Codependency Alchemy: The Podcast

Latest Episodes:

Self-Doubt and Fear May 17, 2023

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In this episode of Codependency Alchemy, we delve deep into the intricate relationship between self-doubt and fear, unraveling the hidden layers that often go unnoticed. My hope is that you will leave with newfound clarity and are empowered to take action steps towards transmuting and meeting this part of yourself with compassion and grace.

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Resources:

Codependency Alchemy: The Membership: Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community. Use this link and save on The Membership!
The Codependency Assessment: 10 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.
How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships. (USE PROMO CODE "PODCAST" TO GET 50% OFF)
Get your copy of “Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth” on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, & BookBaby Bookstore

Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!

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This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

Overcoming Relationship Anxiety and Self-Sabotage May 03, 2023

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In this episode, we explore the topic of relationship anxiety and self-sabotage and how it can impact our ability to step fully into a healthy relationship. This episode will guide you through an inner child and shadow work practice to help you identify the root of your relationship anxiety and self-sabotaging behavior.

🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that other people can receive support and find the podcast!
Resources:

Codependency Alchemy: The Membership: Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community. Use this link and save on The Membership!
The Codependency Assessment: 10 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.
How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships. (USE PROMO CODE "PODCAST" TO GET 50% OFF)
Get your copy of “Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth” on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, & BookBaby Bookstore

Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!

Support the show
This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

Managing Codependency: A Personal Journey of Recognizing, Pausing, and Repairing May 03, 2023

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In this episode, I share my personal experiences with codependency and how it has manifested in seeking validation outside of myself and falling into the trap of fixing and saviorism with a family member. Join me as I discuss the power of self-awareness, personal responsibility, and the journey towards healing codependency.

🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that other people can receive support and find the podcast!
Resources:

Codependency Alchemy: The Membership: Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community. Use this link and save on The Membership!
The Codependency Assessment: 10 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.
How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships. (USE PROMO CODE "PODCAST" TO GET 50% OFF)
Get your copy of “Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth” on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, & BookBaby Bookstore

Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!

Support the show
This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

Q&A: Navigating Over-Giving, Boundaries, and Resentment in Relationships Apr 19, 2023

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In this episode, we explore the challenges of asserting boundaries in relationships. Whether you're struggling with over-giving in your romantic relationship or feeling drained by always saying yes to friends and family, this episode will provide valuable insights and practical strategies for setting healthy boundaries and creating fulfilling relationships.

🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that other people can receive support and find the podcast!
Resources:

Codependency Alchemy: The Membership: Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community. Use this link and save on The Membership!
The Codependency Assessment: 10 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.
How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships. (USE PROMO CODE "PODCAST" TO GET 50% OFF)
Get your copy of “Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth” on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, & BookBaby Bookstore

Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!

Support the show
This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

Is it Chemistry or a Trauma Bond? Understanding the Difference Apr 19, 2023

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Have you ever felt an intense spark or love at first sight, only to realize later that it was a toxic and emotionally abusive relationship? In this episode, we explore the difference between chemistry and trauma bonding, and how to identify if you are in a healthy, loving relationship.

🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that other people can receive support and find the podcast!
Resources:

Codependency Alchemy: The Membership: Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community. Use this link and save on The Membership!
The Codependency Assessment: 10 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.
How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships. (USE PROMO CODE "PODCAST" TO GET 50% OFF)
Get your copy of “Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth” on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, & BookBaby Bookstore

Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!

Support the show
This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

Q&A: Navigating Ghosting and Anxious Attachment in Relationships Apr 05, 2023

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In this episode, we dive into the challenges of dealing with ghosting and anxious attachment in relationships. In this Q&A episode I take a question from a listener about her experience of struggling with codependency and anxiety when her partner doesn't respond for days at a time.

🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that other people can receive support and find the podcast!
Resources:

Codependency Alchemy: The Membership: Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community. Use this link and save on The Membership!
The Codependency Assessment: 10 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.
How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships. (USE PROMO CODE "PODCAST" TO GET 50% OFF)
Get your copy of “Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth” on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, & BookBaby Bookstore

Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!

Support the show
This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

Understanding Over-Giving and Self-Sacrificing in Relationships Apr 05, 2023

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In this episode, we dive deep into the patterns of over-giving and self-sacrifice, and explore the reasons behind why we engage in these behaviors. We discuss the transactional agenda behind over-giving and self-sacrifice, and the consequences of these patterns, including feelings of resentment, burnout, and being unappreciated.

🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that other people can receive support and find the podcast!
Resources:

Codependency Alchemy: The Membership: Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community. Use this link and save on The Membership!
The Codependency Assessment: 10 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.
How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships. (USE PROMO CODE "PODCAST" TO GET 50% OFF)
Get your copy of “Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth” on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, & BookBaby Bookstore

Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!

Support the show
This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

Identify, Track, and Shift Codependency Apr 05, 2023

Show notes

In this episode, we delve into the topic of codependency and explore how it can impact our lives and relationships. We discuss how codependency can manifest as a lack of personal responsibility for ourselves and how we place our worth and good feelings about ourselves on something outside of us.
🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that other people can receive support and find the podcast!
Resources:

Codependency Alchemy: The Membership: Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community. Use this link and save on The Membership!
The Codependency Assessment: 10 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.
How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships. (USE PROMO CODE "PODCAST" TO GET 50% OFF)
Get your copy of “Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth” on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, & BookBaby Bookstore

Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube!

Support the show
This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

Welcome to Codependency Alchemy: The Podcast Apr 05, 2023

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Alyssa Zander here, your favorite codependency and relationship coach!
I am so excited to embark on this podcast journey where I will continue to share my personal stories and expertise on how to heal from codependency and navigate relationships in a healthy way. After experiencing trauma and struggling with core wounds of abandonment, rejection, and betrayal, I began to explore the parts of myself that feared these things and realized that as an adult, I was playing them out in my life and relationships. Through tending to these parts of myself, I was able to begin my healing journey around codependency and begin to live a more fulfilling life.
In this podcast, I will share my journey, tools, and ways to navigate the ebbs and flows of life and relationships in a loving and compassionate way. Join me in healing the mother wound, cultivating a space for women to be seen and heard, and moving from resentment, martyrdom, and people-pleasing to becoming strong and confident women who ask for what they need while holding the frequency of love and compassion.
Tune in to learn how to transform your life through healing the mother wound and navigating codependency.
JOIN THE CODEPENDENCY ALCHEMY MEMBERSHIP
The Codependency Alchemy Podcast is dedicated to exploring various aspects of codependency, personal growth, and transformation and the episodes are inspired by the Codependency Alchemy Membership. By becoming a member of our Codependency Alchemy community, you'll gain access to an exclusive space where you can connect with a collective of women who are on a similar path of self-discovery and transformation. In this supportive and nurturing environment, you'll find the guidance, understanding, and encouragement you need to navigate the intricacies of healing codependency patterns.
🙏🏾 If the podcast is supporting you on your journey, please share and leave a rating or review so that other people can receive support and find the podcast!
Resources:

Codependency Alchemy: The Membership: Subscribe on Substack for weekly shadow work prompts, exclusive podcast episodes, and access to monthly masterclasses and group coaching calls. Take the next step in your healing journey and join a supportive community. Use this link and save on The Membership!
The Codependency Assessment: 10 questions to help you see where codependency is influencing your life and relationships.
How to Heal Codependency in Your Relationships: A 5-week self-paced course that guides you through the tools & practices I use to get clients from resentful to reciprocal relationships. (USE PROMO CODE "PODCAST" TO GET 50% OFF)
Get your copy of “Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth” on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, & BookBaby Bookstore

Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on

Support the show
This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe