Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

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Could This Be Right for You? New Help and Hope for Narcissistic Abuse Survivors Dec 09, 2024

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Narcissistic abuse often leaves devastating consequences to the survivor’s confidence and self-esteem.
Today, Kristin Arden, DNP, APRN, PMHNP-BC, Mindbloom’s Clinical Director, and Shari Botwin, LCSW, trauma counselor, join me to discuss the use of ketamine therapy as a new alternate treatment option for trauma survivors.
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Resources

The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support

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Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., an author and educator, helps listeners decode toxic dynamics, recognize manipulation, and rebuild self-trust.

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This podcast/video is for educational purposes only. It does not constitute therapy, counseling, or professional mental health advice, nor does listening create a doctor-patient or therapist-client relationship. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 911 or contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988 (US/Canada).

Brainwashed & Spellbound: How Narcissistic Abuse is Really a Cult of Two Dec 02, 2024

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Have you considered that a narcissistically abusive relationship is actually a cult of two?
Daniella Mestyanek-Young, author of Uncultured and expert in cult dynamics, joins us to discuss the similarities between cult leaders and narcissists.
Be sure to follow Daniella!
TikTok - @knittingcultlady
Website: Uncultureyourself.com
And get a copy of her book, Uncultured: https://amzn.to/3CDhFcY

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Resources

The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support

Follow Kerry!

Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., an author and educator, helps listeners decode toxic dynamics, recognize manipulation, and rebuild self-trust.

As an Amazon affiliate, commission is earned from qualifying purchases.

Being Taken for Granted? How to Protect Your Big-Heartedness from Toxic People's Manipulation Nov 25, 2024

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As a nod to this week’s holidays, let’s revisit three of my favorite episodes that discuss how to handle being too big- or kind-hearted.
We at the Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday!
Links Mentioned:
• Codependent No More by Melody Beattie: Melody Beattie
• Facing Codependency: What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives by Miller, Miller, and McMillan
• Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty by Aziz Gazipura, PsyD
To learn more about the Dark Triad Personality Type, check out, “Could you be at risk? Why you should be afraid of the Dark Triad Personality” - https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/episodes/12978484
To listen to the full episodes featured today:

S2 EP 79: Is Codependency a Bad Word?Audio: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/episodes/12428199
Video: https://youtu.be/aF9cW1b7Dtk
S2 EP 92 Does Everyone Deserve Our Kindness?
Audio: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/episodes/13150918
Video: https://youtu.be/RMVMtCF3N4A
S2 EP 109: Does the Narcissist Always Ruin Your Holiday?
Audio: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/episodes/13922710
Video links: https://youtu.be/RzSxypGEtpI

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Resources

The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support

Follow Kerry!

Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., an author and educator, helps listeners decode toxic dynamics, recognize manipulation, and rebuild self-trust.

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The High Cost of Toxic Relationships on Health, Wealth, and Peace of Mind Nov 18, 2024

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Narcissistic relationships are parasitic in nature. Toxic personalities often drain others of their time, money, attention, and resources.
In this podcast, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the high and sometimes hidden cost of narcissistic relationships.
Reference: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van de Kolk: https://amzn.to/3AtGt6z

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Resources

The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support

Follow Kerry!

Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., an author and educator, helps listeners decode toxic dynamics, recognize manipulation, and rebuild self-trust.

As an Amazon affiliate, commission is earned from qualifying purchases.

Feeling Confused? How Toxic People Keep Us Baffled and Stuck Nov 11, 2024

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Have you noticed that when you’re finally ready to leave, your toxic or narcissistic partner suddenly does something amazing? Do they keep you off balance and confused about the state of the relationship?
In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss how narcissists and other toxic people use emotional manipulation to keep their partners and loved ones psychologically stuck in a bad relationship.

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Resources

The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support

Follow Kerry!

Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., an author and educator, helps listeners decode toxic dynamics, recognize manipulation, and rebuild self-trust.

As an Amazon affiliate, commission is earned from qualifying purchases.

When You Can't Leave or Stay: How to Recognize a Trauma Bond Nov 04, 2024

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There comes a point when you know you need to leave, but you can’t. The connection with your loved one is too powerful.
In this episode, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss the signs and symptoms of a late-stage trauma bond.

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Resources

The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support

Follow Kerry!

Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., an author and educator, helps listeners decode toxic dynamics, recognize manipulation, and rebuild self-trust.

As an Amazon affiliate, commission is earned from qualifying purchases.

When You've Been Driven Mad and Snap: The Power of Reactive Abuse Oct 28, 2024

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Has someone driven you to the breaking point? When you just lose it and snap?
This week, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss the destructive power of reactive abuse. Victims often feel terribly guilty afterward, yet they’ve been deliberately provoked into reacting.

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Resources

The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support

Follow Kerry!

Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., an author and educator, helps listeners decode toxic dynamics, recognize manipulation, and rebuild self-trust.

As an Amazon affiliate, commission is earned from qualifying purchases.

Is it Just the Silent Treatment or Really Rejection? Why Stonewalling is Harmful Oct 21, 2024

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Is it Just the Silent Treatment or Really Rejection? Why Stonewalling is Harmful
Silence occurs for many reasons, but sometimes it’s intentionally used as punishment.
Rossana Faye joins me in this podcast episode to discuss why stonewalling is so painful. Silence can be weaponized to send powerful messages of rage and rejection.

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Resources

The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support

Follow Kerry!

Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., an author and educator, helps listeners decode toxic dynamics, recognize manipulation, and rebuild self-trust.

As an Amazon affiliate, commission is earned from qualifying purchases.

Why is My Partner a Narcissist? Which is it—A Nature or Nurture Problem? Oct 14, 2024

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Are narcissists born or made? And why does this question matter, considering the terrible toll of narcissistic abuse?
This week, psychotherapist Dr. Peter Salerno joins me to discuss the root causes of narcissism along with the common misunderstandings about Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Learn the importance of understanding the underpinning of this character makeup when it comes to healing and recovery.
Follow Dr. Peter Salerno on social media: @drpetersalerno
Learn more about him: https://www.drpetersalerno.com
Check out his new book, The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism: https://www.drpetersalerno.com

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Resources

The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources
First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course
Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support

Follow Kerry!

Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., an author and educator, helps listeners decode toxic dynamics, recognize manipulation, and rebuild self-trust.

As an Amazon affiliate, commission is earned from qualifying purchases.

Does Childhood Abuse Leave a Lasting Legacy in Adult Relationships: An Interview with Nia Renee Oct 07, 2024

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What is the impact of childhood abuse on adult relationships? Can children overcome early trauma?
Nia Renee joins me this week to discuss the lasting legacy of abuse. She describes the impact of chronic gaslighting and neglect on her later relationships. Learn what role resiliency and determination played in helping break the abuse cycle.
To learn more about Nia Renee: https://howtoloveabatteredwoman.com/
Follow her on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok: @howtoloveabatteredwoman
Resources Mentioned: Jennifer Freyd - Blind to Betrayal: https://amzn.to/3NdpR5r
Richard Schwartz - Internal Family Systems Theory: https://amzn.to/3ZJ5RiI

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