Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

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Confession Corner: HE SH*T HIMSELF Sep 19, 2023

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Hey Besties! It's Confession Corner Tuesday, and our OG social media girl Violetta is back with some juicy fan confessions. We got a guy who lied about his job and stopped communicating after they spent a night together and this guy accidentally sh*ting himself while getting a head. Surprise! Surprise! Men never learn. Buckle up, because when it comes to confessions, the drama never ends!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:39 Call #1: This guy I met on Tinder asked if size mattered
15:50 Call #2: He sh*t himself while I was giving him a bl*wj*b
21:21 Call #3: Dylan, you’re not a serious person about me being your sugar baby

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4 Steps To Greatness Sep 14, 2023

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They always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet?

Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violetta is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violetta admits life has its ups and downs and it hasn’t been easy, but today she is thankful and you will be too by the end of the episode.

Today, Violetta shares FOUR STEPS that can help anyone struggling internally, going through difficult and seemingly impossible situations, and help turn the negatives into optimism and positive change. Besties, let's use our pain and rage to turn the page starting today with this episode!

What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
00:55 Let’s take a moment to be thankful
03:44 Low moments are necessary to transform you
07:06 Step #1: Ask yourself, “Is this working for me?”
10:07 Step #2: It’s all in your head
11:06 Step #3: Sit with rejection, be comfortable with it
12:50 Step #4: Turn your resentment into your superpower
14:35 Correlation between anger and passion to succeed
17:43 Your mind will continuously believe what you tell it

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Benson Knows Best: SELLING OC Sep 12, 2023

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Hey Besties! Today's a little different. We're kicking things off with some juicy dating tips, including the absolute must-ask questions to gauge if you're with Mr. or Ms. Right. Then, we're diving headfirst into a fun chat where Violetta talks about how she sees the characters of the Selling The OC cast. It might not be everyone's cup of tea, but it's still got that 'worth-watching' vibe!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:30 The 5 honest questions to ask yourself
04:30 Have you watched Crash Landing on You?
08:03 When you hear these three things on the first date, RUN!
10:32 Selling The OC - Tyler
14:03 Selling The OC - Jarvis and Rose
16:40 Selling The OC - Polly
17:10 Selling The OC - Alex Hall
19:40 Selling The OC - Brandy
22:59 Selling The OC - Austin and Tyler
25:16 The lack of empathy for others
26:14 Someone really hates Jarvis because…
27:13 It was an escort party

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The Idiot Guide to Divorce w/ Laura Clery Sep 07, 2023

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TW: Discussion about eating disorder, alcohol and drug abuse, sobriety, and self harm

Ever wondered why you're not happy all the time? Well, you're not supposed to be! It's okay not to feel the sunshine every day, and sometimes, the cloudy moments are what make the sunny ones shine even brighter.

Today, Violetta welcomes Laura Clery, a comedian and influencer best known for her comedy sketches and vlogs about her day-to-day life on social media. Laura shares how she grew in popularity through her viral characters’ Pamela Pumpkin and Hellen Horbath, and later pivoted to documenting her day to day life in a comedic sense.

From the highs and lows of existence to the complexities of relationships and personal growth, each chapter delves into the real, unfiltered moments that define our lives; finding humor in life's little annoyances, or navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce. Join us as we laugh and ponder the human experience, one chapter at a time.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:05 You’re not meant to feel happy all the time
03:51 Do we look alike?
06:33 The birth of Pamela Pumpkin
09:01 Then Helen Horbath came to be
11:03 The failed pilot show, and then pregnancy came
13:23 Manifesting what you want in life
17:26 What’s driving me crazy right now
20:12 When taxes don’t make sense to you
21:22 Do you like talking to yourself?
23:43 A thousand random thoughts
28:51 I can’t imagine not existing…
33:26 Constant criticism about your looks
38:24 Competition is an illusion
40:39 Why are you getting a divorce?
43:23 Public breakup is never easy
48:38 Slowing down on work and prioritizing mental health
51:46 Implementing boundaries for inner peace
54:37 The human resilience in any situation
56:33 The effect of divorce on children
58:12 What do you do when you’re about to relapse?
01:02:21 You can only be strong for so long
01:05:21 The Serenity Prayer

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Confession Corner - IT WAS HIS BEST FRIEND Sep 05, 2023

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Ever had those cringe-worthy moments that make you wish you could hit the rewind button on life? Well, we all do, and in this episode, we're diving headfirst into some hilariously embarrassing tales. From a power struggle in the education system to an intimate experience gone wrong that'll leave you in stitches. Oh, and don't forget the awkward moment you caught your dad staring through a slightly opened door while you were doing the deed. Yep, these stories are as real and relatable as they come. So get ready for some seriously entertaining, toe-curling moments that'll have you saying, "I've been there too!"

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:03 Story #1: Overloaded teacher
13:12 Story #2: Disgusting, intimate experience
17:31 Story #3: Walked out while doing the deed
23:17 Story #4: The other guy was my crush

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3 Reasons You're Stuck In Life Aug 31, 2023

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Changing your perspective is like putting on a new pair of glasses that reveals a whole new world. It's essential because our outlook shapes our reality. When we shift our viewpoint, we unlock fresh insights, untapped potential, and a realm of possibilities that were previously hidden.

Today, Violetta shares the three reasons why we remain stuck with where we are as well as the action steps we can take to move forward. From how our actions create our reality, how our emotions affect those actions, and the thoughts we have while taking action. It's all about shifting your mindset, and girl, you're about to crush it!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:40 The story you tell yourself
06:17 Phase 1 - Our actions create our reality
12:09 “Everything I’m doing, I chose to do.”
16:26 Phase 2 - Our emotions dictate our actions
20:09 Consumed by hatred
24:07 Do you want to be right or become free?
28:40 Phase 3 - Our thoughts affect our emotions
32:18 Positive thinking transforms your life
34:44 “Am I happy with the thoughts in my head?”

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Benson Knows Best: MEN AREN’T DUMB Aug 29, 2023

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Breakups are tough but moving on can be even more challenging. Today, Violetta offers insights on becoming the IT girl when it comes to dating, post-breakup ways to move on from someone (based on real life experience), and some handy ghosting tricks for future use.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:01 The best revenge is to move on
05:40 How to be the It Girl?
13:05 Ways to let go and move on
19:02 Ghosting tricks

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From Toxic to Soulmates w/ Fiachra "Figs" O'Sullivan Aug 24, 2023

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Have you considered the difference between what people want versus what they truly need in relationships, and how does this understanding impact your approach to forming connections? This introspective exploration can have a profound influence on how you approach building meaningful bonds.

Today's guest is Fiachra "Figs" O'Sullivan. Figs is the creator of the Empathi method and the certification process for Empathi coaches. His life’s mission is to help couples feel more connected.

Violetta and Figs unveil the impact of childhood experiences on your ability to love and how self-sabotaging patterns might be holding you back and decode your attachment style and learn how taking responsibility for your actions and emotions can transform your connections. Whether you're seeking self-growth or hoping to form healthier bonds, don't miss out on this empowering conversation that peels back the layers of love, relationships, and healing.

What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:14 Are you in a toxic relationship?
04:15 What can we do about a toxic partner?
06:23 When you’re in a threatened vulnerable state
08:02 Are you in a system together?
13:36 When in your reality your partner is hurting you
16:14 How childhood experiences affect our ability to love
17:56 Self-sabotaging patterns
19:49 The natural fear to fall in love
23:31 Struggling to open up
25:25 Know what’s your attachment style
29:18 Taking responsibility of our actions and emotions
33:21 Both need to show up for each other
36:28 Foster empathy for yourself and others
42:31 The gray area on first dates
47:36 Here’s what you should focus on when dating
50:07 Finding healing through forming relationships
55:31 What is a co-dependent relationship?
01:00:48 Doing self work to not attract what you lack
01:04:19 Glorification of people protecting themselves from getting hurt
01:07:29 What people really need is not what they want

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Confession Corner - BLAME THE KIDS Aug 22, 2023

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Ever wondered about the hidden stories that weave the tapestry of human existence? Brace yourselves, because in this episode, we're peeling back the layers and delving into stories that challenge our perceptions, tug at our emotions, and remind us of the complexities that make us undeniably human.

Today, Violetta is back with another batch of Reddit confessions. From sacrificing parental rights to confronting the aftermath of a child's devastating lie about assault, and even exploring the unexpected dynamics of sibling relationships, get ready to listen through emotions that are as intense as they are relatable and somehow insanely eye rolling. Get ready to be moved, captivated, and reminded that beneath the surface, we're all navigating our own stories that shape who we are.

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:43 Story #1: I was asked to give up my parental rights
13:19 Story #2: A child lied about being assaulted by his mother’s boyfriend
20:35 Story #3: My older brother and I were sleeping together

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Body Shaming & Setting Boundaries w/ Sasha Pieterse Aug 17, 2023

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Welcome back, Besties! Have you ever wondered what lies behind the facade, the moments that define us beyond the spotlight? It's a natural curiosity to wonder about the authentic stories that unfold in the quieter corners of our lives. Beyond the glamorous exterior that we often project to the world, there are those raw, unfiltered moments that truly define who we are – the struggles, triumphs, and personal revelations that shape us in profound ways.

Today, Violetta welcomes Sasha Pieterse - American actress, singer, and model who gained significant recognition for her role as Alison DiLaurentis on the popular TV series "Pretty Little Liars."

The duo dive into an intimate conversation that's all about embracing authenticity, overcoming challenges, and finding strength within ourselves. They offer a rare glimpse into the dynamics of fame and authenticity, the art of gracefully handling criticism, and insights into building trust and finding strength amidst motherhood. Let's celebrate vulnerability, growth, and the power of communication.

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