Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

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Benson Knows Best: MEN DON’T MARRY Jun 06, 2023

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Welcome, Besties! June is Hookup month so we’re going to be talking a lot about relationships, relationship advice, and so much more!

Today, Violetta is back with another episode of Benson Knows Best where she will answer some of your questions. First, she will talk about some of the personal questions she received over DM, and then she’s going to discuss why men come back after breakup, why they end up marrying someone else, and why some of the people that we meet are just lessons we need to learn along the way. They were never meant to stay.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:47 Reasons why I’m feeling happy today
04:57 Today, I’m going on a date…
09:57 What is your strange habit?
13:28 What skill are you terrible at?
15:35 What is the best advice you recently received?
17:02 What’s a great book you’re currently reading?
18:03 What’s on your mind currently?
23:12 The reason why they come back after leaving you
24:59 Sometimes, they’re just a lesson
25:57 Men marry when they are ready
27:30 Speak about your issues, don’t hold it in

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Energy Vampires w/ Daniela Melchior Jun 01, 2023

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Why is it crucial to invest time and effort in individuals who recognize your true worth? The answer lies in the profound impact that such people can have on your personal growth and development. When you surround yourself with those who appreciate and understand your value, their presence serves as a catalyst for your own self-belief and confidence.

Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Portuguese actress and Suicide Squad star Daniela Melchior. The duo talks about the time when Daniela had to pretend to be Violetta’s ex-boyfriend begging for her attention, why it’s best to move on from someone who can’t appreciate you, and how real energy exchange is.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:15 Get to know Daniela Melchior
04:14 She pretended to be my ex-boyfriend
11:54 Every person you meet is an experience
14:54 People who let you down don’t deserve your time
16:20 Energy exchange is real
23:05 That one narcissistic friend
26:25 Why do we neglect our boundaries?
31:24 We’re both people pleasers

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Confession Corner - I LIKE MY COUSIN May 30, 2023

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Welcome, Besties! We are back for another confession corner episode. And for the final episode of the mental health month, we will listen to another batch of reddit stories.

Today, Violetta sits down to listen to and share a piece of her mind on some stories which includes a father who’s feeling resentful towards his children after divorce, a woman in her prime striking a deal with his boyfriend after she found out he cheated, and this girl who’s madly attracted to her already married cousin. There’s more to these stories so stick around!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
02:37 Halloween is my ‘it’ holiday
04:30 Story #1: I started to resent my children
10:19 Story #2: I developed a massive crush on my cousin
13:49 Story #3: Is she breaking up with me?
21:00 Story #4: My cheating ex
25:52 Story #5: Making money off of your cheating boyfie

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5 Mind Games Narcissists Play - The Psychology of a Narcissist May 25, 2023

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Welcome to our closing episode for the mental health month! We are often drawn to narcissists due to a combination of complex psychological factors. Their charismatic charm, confidence, and seemingly larger-than-life presence can initially captivate us. Unfortunately, this attraction often leads to a painful cycle of manipulation, emotional abuse, and neglect, as narcissists prioritize their own needs above all else.

Today, Violetta starts the episode by defining what is a narcissist and the characteristics to look out for. She proceeds with enumerating the different mind games narcissistic people often do to trick us into believing they genuinely care and other character traits to help us spot if we are dealing with one. And finally, she ends it with the most common reasons why many find narcissistic people attractive.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:13 Let's talk about the narcissist in your life
05:53 Five mind games narcissists play
17:46 A story about a narcissist
21:12 Other things to look out for
24:28 Reasons why you keep attracting narcissistic people

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Benson Knows Best: GET UR POWER BACK May 23, 2023

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Welcome to another Benson Knows Best! Dealing with a painful breakup can be an arduous and emotionally challenging experience. To navigate this difficult time, it is crucial to prioritize self-care and emotional healing.

Today, Violetta is back and this time she’s going to talk about how to deal with a guy who used to make you smile but is now losing interest in you. She will also share a story from a caller who is grieving a massive breakup and what you can do to heal from the heartbreak and get your power back.

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:05 Update on the guys I kissed during the Kentucky Derby
03:33 How to respond to a guy who’s losing interest?
08:35 Men from my past have been showing up
12:05 Story #1: Grieving a full on breakup
18:46 Tips on how to heal from a breakup
20:36 Story #2: He was obsessed with me one day, he pulled away the next day
24:28 Change your perspective when talking about yourself

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Our Pain is Our Purpose w/ Mari Llewellyn May 18, 2023

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TW: Self harm

Why is self-love crucial for a fulfilling life? One answer lies in the transformative power of healthy living. Embracing self-love means nourishing our bodies, minds, and souls with the care they deserve. When we prioritize our well-being, engaging in regular exercise, consuming nutritious foods, and practicing mindfulness, we cultivate a profound connection with ourselves.

Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Pursuit of Wellness host and Bloom Nutrition founder Mari Llewellyn. Mari’s journey to self betterment started when she finally decided to heal her body and mind through consuming a healthy diet and the continuous pursuit of wellness. She also shares her episodes of self harm, dealing with shame, and why showing up for yourself is the best form of self love.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:28 Leading an unhealthy life during college
05:56 Self harm
09:43 Creating a life full of positivity
11:40 Triggers and self harm episodes
13:25 Self value
14:54 Dealing with shame
18:20 Advice for your younger self
20:33 Living a mediocre life
27:49 Shedding weight and getting fit
29:49 Showing up for yourself
31:08 PCOS
36:38 Hormonal healing
39:43 Founding Bloom
42:58 Just keep trying

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Confession Corner - KENTUCKY DERBY May 16, 2023

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Welcome back, Besties! Today, Violetta is back with another Confession Corner episode. But this time, she will be sharing her experience when she attended the Kentucky Derby 2023. From her flight, hotel accommodation, and getting some Influencer VIP experience to making out with two guys and not ending up having s*x with both of them because this girl decided to become a celibate. There’s more to this trip than just watching the race so tune in to find out more!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
03:11 How did I get into the Kentucky Derby?
10:48 I missed my ghost hunt trip
15:24 Day1 of the derby
21:18 Gala night
26:32 Hot and heavy make out
30:02 He made it a point to be around me the whole time
38:11 I went to the Jack Harlow party
39:19 The sexual attraction was intense
41:43 My flight back home got delayed
48:09 One thing I did not enjoy in the event

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Change UR Perspective: GHOSTED May 11, 2023

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Welcome back!! This is part 2 of the Change Your Perspective week, where we talk about changing your perspective as part of mental health month! This past Tuesday, we discussed how we can view 'situationships' differently. SO TODAY, we will be discussing GHOSTING.

Today, Violetta gives us a different perspective on the question commonly asked, “WHY DID HE GHOST ME?” Aside from breaking down the reasons why ghosting happens in a lot of relationships, Violetta also shares tips to turn the tables around and make him chase after you, instead of you chasing after him.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:16 Why did he ghost me?
03:54 There’s a few reason why someone ghosts you
06:42 People take a gamble when they leave you
10:03 Make up possible scenarios in your head
14:48 Three simple ways to get over a heartache
20:22 It’s not actually about the person who left
22:31 Listen to that music that hits different

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Change Your Perspective: SITUATIONSHIPS May 09, 2023

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Welcome to a brand new Benson Knows Best episode!! This week is all about changing your perspective as part of the second week of mental health month! We're starting the week with discussing situationships and ending the week with ghosting.

Today, Violetta talks about letting go and saying goodbye to the person you think was for you but was never the right person for you to love. We will hear the story of a 2-year relationship and how the woman struggled to let go of a man who loved himself more than her. Listen in to find out the truth about painful goodbyes and why doing it now is better than later.

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00:00 Intro
02:27 I was seeing a man for 2 years but he never committed
11:58 My mom got cheated by her first husband
15:08 Why doesn’t he want me?
17:46 Goodbyes can feel less painful when…

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How To Master Your Emotions w/ Jay Shetty May 04, 2023

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We often project our limits onto other people because it can be difficult to recognize and confront our own limitations. By projecting our limitations onto others, we may feel a temporary sense of relief or justification for our own shortcomings. However, this type of behavior can be harmful both to ourselves and those around us, as it can limit our personal growth and prevent us from seeing the full potential in others.

Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes the one and only Jay Shetty. Jay Shetty is a New York Times best-selling author, podcaster, former monk, and motivational speaker. He spent several years as a monk in India, where he learned about mindfulness, meditation, and spirituality. Jay's work focuses on personal development, mindfulness, and self-improvement. He also hosts a popular podcast called "On Purpose with Jay Shetty," where he interviews various guests on topics related to personal growth and spirituality.

Together with Jay, Violetta opens the door to being more in-tune with yourself as she and Jay exchange ideas on the limitations we set on ourselves and for others, understanding the different forms of love, why our fears can be defined as unformed boundaries, and how to connect with people with vulnerability and openness.

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