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Did I choose this room or did it choose me?
What are the corners, sections, people, or parts of this room that I’m avoiding?
What is good and beautiful about this room?
Where are the caution flags?
Is anyone or anything missing from this room? If so, who or what?
Who has the power in this room?
Who or what will be affected by my decision?
To what extent can I be myself in this room?
If God is in this room, what is the action of the divine?
Do I want to stay in this room?

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Ep 211: The Cell Phone Contract (a conversation with my kids) Mar 14, 2024

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My daughter Lucy is 14 and has had a cell phone for about a year and a half. My son Finch is 12 and will get his first cell phone in just a few months. While we're in the transitional time as a family, I thought it would be a good time to sit down with them and talk through all the feelings, convenience, and concerns that comes with teen cell phone usage.

This conversation surprised me. Both kids said things I'd never heard them say before. I hope that this episode is a fun peek into our family dynamics and also an encouragement to have your own conversations about cell phones and social media.

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Ep. 48: Should We Post Our Kids on Social Media? (with Nish Weiseth)

Ep. 59: Marry the Person You Can Quarantine With (with Jeff Tremaine)

Bonus: 22+ Things Our Family Watched During Quarantine

BONUS: Tremaines Wave Hello From ONE YEAR of the Pandemic

Ep. 138: 10 Questions to Ask Your Kids (with Lucy and Finch)

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Sunday Stillness: Gratitude Mar 10, 2024

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Welcome to a new series I've created called Sunday Stillness. A few minutes each week to meditate on one idea that will bring us closer to who we want to become.

These few minutes are about gratitude.

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Ep 210: My Favorite Things (Right Now) Mar 07, 2024

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Every few months I love to share with you my favorite things of the moment: what's bringing me joy, what's making me feel stylish or organized or peaceful, new discoveries or apps or anything that is making life just a little bit better.

I share my favorite things because it's FUN (which is reason enough) but also because it's always an exercise in gratitude. I strongly encourage YOU to sit down and make a Favorite Things list this week.

Favorite Things (Right Now):

The walking pad

The bag

The video app

The retro friendship act

The weekend away

Episode 192: OBSESSED: Skincare & Makeup Favorites with Jamie B Golden

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Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Ngoski and Amelia Ngoski

Merit Bronze Balm

Nars bronzer

Charlotte Tilbury blush

Benefit Dandelion blush

Co-Star astrology app

Episode 49: Where are your bandaids?

Links to Kendra, Bri, and Jamie (The Mastermind!)

Kendra Adachi

Website - https://www.thelazygeniuscollective.com/

Podcast - https://www.thelazygeniuscollective.com/lazy

Instagram @thelazygenius - https://www.instagram.com/thelazygenius/

Bri McKoy

Website - https://brimckoy.com/

The Cook’s Club Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/cooksclub

Instagram @brimckoy - https://www.instagram.com/brimckoy/

Jamie Golden

Website - https://knoxandjamie.com/

B. Golden Substack - https://jamiebgolden.substack.com/

Instagram @jamiebgolden - https://www.instagram.com/jamiebgolden/

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BONUS: Kate T. Parker is a Force of Nature Mar 05, 2024

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I have followed photographer Kate T. Parker on Instagram for years now and continue to be inspired by her depictions of her fierce and dynamic daughters (and their friends). I love seeing her raw and authentic sports photos since I have two little athletes in my house. You'll probably recognize Kate's work from her books Strong Is the New Pretty and Play Like A Girl.

In this BONUS episode, I wanted to chat with Kate about her origin story, her work, and especially her new book Force of Nature.

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Sunday Stillness: Self Esteem vs. Self Worth Mar 04, 2024

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Welcome to a new series I've created called Sunday Stillness. A few minutes each week to meditate on one idea that will bring us closer to who we want to become.

This episode was inspired entirely by an IG reel from Katherine Morgan Schafler, author of The Perfectionist's Guide To Losing Control (one of my favorite books of 2023 and a 2024 selection for the Secret Stuff Book Club).

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Ep 209: Best Books Lately (with Sara Hildreth of Fiction Matters) Feb 29, 2024

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Sara Hildreth of Fiction Matters returns to the show so we can each share the best books that we've read lately.

This conversation starts with a thoughtful discussion about reviewing books on social media (#Bookstagram #BookTok) versus being a literary critic and Sara makes some excellent points about the way we talk about books online these days. And then Sara and I each share four of the best books we've read lately, including a novel I just finished that may be one of my favorites of all time.

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Sara shares a great backlist title and a celebrity memoir, and I share an interesting novel that flew under the radar last year and the book I'm flat embarrassed to recommend (but kind of loved).

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Secret Stuff Patreon members get an extended cut version of this episode that includes two more book recommendations coming out this spring and also Sara's new system for managing her TBR (To Be Read) stack, because who doesn't need help organizing all the amazing books we want to read?

Also on Secret Stuff this week will be a deep dive on The Bee Sting by Paul Murray (because I just had to talk about this incredible novel with someone)

Sara's Best Books Lately:

The Custom of the Country by Edith Wharton

The Laughter by Sonora Jha

Best of Friendsby Kamila Shamsie

Run Towards the Dangerby Sarah Polley

Laura's Best Books Lately:

The Bee Stingby Paul Murray

All The Sinners Bleedby S.A. Cosby

Big Swissby Jen Beagin

The Future by Naomi Alderman

Also mentioned:

Episode 107: 10 Reasons to Read (A Conversation with Sara Hildreth of @fictionmatters)

The Remains of The Dayby Kazuo Ishiguro

Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro

Passing by Nella Larsen

The Buccaneers by Edith Wharton

Roman Fever and Other Stories by Edith Wharton

Razorblade Tears by S.A. Cosby

Home Fireby Kamila Shamsie

Neapolitan Novels by Elana Ferrante

Women Talking by Miriam Toews

Fight Night by Miriam Toews

The Power by Naomi Alderman

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Ep 208: How My Anxiety Has Changed In My 40s Feb 22, 2024

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It's been awhile since we've talked directly about mental health, and I wanted to give a personal update about what I've noticed is different about my lifelong anxiety in the last few years. I attribute these changes to aging, and evolving lifestyle, and a few different habits that I have really prioritized since I turned 40.

As always when I share on this topic, it is meant to be purely my own experience and is not medical advice.

Sorta Awesome Episode 26: The Truth About Anxiety

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Sorta Awesome Episode 101: The Truth About Anxiety (Part II)

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Episode 18, 10 Thoughts on Anxiety

Episode 86: 10 Thoughts On Therapy

Episode 182: 10 Things About 10 Years in Therapy

Episode 203: Meditation for Beginners

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Ep 207: 10 Tips To Build Your Best Wardrobe Feb 15, 2024

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I always thought that a benefit to getting older was that I would settle into a signature style, but the truth is that my 40s has been sort of a fashion roller coaster. Maybe it's a changing body, maybe the pandemic led to some lazy dressing habits, or maybe our personal style is just always evolving.

Alison Lumbatis is a professional style confidence expert and her tips on social media over the years have been so life-giving to me. (You also might remember her from Ep 134: 10 Tips To Wardrobe Confidence.) In this episode, she is sharing 10 tips for taking stock of your closet and building a functional wardrobe that serves your needs and also makes you look great.

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Episode 177: How to Find Your Signature Style

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