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105. Cupid Likes It Up The Ass Feb 14, 2025

Lina shares a million thoughts on anal sex from a sub’s perspective including sweet meditations on the butt’s position as a metaphor for the liminal space between our conscious and subconscious minds, as well as meditations on what to do if your butt plug is about to fall out at a public wine tasting. Happy Valentine’s, sluts!!!!

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104. Protocol Brain Dump Feb 08, 2025

A sub in an M/s dynamic calls in wondering how to integrate more long distance service into their dynamic and Lina nerds out on protocol in great detail. A brain dump if you will. (I’m NOT going to make a scat play joke. I would NEVER.)

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103. Let’s Talk About Latex! Jan 24, 2025

Calling all rubber buggy baby kinksters… let’s take a hard 180 away from the doomscroll and talk about the surprising history of the latex kink. From fashion runways to kiddie pools of piss, this versatile fabric has a lot to offer the freaks of the world.

Lina’s book recommendations (I get 10% of your order!)

Life, Leather, and the Pursuit of Happiness (Steve Lenius)

From Fetish to Fashion: The Rise Of Latex (BBC)

Rubber Ball USA

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102. When Is Romance A Limit? Jan 18, 2025

A listener calls in feeling big feelings about a new Dom, and Lina talks about making the most of the safe havens we find along the road to our dream situation. And maybe covering those safe havens in saliva a bit, idk!!

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101. Tough Love For People Pleasers Jan 13, 2025

Hey!! Hey you!! Stop worrying about upsetting people with your very reasonable needs and requests! In today’s episode, a caller worries that their Dom is upset by their needs/wants/suggestions, and Lina goes Big Sister Mode to set them straight.

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100. Abolish The Family with Sophie Lewis & An Erotica Surprise Jan 03, 2025

No family?! Community kitchens?! Mandatory orgies?! Less social isolation?! This is the future the left wants, and Lina is forcing it down your throat this week alongside brilliant guest Sophie Lewis who wrote the book on family abolition. Join us for a discussion about tentacle porn, muppet theory, and liberatory queer futures.

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99. Fear Is Good, Actually Dec 28, 2024

This Christmas, fear isn’t just for the ballot box. That’s right, a caller wants to know how to negotiate with fear around kinks, edges, and, the scariest monster of all, the terrifying ordeal of being Known by another human being. Also in the intro Lina sets expectations for Babygirl (medium) and encourages all of you to get to work on your kinky screenplays in 2025.

Kinky Movies That Don’t Suck

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98. Queer Pill Your Holidays Dec 20, 2024

A caller wants to know if straight people are ruining kink, and Lina gets into the history of gentrification in the kink world and how well-meaning straights can use their kink for good. Also a diatribe on how Fake Doms have class-traitor vibes. Sorry it had to be said!!

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97. Debuting Your Kinks: A Formula Dec 14, 2024

Ever wondered how to drop the news of some of your less mainstream kinks in a relationship? You know… the really head-turning ones that would shock polite company? The ones that keep you up at night googling really specific gear? The ones that pop up in your head even as you’re trying to write the description of your podcast?? Well this week Lina is sharing an actionable formula for introducing your new partner to what you want, and also laying down a new Ask A Sub commandment — no dragging Doms into Dominance. Now back to those kinks…

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96. Age Gap Autumn Dec 08, 2024

Gather ‘round to hear the debauched tales of connection, mutual support, and hot sex contained in the ever problematic social media boogeyman… the Age Gap Relationship!! These crowdsourced stories come from our very own AAS community and will warm your freezing cold heart, ever so briefly slake your unquenchable thirst, and perhaps expand your dating app age filters.

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95. The World Needs Male Subs Nov 17, 2024

Looootttttaaaaaa feelings about gender this week, huh folks? We’re discussing the “gender wars,” how you can assist in the political apocalypse, and how to embrace one’s identity as a male submissive.

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94. Feral Raccoon Hour with the AAS Moderators Nov 02, 2024

Come one, come all, to the wholesome dumpster we raccoons cluster in also known as the Ask A Sub discord community. The community is a benefit of patreon and the reason it’s so many people’s favorite place on the internet is the absolutely top tier moderation and vibes-curation brought to you by our mod team. Hear the voices of the people behind the server in this exclusive interview! You know you wanna join us…

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93. Kink for Survivors Oct 25, 2024

A caller wants to know how to use their kinky toolkit to address a recently resurfaced memory of past trauma, and Lina gets into how kink, while not a panacea, can be supportive as we transform triggers into memories.

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92. The Spiky Wartenberg Wheel Of Emotions Oct 18, 2024

C'mon guys, a tale as old as time. We’ve all been there - your Dom is seeing other subs, and your jealousy and the Social Media Demon have twisted the situation to be unbearable. How can we break jealousy down into more manageable components, and negotiate whether we want to deal in the first place? Lina shares from her own experience and has some ideas to tend to your tender feels.

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91. Getting Left Hanging (Not In The Fun Way) Oct 11, 2024

A sub calls in wondering what to do when you’ve been in multiple relationships where the kink slowly vanishes over time. Are you going crazy?? No, this is a disappointingly common thing, and Lina’s going to help you spin an annoying part of dating into a helpful learning experience.

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90. Switch for Switch Poly Parenting with Evolving Love Project Oct 04, 2024

You guys — we did it — we trapped a true switch for switch poly couple with our big butterfly net and dove deep into their deeply respectful and inspiring relationship. Join us for a convo with charismatic Aussies Abbey and Liam for a tour through their individual love lives, and the love they have for fostering connections in their broader ENM community.

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89. Sub On The Street: Folsom Street Fair Sep 27, 2024

Get your spot in the Conscious Kink 2 Incubator and learn more about it here. Registration ends 9/27 at 11:59pm pacific.

Get more Folsom info from this pamphlet.

Special thanks to Cactus Cult Leather, BunnyLeather.com, Sylvan and Milton, SF K9 Unit, Bay Area Open Minds, The Satanic Temple and everyone who spoke to me at Folsom last year!

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88. Getting Off Hold Sep 20, 2024

We’ve all been there — an on again, off again dynamic that keeps us trapped in a cycle where we feel that person is the one who can unlock the sex life we really want, if only they’d switch back to “on again.” In this episode we talk about the paradox of longing and how to get yourself licking new coffee cups before you know it.

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87. Rebuilding Your Dynamic After De-escalation Sep 13, 2024

More and more D/s couples are having to put their dynamics on pause lately, and we want to give you the tools to find your way back to each other. This week, Lina’s talking about the integral role of play in building trust and putting your whole (figurative) p*ssy into your vulnerability.

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86. Fewer Bisexual Fucks to Give Sep 06, 2024

We talk a lot on this podcast about feeling “queer enough,” and a straight passing queer couple wonders how to feel more at home in queer spaces. Lina affirms that they’re allowed to be there, and anyone whose opinion is worth considering is probably just thinking they’re hot. Fewer queer cops, more queer fucking!!!

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85. Safety is Hardcore with Tina Horn Aug 30, 2024

Writer, educatrix, and all around kink community badass Tina Horn joined us to talk all about hardcore kinks and fetishes and how we sort kinks into this category. Her new book Why Are People Into That?! is out now wherever books are sold.

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84. Divine Masculine & Feminine Energies are Sus Aug 23, 2024

GENDER!! Ever hear of it?! Lina’s popping off on the presidential election, right-wing weird shit, and the subtle leak of conspirituality-adjacent terms like ‘divine masculine & feminine’ into sex education spaces. She also goes into why her submission doesn’t feel feminine, but an intense space to reckon with the masculine. Controversial? Probably!

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83. Chronically Kinky Aug 16, 2024

In a transmission from God’s hot car, Lina discusses the relationship between kink and chronic pain, and advises a Spoonie who’s playing with a doctor to enjoy the free medical care without shame.

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82. Fake Dom 2.0 Aug 02, 2024

We all know about Fake Doms, people on dating apps who co-opt the language of BDSM to push a misogynistic agenda, but what about when the messaging of manipulation is more subtle, and even uses sex positive language to confuse subs? Enter: Fake Dom 2.0. In this episode, Lina shares signs you may be dealing with a Fake Dom 2.0, vetting questions to try to weed them out, and solace for those who have been victimized by these creeps.

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81. Subby Future Tripping Jul 26, 2024

Why are subs and kinky people so prone to tripping out on what the future could be? Well, as the saying goes, subs plan and Doms laugh at our anticipatory anxiety. Lina also discusses how marriage and society are a weird mindf*%k combo to navigate (and not always in the nice way), and how we all need more space to increase our capacity for change and ability to accept more things into our orifices.

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80. Getting The Switch Itch Jul 19, 2024

Dogs and cats, living together, mass hysteria! When can a sub be a Dom? A caller wants to know when their Dommy tendencies qualify them to start switchin’, and how their neurodivergent brain can deal with the ambiguity. Answer? BDSM loves getting all up in your cracks to make you stretch all the parts of yourself. Just don't forget the lube. The lube is you loving yourself.

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79. Making it Weird While Keeping it Secure with Casey Tanner aka @queersextherapy Jul 13, 2024

In this preview of Deep Dive, Lina chats with Casey Tanner, @queersextherapy, about their new book Feel It All. Topics covered include defining secure sexuality and the origins of insecure sexuality (aka why are we so messed up about sex?!). In the full Deep Dive, available to paid members, hear them discuss how to support queer people in straight passing relationships, whether sexual preferences or attraction can be problematic, how to negotiate accommodation for neurodivergent and disabled people, and other ways of being sexual secure, filthy (if that’s what you want!), and thoughtful freaks.

“Well, hi!” Cat

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78. Outgrowing Your Fish Tank Jul 05, 2024

What happens when you’re criss crossing all your red string a la Charlie Day while researching D/s to broaden the scope of your dynamic, but your Dom just won’t click the links you send? Lina talks the three-legged race of a longterm relationship, how the patriarchy doesn’t support men in self improvement, and what to do when you suspect you’re a koi fish in a goldfish bowl.

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77. An AMA with Lina Jun 28, 2024

This month for pride, join your very own fave bisexual goblin for a wide ranging AMA! That’s right, I answered your q’s in real time just like the old days.

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76. D/s Is A Love Language Jun 21, 2024

This week, a married couple struggles with the ways D/s sometimes outwardly looks like the oppressive gender roles they were raised with, and have been fighting their whole relationship.

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75. Your Brain Is A Soft-Boiled Egg Jun 14, 2024

Lina gives some tender yet protective advice to a 20-year-old sub looking to start their kink journey.

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74. Eating Olives Off the Floor with Novelist R.O. Kwon Jun 07, 2024

R.O. Kwon stopped by the pod this week to talk about her new book Exhibit, a tale about kink, queerness, and what happens when people pursue that which they truly desire.

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73. Zero Sum Cats with Dollie the Discord Mod May 31, 2024

Our Deep Dive guest this month is many things — a kink/rope organizer, an amazing friend, a top-tier emoji-reactor, and a Ask A Sub discord moderator that has been with us since the beginning of the server. Dollie and Lina talk community building and maintenance, and how they curate the best (dare we say??) kink space on the internet.

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72. The Subby Art of Letting Go May 24, 2024

A sub calls in wondering how to “do” submission right, and Lina shares some wisdom about how to avoid submissive doing and embrace submissive being.

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71. Age Play with Baby Linh May 17, 2024

Age Play is considered by some to be one of the most taboo kinks out there, but what if it was just cute inner child work? Age play creator Baby Linh joins me to unpack misconceptions about the kink and offer solace to those who feel called toward it.

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70. Spit It Out with Alison Stevenson May 10, 2024

Today’s episode is brought to you by our friends at Feeld, the dating app for the curious! The theme of the day is spitting it out - from feelings to actual fluids, comedian Alison Stevenson and Lina have you completely covered. With information. Just information and humor. Unless…?

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69. Cucking Aftercare May 03, 2024

That’s me in the corner… that’s me in the… somewhat challenging aftercare predicament? A listener calls in about how to engineer proper aftercare in a cucking scene, and Lina reassures them that sometimes it’s ok to experiment with big feelings and occasionally get it wrong.

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68. Everybody Needs To Chill with Bae Leche Apr 26, 2024

Bae Leche dropped by the pod to talk about being a non-monogamous mom, dating while pregnant, and new corners of her sexuality she’s discovering in the midst of parenting. Come for the fire pregnancy nudes, stay for the warm-hearted acceptance for wherever you are in your journey.

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67. The Submissive Awakening Apr 19, 2024

Kink arrives in your life looking like a problem, but it’s really a solution. In this episode, Lina leads a listener through the daunting moment of taking stock of your submissive fantasies with the empathy of somebody a little further down the road.

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66. Public Humiliation - Where’s The Line? Apr 12, 2024

A listener asks the age-old question of where the line is with public humiliation kinks and involving bystanders, and Lina dives in with things to consider before you go to the grocery store with the f-word written across your forehead.

Listen to Lina address the Erewhon incident on Dan Savage’s podcast here.

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65. Dating Your Intuition Apr 05, 2024

How can you date again after a D/s relationship turns abusive? You start by dating your intuition.

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64. Committed And Kinky Mar 29, 2024

A listener calls in after someone told them saying they are kinky means they are probably not looking for anything serious. Obviously this is not true, but Lina also had some thoughts on the relationship escalator, community care, and how to see people as individuals in a sex positive context.

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63. Everyone Is Grieving Mar 22, 2024

I’ve been through some shit lately and wanted to share the ways people have supported me so you can support those in your life who are also going through shit. We will be back to our regular format next week. Love you all.

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62. Accessible Glory Holes with Andrew Gurza Mar 15, 2024

Disability advocate, sex toy creator, and host of Disability After Dark Andrew Gurza joins us to talk all about non-binary identity, dating while disabled, and how we can improve accessibility in kinky and queer spaces.

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61. The Veto Blues Mar 01, 2024

A sub is concerned that her Dom’s wife is going to veto their dynamic and wonders how she can modify her behavior to make the wife more comfortable. Lina talks about which feelings we have control over (only our own) and how to give yourself grace during liminal times.

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60. The 24/7 D/s Buffet Feb 23, 2024

So you've got somebody to do 24/7 with - great! Now how the hell do you narrow down all the options and create a bespoke practice just for you? Lina walks a listener through the buffet of options, and helps guide the process of assembling a satisfying D/s plate covered in consent gravy.

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59. Neurospicy & Ready To Party Feb 16, 2024

This week a caller on the autism spectrum and his partner with ADD wonder if there is a link between kink and neurodivergence. Let's talk about it!

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58. Kinky Divorced Moms Deserve A Win Feb 09, 2024

Due to unforeseen circumstances (we got COVID), in lieu of this week’s scheduled episode please enjoy this rerun of a season 2 favorite. Lina interviews a listener who got in touch to share the story of her custody battle with her sex-negative ex-husband, and the unexpected win that arrived at the end of her story.

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57. What Is Humiliation Anyway? Feb 02, 2024

First Lina delivers a hot take about how women who sleep with men can become marginalized within kink, then teases out the difference between humiliation and degradation kinks while making fun of dating app bing bongs (as usual).

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56. Dovetailing Purity Culture Into Kink Jan 26, 2024

We’re back! And we’re kicking purity culture in the pants!!

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55. You Do Not Have To Be Good Dec 22, 2023

A sub calls in asking how to make amends for past mistakes. Spoiler alert: you do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert repenting. Unless you're into that.

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54. Bloodlust & SW Labor Rights with Empress Wu Dec 15, 2023

The words filth and perversion barely begin to scratch the surface of what's on offer in this interview with Empress Wu and her singular penchant for scenes that expand into systems that fuck gender, the body, notions of inside and outside, as well as existence itself. Here in the free preview, we discuss Wu’s journey into pro-Domme work as well as her thoughts on sex work decriminalization.

Paid listeners will receive the full hour and fifteen minute interview featuring specifics of her wild Dominance practice.

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53. What If I Don't Have Hard Limits? Dec 08, 2023

A sub is concerned about sending the wrong message when telling Doms she doesn't have hard limits. What to do?

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52. Hot Bisexual Takes with Gab Alexa Dec 01, 2023

Bisexual polyamorous writer Gab Alexa joins me to discuss bi-erasure, queer baiting, and her spicy time at the infamous swinger’s retreat Hedonism.

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51. A Thanksgiving Pep Talk Nov 22, 2023

Hey, it's your real life calling! The one where you're not sleeping on an air mattress in a musty basement bracing yourself to hear your Uncle Jim's conspiracy theories at the dinner table! You -- yes you! -- used to be kinky, and that kinkiness is a superpower!

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50. What Is A Play Party? Nov 17, 2023

A listener wants to know the answer to a so-called googleable question - what the heck is a play party, exactly? Lina answers & gives tips on navigating these experiences once you find the right one.

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49. Sub On The Street: Folsom 2023 Nov 10, 2023

Get more Folsom info from this pamphlet.

Special thanks to Cactus Cult Leather, BunnyLeather.com, Sylvan and Milton, SF K9 Unit, Bay Area Open Minds, The Satanic Temple and everyone who spoke to me at Folsom!

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48. Goodest Girl Syndrome Nov 03, 2023

Are you or a loved one affected by Goodest Girl Syndrome, aka the desire to be the absolute best in comparison to all your partner’s other partners past, present & future? Tune in for solace, solidarity, and strategies to tend your tender heart.

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47. A Freak Behind The Lens: Photographer Alex Kacha Oct 27, 2023

This month’s Deep Dive was with boudoir photographer and all around artiste Alex Kacha. We discussed self care, the healing gaze of the camera, and of course the kinkiest shoots they’ve ever done!

Deep Dive is a monthly series where I'll bring you deep conversations with luminaries in the kink and alternative sexuality communities, always with the focus of asking them educated, insider questions about their work. Not only are these interviews fun and informational, but with your support we're creating an oral history of kink at this moment in time. Exciting stuff!

Join Patreon at $11/month to get the complete interview here, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my only public recorded convo with Mr. Dune.

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46. Comparison Versus Compersion Oct 20, 2023

A sub loves the play parties she attends with her Dom, but is struggling with watching him play with his primary partner. Can this cozy polycule find a way forward that honors her boundaries?

Alex Kacha Deep Dive Interview - Live Event on 10/24 at 5pm PT

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45. Learning From Our Elders & The History of Bootblacking with KD Diamond Oct 13, 2023

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44. Bratty & Broken Hearted Oct 06, 2023

What do you do when a very special dynamic leaves your life? This week a broken-hearted brat wants to know how to move on in the wake of a great love lost.

Join us for our next Deep Dive with photographer Alex Kacha on Tuesday, 10/20 at 5 pacific. Join patreon to attend live for just $5/month, or get the replay at the $11/month Patreon or $8/month substack.

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43. The Origins Of The Folsom Street Fair Sep 29, 2023

Cue up some disco and put on your finest assless chaps, because we’re reviewing the history of The Folsom Street Fair, then we’re taking a walking tour of the heart of leather culture in the 1970’s - San Francisco’s South of Market neighborhood and the many bars, clubs, and bathhouses that made it famous.

Check out my substack piece on the walking tour here.

Here’s the Folsom Street Fair’s website.

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42. Your Pelvic Floor Doesn't Wanna Hustle with Dr. Rachel McCarthy-Moya Sep 22, 2023

If you’re reading this, you have a pelvic floor! And Dr. Rachel McCarthy-Moya is here to tell you all about it. Listen for her take on kegels (do less of them), your pelvic floor's relationship to capitalism (burn it down), and her lovely guided exercise for pelvic floor lengthening. Get the complete interview here.

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Recommended Reading: Like A Mother by Angela Garbes

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41. A Red Flag Refresher Sep 15, 2023

A refresher on red flags and the radical notion that you don’t have to put up with assholes to get your kink needs met.

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40. Keeping Your Polyam Foot On The Floor Sep 08, 2023

Thoughts on respecting all the connections in your polyamorous ecosystem when the sub swoons come calling.

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39. Kink For Hard Times Sep 01, 2023

A listener wants to know how to navigate putting a dynamic on pause when one partner is Going Through It, and Lina offers ideas about boundaries and points of connection for the supporting partner.

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38. A Blank Check For Semen with Vienna Farlow the Cuntsultant Aug 25, 2023

Vienna Farlow The Cuntsultant dropped by for an interview about the Fertility Awareness Method and the weird shift from not wanting to get pregnant to wanting to, and how to actually do it (or not do it!). We also talked about breeding kinks and how they’re totally common, normal, and dare I say… fun?

Get the substack piece about baby fever here.

Book Rec: Like A Mother: A Feminist Journey Through The Science and Culture of Pregnancy by Angela Garbes

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37. Healthy Conflict But Make It D/s Aug 18, 2023

This week we're talking about how to approach conflict in a way that honors your D/s dynamic. So few of us have learned any strategies for respectful conflict, and translating the few we have into D/s language can be hard work. Let me help!

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36. Moving The Masochistic Goal Posts with Leigh Cowart Aug 11, 2023

Hurts So Good author Leigh Cowart joined me for a conversation about pervertibles, aka making kink tools out of what you've got on hand! We also talked about the ever-moving goal posts of masochism and how to make your journey sustainable, joyful, and ever-more perverse.

Join Patreon at $11/month to get the complete interview here, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my only recorded convo with Mr. Dune.

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35. Smooth Brain As Resistance Aug 04, 2023

A new kinkster asks Lina about the “empty headed feeling” that follows her scenes, and Lina explains how subby headspace can be anti-capitalist… and good for you!

Hurts So Good by Leigh Cowart | Conquer Me by Kacie Cunningham | Do Nothing by Celeste Headlee

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34. Internet Censorship with Evie Lupine Jul 28, 2023

Have you noticed online is just getting worse and worse? This week, kink celebrity and YouTuber Evie Lupine joins me to talk about how kinky people have seen this coming for miles, and what internet censorship means for newbies searching for their identities in the online kink world.

Get the full version of this episode on Patreon or Substack.

Get more info about the upcoming Deep Dive with Leigh Cowart on 8/2 at 5 PT here.

Leigh previously visited us to discuss their book Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain On Purpose.

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33. The Drop-Proof D/s Goodbye Jul 21, 2023

Sometimes parting is just too much sorrow! This week Lina equips a listener with a strategy for lessening the blow of transitioning back into vanilla life without your Dom, and ask the question… maybe it’s love?

Get my first interview with Leigh: teaser | full version

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32. Kinky Divorced Moms Deserve A Win Jul 14, 2023

Lina interviews a listener who got in touch to share the story of her custody battle with her sex-negative ex-husband, and the unexpected win that arrived at the end of her story.

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31. Kinky Cohabitation Jul 07, 2023

A sub calls in wondering how to maintain a 24/7 spark when sometimes all you wanna do is curl up on the couch and cuddle. Spoiler alert: kink and the couch may not be as at odds with each other as we think.

For more 24/7 info check out my online course Conscious Kink that will walk you through building a dynamic of your very own!

Don’t miss our Deep Dive with Evie Lupine on 7/20!

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30. Gender Neutral Means Of Address Jun 30, 2023

Trying to keep your kink gendy-neutch? Means of address can go a long way in creating that euphoric safe space for you. This week we’re bringing you some Pride aftercare in the form of means of address inspiration.

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29. Don’t Fear The Fluidity Jun 23, 2023

Lina comforts a listener who’s seeking insight into the parallels between bi+ and non-monogamous identities. Lina also takes a second to address the difference between “unicorn hunters” and bi+ people looking to have a nice time.

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28. Radical Bisexual Permission with Zachary Zane Jun 16, 2023

Zachary Zane, author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto stopped by to talk about bisexual sluttiness, rejecting bi assimilationism, and his hairy butthole. We had a ton of fun breaking down bi stereotypes and bringing some bi chaos to pride month.

Join Patreon at $11/month to get the complete interview here, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my only public recorded convo with Mr. Dune.

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27. Bi Girl Desire Jun 09, 2023

Sometimes it can be hard for us bi girls to name what we want and go after it, and this week Lina is unpacking all the varying forces that go into this common quandary.

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26. Bisexual It Girl Vita Sackville-West Jun 02, 2023

A bi-for-bi open marriage, crossdressing, and a series of passionate artistic love affairs — no, it’s not 2023, it’s 1923! On this month’s pride minisode I’m bringing you the story of bisexual it girl Vita Sackville-West, and the letters that made her a queer icon.

The Fabulous Forgotten Life Of Vita Sackville-West

Our next Deep Dive with bisexual author Zachary Zane is on 6/7 at 5 pacific.

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25. 2 Doms 1 Sub May 26, 2023

A Dom calls in wondering how to navigate his sub’s dynamic with another Dom, and Lina talks about primary partner veto, as well as the ins and outs of navigating side-by-side dynamics. (Our deepest apologies for the title of this episode, we couldn’t help ourselves)

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24. All About Us with the Ask A Sub Community May 19, 2023

Hear all about the varied kink lives of our ask a sub community! From single folks to people married with kids, kink is a living, breathing practice that meets us where we are and infuses our lives with choice, meaning, and joy.

Join Patreon at $11/month to get the complete interview here, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my only public recorded convo with Mr. Dune.

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23. Good Doms Are Out There May 12, 2023

This week we’re naming and confronting the pessimism that makes us think all potential sex partners are trash, then discussing what good, real Doms are actually like! They’re out there!

Upcoming Deep Dive: Real Stories From The Kink World on 5/17 at 5 pacific

Mindful Masculinity Deep Dive

The Bisexual Ghost | Wife Swapping with Christopher Walken

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22. The Sexual Is Political May 05, 2023

Today we’re reclaiming our erotic power and studying a holy trinity of queer feminist writers: Adrienne Rich, Audre Lorde, and Gloria Anzaldúa.

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21. The Polyamory Cool Kids Table Apr 28, 2023

A new sub wants to know how to manage jealousy when you're monogamous and your partner isn't. Aka, where is your place in the kink community if not at the so-called "cool kid's table?" Well, it's right here next to me.

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20. Body Love & Healing Your Gaze with Luna Matatas Apr 21, 2023

Join me and Luna Matatas for a discussion all about cultivating body confidence in a messed up world!

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Find Luna online here.

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19. We Are Always Evolving (And So Are Our Needs) Apr 14, 2023

A sub wants to know how to communicate their changing needs in a longterm relationship, and Lina equips them with proactive, active, and reactive tools for sharing feedback and keeping the D/s container safe (but also spicy).

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18. A Taste For Suffering Apr 07, 2023

A tour through the literary origins of masochism, as well as some modern mythbusting for the masochistically inclined.

Get my full interview with Leigh Cowart, author of Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain On Purpose, here.

Join our Deep Dive interview with Luna Matatas all about Diversity in Kink on 4/11 at 5 pacific / 8 eastern.

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17. Read! The Freakin!! Article!!! Mar 31, 2023

Today we’re tackling the question of how to share kink resources with vanilla people you encounter in your dating travels, strategies for protecting your energy as you do so, and how to hold out hope that you're going to convert seemingly vanilla folks into new kinksters.

How To Turn Your Vanilla Partner Into Your Dom | My free writing on kink| Book recs | Thich Nhat Hanh in context

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16. Herpes Hope & Hotness with Safe Slut Mar 24, 2023

Safe Slut joined me to tell me all about her dating life as an HSV+ queen, shared her thoughts on disclosure, and gave us some insight into her first date rituals. Spoiler alert: an HSV diagnosis isn't going to end your sex life! In fact... it might make it even better.

How Herpes Became A Sexual Boogeyman (Slate)

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15. Gender Is Fake, Aftercare Is Real Mar 17, 2023

A sub wants to know how to bring forward feminine energy and suppress the masculine during aftercare. Lina’s response? Gender is fake, privilege is real, and pegging your Dom is a submissive act. How did we get there? Guess you’ll have to listen.

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14. 1970s Leather Culture: "A Very Happy Place To Be" Mar 10, 2023

Cue up some disco and put on your finest assless chaps, we’re taking a walking tour through the heart of leather culture in the 1970’s - San Francisco’s South of Market neighborhood (home of Folsom Street) and the many bars, clubs, and bathhouses that made it famous.

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13. Don’t SUBlimate Your Feelings Mar 03, 2023

Today’s episode is all about feeling your feelings. One sub asks whether it’s possible to introduce kink to her partner in a non-sexual context, while another wants to know how to react in a subby way to conflict with their Dom.

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Mating In Captivity by Esther Perel

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12. Brat Motivations with Lola Jean Feb 24, 2023

On this month's Deep Dive interview, Brat Whisperer Lola Jean joins me to talk all about how to find your inner brat and, more importantly, negotiate the conditions that will allow (controlled, joyful) chaos to reign. You are a cute puzzle!

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11. Your Shiny Orb Of Subby Selfness Feb 17, 2023

Lina ponificates on curating kinky community beyond the algorithm, then stands at the crossroads with a listener who wants to go from book learning to street smarts. And finally, some thoughts on overthinking, and the perfectly nice orgasms it chases away.

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With Additional Support from Mr. Dune

Artwork by Kayleigh Denner

Music by Dan Molad

Season Two Coming Soon Jan 24, 2023

New weekly episodes of ask a sub coming 2/17. Send your voice memo questions, comments, prompts, anecdotes and success stories to podcast@askasub.com <3

DEEP DIVE: Mindful Masculinity and Dominance Oct 21, 2022

Masculinity and Dominance - some say they cannot peacefully coexist. But the men and masc-identifying folks of the ask a sub discord community say different. These are their voices on a deeply important and under-discussed topic. Together let's explore the ways Dominance can transform toxic masculinty into mindful masculinity, and bring men and masculine people deep healing and joy.

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DEEP DIVE: Finding A Sex-Positive Therapist with Rachel Wright Oct 07, 2022

Every wondered how to find a good therapist? And actually get your needs met by said therapist? What about sleeping arrangements for your 4 person polycule? Non-Monogamous therapist Rachel Wright has your back in this lovely interview.

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Our next Deep Dive with Gaby Herstik all about sacred sex and witchcraft is on 10/20 at 5PT. Join Patreon at $5/month to listen live, and at $11/month to get the recording.

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DEEP DIVE: Leigh Cowart Wrote The Book On Masochism Sep 23, 2022

It's official! Once we hit 2K subscribers on Patreon the Ask A Sub podcast is coming back full force! In the meantime I want to share a teaser of a series I'm doing for Patreon members called DEEP DIVE.

Deep Dive is a monthy series where I'll bring you deep conversations with luminaries in the kink and alternative sexuality communities, always with the focus of asking them educated, insider questions about their work. Not only are these interviews fun and informational, but with your support we're creating an oral history of kink at this moment in time. Exciting stuff!

Pain is a sensation that is heavily stigmatized in our culture. It can be hard to understand why masochists do what they (we) do when you're working from that cultural understanding alone. Which is why I brought in Leigh Cowart, science reporter and self-proclaimed masochist, to explain to us not only why humans pursue pain on purpose, but how it all works in your brain and body. And they have all the answers, having written one of my favorite books on a kink-related topic, Hurts So Good: The Science And Culture Of Pain On Purpose.

As as we put it in the interview, we're all just goopy primates trying to have some fun in our meat sacks. So cue up this interview and let the goop between your ears understand a little bit more about itself :)

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DEEP DIVE: Creative Scene Planning with Cory Bush and Adam Rei Siegel Sep 02, 2022

It's official! Once we hit 2K subscribers on Patreon the Ask A Sub podcast is coming back full force! In the meantime I want to share a teaser of a series I'm doing for Patreon members called DEEP DIVE.

Deep Dive is a monthy series where I'll bring you deep conversations with luminaries in the kink and alternative sexuality communities, always with the focus of asking them educated, insider questions about their work. Not only are these interviews fun and informational, but with your support we're creating an oral history of kink at this moment in time. Exciting stuff!

What does it take to scandalize Lina Dune you ask? Cory Bush and Adam Rei Siegel’s sex life. These two people have the most remarkable scene planning energy and I can’t wait for you to hear about all their exploits in great detail. Do not listen in public unless you’re ready to BLUSH. HARD.

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