Stay ConnectedZak Rosen, Elizabeth Newcamp, and Lucy Lopez share triumphs and fails and offer advice on parenting kids from toddler to teens.
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On this week’s episode: Our favorite Plus segments of 2021. We revisit one of the funniest—yet most horrifying—bathroom discoveries. We uncover the soundtracks to our parenting and brainstorm the School House Rock songs we need right now. We also gripe about Yes Day and hide from our kids.
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On this week’s episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah, and Zak advise a mom who is feeling hurt that her mother-in-law has swooped in and taken over traditional “mom moments” behind her back. Is there a way to politely tell her that she needs to stay in her own lane? Then the hosts share the most useful piece of advice they received this year. In Slate Plus, they play a round of holiday hot takes which includes the classic conundrum: should you just tell your kids Santa’s a myth?
Recommendations:
Naima recommends Roc, which you can watch on Pluto.
Henry recommends Nocs Provisions Zoom Tube.
Oliver recommends the app hoopla.
Teddy recommends Story Time Chess.
Noa recommends peeling grapes to make them juicer.
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On this week’s episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah, and Zak help a parent who feels conflicted about traveling to see family during the holidays. They love their relatives and rarely see them, but they are exhausted and not so excited to make the trek this year. Should they still go? Then, a listener’s toddler is afraid of everything. How can they validate their child’s experience while helping them navigate a sometimes scary world?
On Slate Plus, the hosts talk about Zak’s quarantine ennui. He’s been marooned at home for days and days. Will this pandemic ever end? Commiseration ensues.
Recommendations:
Zak recommends playing catch with balloons (rather than heavier balls) with your littles
Jamilah recommends buying a synthetic Christmas tree
Elizabeth recommends Tiny Schoolhouse Calendars
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On this week’s episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah, and Zak help a parent who has been monitoring their teenage daughter’s text messages. Have they crossed a line, or are they doing their due diligence to ensure their child is safe? Then they answer a question from a parent whose 2 year-old daughter wants her ears pierced. How early is too early, and who should be making this kind of decision?
On Slate Plus, the hosts talk about how one Black mother’s video about her night doula went viral, sparking a debate about privilege, luxury, and the expectation that mothers, particularly Black mothers, must be suffering to succeed at motherhood.
Recommendations:
Zak recommends calling your kids' creative hobbies an art practice.
Jamilah recommends Passing on Netflix
Elizabeth recommends the book Letters From Father Christmas
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Podcast produced by Zak Rosen.
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On this week’s episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah, and Zak help a parent who is sick of their generous neighbors constantly sending over hand-me-down toys. The letter writer is already running out of space in their house. Is it OK to simply refuse? Can they donate the toys? Would tossing the toys crush the neighbors’ generous spirit? Then they answer a question from a dad whose daughter needs surgery. How can he explain the procedure without frightening her?
On Slate Plus, the hosts talk about how this time of year forces families to really figure out how they’re celebrating the holidays and, in turn, how religion operates within their family. Slate Plus members get a bonus segment on MADAF each week, and no ads. Sign up now at slate.com/momanddadplus to listen and support our work.
Recommendations:
Zak recommends @MenWithThePot on Instagram
Jamilah recommends Love Life on HBO
Elizabeth recommends a printable Christmas reading calendar.
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On this week’s episode: Zak, Jamilah, and Amber Smith advise a listener who wants to provide their preschooler with a less whitewashed history of Thanksgiving. They have some helpful tips for explaining the real thanksgiving in a more realistic, age-appropriate manner. Zak then sits down with Jenny Rosenstrach, bestselling author and creator of Dinner: A Love Story, to strategize how to include your child in holiday cooking and avoid Empty Celebration Syndrome. If you want to hear more of Zak’s conversation with Jenny, check out The Best Advice Show. On Slate Plus, Zak, Jamilah, and Amber recount some Turkey nightmares and share their attempts at tricky new dishes.
Recommendations:
Jamilah recommends taking time to pause and play with your child this holiday season.
Amber recommends baby sock-shoes, Grookz.
Zak recommends bringing your child to the bookstore and supporting your local book sellers.
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Podcast produced by Kevin Bendis and Rosemary Belson.
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On this week’s episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah, and Zak help a parent who is in over her head when it comes to bath time. Her little one used to love taking baths but has since changed her mind. Now bath time is a nightmare for both of them. Then they’re joined by Dr. Syra Madad, an infectious disease epidemiologist with New York City Health + Hospitals and Harvard’s Belfer Center for Science and International Affairs. She shares how parents can keep their family, especially kids who are still too young to be vaccinated, safe during the holiday season. On Slate Plus, the hosts talk about how they’re approaching the holidays this year.
Recommendations:
Jamilah recommends Root Magic by Eden Royce.
Zak recommends unsubscribing to EVERYTHING!
Elizabeth recommends the Back to the Roots Organic Mushroom Grow Kit.
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On this week’s episode: Zak, Elizabeth, and Greg Lavallee advise a listener whose rambunctious little one is on his third visit to the emergency room. How can our listener teach him that he can get hurt if he keeps up with the daredevil antics? They also debate how to talk to kids about screen time and how to set up healthy boundaries with devices. On Slate Plus, they lament the impending winter clothes chaos.
Recommendations:
Greg recommends asking your cool adult friends to give your kids compliments.
Elizabeth recommends Aaron Slater, Illustrator by Andrea Beaty.
Zak recommends taking yourself to the movies. The new Wes Anderson film, The French Dispatch, is a great pick-me-up.
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On this week’s episode: Jamilah, Elizabeth, and Zak help a listener whose kid just will not get out the door in the mornings. Next, they dive into a debate about the purpose of homework and who gets to decide how much homework a child is required to do. On Slate Plus, they discuss an interesting package from Romper called Parenting at the End Of the World.
Recommendations:
Elizabeth recommends the card game Boom Goes the Dynamite.
Zak recommends the musician Caspar Babypants.
Jamilah recommends the show Wu-Tang: An American Saga.
Additional reading:
The History Of Homework: Why Was It Invented and Who Was Behind It?
Never Mind the Students; Homework Divides Parents
Ask a Teacher: Slacker or Genius?
Ask a Teacher: Homework: Who Needs It?
Ask a Teacher: Homework Is a Constant Battle in Our House
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On this week’s episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah, and Zak debate if a distracted toddler deserves to be pulled out of their gymnastics class. Next, they advise a mother who is nervous about a long flight with her toddler. From getting a toddler to wear a mask to entertaining snacks, the hosts have tips for all aspects of the flight. We’re playing a round of hot takes in Slate Plus. So stick around for some spicy parenting opinions.
Recommendations:
Jamilah recommends Popeyes’ hottie sauce collab with Megan Thee Stallion.
Zak recommends making or buying a fire pit to polong the outdoor season.
Elizabeth recommends the DragonBox Elements: Geometry App
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