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The Mistake We Make when Studying Proverbs 31 Jul 29, 2024

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In this episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, Tatum shares a powerful session on the Proverbs 31 woman, providing insights and revelations that she received while studying this iconic biblical figure. Tatum also introduces the upcoming She Is Uncompromising Mastermind Weekend, designed for women who wear multiple hats and seek total life harmony. The episode focuses on the importance of perspective, strategy, and the role of faith in achieving harmony in our lives.

Key Points:

Introduction:
Tatum discusses her recent study and session on the Proverbs 31 woman.
Announces the She Is Uncompromising Mastermind Weekend in November at Anchored Media Studios, Laurel, Maryland.
The event aims to help women achieve total life harmony, featuring masterminding, praying, worshiping, and workshops led by systems expert Latrice Claiborne.
Prayer and Worship:
Tatum begins with a heartfelt prayer, inviting listeners to align their hearts and minds with God's presence.
Emphasizes repentance and seeking God's guidance in all aspects of life.
Proverbs 31 Woman:
Revelation:
The Proverbs 31 woman is an illustration, not a real person.
Importance of focusing on the fear of the Lord rather than just productivity.
Common Mistake:
Many focus on the tasks and attributes of the Proverbs 31 woman without addressing the underlying spiritual foundation.
The key is reverence for God, not just emulating her actions.
Perspective and Strategy:
Perspective Shift:
Focus on the power source (God) rather than just productivity.
True harmony comes from a relationship with God, not from completing tasks.
Four Ps Strategy for Total Life Harmony:
Posture: Abiding in the Lord through consistent fellowship and dependence on Him.
People: Importance of community, discipleship, and having spiritual support.
Process: Establishing effective systems and processes in both home and business.
Profit: Building businesses that are financially sustainable and provide a return on investment.
Personal Testimony:
Tatum shares her experiences of balancing business, family, and faith.
Highlights the importance of obedience to God’s instructions and how it leads to unexpected blessings and success.
Upcoming Event:
She Is Uncompromising Mastermind Weekend:
Date: November 8-9, 2024
Location: Anchored Media Studios, Laurel, Maryland.
Focus on helping women achieve harmony in their lives through practical strategies and spiritual growth.
Limited seats available; link to learn more: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/pBd5

Scriptures Mentioned:

Proverbs 31
Psalm 127:2 (Message Version)
John 15:4-7
Galatians 5:25

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Business Financial Relief Jul 25, 2024

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In this episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, Tatum continues the Bible on Business series, diving deeper into 2 Kings 4:1-7 to extract practical steps for finding financial relief in business. She emphasizes the importance of seeking wise counsel, recognizing the power of what you already have, reaching out to your community for help, and working in private. Tatum also shares a powerful message from her quiet time with the Lord about logging off and locking in to stay focused on God's instructions.

Key Points:

Message from Quiet Time:
Log Off and Lock In:
The Lord wants us to increase time in prayer, fasting, and the word, while decreasing time on social media and online chatter.
Stay aware of current events but prioritize focusing on God’s guidance and maintaining a posture sensitive to the Holy Spirit.
Practical steps: Disconnect from distractions, focus on praying and fasting, and engage deeply with the word.
Bible on Business Series:
Scripture: 2 Kings 4:1-7 (NIV)
Context: Elisha’s miraculous intervention for a widow in financial distress.
Encouragement: The story shows God’s provision and provides step-by-step instructions for financial relief.
Four Steps for Financial Relief:
Step 1: Seek Wise Counsel
Recap from the last episode on the importance of seeking wise counsel in times of financial distress.
Five characteristics of wise counsel: God-centered, biblically sound, discerning, humble and teachable, experienced and mature.
Step 2: Don’t Underestimate the Power of What You Already Have
Elisha asked the widow what she had in her house, highlighting the importance of recognizing and valuing what we already possess.
Personal testimony of how God multiplied Tatum’s podcast and book into a thriving business.
Challenge: Identify and present to God the small things you might be overlooking.
Step 3: Reach Out to Your Community for Help
Elisha instructed the widow to ask her neighbors for empty jars, emphasizing the power of community support.
Addressing pride and the importance of humility in asking for help.
Encouragement: Recognize the seeds you’ve sown in others and allow them to pour back into you.
Step 4: Work in Private and Let Success Make the Noise
Elisha instructed the widow to shut the door and work in private, focusing on the task without external distractions.
Importance of faith and dependency on God’s instructions.
Emphasis on rejoicing in God’s key performance indicators during the process.

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Qualifying Wise Counsel Jul 14, 2024

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In this episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, Tatum continues the Bible on Business series by exploring 2 Kings 4:1-7, focusing on how to find financial relief in business through biblical principles. Tatum discusses the importance of seeking wise counsel and provides practical steps for applying the lessons from this scripture to achieve financial breakthroughs in business. She also shares an exciting announcement about the upcoming open house for the Purpose to Podcast program.

Key Points:

Bible on Business Series:
Scripture: 2 Kings 4:1-7 (NIV)
Context: Elisha's encounter with a widow in financial distress and the miracle of the multiplying oil.
Four Steps for Financial Relief:
Step 1: Seek Wise Counsel
Importance of seeking wise counsel when in financial strain.
Wise counsel helps navigate the noise and emotional stress of financial difficulties.
Qualifying Wise Counsel:
Five Characteristics of Wise Counsel:

God-Centered: Counsel should be rooted in the fear of the Lord and love for God and others.
Biblically Sound: Counsel must align with scripture and be contextually accurate.
Discerning: Counsel should take into account the full picture and provide holistic guidance.
Humble and Teachable: Counselors should exhibit humility and a willingness to learn.
Experience and Maturity: Counsel should come from those with relevant experience and spiritual maturity.

Biblical Examples of Wise Counsel:
Moses and Jethro: (Exodus 18:13-24)
Rehoboam's Advisors: (1 Kings 12:6-15) - Example of what not to do.
Paul and Timothy: (2 Timothy 1:6-7) - Emphasizes the mentor-mentee relationship.
Practical Application:
Encourage listeners to study the provided scriptures and apply the lessons to their own situations.
Highlight the importance of maintaining a relationship with wise counselors to navigate financial and business challenges.

Scriptures Mentioned:

2 Kings 4:1-7
Exodus 18:13-24
1 Kings 12:6-15
2 Timothy 1:6-7

Announcements:

Open House for Purpose to Podcast Program:
Date: July 17th at 8 p.m. EST
Free registration to learn about the program and hear from current participants
https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/PPPOpenHouse

The Mind of Christ Jul 02, 2024

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In this episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, Tatum continues the discussion on Joyce Meyer’s book, "Battlefield of the Mind," focusing on Chapter 15: The Mind of Christ. Tatum shares her insights on how to practically apply the principles discussed in the book, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a pace that allows for close fellowship with the Holy Spirit. She also provides updates on the Purpose to Podcast program and upcoming open house.

Key Points:

Battlefield of the Mind Book Discussion:
Chapter 15: The Mind of Christ
Overview of the chapter's main points and how it emphasizes the importance of right thinking.
Steps to flow in the mind of Christ:

Think positive thoughts.
Be God-minded.
Be God-loves-me minded.
Have an exhortative mind.
Develop a thankful mind.
Be word-minded.

Reflection on why it’s challenging to consistently live out these principles.
Importance of Pace:
Scripture Reference: Galatians 5:25 - "Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit."
The enemy uses busyness to distract and bait us away from the mind of Christ.
Maintaining focus and attention on the Lord is crucial for winning the battlefield of the mind.
The significance of being present and acknowledging God's presence in our daily lives.
Personal Reflections and Insights:
Tatum shares her personal struggles with busyness and how it affected her thought life.
The importance of stepping back, focusing on the Lord, and realigning with His pace.
Encouragement to enjoy the current season and trust in God's process and timing.
Fellowship with the Holy Spirit:
Scripture Reference: John 16:7 - Jesus speaks about the coming of the Holy Spirit.
The importance of filling our minds with the Lord and being conscious of His presence.
Practical steps to prioritize fellowship with the Holy Spirit in everyday life.

Scriptures Mentioned:

Galatians 5:25
John 16:7

Announcements:

Open House for Purpose to Podcast Program:
Date: July 17th at 8 p.m. EST
Free registration to learn about the program and hear from current participants.
Link to register: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/PPPOpenHouse

The Similarities Between Marketing and Evangelism Jun 30, 2024

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In this episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, Tatum continues the Bible on Business series with a focus on marketing. She delves into the importance of adaptability, mission-mindedness, and empathy in business, drawing parallels between evangelism and marketing. Tatum also highlights key scriptures and shares personal insights on how to apply biblical principles to marketing strategies.

Key Points:.

Bible on Business Series:
Emphasis on exploring the Word of God to apply biblical principles to entrepreneurship.
Encouragement to read and study the scriptures discussed in the series to gain personal revelations and guidance.
Scripture Focus:
1 Corinthians 9:19-23 as the anchor text.
Context of Paul’s dedication to preaching the good news and his adaptability in reaching different audiences.
Similarities Between Evangelism and Marketing:
Message and Value Proposition: Clear and compelling messages are crucial in both evangelism and marketing.
Target Audiences: Identifying and understanding the target audience is essential for effective communication.
Building Relationships: Both evangelism and marketing rely on building and nurturing relationships.
Persuasion and Conversion: Both fields involve persuading individuals to take a desired action.
Implications for Marketing:
Adaptability: Businesses must adapt to the changing needs and preferences of their target audience to remain relevant and successful.
Mission-Mindedness: Keep the mission of the business at the forefront and ensure that all activities align with this mission.
Empathy: Understand and connect with the target audience to serve them better and build stronger relationships.
Practical Applications:
Use live interactions to connect with the audience.
Maintain personal involvement to understand the audience's needs and perspectives.
Implement automation and AI tools while ensuring genuine engagement with the audience.

Scriptures Mentioned:

1 Corinthians 9:19-23
1 Corinthians 9:22 (Anchor Scripture)

Announcements:

Open House for Purpose to Podcast Program:
Date: July 17th at 8 p.m. EST
Free registration to learn about the program and hear from current participants.
https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/PPPOpenHouse

Delegating and Building a Team Jun 21, 2024

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In this episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, Tatum continues the Bible on Business series, focusing on the principles of delegation and team building as outlined in the Bible. She dives deep into Exodus 18:13-27, where Moses receives advice from his father-in-law, Jethro, on how to effectively delegate responsibilities. Tatum also touches on the importance of wise counsel and the characteristics of good team members.

Key Points:

Context of Exodus 18:13-27:
Moses is overwhelmed with the responsibility of judging the people’s disputes.
Jethro, Moses’ father-in-law, observes the inefficiency and potential for burnout.
Jethro advises Moses to delegate responsibilities to capable men to ease his burden.
Importance of Wise Counsel:
Wise counsel should be based on an understanding of God’s assignment for you.
Tatum emphasizes the need for mentors and coaches who align their advice with God's plan for your business.
Highlights the importance of filtering advice through the assignment God has given you.
Principles of Delegation and Team Building:
Hire from Your Sphere of Influence:
Consider people who have been impacted by your business and already have buy-in to your mission.
Tatum shares personal experiences of hiring individuals from her community who have proven to be valuable team members.
Teach and Train:
Ensure team members understand the culture and values of your business.
Train them on standard operating procedures and the importance of embodying the mission of the business.
Utilize Technology:
Leverage technology and AI to delegate tasks effectively before hiring people.
Train these tools to operate in line with your business values and standards.
Select Capable and Honest Individuals:
Hire people with the necessary skills, integrity, and fear of the Lord.
Trust them to do their jobs once trained, avoiding micromanagement.
Assign Tasks Based on Abilities:
Delegate responsibilities according to each team member’s capacity and skills, similar to the parable of the talents in Matthew 25.
Takeaways:
All answers needed for business challenges can be found in the Bible.
Emphasizes the importance of seeking the Holy Spirit’s guidance in applying biblical principles to your business.

Scriptures Mentioned:

Exodus 18:13-27
John 10:11-15
Matthew 25 (Parable of the Talents)

Entrepreneurs as Shepherds Jun 15, 2024

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In this episode, Tatum kicks off the "Bible on Business" series, emphasizing the need for faith-based entrepreneurs to deeply understand and apply biblical principles in their business practices. This series aims to equip listeners with the spiritual tools necessary to shepherd their businesses and people effectively, focusing on souls rather than sales.

Key Points:

Introduction to Bible on Business Series:
Tatum introduces the "Bible on Business" series, highlighting its purpose to dive deep into biblical principles applicable to entrepreneurship.
Emphasizes the importance of relying on the Lord, prayer, and the Bible for guidance in business.
Markers of Seasons in Business:
Discusses various stages in her entrepreneurial journey: recognizing God as the CEO, transitioning from entrepreneur to executive, and now focusing on shepherding in business.
Highlights the shift from prioritizing sales and growth to focusing on shepherding and serving people.
Understanding Sheep and Shepherd Relationships:
Explains the characteristics of sheep and how they parallel consumer behavior, such as flocking behavior, dependency, vulnerability, docility, and recognition of the shepherd’s voice.
Emphasizes that just as sheep need a shepherd, consumers need trustworthy leaders in business.
Biblical Texts on Shepherding:
Matthew 18:12-14: Importance of seeking out and addressing the needs of the lost or disengaged customers. Celebrating reconciliation and showing love and compassion even in business.
John 21:15-17: Jesus’ instructions to Peter about feeding and taking care of his sheep, emphasizing the need for comprehensive and compassionate leadership in business.
Acts 20:28: Paul’s farewell address highlighting the importance of personal integrity, spiritual health, and sacrificial leadership.
1 Peter 2:25: Reminder that we are all sheep who tend to wander and need to continually turn back to Jesus, the shepherd and guardian of our souls.
Practical Applications:
Encourages business owners to actively seek out and engage with dissatisfied or disengaged customers.
Discusses the importance of maintaining personal integrity and spiritual health through accountability, consistent prayer, and devotion.
Stresses the significance of sacrificial leadership and treating business as a service unto the Lord.

New Series: Bible on Business Jun 07, 2024

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In this episode, Tatum introduces a new series titled "Bible on Business." She emphasizes the importance of being disciples in our businesses and the necessity of going back to the Bible to be properly developed by the Lord. Tatum shares personal experiences and insights on how Christian entrepreneurs can shift their focus from sales to souls and better steward their God-given assignments.

Key Points:

Introduction:
Tatum announces a new series called "Bible on Business."
The goal is to journey through the Bible to become better disciples in our businesses, not just to seek immediate results.
Purpose of the Series:
God strategically places believers in the marketplace to meet real needs and win souls.
The importance of being disciples and properly stewarding our businesses as Christian entrepreneurs.
Personal Experience:
Tatum shares an encounter at a laundromat that inspired her to think about the impact of Christian business owners.
Reflects on her own journey of learning to do business God’s way with limited resources but abundant revelation from the Lord.
Challenges in the Christian Entrepreneur Space:
The danger of information overload and the distraction of many voices in the Christian business community.
The need to focus on being properly developed by the Lord rather than jumping from one source of advice to another.
The Enemy’s Tactics:
Tatum discusses her personal battles with the mind and how the enemy uses distractions to hinder her gift of discernment.
Importance of staying locked into moments and being present to activate spiritual gifts.
Shift in Business Focus:
Transition from focusing on sales and growth to shepherding and serving people.

A Passive Mind Jun 02, 2024

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In this episode, Tatum dives into Chapter 14 of "Battlefield of the Mind" by Joyce Meyer, discussing the dangers of a passive mind and the importance of discipline and active engagement in spiritual warfare. She provides insights and practical advice for overcoming passivity and staying committed to spiritual growth and devotion.

Key Points:

Understanding Passivity:
Definition of passivity as the opposite of activity and its dangers.
Importance of being alert, cautious, and active in spiritual life.
The subtle nature of passive sins and their impact on relationships and spiritual growth.
Overcoming Passivity:
Discipline as the key to overcoming passivity.
Importance of engaging in spiritual practices even without emotional motivation.
Practical example of Joyce’s husband, Dave, overcoming passivity through discipline and persistence.
Role of the Holy Spirit:
Emphasis on the Holy Spirit’s role in renewing the mind and guiding believers.
Importance of maintaining sensitivity and submission to the Holy Spirit for true transformation.
Practical Examples:
Real-life examples of overcoming passive mindsets in marriage and personal relationships.
Dangers of living in fantasy versus dealing with reality and submitting it to God.

Scriptures Mentioned:

Romans 12:1-2
John 15:4
John 15:10
Ephesians 4:22-24
Matthew 5:27-28
Colossians 3:1-2
Ephesians 4:27
Hosea 4:6
1 Peter 5:8
2 Timothy 1:6

Judgmental, Critical, and Suspicious Mind Jun 01, 2024

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In this episode, Tatum dives into Chapter 13 of "Battlefield of the Mind" by Joyce Meyer, discussing the pitfalls of having a judgmental, critical, and suspicious mind. She shares personal insights and practical advice on overcoming these negative thought patterns to better love and serve others.

Scriptures Mentioned: