Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

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Is Hookup Culture a Lie? w/ Farha Khalidi Jul 11, 2023

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Hey, Besties! Today, we welcome back Farha Khalidi for part two of the conversation I had with her last week. Get ready for candid conversations, personal stories, and the sparks of intellectual curiosity as we delve into the realms of love, self-worth, and communication.

From debunking misconceptions surrounding OnlyFans to exploring the complexities of dating in the digital age, this episode dives into various intriguing chapters. It celebrates the power of communication, challenges harmful ideologies, and delves into controversial topics such as the Red Pill movement and cannibalism laws. With personal stories, insightful discussions, and a touch of controversy, this episode empowers listeners to embrace their authenticity, honor their boundaries, and foster understanding in a world filled with assumptions and judgment.

Get ready to be inspired, uplifted, and encouraged to unleash your inner warrior as we embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:21 What is the most common assumption from people?
02:54 What made you decide to wait?
04:50 What does your virginity mean for you?
15:26 Losing my virginity during high school
20:16 TikTok and OF
22:07 Misconceptions about OF
26:34 Being a virgin and doing OF
29:03 Would you date a guy who has slept with lots of women?
31:08 Dating a guy chatting with a OF model
33:53 Guys going to strip clubs
35:19 How do you define p*rn addiction
37:52 Do you have a good relationship with your parents?
41:40 Would you lose your V-card for money?
42:45 Red Pill movement
48:23 Dealing with hate
52:24 Do men have lizard brains?
55:13 Did you know that cannibalism isn’t illegal in some states?
56:22 Sharing of passwords
01:03:08 They are not you, so communicate
01:08:43 Sharing of location

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Redefine Your Self-Worth w/ Farha Khalidi Jul 06, 2023

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Welcome, Besties, to an episode filled with thought-provoking discussions and empowering insights that'll leave you feeling empowered and ready to conquer the world. Introducing Farha Khalidi, a TikToker, comedian, and OnlyFans model known for her political comedy videos where she combines her comedic talents with a political edge to create content that challenges commonly held conservative beliefs.

First up, Violetta and Farha talk about her guest appearance on popular manosphere podcasts such as the Whatever Podcast and Fresh&Fit where she fearlessly confronts the hosts' purportedly problematic and sexist viewpoints. The duo challenge the notion of basing our value solely on our bodies and encourage a holistic approach to self-acceptance and discuss the art of reading between the lines, trusting our intuition, and making informed decisions.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
00:16 Red Pill community
07:16 What made you join these podcasts?
12:19 They are nicer on the show, period!
14:05 How they think they can get women
18:11 My ex just wants me to stay at home
23:27 Get to know his mom
27:40 Empathizing with their struggles
29:32 The main purpose of the Whatever podcast
32:53 Would you have sex without emotional attachment?
38:53 Basing your value on your body
41:09 Is the third date the default?
45:03 Pay attention to the signs

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Are YOU Happy? w/ Adelaide Kane Jul 04, 2023

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Hey there! We've got a lineup of juicy topics that'll leave you wanting more as we say goodbye to June. Adelaide Kane is back for a part 2 of the amazing conversation she and Violetta had last week.

First up, Violetta asks Adelaide to reveal the one thing most people don't know about her. The duo also talk about what makes them happy these days, their egg freezing journey and the body changes that no one talks about after the egg extraction, the pros and cons of birth control, and so much more! Get ready to glow, babe, because this episode is all about women!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:08 What’s the one thing most people don’t know about you?
04:28 One question you get asked a lot?
05:00 Are you happy?
07:37 What’s your happiest moment this year?
11:55 Egg freezing journey
18:54 Lack of information on the reproductive process
22:43 Getting off of birth control
24:23 Body sensitivity to medication

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I AM GOD w/ Adelaide Kane Jun 29, 2023

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Get ready to close out the sizzling month of June, also known as Hookup Month, with a bang! We're bringing you a very special guest who's ready to spice up the conversation and take us on a journey of passion, connection, and unforgettable moments.

The gorgeous Adelaide Kane joins Violetta today for heartfelt conversations and empowering messages. The pair talk about how you can chase your dreams while still making time for yourself and those special people in your life, how love evolves, grows, and surprises us along the way, and how love is love but we're here to celebrate all the beautiful colors of the rainbow.

Also, both of them will explore how life's twists and turns shape us, guide us, and lead us to incredible moments of growth and happiness. Trust the journey, babe, and know that every step has a purpose.

So, grab your favorite cocktail, turn up the heat, and join us as we bid farewell to June in the most unforgettable way.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:35 Maintaining balance between work and personal life
08:20 Friendship time
16:42 When your friends are sharing, check in first
20:39 Have your definition of love changed?
26:55 What’s your love language?
39:27 Keeping your relationship private
45:09 Let’s talk about sexual preference
49:24 Coming out and how people reacted
59:48 No pressure when the platform isn’t monetized
01:03:48 Being more perfectly imperfect
01:11:05 Everything happens for a reason

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Benson Knows Best: WHEN TO GIVE UP Jun 27, 2023

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Hey there, Besties! For our last episode of the hookup month, let's dive into the bittersweet journey of letting go. We know, it can be extra tough to let go when you're caught up in the heat of the moment. Trust your instincts and know that you deserve a love that ignites passion and brings you joy. It's all about finding the courage to embrace your worth, celebrate your fabulous self, and create space for the unexpected.

Violetta shares a story of loss and heartache, where we explore the raw vulnerability of sudden loss, to the emotional weight that comes when a family member falls ill. She also talks about the trap of comparison and helps you break free from that toxic cycle. Join us for a packed episode filled with helpful insights, self-love reminders, and positive vibes to leave you feeling unstoppable.

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:52 Story of the day: He’s father suddenly passed
13:37 Don’t sit there and blame yourself
15:06 It takes a toll on you when a family member gets sick
19:44 How you’re feeling about a situation is valid
24:26 He just wasted your time
28:47 With time, you’ll start comparing yourself to other people

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DATING SURVIVAL GUIDE Jun 22, 2023

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Your go to guide on how to survive the first 3 months of dating and turn it into a committed relationship!!

What are the pros and cons of those thrilling first stages of dating? It's common to experience feelings of uncertainty, anxiety, and even fear of rejection. The pressure to make a good impression and the ambiguity of early intentions can also add to the mix. Well, let's take a closer look.

Today, Violetta explores the mixed emotions that come with the exciting yet nerve-wracking journey of the beginning stages of dating. From the thrill of new connections to the underlying fears and insecurities, the common struggles of anxiety, doubt, seeking validation, withdrawal, and battling our own insecurities to the value of authentic connection, how it can lead to a fulfilling and lasting relationship, and challenging the perception of negative emotions and highlight their potential for growth and transformation.

Tune in to this enlightening episode as we navigate the ups and downs of dating, uncover the lessons that relationships teach us, and explore how vulnerability and communication can lead to authentic and thriving connections.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:44 The beginning stages of dating is fun but also scary
05:01 The biggest teachers are those who didn’t truly love us
06:29 There’s no perfect partner, but a person who truly wants to be with you will stay
08:53 We are the worst narrators of our own lives
11:29 Pause and ask yourself, “Why am I reacting like this?”
16:41 Instead of pushing your partner away, communicate
19:08 Our reactions are hurting our partner as well
24:59 Negative emotions can be helpful
26:39 A healthy relationships happens when you show up for each other

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Benson Knows Best: SOULMATES & VULNERABILITY Jun 20, 2023

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Hey, Besties! Let's talk about the magic of vulnerability when you're diving into the world of dating. I know, it can be a little scary to let your guard down and show your true emotions, but trust me, it's worth it! Opening up and being vulnerable allows for a deeper connection and a chance for someone to see the real you. It's about sharing your fears, dreams, and even those adorable quirks that make you, well, you.

Today, in another Benson Knows Best episode, Violetta it's important to keep an eye out for those sneaky red flags that might signal potential trouble ahead as you venture back into the dating scene, how to give yourself time to heal and reflect if you find yourself in a relationship that didn't end horribly but just didn't work, and how by embracing vulnerability you create a safe space for both you and your potential partner to truly connect on a deeper level. Remember, the end of one chapter opens the door to new and exciting possibilities. You've got this, gorgeous!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:36 They’re probably not really that into you
04:45 Red flags in the beginning of dating
09:27 Why should we become vulnerable and not shut off?
17:06 How to move on from a relationship that did not end horribly?
23:11 What does it mean when he tells you that he’s rooting for you?

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Act Like a Prize - Get Him OBSESSED Jun 15, 2023

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Hey there, Besties! Let's talk about something that's super important: knowing your worth and becoming the ultimate prize, not just some side chick. You deserve to be cherished, adored, and treated like the queen you are. So, girl, don't settle for being someone's afterthought or hidden secret.

Today, Violetta is here to tell you that instead of wasting time telling guys about how badly you were treated by your ex, it's time to focus on yourself and your own value. Love yourself fiercely, more than anything else in this world, embrace your flaws, celebrate your strengths, and never settle for anything less than you deserve. When you radiate that self-confidence, trust me, the right guys will flock to you like bees to honey. So, go out there, strut your stuff, and let everyone know that you're a woman who deserves nothing less than the best!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:16 Here’s why you should always be the leading lady in your own story
05:27 Don’t tell them how sh*tty your ex is
07:59 How do you view yourself as a prize?
11:30 The mistake you’re always doing
13:57 Change your perspective: You’re the price
15:42 Real interest does not peak, it only rises
17:54 Dating is a journey of self discovery and growth
19:04 Remember, love yourself fiercely

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Confession Corner: THE OTHER WOMAN Jun 13, 2023

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Hey, Besties! Welcome to another Confession Corner stories. Today, Violetta shares another round of stories that tells how a woman’s childishness caused her boyfriend to leave her on the side of the road, another who’s blaming her bestfriend for her marriage falling apart, and lastly, a wife who’s guilty of cheating on her dying husband. Hear the stories fresh and be the judge!

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00:00 Intro
03:04 Story #1: He left me on the side of the road and I deserved it
07:52 Story #2: To my pick me *ss bestfriend who ruined my marriage
14:40 Story #3: My husband is going to pass away to get back at me

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The Science of Orgasms: A Guide to Unlocking Your Pleasure w/ Emily Morse Jun 08, 2023

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Loving your own body plays a crucial role in relationships and intimacy, especially when it comes to sex. When we struggle to embrace our bodies, it can create self-consciousness and insecurity in the bedroom. These feelings can hinder our ability to fully let go and enjoy intimate moments with our partners. However, when we cultivate self-love and acceptance, it empowers us to be more confident and comfortable in our own skin. This newfound confidence not only enhances our own pleasure but also fosters a deeper connection and trust with our partners, leading to more fulfilling and intimate experiences together.

Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes a favorite returning guest, Emily Morse. Emily Morse is a well-known sex and relationship expert, host of the popular podcast "Sex with Emily," and author of the upcoming book "Smart Sex." With her expertise in psychology and human sexuality, she's all about helping people create stronger connections and more fulfilling experiences in their love lives. Emily's podcast is a trusted resource for honest advice, and now her book is set to provide even more wisdom and insights into the world of smart and satisfying sex.

Together with Emily, Violetta talks about loving and being comfortable with your body, communicating your desires to your partner, oral sex, the use of lubes, the importance of foreplay, and how to stay present and focused during sex.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:42 Growing and learning to love your own body
03:37 Why are you not turned on?
05:03 You’re responsible for your own pleasure
09:28 The biggest misconception when it comes to sex
12:07 Foreplay starts outside of the bedroom
13:32 Communication is a lubrication
14:45 Masturbation as a mindfulness practice
17:09 Tell your partner how you want to be loved
19:07 Prioritize your pleasure
21:50 Be comfortable with your own body
27:04 How to tell your partner to get down on you?
29:44 “Men are frying pans and women are slow cookers…”
30:54 Insecurity
32:47 Rebranding anal sex
40:23 G-Spots and squirting
46:34 Stay present and focused during sex
49:08 When your partner goes soft
50:51 Confidence in bed is sexy
52:08 Sex transformation story
55:03 Mutual Masturbation
56:15 Let’s talk about lubes
57:58 Five Pillars of Sex IQ
1:04:09 The best oral method
1:06:21 Effect of childhood traumas
1:10:19 Scheduling intimacy
1:14:10 Take control of your sexual health & pleasure

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