Show notes
Some people find their turning point in a boardroom. Fenix Shepard found hers in a jail cell β where a total stranger looked at her with compassion and asked one question that cracked her life wide open: "Don't you think it's time to heal?"
In this episode, Sabine sits down with Fenix Shepard β spiritual mentor, Navy veteran, trauma survivor, and author of Loved Unconditionally β for a conversation that goes straight to the heart. Fenix walks us back to her last rock bottom at 30, the correctional officer who planted her first seed of hope, and the drive to the VA that became day one of a 15-year healing journey. She shares how she came to be nine years sober, how she forgave the unforgivable, and how a voice she first heard on a beach at 20 has guided and protected her ever since.
Along the way, Sabine and Fenix discover just how much they share β two women who each heard that same still, small voice in their most dangerous moment, and lived to build a life of purpose because of it.
Whether you're carrying old wounds, wrestling with shame, or simply learning to trust your own inner knowing, this episode is a reminder: your rock bottom doesn't get the final word. Your becoming does.
In this episode:
- Fenix's last rock bottom β and the stranger whose compassion changed everything
- "Enough is enough": the decision that started 15 years of healing
- Answering the call to serve, and forgiving what happened along the way
- The morning the craving lifted β nine years sober by grace
- Hearing the voice at 20, and why she calls it God
- Sabine and Fenix's uncanny shared story of being saved as young girls
- "Rebuild my church": Fenix's mission to heal religious trauma today
- Her unconventional work β personal training and desensitizing traumatic memories
π Fenix's book, Loved Unconditionally
π Connect with Fenix: https://www.fenixshepard.com/
β¨ Sabine's new memoir, GUMPTION: Sacred Whispers, Bold Moves, and the Courage to Become, is out now.
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This episode touches on addiction, abuse, and trauma. If you're struggling, please reach out to a qualified professional or, in the U.S., call or text 988 for confidential support.
β±οΈ Timestamped Chapters
0:00 Intro
3:53 A heart-to-heart reconnection
6:26 The last rock bottom
9:34 A stranger's compassion changes everything
12:03 "Enough is enough" β the road to the VA
12:37 Answering the call: serving in the Navy
15:35 Nine years sober β when the craving lifted
18:02 Sacred whispers and the courage to become
21:46 "God, if you're real": the beach and the voice
23:59 Left home at 14 β the voice as protector
24:53 Two women, one voice: Sabine's story
28:14 "Rebuild my church": Fenix's mission now
31:41 Healing body and mind: training & unconventional counseling