Codependency Alchemy: The Podcast

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When you're stuck looping in the same pattern with your partner Sep 25, 2024

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I’m excited to share a personal story today—one that has layers beyond what it seems. You’re definitely going to want to grab a drink, get comfortable, and enjoy. We're talking about boundaries, cookies, and the uncomfy parts of learning our own dysfunction through our relationship dynamics.

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As a Codependency Alchemy member, you have access to a library of resources aimed at helping you bring deeper awareness to the root of your codependency tendencies. Members looking to get the most out of their membership and wanting to start making profound shifts in their life can access masterclasses, meetups, private podcast episodes, and guided meditations.

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What if I pass my codependency to my children? Sep 18, 2024

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This week I get to sit down with a member from our Codependency Alchemy membership, Nicole, who is exploring the challenges of parenting while navigating her own inner healing journey. In this session I guide Nicole through shadow work and an inner child healing, validate her unmet needs, and help release the burdens of feeling "broken" and "not good enough."

This conversation offers a roadmap for intergenerational healing and the courage to show up authentically, even in the midst of our own imperfections.

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When your partner is depressed Sep 11, 2024

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In this episode, I take you back to 2018, when my relationship was taken over by darkness. My partner Justin was battling depression, and I was trapped in a cycle of trying to "fix" him, making his pain and discomfort my responsibility. It led us to a breaking point, where we both felt unseen and alone.

Download my free Shadow Work and Inner Child Guide to get a printable worksheet that you can use again and again!

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Monthly Masterclass | September 5th | 10am (PDT) | Click here to RSVP on Zoom 💻

Monthly Meetup | September 12th | 10am (PDT) | Click here to RSVP on Zoom 💻

AMA Chat | September 19th | 10am-12pm (PDT) | Click here to RSVP for Chat 📱

Shadow Work Sunday | Every Sunday | Thread on Substack🧵

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When you have anxiety and fear over making "the wrong decision" Sep 04, 2024

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On today's episode, I sit down with KaRonna, a working mom struggling with something I think many of us can relate to— the inability to prioritize herself and her own needs amidst the demands of career, parenthood, and life in general, fearing she'll make the wrong decision.

Download my free Shadow Work and Inner Child Guide to get a printable worksheet that you can use again and again!

Upcoming Events for Codependency Alchemy👉🏾GET 10% OFF ON MEMBERSHIP

Monthly Masterclass | September 5th | 10am (PDT) | Click here to RSVP on Zoom 💻

Monthly Meetup | September 12th | 10am (PDT) | Click here to RSVP on Zoom 💻

AMA Chat | September 19th | 10am-12pm (PDT) | Click here to RSVP for Chat 📱

Shadow Work Sunday | Every Sunday | Thread on Substack🧵

Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!

This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

My recent depressive episode Aug 28, 2024

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In this raw and vulnerable episode (my first time actually crying on the podcast), I open up about my recent experience with depression and feeling discomfort with slowness and spaciousness in my life, which was triggering fears around losing my sense of purpose and self-worth if I'm "not doing anything.”

Download my free Shadow Work and Inner Child Guide to get a printable worksheet that you can use again and again!

Upcoming Events for Codependency Alchemy👉🏾GET 10% OFF ON MEMBERSHIP

Monthly Masterclass | September 5th | 10am (PDT) | Click here to RSVP on Zoom 💻

Monthly Meetup | September 12th | 10am (PDT) | Click here to RSVP on Zoom 💻

AMA Chat | September 19th | 10am-12pm (PDT) | Click here to RSVP for Chat 📱

Shadow Work Sunday | Every Sunday | Thread on Substack🧵

Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!

This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

How can I determine whether my boundary is healthy or based on trauma? Aug 21, 2024

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In this 1:1 session I sit with a member from our Codependency Alchemy membership. Lena was struggling with codependency, insecurity, and fears around her partner leaving her or cheating which was triggering past traumas. Her goals were to build self-acceptance, heal from past hurts, and develop the ability to set compassionate boundaries in her relationship.

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Identifying codependency (PART TWO) Aug 14, 2024

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Here’s the thing that we need to really start understanding: we have spent countless days, months, and years over-identifying and picking apart our mind’s stories, beliefs, and thoughts. In doing so, we have completely neglected our bodies stories which hold the keys to our deepest forms of healing and transformation.

In today’s episode I guide the women on the call through a somatic practice where you will take away information and an experience that will illuminate how your body is physically responding to certain patterns and tendencies.

With this wisdom and practice you can begin to access the precise actions needed for you to clear what is blocking you from living your most fulfilling and authentic life.

Need help or support in doing the shadow work and inner child healing? Join us in our Monthly Masterclasses, Meetups, and AMA Chats in the Codependency Alchemy Membership!

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Identifying codependency (PART ONE) Aug 07, 2024

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I recently did a free 3-day immersion where I walked those who signed up through a masterclass on Identifying Codependency, using shadow work and a somatic practice to explore in community.

The next two episodes are from this masterclass, and I hope you enjoy the conversations we had as much as I did!

What we cover in today’s episode:

* What is the mother wound?

* What is codependency?

* Reflection on close relationships to see where codependency shows up in your life

* How to do shadow work for codependency patterns and why this is so important for deep healing

Receiving support and perspectives from others can really deepen our healing process. I encourage you to share your experiences and insights in the comments or our Codependency Alchemy chat. This helps build connection and encourages us as we navigate these parts of us.

Please don’t hesitate to reach out to me or our community if you need guidance or accountability in implementing the inner child healing practices. You can join the Codependency Alchemy Membership by upgrading your subscription for $9/month and get ongoing support, resources, and community with like-minded souls healing codependency.

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When we self-sabotage and have fear around our partner finding someone better Jul 31, 2024

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In today’s episode Crystal asks for support on what to do when conflict comes up in her relationships, how self-sabotage has started to show up, and fears around her partner leaving and finding someone better.

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How to build a healthy relationship with food (and yourself) when healing codependency Jul 24, 2024

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This week I share about my journey navigating food and meals in our home when we have different health/eating goals. Learn how to establish autonomy over food choices, practice self-trust, and support your partner's (and your own) individual journey.

Resources:

* Join the Codependency Alchemy Broadcast Channelon Instagram

* Codependency Alchemy: The Membership: $9/month (or $90/year) Subscribe on Substack for shadow work prompts, private podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community.

* The Codependency Quiz: 9 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.

* How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships.

* Get your copy of “Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth” on Amazon & BookBaby Bookstore

Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!

This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe