

✔️ Practical ways to bring back connection, even when life feels overwhelming.

If you’ve been craving more intimacy, laughter, and closeness in your relationship, hit play now.

Podcast Episodes Mentioned:

From Escalation to Calm

Stop Sidestepping Conflict

Links:

Free Guide: Change Your Stories, Change Your Relationship

100 Questions to Deepen Your Connection

30 Days to Us - All New Connection Challenge

More Than Roommates Challenge

Relationship Repair Program

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The “I Guess I’ll Never…” Trap – Breaking Free from All-or-Nothing Thinking Feb 20, 2025

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What do you do when a partner replies with “Well, I guess I’ll just never … again” after you share something with them?

In this episode, Dr. Tracy and her co-host Greg answer this question and talk about how to respond to a partner’s "all or nothing" statement in response to a concern raised. Dr. Tracy talks about the underlying emotion in this expression, provides strategies for having a constructive conversation in that situation, and how to break out of this tricky cycle that stops couples from feeling close and connected.

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Stop Sidestepping Conflict: How to Embrace Disagreements and Grow Stronger Together Feb 13, 2025

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Have you ever felt the urge to bite your tongue when something’s bothering you—just to keep the peace? Would you describe yourself as a conflict avoider? Or maybe your partner is a conflict avoider.

In this episode, we dive into the real reasons behind conflict avoidance, uncovering how silent resentments can take a toll on your mental well-being and your bond with your partner. We’ll explore why we often dodge difficult conversations, the long-term impact on both individuals and couples, and share practical steps to move from avoidance to constructive communication.

Whether you’re struggling with unspoken irritations or seeking a healthier way to handle everyday disagreements, this conversation will help you and your partner break the cycle of conflict avoidance. Tune in as we discuss how small (but powerful) shifts can lead to deeper emotional connection and relationship growth. Don’t miss out on these essential insights to transform conflict into a powerful tool for building trust, respect, and closeness.

Links:

Ready to deepen your connection? Download my 100 Questions!

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Why I Had to Change, My Next Big Project, and the F-er Cake—Welcome to Dear Dr. Tracy! Feb 13, 2025

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It’s here! Season 6 of the podcast is launching with a brand-new name: Dear Dr. Tracy! In this episode, Dr. Tracy’s pulling back the curtain on why she made this change, what it means for the future of the show, and how she’s stepping outside her comfort zone to bring you even deeper, more real conversations about relationships, resentment, intimacy, and all the messy in-between moments.

Dr. Tracy discusses why the name change, how you can be part of the show, what’s been going on behind the scenes, a parenting moment she didn’t sign up for (and why she got a cake for it), and what’s coming this season.

Links:

Ready to deepen your connection? Download my 100 Questions!

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here!

You can now order my new book “I Didn’t Sign Up for This” here!

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How to Get Your Partner to Go to Therapy Aug 15, 2024

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In the season finale of the podcast, Dr. Tracy tackles one of her most frequently asked questions: "How do I get my partner to go to therapy?" But first, she has a special announcement to share: she's writing her second book! Dr. Tracy then dives into the importance of starting therapy early in a relationship to build trust, enhance communication, and address issues before they become critical. She discusses the challenges many couples face, especially when one partner is hesitant, often due to stigma or fear of blame. She shares strategies for encouraging a reluctant partner, including empathetic communication, understanding their concerns, and approaching the conversation with care. The episode also explores the benefits of therapy, such as identifying and changing negative cycles, fostering personal growth, and deepening emotional connection. Dr. Tracy encourages listeners to be patient, respect their partner's pace, and consider therapy as a tool to strengthen and sustain their relationship.

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