Stay ConnectedZak Rosen, Elizabeth Newcamp, and Lucy Lopez share triumphs and fails and offer advice on parenting kids from toddler to teens.
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On this week’s episode: It’s Dan’s last show before book leave! Jamilah, Elizabeth, and Dan discuss their triumphs and fails for the week. Then they answer a question from a listener who is wondering how she should help her son navigate a friendship that’s not so friendly. Later, they have some advice for a mother who would like to avoid talking about her daughter right in front of her, but that’s hard to do when you’re a single parent.
In Slate Plus: Summer jobs, entrepreneurial kids, and Dan’s crushing camp counselor file secrets are revealed!
Recommendations:
Jamilah recommends the graphic novel Twins by Varian Johnson & Shannon Wright.
Elizabeth recommends you pack your kids lunches using the PackIt Freezable Classic Lunchbox, the Yumbox and Bee's Wrap!
Dan recommends watching Netflix’s teen show Never Have I Ever with your older kids.
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Podcast produced by Morgan Flannery.
Hosts
Elizabeth Newcamp is a co-host of Mom and Dad Are Fighting. She's a traveling mother of three boys who chronicles her misadventures at Dutch, Dutch, Goose.
Jamilah Lemieux is a writer, cultural critic, and communications strategist based in Brooklyn, New York.
Dan Kois is an editor and writer at Slate. He’s the author of How to Be a Family and the co-author of The World Only Spins Forward.
Social
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On this week’s episode: Jamilah, Elizabeth, and guest host Courtney Martin discuss triumphs and fails, co-housing and Courtney’s new book, Learning in Public: Lessons for a Racially Divided America from My Daughter's School.
Then they answer a question from a listener who is wondering how to help her child adapt to wearing a uniform at school while still encouraging self-expression. Jamilah suggested to mix things up by adding in fun ties, like this one she dressed her daughter in a few years ago.
In Slate Plus: When should we talk to our kids about sex? According to researchers, much earlier than you may think!
NY Times - Sex Talks Should Start Earlier Than You Think
Recommendations:
Jamilah recommends online vintage shopping. And if you’re worried about sizing, pay attention to the fabric! Stretch is key.
Elizabeth recommends pelvic floor PT to help with pelvic weakness. One resource she mentioned is this instagram page.
Courtney recommends subscribing to the Substack Newsletter by Sarah Wheeler called Momspreading.
You can read Courtney’s piece in The Nation here. Jamilah’s piece in The Nation can be found here.
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Podcast produced by Morgan Flannery.
Hosts
Elizabeth Newcamp is a co-host of Mom and Dad Are Fighting. She's a traveling mother of three boys who chronicles her misadventures at Dutch, Dutch, Goose.
Jamilah Lemieux is a writer, cultural critic, and communications strategist based in Brooklyn, New York.
Courtney Martin is an author and political activist. She’s the author of four books, including Learning in Public and The New Better Off. You can find out more about her at her website: https://www.courtneyemartin.com
Social
@JamilahLemieux on Twitter https://twitter.com/JamilahLemieux
@dutchdutchgoose on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dutchdutchgoose/
@courtwrites on Twitter https://twitter.com/courtwrites
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On this week’s episode: Elizabeth, Dan, and Jamilah discuss how we should be talking to our kids about Simone Biles’ decision to withdraw from the Olympics.
Then, they answer a question from a listener who is wondering how to deal with their bad babysitter. The problem is, the babysitter is grandma.
In Slate Plus: Is it a faux pas to request no gifts at a child’s birthday party? Or is it OK?
Recommendations:
Elizabeth recommends Draw Your World, a sketch book for kids (or adults!) that helps familiarize you with world maps.
Dan recommends the Cat Video Festival, now playing in theaters around the country.
Jamilah recommends quarantine, whether you’re sick or not.
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Podcast produced by Morgan Flannery.
Hosts
Elizabeth Newcamp is a co-host of Mom and Dad Are Fighting. She's a traveling mother of three boys who chronicles her misadventures at Dutch, Dutch, Goose.
Dan Kois is an editor and writer at Slate. He’s the author of How to Be a Family and the co-author of The World Only Spins Forward.
Jamilah Lemieux is a writer, cultural critic, and communications strategist based in Brooklyn, New York.
Social
@JamilahLemieux on Twitter https://twitter.com/JamilahLemieux
@dankois on Twitter https://twitter.com/DanKois
@dutchdutchgoose on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dutchdutchgoose/
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On this week’s episode: Elizabeth and Dan answer a letter from a mother who worries that her 8-year-old daughter may be reading books that aren’t age-appropriate.
Then, they share some tips with a listener who wonders if potty training right before vacation is a good idea.
In Slate Plus: The super-moms set to compete in the Tokyo Olympics.
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Recommendations:
Elizabeth recommends GLOPLAY, a glow-in-the-dark sticker company for your kids, or for you!
Dan recommends reading any book by Patrick deWitt.
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Podcast produced by Morgan Flannery.
Hosts
Elizabeth Newcamp is a co-host of Mom and Dad Are Fighting. She's a traveling mother of three boys who chronicles her misadventures at Dutch, Dutch, Goose.
Dan Kois is an editor and writer at Slate. He’s the author of How to Be a Family and the co-author of The World Only Spins Forward.
Jamilah Lemieux is a writer, cultural critic, and communications strategist based in Brooklyn, New York.
Social
@JamilahLemieux on Twitter https://twitter.com/JamilahLemieux
@dankois on Twitter https://twitter.com/DanKois
@dutchdutchgoose on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dutchdutchgoose/
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On this week’s episode: Jamilah, Elizabeth, and Isaac Butler answer a letter from a concerned mother who worries that she’s not able to fill the void of her step-daughter's biological mother.
Then, they share some advice for a listener whose son is having trouble reacting appropriately to gifts he doesn’t like.
In Slate Plus: 14-year-old Zaila Avant-garde wins the 2021 Scripps National Spelling Bee.
Recommendations:
Elizabeth recommends the Brickit App: an app that helps you find your missing Lego pieces.
Jamilah’s daughter Naima recommends cooking turkey legs for your kids!
Isaac recommends reading A Lie Someone Told You About Yourself, by Peter Ho Davies.
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Podcast produced by Morgan Flannery.
Hosts
Elizabeth Newcamp is a co-host of Mom and Dad Are Fighting. She's a traveling mother of three boys who chronicles her misadventures at Dutch, Dutch, Goose.
Jamilah Lemieux is a writer, cultural critic, and communications strategist based in Brooklyn, New York.
Isaac Butler is a writer, theater director and host of Slate’s podcast Working. He’s the author of The Method and the co-author of The World Only Spins Forward.
Social
@JamilahLemieux on Twitter https://twitter.com/JamilahLemieux
@dutchdutchgoose on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dutchdutchgoose/
@parabasis on Twitter https://twitter.com/IsaacButler
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In a special episode, Dan shares his new episode of Slate's Decoder Ring documentary podcast about his time as a junior book agent working on selling a secretive book proposal called IT, a codename for what would eventually be revealed as the Segway personal scooter. This is the story of the invention and development of a potentially revolutionary device, how Dan may or may not have doomed it, how the hype got out of control, and how that speculation helped birth the modern internet. If you like this episode, go subscribe in the Decoder Ring feed, there's plenty more stories there you'll love.
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On this week’s episode: Dan, Jamilah, and Elizabeth answer a letter from a concerned partner who’s sick of watching a significant other pick fights with their kid — but doesn’t know if or how to step in.
Also, Rachelle Hampton and Madison Malone Kircher join us for a new edition of In Case You Missed It, Mom and Dad. This week they’ll be explaining what the deal is with someone your kids probably know but you might not: YouTube star James Charles, and his return to the platform after sexual misconduct accusations.
In Slate Plus: Brand new dad Aymann Ismail joins us to talk about his great piece on giving his son a Muslim name. Sign up for Slate Plus.
Recommendations:
Elizabeth recommends the Small Animals of North America Coloring Book and The Burgess Animal Book for Children.
Jamilah recommends pole dancing classes.
Dan recommends buying cheap cherries at your local grocery store. They’re on sale right now!
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Podcast produced by Jasmine Ellis.
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Hi Mom and Dad Are Fighting listeners. We recently relaunched The Waves, Slate's podcast about feminism and gender, and this week's episode--a conversation with Atlantic writer Elizabeth Bruenig about her decision to have kids when she was young--seemed like something you might enjoy.
If you enjoy it, please consider subscribing to The Waves in your favorite podcast app.
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On this week’s episode: Elizabeth, Dan, and Jamilah answer a question from a parent who is wondering how to help her 10-year-old who struggled to learn during this last year of school. What can she do to help her daughter catch up this summer?
Then, they advise a hard-working architect who really wants some architect-mom role models to look up to when trying to figure out work-life balance. Stepping in to help is Dr. Barbara Faga, who has blazed her own trail, as a professional, parent and an urban planner.
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Recommendations:
Jamilah recommends Diahann! By Diahann Carroll and Ross Firestone.
Dan recommends the Star Wars: Rise of the Resistance ride at Hollywood Studios in Disney World.
Elizabeth recommends the Barrel of Fun Two Gallon Water Jug from Igloo.
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Podcast produced by Rosemary Belson and Jasmine Ellis.
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On this week’s episode: Jamilah is joined by former Mom and Dad are Fighting co-host, Rebecca Lavoie. They weigh in on whether or not an older stepchild should be forced to babysit their stepsiblings. They also counsel a mom who is concerned about her husband’s theatrical and rather upsetting behavior.
As mentioned in the show, our second question does contain discussion of suicide and suicidal ideation. So if you’d prefer to skip the question, jump ahead 17 minutes.
If you, or anyone you know, are in crisis, you can contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Since we talk about thoughts of suicide, if you, or anyone you know, need help, you can contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
In Slate Plus: The unsurprising sharp decline of new babies being named ‘Karen.’ Slate Plus members get a bonus segment on MADAF each week, and no ads. Sign up now at slate.com/momanddadplus to listen and support our work.
Recommendations:
Rebecca recommends giving and buying Chico’s perfect work pants.
Jamilah counters Rebecca’s pick by recommending Jazzybelle Swim.
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Podcast produced by Rosemary Belson.
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