Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

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My Life Is a DUMPSTER FIRE Oct 24, 2023

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Hold onto your hats, Besties! It's been a rollercoaster of a week, and Violetta is here to spill the tea on all the wild and wacky adventures she's been on. From the quirks of getting paid in the entertainment biz (seriously, why does it take forever?), to some dental dilemmas involving root canals and plate implants (who knew teeth could be so eventful?), she's got stories that'll have you laughing, cringing, and shaking your head in disbelief.

But it doesn't stop there! Ever wondered what it's like when your Facebook account gets hacked? Well, Violetta’s got the lowdown on that too. Buckle up, because this episode is a whirlwind of anecdotes and unexpected twists that'll leave you wondering, "Is this real life?" So, join us for a hilarious and slightly chaotic ride through the ups and downs of Violet's week – you won't want to miss it!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
00:34 It’s just that type of week
02:55 Let me tell you about my week
05:57 Getting paid in the entertainment industry sometimes take months
07:52 Have you ever had plate implants?
12:37 Despite everything, why am I not crying right now?
16:12 Why did I need a new root canal?
19:13 And so, my Facebook account got hacked
27:43 Everything that happened, I did it to myself

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The Science of Anger: How To Move Past Resentment w/ Radhi Devlukia Oct 19, 2023

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Besties! Buckle up, because today we're diving into all things love, personal growth, and relationships with Radhi Devlukia. Radhi is an influencer who shares recipes with her followers on social media and on her website.

Radhi gets candid about her journey from being a Daddy's girl to discovering wisdom in the Bhagavad Gita. Together with Violetta, she shares some of the best advice her dad ever gave her and takes you on a heartfelt exploration of holding onto anger and resentment. Let's uncover what it feels like to push boundaries on cultural expectations for women and explore the complexities of personal journeys in the shadow of successful partners.

And if that's not enough, we're digging into what makes a partnership thrive, how to handle conflict as a couple, and the fine balance between prioritizing your relationship and nurturing your individual growth. Radhi also talks about the fear of failure, the origins of feeling not good enough, and finding those beautiful connections with others. It's a rollercoaster of love, self-discovery, and embracing life at your own pace.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:13 Grateful for the loving people around you
02:45 Something most people don’t know about you
04:40 We forget to ask people how they are doing
06:06 Sustaining a positive attitude
08:41 Growing up, I was a Daddy’s girl
10:20 The Bhagavad Gita
12:13 Best advice from your dad
15:25 Holding onto resentment
17:41 Have you struggled to let go of anger and resentment?
20:26 When you feel invisible
24:09 Pushing the boundaries on cultural expectations for women
30:17 Figuring out your own journey when you have a successful partner
32:37 Having a supportive partner
35:58 We all function in our own pace in life
39:34 Do you have the fear of failure?
41:18 Where does feeling not good enough come from?
47:27 How do you connect better to others?
50:28 What's your definition of love?
54:30 Least favorite thing about yourself
56:17 How Radhi saw Jay at the beginning of their relationship
58:56 How do you handle conflict as a couple?
01:02:39 Difference between putting something first and feeling neglected
01:06:47 How do you make your relationship a priority?
01:09:45 Take time alone to figure yourself out

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LOVE IS BLIND REUNION Oct 17, 2023

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Get ready for some juicy tea, because in this episode of Almost Adulting with Violet Benson, we're spilling all the Love Is Blind Reunion gossip! Violetta is serving up her unfiltered thoughts and hilarious commentary on the latest couple drama. With only two pairs making it down the aisle, she's questioning the notion of unconditional love and tackling the ever-important credit score conversation. From Lydia and Milton's heartwarming union to the surprising turn of events for Chris and Johnie, there's no shortage of opinions in this review. So, if you want the inside scoop on this season's most buzzworthy moments, this episode is a must-listen!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:10 Uche is an energy vampire
03:26 I’m on my period for 3 weeks now
04:54 Just look at their eyes to know if they're intoxicated
06:03 When couple worry too much about other couple’s relationship
07:46 Only two couples ended in a marriage
08:58 Izzy and Stacy didn’t make it to the wedding
14:12 Asking for an unconditional love from your partner is delusional
16:05 “Yes, credit score matters, Izzy!”
18:21 Happy ending for Milton and Lydia
22:53 Chris and Johnie didn’t end up together
24:08 Lydia did Aaliyah a favor
26:13 Stacy being a mean girl to Johnie
30:55 No one respects people who bring people down

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Homie Hopper w/ Amanda McCants Oct 12, 2023

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Hey there, Besties! Well, we've got a treat for you today – and it's all about getting real and having a blast. Today, we welcome influencer and YouTuber Amanda McCants for a hilarious chat with Violetta.

So, ever thought about the fakest thing people might have noticed about you? You're not alone! We'll get to hear about Amanda's cameo in a Key Glock music video and that memorable first meeting with Violetta. It's a whirlwind of empowerment and support for rising talents, coupled with some zodiac sign insights and a deep dive into the influencer life. And, oh boy, get ready for the dating adventures, including setting up girls to date the guy she's dating! But there's more – Amanda's Vogue: 73 Questions experience is on the menu, too!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:56 What is the fakest thing about you?
03:34 Part of Key Glock music video
05:43 Violetta and Amanda’s first meeting
06:32 Diagnosed with being in the spectrum
07:46 Being helpful to other rising talents
11:09 Zodiac signs
13:29 How did the influencer life started
15:24 Putting your self-worth in someone else
19:46 Supporting for your ex’s new girl
22:54 Setting up girls to date the guy I’m dating
24:09 The Vogue: 73 Questions
31:41 Everyone is depressed
36:15 He gave me STI
41:51 It’s over, I’m done…
43:26 I always know what I want to do
45:43 Imposter syndrome
46:11 What it feels not to have social cues
49:46 Craziest job you had
54:54 Getting a lot of hate
58:11 Dealing with extreme backlash
01:00:41 The worst more embarrassing day you can laugh about
01:09:20 I like your teeth!

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Benson Knows Best: SENDING MY PARENTS TO ISRAEL Oct 10, 2023

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Hey there, Besties! Ready to catch up on some fun and thoughtful moments from my life? Well, here we go! So, lately, I've been all about embracing spontaneity. I mean, life's too short to not do the occasional crazy thing, right? From wild adventures to trying out new hairstyles, it's been a whirlwind of excitement. But you know what they say, even your hair holds memories. It's like a little time capsule on top of your head!

Now, speaking of memories, I've stumbled upon some pretty awesome quotes lately that got me thinking about life in a whole new way. But it's not all about the philosophical stuff. I also surprised my parents with a fantastic vacation trip, and boy, that was something! On the family front, my dad's the ultimate pessimist while my mom, well, she's the eternal optimist. It's like living in a sitcom sometimes! So, if you're wondering why I'm all about staying open and vulnerable, despite life's ups and downs, stick around. There's a whole lot of candid conversation coming your way.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:42 What is the craziest thing that I've done recently?
06:14 They say your hair keeps memories
07:26 What’s a good quote you recently heard?
10:50 Surprising my parents with a vacation trip
13:32 You create your own reality
17:34 My dad is a pessimist and my mom is an optimist
19:50 Why do you need to be vulnerable and not shut yourself off?

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It’s Okay to be Self-ish w/ Apryl Jones Oct 05, 2023

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Hey, Besties! It's a brand-new day and a fresh episode. Today, we've got a special treat for you as Violetta spills the beans on how she met the fabulous Apryl Jones, and let's just say, it's a story for the ages. But, it's not all fun and games – we're diving deep into the world of self-work and therapy. Ever wondered how to spot someone who's been on a journey of self-discovery? Violetta's got the inside scoop, and it's more insightful than you might think.

But wait, there's more! We're exploring the intricate realms of love – from redefining it to dealing with it as parents and beyond. We've got all the wisdom you need on co-parenting, dating again, and even dating in the public eye (oh, the drama!). Plus, you won't want to miss the best and worst love advice and the ultimate secret to attracting better things into your life. So cozy up and let's get deep and real with Violetta and Apryl!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
03:04 How Violetta met Apryl
05:12 You can tell when someone is going to therapy
06:46 What’s your definition of love?
08:50 How do you deal with your kids?
13:56 Forgiving your parents for not knowing any better
17:40 Not looking at anyone different
18:49 Reflect on your life, sit with yourself, and not play the victim
22:01 Have you ever done shadow work?
23:19 When you don’t love yourself enough
25:26 Always open to learning
28:31 Having children is much bigger than us
33:18 You have to be real and honest with yourself
35:56 How do you successfully co-parent?
38:35 How do you start dating again?
41:50 It started with an Instagram DM
45:58 Best and worst advice about love
48:25 Conscious dating when you have kids
51:55 Is it difficult to date in the public eye?
55:02 Privacy is still important because we’re all human
57:27 Do you forgive someone for yourself?
01:02:45 Learn how to see yourself first
01:07:48 How do you become more kind to yourself?
01:09:43 Choose to be a better human to attract better things in life
01:12:57 Three Questions with Apryl Jones

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Love Is Blind S5 - GASLIGHTER UCHE Oct 03, 2023

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Hey there, Besties! Get ready to dive into another jam-packed review of Love Is Blind S5, Episode 5, 6, and 7. We're not just spilling the tea today; we're pouring a whole kettle of it!

Violetta talks briefly about last weeks' Thursday episode, 4 Steps to Love Yourself where she shares steps to help you embrace and adore the amazing person you are, because who doesn't need a little extra self-love in their life, right?

Love Is Blind fans, Violetta's got the latest scoop on who's walking down the aisle – and trust us, there are some surprises. Plus, we're dissecting the awkwardness between Taylor and JP and taking a closer look at relationships on the show. Is Lydia onto something, or is Uche playing with fire? And hold onto your Instagram accounts because we're talking about following (or maybe not following) random girls. Are your social media habits revealing more than you think? Tune in for laughter, revelations, and some good old-fashioned reality TV chatter.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:50 Four steps to love yourself
03:27 Love Is Blind S - who’s getting married?
05:29 Why are Taylor and JP so awkward?
12:16 When reality sets in for Izzy and Stacy
17:05 Lydia and Milton’s relationship seems very surface level
18:49 Is Uche gaslighting Aaliyah?
24:25 Maybe Lydia knew that Uche will be in S5
31:42 You’ll know a partner’s bad for you when…
34:41 Still following random girls on IG

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CHOOSE YOURSELF Sep 28, 2023

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Alright, gather 'round, folks! We are ending September with this, "Choose to love yourself every single day." Yep, that's right, loving yourself should be as normal as your morning coffee.

Today, Violetta will share the four steps to amp up that self-love game. There are four steps you need in your life: setting up boundaries, becoming self-aware, getting to know yourself more, and changing your perspective. You've always got a choice. So, whether you're on a self-discovery journey or just need a little nudge to love yourself more, this episode is like a warm hug from your podcast pal, guiding you toward a brighter, self-love-filled future.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:21 Choose to love yourself every single day
06:05 Step #1: Start setting boundaries for yourself
10:21 Step #2: Be more self aware and know when to walk away
18:34 Step #3: Know who you are and be at peace with yourself
26:55 Step #4: Change your perspective, you always have a choice to have a better life

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Love Is Blind S5 - WTF LYDIA Sep 26, 2023

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Hey there, Besties! Today, we are going to talk about the hype around Love Is Blind Season 5. It’s very unhinged so prepare yourself because we have a lot of catching up to do.

Violetta shares her insights on the Season 5's casts and how they come off after binge-watching the episodes. From the insecurities of Jared, who's projecting his size anxieties, to Chris, the golden retriever of the group who oddly sees himself as a playboy, it's a rollercoaster ride of personalities and self-perception.

Amidst it all, Lydia's unnervingly straight-faced comfort moment and her declaration that, "You are so much like me," add a sprinkle of intrigue to this entertaining exploration of youthful relationships. Buckle up for a podcast that's as quirky as it is relatable, as we navigate the fascinating world of 20-something love, one eccentric character at a time.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:07 How are these people in their 20s?
02:19 Jared - projecting his insecurities about his size
04:14 Chris - gives off golden retriever vibes but he thinks people he’s a playboy
06:11 Johnie - she feels she needs to chase people for love
11:58 JP and Taylor - the love of your life say, “I used to care about looks, but not anymore.”
13:38 Lydia is a walking red flag
18:43 Uche’s biggest deal breaker is dishonesty
19:47 Aaliyah lacks self awareness to take accountability for her cheating
22:45 Did Uche want Aaliyah to feel bad so he could drop the ball about Lydia?
23:54 When Lydia comforted Aaliyah with a straight face
26:14 Lydia: “You are so much like me.”

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I’m a Tough B*tch w/ Katie Maloney Sep 21, 2023

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Hey there, Besties! We've got some intriguing insights as we welcome today's guest, Katie Maloney. Katie is an American television personality and actress who gained fame for her appearances on the reality TV show Vanderpump Rules. Throughout her time on Vanderpump Rules, Katie's personal life, including her relationships and friendships, has been a central focus of the show.

Now, let's get real. Violetta sits down with Katie as she opens up about her past, navigating a high-profile divorce, and finding self-love in the process. From the lessons she learned from reality TV to the heartaches and healing that come with breakups, she's dishing out the good stuff. And, of course, the big question: Can you really stay friends with an ex? You don't want to miss this one!

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