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Dear Dr. Tracy

Welcome to Dear Dr. Tracy, the podcast that helps you navigate the everyday challenges of relationships, marriage, and parenting with expert advice and real, relatable conversations. Hosted by clinical psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, this podcast is your place for honest, no-nonsense guidance on love, intimacy, boundaries, and communication. With over 18 years of experience, Dr. Tracy brings a mix of clinical expertise, evidence-based research, and personal insights as a wife and mother to help you break unhealthy patterns and build stronger connections. Each week, Dr. Tracy answers the questions so many of us have but don’t always know how to ask—about resentment, desire, mental load, and how to truly feel like a team with your partner. She’s joined by fellow experts, real couples, and her husband Greg, who offers a down-to-earth perspective on the struggles so many relationships face. If you’re ready for actionable tools and heartfelt conversations that will help you create a relationship that feels fulfilling, this podcast is for you.

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Latest Episodes:

The Silent Drift: Why So Many Couples Feel Like Strangers May 29, 2025

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In this episode, Dr. Tracy unpacks what The Four Seasons on Netflix gets right about long-term love. From emotional distance to growing apart, invisible labor to unspoken resentment, this isn’t just a show—it’s a mirror. And if you're feeling the quiet disconnection in your own relationship, this one's for you.

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Resentment and the Micro Moments: The Mug Left Beside the Counter May 22, 2025

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In this episode, Dr. Tracy shares a personal story about a mug left beside the sink—and how something so small can symbolize something much bigger in a relationship. Sitting with her husband, Greg, they explore how resentment builds in everyday moments, especially during busy seasons like summer when couples often shift into "roommate mode."

They talk about:

How micro-moments can quietly erode connection
Why summer often intensifies disconnection
The importance of naming resentment before it explodes
How to feel more like a team

This episode is for anyone feeling unseen, emotionally overloaded, or stuck in the day-to-day.

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Understand Your Inner Parts with Britt Frank May 15, 2025

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In this episode, Dr. Tracy sits with therapist and author Britt Frank to explore her new book Align Your Mind—a guide to understanding the inner conflicts that leave us feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or out of sync with ourselves. They talk about the power of "parts work"—the idea that we all carry different inner parts with competing needs and beliefs—and how learning to listen to these parts can transform our mental health, relationships, and self-trust.

Listen in and discover:
What “parts work” really means
How misalignment shows up in everyday life
Breaking the myth of needing to "fix" ourselves
One simple step you can take today to feel more aligned

Check out Britt Frank at https://www.brittfrank.com/align-your-mind

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Want your questions answered on the show? ⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠

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Build better connection and feel close starting today. Join the ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠

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When a Bad Apology Isn't Enough May 08, 2025

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We’ve all heard it: “I said I’m sorry, what more do you want?”

In today’s episode, Dr. Tracy and Greg unpack why so many apologies miss the mark — and what you can do when you’re left feeling unseen, dismissed, or even more hurt after hearing “sorry.”

Together, they explore why bad apologies happen (hint: it’s not always malicious), the emotional cost of apology fatigue, and the scripts you can use to move from surface-level repair to real reconnection.

If you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of rupture, rushed apology, and no real change — this episode will show you a better way forward.

Plus, don’t miss the free listener guide: Scripts to Move From Surface Apologies to Real Repair!

Whether you're the one giving or receiving the apology, this conversation will leave you feeling empowered to repair with greater clarity, compassion, and connection.

RESOURCES:

Want your questions answered on the show? ⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠

Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz: ⁠⁠Take it here⁠⁠

Ready to deepen your connection? ⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠

Build better connection and feel close starting today. Join the ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠

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5 Small Shifts That Build Real Connection May 04, 2025

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Emotional connection isn’t built by grand gestures—it’s created in the quiet, everyday moments between you and your partner.

In this episode, Dr. Tracy shares 5 practical ways you can actually build connection with your partner, especially when things feel distant. Whether you’re stuck in the roommate phase or craving more closeness, these simple shifts can bring you back to each other—one intentional moment at a time.

Learn more with Matthew Fray ⁠here⁠.

⁠Listen to our previous episode on micro betrayals and emotional neglect that hurt relationships. ⁠

RESOURCES:

Want your questions answered on the show? ⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠

Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz: ⁠⁠Take it here⁠⁠

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Build better connection and feel close starting today. Join the ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠

Heal old wounds and build healthy interdependence with my book “I Didn’t Sign Up for This” - order ⁠⁠here! ⁠⁠

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Breaking the Myth of “Happy Wife, Happy Life” May 01, 2025

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We’re breaking down the myth of “happy wife, happy life” and why it’s quietly harming relationships.

Dr. Tracy and relationship coach Matthew Fray explore how focusing only on your partner’s happiness can lead to resentment, disconnection, and the slow breakdown of intimacy.

Learn why sharing your inner world matters more, how to move past the defensive narrative, and creating intentionality in the art of noticing to creating healthy habits in your relationship.

Learn more with Matthew Fray ⁠here⁠.

⁠Listen to our previous episode on micro betrayals and emotional neglect that hurt relationships. ⁠

RESOURCES:

Want your questions answered on the show? ⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠

Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz: ⁠⁠Take it here⁠⁠

Ready to deepen your connection? ⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠

Build better connection and feel close starting today. Join the ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠

Heal old wounds and build healthy interdependence with my book “I Didn’t Sign Up for This” - order ⁠⁠here! ⁠⁠

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What I’ve Learned in 10 Years of Parenting (And What I’m Still Figuring Out) Apr 24, 2025

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In this deeply personal solo episode, Dr. Tracy reflects on a decade of motherhood—and the ways parenting has reshaped her identity, her marriage, her boundaries, and her inner world.

This episode isn’t a guidebook. It’s a truth-telling moment for anyone feeling lost, tired, or stretched too thin.

RESOURCES:

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here!

Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz: Take it here

Ready to deepen your connection? Download my 100 Questions

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Heal old wounds and build healthy interdependence with my book “I Didn’t Sign Up for This” - order here!

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The Romance You Want Starts With These Questions with Lindsay Jill Roth on Love, Intimacy, and Practical Connection Apr 17, 2025

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In this episode, Dr. Tracy sits down with author and producer Lindsay Jill Roth to talk about her new book, Romances and Practicalities—a love story woven together with 250 thoughtful questions designed to deepen connection and spark meaningful conversations between partners.

Together, they explore the space where romance meets real life—how couples can navigate everyday responsibilities without losing the spark, and why asking better questions is the secret to building a lasting relationship. Lindsay shares what inspired the book, how her own experiences shaped it, and the surprising ways practicality can actually fuel intimacy.

Whether you're dating, newly married, or decades in, this episode will inspire you to pause, reflect, and get curious with your partner.

Learn more about Lindsay Jill Roth: https://lindsayjillroth.com/

Grab her book, Romances and Practicalities: https://lindsayjillroth.com/romances-amp-practicalities/

RESOURCES:

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here!

Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz: Take it here

Ready to deepen your connection? Download my 100 Questions

Build better connection and feel close starting today. Join the 30 Days to Us Challenge

Heal old wounds and build healthy interdependence with my book “I Didn’t Sign Up for This” - order here!

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Stop Trying to Fix It! Why Your Partner Just Wants You to Listen Apr 10, 2025

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Dr. Tracy and her husband, Greg, dive into one of the most common relationship traps: the urge to fix rather than connect.

After a personal moment of miscommunication, they break down how well-intentioned problem-solving can actually push partners further apart instead of bringing them closer.

Greg shares his instinct to fix problems quickly, while Dr. Tracy unpacks the deeper emotional needs that often go unmet when one partner jumps straight to solutions. Through relatable stories, vulnerable reflections, and real-life relationship tools, they explore why fixing is often a way to manage our own discomfort—and what to do instead.

Click play to find out why fixing isn’t always helping—and what to do instead. And don’t forget to share this episode with the fixer in your life.

RESOURCES:

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here!

Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz: Take it here

Ready to deepen your connection? Download my 100 Questions

Build better connection and feel close starting today. Join the 30 Days to Us Challenge

Heal old wounds and build healthy interdependence with my book “I Didn’t Sign Up for This” - order here!

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Q&A: Is Divorce Contagious? The Hidden Impact of Watching Friends Split Up Apr 06, 2025

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Answering your questions!

In this bonus episode, Dr. Tracy answers a powerful listener question: “Is divorce contagious?” She explores how a friend’s separation can impact our own relationship, the research behind social contagion, and why moments like these often reflect unspoken needs or desires.

Taking her 18 years of working with clients through all seasons of their relationship, Dr. Tracy reminds listeners that while divorce isn’t truly “catching,” it can be a mirror inviting us to pause and reconnect.

If you’re feeling the distance in your relationship and looking to reconnect, join Dr. Tracy's More Than Roommates Challenge or try her 30 Days to Us.

LINKS:

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here!

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